Definition of a happy life

  Hi, good readers, How are you? Today I want to share an interesting topic, namely "Definition of a happy life" the reason I chose this topic is because many people do not get their own right to be happy, The main reason why many people are unhappy is because they set standards or rules that are beyond their control,  Basically, being happy is easy as long as people don't confuse their desires with emotional needs, To know the natural level of happiness, humans would not say that "I want to live like...?", rather they will say "what can I offer to this life?"  people who are truly happy, they will not put their own happiness into a zone beyond their control, In fact, they will place their happiness in the present moment, not later or not in the past

Happiness (or happiness) is a pleasant feeling indicated by pleasure, satisfaction, comfort, joy, or positive emotions that make life good in terms of well-being, security, or fulfillment of desires. Happiness is abstract and cannot be touched or felt, it is closely related to the individual's psyche. Some of the signs found in people who have happiness in their lives include self-respect, optimism, openness, and being able to control themselves.

 According to several book sources, the following is the definition and meaning of happiness:

✅Rahmad (2009) said that happiness is a pleasant feeling and a person's assessment of the life they live.

 ✅Seligman (2005) calls happiness the result of an assessment of oneself and one's life, which contains positive emotions such as comfort and joy, as well as positive activities that do not fulfill any emotional components.

 ✅Biswas, Diener, and Dean (2007) defined happiness as the overall quality of human life, including better health, greater creativity, higher income, and a good workplace.

 ✅Indriana (2012) states that happiness is a general term indicating pleasure or satisfaction in well-being, security, or fulfillment of desires.

Happiness also includes achieving goals and success in what one desires.

 The main aspects of happiness according to Seligman (2005) include:

 ✅Establishing positive relationships with other people: Positive relationships are not just having friends, partners or children, but also establishing positive relationships with individuals around us.

✅Full involvement: This is not only in career, but also in other activities such as hobbies and family activities. Engaging yourself fully, both physically and emotionally, can increase happiness.

✅ Finding meaning in everyday life: Finding meaning in whatever we do is also one way to achieve happiness.

 So, happiness is a positive feeling that comes from the overall quality of life, characterized by pleasure and lack of suffering when doing things you enjoy. A happy person usually has positive relationships with others, is fully engaged in activities, and finds meaning in everyday life. Hopefully this information is useful for you

Factors of lifestyle

    Hi, good reader, How are you? Today I want to share an interesting topic, namely "factors of lifestyle", The main reason why I choose this topic because many people don't realize that the lifestyle they choose has made them into someone they no longer recognize, many people experience a dead end when the lifestyle they choose turns out to be preventing them from developing their lives, many people don't know whether their lifestyle is good or bad, What they think about is how they can join other people's lifestyles, there are several reasons why someone may not be aware of or recognize their lifestyle. This can include a lack of self-reflection, a lack of awareness of the impact of daily habits, or even resistance to change. Other factors may include habits that have become habits without realizing it or a lack of information about the importance of a healthy lifestyle.

Now there is a question, is it possible for humans to get problems from their own lifestyle? People can get in trouble from their lifestyle's choice if they engage in risky behaviors like substance abuse, excessive gambling, or criminal activities. Unhealthy habits such as poor diet and lack of exercise can also lead to health problems and trouble in the long run.

There are several factors that shape a person's lifestyle, including:

 1. Culture and Social Environment: Cultural norms and influences from the social environment can influence a person's lifestyle.

 2. Income and Employment: A person's income level and type of employment can influence the lifestyle choices available.

 3. Education and Knowledge: A person's level of education and knowledge can influence awareness of the importance of a healthy lifestyle and the decisions they make.

 4. Personal Values and Priorities: A person's personal values and life priorities can influence the lifestyle choices they make.

 5. Accessibility and Availability: The availability of resources such as places to exercise, healthy food, and recreational activities can influence a person's lifestyle.

 6. Genetics and Health: Genetic factors and health conditions can also influence a person's lifestyle, including predisposition to certain diseases and response to diet and physical activity.

  I want to remind you that not all lifestyles are quality, an unhealthy or destructive lifestyle can have a detrimental impact on a person's life.  For example, smoking, excessive alcohol consumption, or drug abuse can cause serious health problems, such as heart disease, cancer, or mental disorders, additionally, an unbalanced lifestyle, such as poor diet and lack of exercise, can lead to obesity, diabetes and other health problems.  Apart from health problems, an unhealthy lifestyle can also cause social, financial and emotional problems that can damage a person's quality of life, I think my explanation is sufficient, I hope this article can provide benefits and inspiration, good luck.

Common mistakes in leadership

Hi guys, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "common mistakes in leadership", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people just want to be a follower and they don't dare to be leader, if you ask me why many people don't want to be leader because they think being leader must possess some good requirements, it is not true, being leader mustn't possess good requirements, the basic skill how to become leader is know how to make open communication with others, let me tell you about the reality "leadership is a complex skill", it is quite common for leaders to make some mistakes, here is the common mistake is leader can't communicate effectively, sometimes leaders show their high expectations without considering the capacity of their team, so the leaders need to be clear when they show expectations to the people that they have lead, another mistake from leader is not providing the constructive back, meaning, the leaders can provide what their team need in order to grow and improve their team's skill, for the most important part is the leaders can point out the area where people can do better.

Sometimes the leaders forget how to delegate someone when there is right position, the leaders may feel like they need to do everything for themselves, but this condition can lead the leaders to get burnout because the leaders don't allow their team to develop the new area which can burden their team's responsibility, lastly, the leaders forget how to appreciate their team's skill when the teams can finish something crucial, that's leader's common mistakes, as we know everyone needs to feel valued and feel recognized for their hard work, the leaders who forget to do this will make the situation is weird between the leaders and the team member, remember; the team who doesn't get appreciation and recognition from their leaders, they tend to feel unmotivated, here is another mistake which is done by the leaders, they avoid a difficult conversation, meaning, the leaders tend to avoid the confrontation when the team members try to make a tough conversation to the leaders, but avoiding the conversation can lead to larger problem down the line, it is important for the leaders to address issues head-on and in a respectful manner, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your career, good luck.

Why I should take a nap ?

            Life is not recycling in one spot, but it’s running from one spot to another spot such as marathon, when one’s feeling the exhausted comes up in the daily routine activity, he keeps running until he get through in the target, unfortunately 7/10 people are not chasing the target in the maximum range, they instead seeing the shadow of worries because of their own distraction. Do you know why the distraction must happen during chasing the target? Because the people are exhausted enough and they still push their mind and body to chase the target’s movement. I think the problem becomes clearer as I can see them, the people who are lack of napping have no maximal focus power, if this routine has been down to the next generation, we worry the human’s creativity is not significantly increasing beyond their progressive result. Feeling lack of napping also can lower the human’s conscience mind power.

            The length of time period for napping should be taken around 15 minutes or 30 minutes especially for the professional workers / labor who works in the factory or manufacturing company, so this rule can be applied immediately in the working hour, so this proposal is aimed in order to lessen the number of professional worker who are being underemployed in the unknown day.

            When you feel insecure, anxiety, anesthetic or maybe lack of focus under work pressure, distress, etc. that’s symptoms are showing the irregular nerves movement, actually someone who is suffering the big problem in his life is not caused by consuming the unhygienic food or having not enough money, but All the symptoms of unorganized reaction is coming from lack of focus to search the serenity and lack of healthy sleep. we can conclude taking a nap is good for our healthy nerves in mind and also good for healthy body

How to know the wonderful stage in your life?

            In this section I would like to share about how to know wonderful stage in your life, no matter how hard your life you have, there’s no excuse to blame yourself or blame the others, life is created by God in order to grace your home, that’s home is not making you comfortable but it’s giving you a survive, so basically the wonderful stage is kind of resourcefulness which will implant into your mindset in order to make you feel more valuable in your life.

           Wonderful stage is like a building architect, it will give you an idea to setting your plan into the reality, so we will definitely learn from the reality and let it will give you a value, when you don’t do progress in your life, you have got zero number but when you make a hope, you have got 1 number in your particular activity.

           Making wonderful stage is not easy because wonderful stage is coming from the uncomfortable zone, we need to re-learn what possibility we can take from that area, don’t ever think uncomfortable area is like dangerous place where it makes us feeling down, the uncomfortable area is like the highest happiness level where we didn’t get it through before.

           We must remember one thing that the midst will make you invisible, but the midst will give you concentrate to pinpoint the area you make your movement, in addition when you realize the more midst make you feel a haze, the less vision you make it, otherwise the less vision you see the area, the more concentrate you earn.

           No need to regret when you can’t recognize your own life because the wonderful stage can’t be reached in one time, but it needs your rest of your life, the simple way to recognize your wonderful stage is digging your mistake, developing basic necessity such as mentality and emotional intelligent, making yourself into an experimental object, making better question to yourself. Do it now as if you are looking for leverage. furthermore, when you succeed to leverage your stage, you are making a light in the midst of darkness.

What the most important to be learned in this life?

In this topic I would like to talk about the important thing should be learned in this life, in this universe there are lot of mystery when human being doesn’t have much time to disclose all of mystery within, so we need to make it simpler and hopefully human being can spend their time wisely to learn several important thing before they are passed away from this world, I am really sure every unlocked mystery from the universe can lead human being to the new area with full of rejoice and also full of peace.

So we need to reduce from the biggest thing to the smallest thing, and the smallest thing we can call it as specialism, it started from the school lesson which it is taught to every student who studies there, at the school lesson they learn how to write, read, listen and speak, on the other hand there’s self-education which is taught by the universe to human being such as rotation, natural’s voice, gravitation, mass, energy, mountain, river, Etc. If everyone wants to learn the important thing into the specific area, he must recognize what kind of field he wants to focus onto it, don’t bother to spend the time to learn all the universe’s knowledge because human being has limited time to disclose it, when someone has succeeded to focus on the specific area, he needs to unlock his potential to be diversified.

I would suggest you to identify what's most important subject you want to learn, there are the most important area need to be learned as the priority, the first thing is fixing your purpose of life and choose what belief are you willingly to concern with; the second thing is gain the knowledge to learn the excellence thing in this life, the third thing is having good principle and always commit from it.

Life hurts, Nature heals

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to understand about life and nature's characteristic, both are very unique, both have similar purpose but they have different job, nature is designed to fulfill what human need to survive and life is designed to give what human deserve, that's the simple of definition, so if there is a new problem is happening in this life, not because human want to make it happen, but it comes from the human's final attempt accumulation, life has no ability to hurt human, but only human can hurt, the main reason why human are not aware that they can hurt because every human has a reptile brain system where it teaches how to attack when they get stuck in the unprotected situation, human tend to fight when they don't like with the situation they already get in, now the question "why human tend to hurt themselves in every single day?" because they have fought with the life's rule and human don't want to accept any changes, in fact, life is designed to give what human deserve, life is designed to be like the automation machine where it will proceed what human did in the past.

 Human and life are tied together in the same arena where they will fight each other, whether human like or not with the life treatment, life always give a challenge to human in order to know whether human can survive or not within 24 hours, the main reason why human need to fight with life because life will kill the human's hidden potential, so, if human don't  fight back and don't practice with their own hidden potential, as a result, human will get a new trouble and they will get trapped with their closed mindset, nobody knows when the fighting process between the human and life will end, if human are tough with the life's challenge and keep surviving with the fullest self driven, life will give what human deserve, here is my special note; don't let life will give you too much the darkness because you will obsess with negativity, such as doubt, fear, anxiety, indignation, etc. Starting from today, don't focus on the result because life will give you the magnificent result when you already defeat your own ignorance, remember this note; life will give human with two option; looking for inspiration or looking for desperation, human can’t defeat the life when human lack of resourcefulness and lack of repetition, human must do a soul searching every day in order to awake the spiritual intelligence, the great loss will happen in this life not because human will die, but human stay die while they are still breathing on earth.

This life will hurt when human keep staying in the past moment because life keeps moving forward in the future, we don't have much time to look back to repair something happened in the past, on the other hand, nature will heal the human's mind when human keep working on their creativity, so there is no excuse to blame why life threaten human so unfairly, as i told you earlier, the power of creativity will be given to human when they can follow the life's rule and the nature's law, human can’t build the intellectual capacity when their satisfaction’s capacity is bigger than their intelligence capacity, the human's biggest enemy are lies in our satisfaction and our ignorance, both will gnaw away our creativity and destroy the human's potential when human lack of practice it, the nature will show the healing process when human succeed to obey with the life's rule and succeed to integrate between the nature's law and the power of self-awareness, here is the important note; when you apply the nature’s habit into your daily life, your life will be working to you and it will give you access how to create the unlimited wealth.

Don’t create limitations for your capacity, let God makes it

Let God creates limitation for you

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how not to create limitation while we are still developing our skills, what I see in the society’s lifestyle, many of us easily trust to something or someone without testing it with reality, that's the major cause will make us being deceived easily and we become a life victim, don't let limitation will stop you to grow, the sense of insecure often happens to us because we don't maximize our curiosity towards the new reference where it is trying to get into our memory, many of us prefer to create the sanctuary in order to avoid us to know something more about the valuable thing, here is why we need to keep learning and break our limitation? because our greatest fearfulness gets bigger when we lack of use of our curiosity to unveil the bad possibility which may happen in the future, we must admit that "everybody has a greatest fearfulness in the rest of life", the question is "does our greatest fearfulness tell us when it is starting to attack?" remember this note; our greatest fearfulness lies behind the sense of regret, it doesn't happen when we obsess about our good career, good life, new marriage life, happy marriage, etc. The greatest fearfulness will happen when we don't make any preparation to recognize about God's wisdom or the life purpose, our regret will become our greatest fearfulness asset when we deliberately block our capacity to know more about life, instead we prioritize our satisfaction to grow.

Include what your soul needs and exclude what your satisfaction wants

         Some young people still don’t know why they need to limit their capacity , as far as I observe, they limit their capacity because they are educated by parents to follow their expectation rule, in fact, the expectation rule is designed to reject the reality, we must beware about the expectation’s role model because they are shaped to decrease the people’s productive habit, as I reviewed about the human’s lifestyle, most people prefer to live in a mood of perfection because it offers limitation, safe and protection, remember this note; there is no life's security system will guarantee prosperity, safe and protection to human, but life will give human a new strength, new wisdom, new risk, new adversity, the mental pain and new opportunity to access the unlimited wealth from the human's subconscious mind, here is another case what I see about the average people's habit, most people always find the easiest way to make decision when the problem comes because their mental strength are not ready to solve their personal problem, besides that, they fill in their imagination about the pictures of fearfulness, not imagine about the possibility which it can be done, they misuse their power of focus to the wrong direction, that's why they become life's prisoner who lives in their own jail, but if we see into reality, new risk is designed not to devalue the human's skill, but new risk is designed to develop the human's skill, remember this note; the biggest risk is not to learn from the risk, and the biggest failure is stop trying.

People can’t have attractive personality when they are not willingly to break their own perfection, the main reason why attractive personality demands people to leave their limitation because life is going to crush the people's limitation if they stay lingering too long within that area, in addition, life is very interested with people who have attractive personality because they dare to get rejected, embrace the setback, focus about what they can do and keep persistent with the clearest goal, life will give more the mental pressure to human when they stay perfect in their limitation and life will crush the human's hidden potential because they lack of use it, here is another case why people love to create limitation in their mind because they are not interested with the future's uncertain gift, so whatever condition will happen in the future, they consider future and yesterday are pretty much the same, in my opinion; they are talking about their desperation, not looking for inspiration.

 When people lack of priority management, so they act casually and carelessly about what they can invest in the future, remember this note; if we keep repeating what we know and what we learn, that resource will become our perfection and we tend to reject the truth, it’s bad behavior, starting today, beware of what you choose to learn because your mind absorbs everything from your daily environment, so you need to train your faith to select which the valuable information you need to apply to your own life, don’t let your faith will seek something that you don’t notice, if it’s happening, you will become the life’s custody, you must cultivate your faith with the nature’s philosophy because the nature is the most powerful medic for the human’s soul, the human’s habit and the human’s philosophy. ease is greater threat to progress than hardship, when there is no progression, life will deposit us to the regression area where there is no hope and there is no any help.

Nature doesn’t need people but people need nature

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share the topic “Nature doesn't need people, but people need nature" the meaning of that title is "nature is the mother of the human's skill and nature will provide what people really need when people fulfill what nature wants”, that's justice, if we can’t provide what life really wants, we will build the desperate mindset, the first thing we need to do when we want our life’s journey is moving forward; we need to leave the unproductive habit in the past and we need to tie ourselves with goals that we have never reached before, I think this method is efficient because it can develop the human's habit and enrich the human's knowledge, the law of nature is very powerful when it is often to be applied in the human's daily habit, based on the nature’s law, repetition and consistency will create self-commitment, as we know self-commitment is the basic rule where it had been designed by God to give what human deserve, without any commitment's existence, human don't have any chance to make new evolution in their life history, self-commitment is the powerful force because it can create the differentiation between the human's future and the human's enthusiasm. 

 If we can apply and learn from the nature’s habit, our sense of satisfaction will be immobilized and our power of focus will increase by itself, that's the law, I can assure you that your life will become magnificent if you pick up one of the nature's habit like self-commitment, remember this note; the law of nature is designed not only can give a good service to people’s basic necessities, but also the nature can give a bad service when there is evil purpose from human’s purpose, in my opinion; don’t play casually with self-commitment because it’s the law of nature, people can't create a better future when they don't know how to make self-commitment with their time zone, the law of nature will give reaction when there is the human's commitment, every reaction can't be manipulated with human's skill, remember this note; we don’t need to pursue the end result because giving the end result is the part of the nature’s system, it’s not part of human’s responsibility, so we are not allowed to interfere or break the system, we are just recommended to work on our dream or we invent the masterpiece where it can be utilized to help others people’s business, it's work ethic.

 the law of nature isn’t having an egoistic characteristic, so as human being, we have to sell our skill like what the nature does, the main reason why the nature is always becoming the success model forever because it always selling its gorgeous skill to human and other creatures, we must design our philosophy in order to keep us stay away from the negativity, keep working like the nature does is the answer how to approach God's wisdom, sometimes we need to create new perceive about the law of nature in order to clear our faith from doubt, if our faith are filled with doubt, our vision gets lost, basically the human's daily job are like the farmers in the rice field,  they are sowing the seeds, cultivating the land with fertilizer, cutting the weeds from the land and reaping the outcome, now I understand little bit why most people are not wealthy in the rest of their life because they don't want to study how to sow the good seeds, they prefer to live in their expectation zone than living in the wisdom zone, in the reality, most poor people are cultivating their mindset with unproductive habit and doing the unproductive ritual, remember; poor people always reject the law of nature, that's the reason they get poor.

How to win at life

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share how to win at life, the main reason why I choose this topic because many people lose the opportunity from the life challenge, now let me explain how to change our lives from being unfortunate, now if we look at the reality life; some of them get easily depressed from race against the clock, some people are difficult to find love, some people are rejected from applying the job, some people are failed during being participant at audition selection, some people can’t get better salary from the company they work, etc. Those are symptoms that they are going to lose from the life battle, if human don't keep striving for what they want, they will cry for what they want because they are pushed to wear what they don't want to wear, those life lessons will put human to the rock bottom and they can't get out from that desperate zone until human are willingly to learn more, get curious more, evaluate more, make progress more than they know something in their past, people can't win from the life battle when they just use their same thinking level to fight for what they want, they need the friction to let people breaking their own mindset and do soul searching, sometimes people need their biggest fear in order to upgrade their independence / life skill, the main reason why people can’t win in every life challenge because they don't consider their life journey like the sea, to win in every battle in the sea, they need to keep swimming or they will be drowned in the sea.

The future will work for human's lives when people give a life design to the future

The criteria how to win at life's challenge, people must understand about the life’s wisdom, life will declare to people “I always provide something you deserve, hopefully you are ready to accept my gift, as long as I am still alive, there is hope for you, if you are not ready to accept my gift, I will give you little bit fear, so you must do something or your fear will get bigger”, means, we need to prepare our independence skill and give a design to the life before we are pushed to choose the uncomfortable design from life, so we must design our lives to the future before life will give design to us, we must beware of what we want to wear, such as we need to observe our lifestyle, we observe our social circle, etc. Don't let life will give something to us that we don't deserve it, don’t just become snob, he is very proud by saying clearly he is more important than anyone else, remember this note; life needs creator, if there is no creator, everything is lifeless and it's impossible to walk by itself, imagine that you want to create product and invent something valuable, if you want to see your product keeps existing in this world, you need to create new life by cultivating your product every day such as keep practicing your talent, applying your good philosophy into reality, monitoring your daily habit, etc.

The more you get higher limitation, the more expensive your ability

To win something in life, there must be a limitation where it can drag you back from the target, it's normal because limitation is designed not to keep you locked forever in the area, but limitation is designed to know whether your potential is ready or not to accept the challenge, if your potential is not ready, you can't do anything better in your career and you will find a deep emotional distress, remember this note; everybody has limitation, when limitation is higher than your potential, then you will not get any positive result from that limitation except giving you the lasting sense of comfort, every limitation in human being is designed to protect something where it has been owned by human and reject new information from outside, even though limitations don't have ability to produce the result what you want, but your limitation can be destroyed if your conscious mind gives a sense of burdening of suffering that it is greater than the limitation's strength, remember this note; limitation doesn't intend to limit your potential, it has only protect its self from the threat of great power which may threaten its existence, when you are willingly to work very hard, you will definitely feel pain because you already tear the seal of your limitation, do you know why limitation insists to protect you from the pain or suffering because there is a new life that wants to be born, we can call a new life as a Gift where it can help you to access the God's unlimited wealth.

Be careful who you trust; the devil was once an angels

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share the topic "be careful who you trust, the devil was once an angel" meaning of that statement is everybody has self-image and everyone has the personal right how to choose who the type of person can be trusted, the main problem why a good person often receives a bad experience during making relationship in social circle because he gives trust to people who can't give something valuable to him and he doesn't know how to pick up a good people, remember; picking up a good people are so crucial, we can't create a better life when we don't know how you apply our personality in the standards of good personality, here is the simple criteria how to value a good person in the standard of good personality; someone can give something means to you and he doesn't need a return reward although he actually deserves it, if you can't meet someone with this kind of personality, at least you have to keep practicing your personality to behave a good personality such thing, don't ever try to please other people with something that they don't need it for themselves because everyone has different standard of how to build self-esteem, but if you can provide something that most people actually need it but they can't afford to do, you will become the center of resources in the future, remember this; good people will always appreciate your good service and they will get curious about what you already share to them, especially you share something critical and meaningful to the humanity's big impact.

Sometimes being kind to anybody is not a must but we can show our respect or giving a good service to them although they don’t need it for themselves at this moment, but giving a good service has different view with giving trust, you can behave a polite to everyone but not giving a trust to everyone, you know why? giving trust is like giving the knife, you can't provide trust to everyone who doesn't have any standard of good personality, when you just trust to anybody else without knowing whether they belong a good person or not, it's the same thing you let anyone to stab you in the back with your knife,  trust can become the useful knife when you know how to use it by freeing people come out from their own problem and you leave a memorable scratch to their memory and they remember your trust, remember this note; beware everything you trust because it can shape your destiny, you can’t get value from anything when you just give a trust to type of person who can’t be trusted, remember; giving a trust is like giving someone an access to enter your great empire where it contains your qualified soul and your qualified mind, you must know the type of person who will enter your great empire, trust can’t be exchanged with the worldly stuff or something expensive, but trust can be exchanged by giving a good service.

Here is important note; you don't need to be trusted by everyone, as long as you can provide a good service where they need it so much at any time, they will trust it automatically, don't bother to think about whether other people will trust you or not, as long as you work like the time’s working principle, the whole world will trust you, not exception, let me share to you several things about the time’s working principle; the first principle; time always works punctually although there is nobody will appreciate its existence, the second principle; time is incorruptible, the third principle; time can work optimally not just because time needs big promotion or recognition from other people’s credit, but time devotes itself with the one clear purpose, the fourth principle; time is always be accountable by doing something without needing any surveillance, the fifth principle; time can do something valuable when most people often underestimate it.

Do it now, sometimes later becomes never

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to focus to do something that it means to you, as we know many people have many targets in their career, they spend their time to learn something, they want to get promotion, they want to get recognition from other people, they want to get respect, etc. But unfortunately, they don’t realize that the word "want" is the part of a toxic incantation, they should change from "want" to become "what makes I deserved it?, that excellent advice to self, sometimes the word "want" is just part of demand of something and it doesn't tell someone to make new decision, but if we use the sentence "what make I deserved it ?" is the kind of self-demand to fulfill the goal requirement, the more someone creates self-reliance, the more problem he gets, self-reliance is the the sign of luck, when someone knows he will get luck from something great, he will prepare something for it sooner, here is the best question to create a luck ; “why do I need to finish it now? when we use this question, Our brain system will work optimally rather than it usually does, remember this note; our activity will not create the different result when we just demand someone or something to satisfy what we want, we must create the priority list for what we want to fulfill.

 Remember this clue; the more we create the priority list, the more we insist ourselves to make a better strategy and we can avoid the unproductive activity, we can't insist ourselves to grow better when we don't have any goal, a great goal can educate someone to do something extraordinary than someone who has no goal, when we urge about something we want to finish it, the sign of miracle will happen, the miracle will not happen when we act casually about what we are going to do, the more we spend more time to postpone, the more we lose our enthusiasm and we lose our desire value, in fact, the enthusiasm is the switch where it can awaken the human’s willpower and also it can help human to pull the new opportunity from the future, besides that, the enthusiasm can help human to shape a new vision and creativity in order to create a new future, in my opinion; the main problem why most people can’t get what they really want in the rest of their lives because they have spent their leisure time by waiting wake up-call and waiting the opportunity from other people, so, my opinion towards it, they don’t have a good philosophy and they lack of willpower.

Starting today, we must prioritize something bigger than our expectation because our past doesn't need us and our future really needs us, we need to prepare our skill and let Almighty God uses our masterpiece and our inborn skill to collect new opportunity, the more we get opportunity, the more we deserve to get what we really want, so if we want to get better career in the future, we must change our priority to the urgency list, imagine that the bad circumstance will happen to reality, when we train our mind with such condition, we will not dare to postpone something in our priority list, finally the word “later becomes Now”, if we don’t give a design to the future about what we really want, we will get desperate and we will lose our willpower, that’s the key how to create a better future, don’t forget to create the artificial emergency plan because it can help us to monitor the progressive result.

Life isn’t about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to know where our life journey is going, how to shape a better career and how to create a better future, the main reason why i choose that topic because future is always mysterious and unpredictable, at the present time, we need to have a clear vision and prime our personality to face the future's challenge because this life isn’t talking about how to create happiness or finding hobby, but this life is talking how to survive in the middle of endless patience and endless suffering, remember this note; we can’t create a better life by finding something that it doesn't belong to us, but all we need to prepare is how we create a better personality and let the life is interested with our positive vibes and let the life shapes our personality to be more attractive than our expectation, we can’t utilize something valuable in this life until we build our better personality, do you know why? because life needs the human's productive habit such as “Practice and Observe”, if we don’t use both habit, we can’t make a new experience and we can't have survival skill, As I observed, very few people can understand how the life works, do you know why? because they can't occupy their mind to the life journey and they just satisfy what their expectation wants, that's problem.

train your mind by occupying new problem, not filling it with your expectation

          Remember; time can’t give a big picture to the future, but by using the human vision and an attractive personality, it can give a big picture about what human need to prepare for the future, life will count the human's activity as long as they prepare some solutions to handle the future's challenge, the circumstance will change our season when we don't invest a good seeds for the future, good seeds are like the knowledge, build the communication skill, build the relationship skill, build a better personality, etc. That’s requirement we need to obey if we want to get a better vision, maybe we will doubt about how the future works and maybe we don’t believe about our independence skill, as long as we train our faith and train our mind to experience with a painful experience, everything impossible becomes possible because the sign of God already been there, I call it as the exit strategy, the power of faith is like the pull force where it is designed by God to drag what human want from the future to the present time, whereas the power of imagination is designed by God to produce a new life and it can facilitate what human wants and also the power of imagination can help human how to convert the human's vision into reality, unfortunately not everyone can access the power of imagination and the power of faith because most of them are too obsessed about short term plan and they don’t have any big goal to be done consistently.

Remember this note; as long as human don’t have any enthusiasm to work with the power of imagination and the power of faith, they can't create a better personality, when they don't possess a better personality, everything they see will create a blur picture, that's frightening thing, don't ever underestimate the power of better personality because it can attract God's wisdom automatically, when we can possess God's wisdom, every big problem around us will become a small problem, our life journey is like the clay, whatever we want it, the future will absorb our best design, don’t argue with the temporary result when we get feedback from the future because whatever we do at this time is the part of progress, here is my special note; all result what we got based on our quality of our emotional development, if we want to get a better personality, we must change our philosophy and change our daily ritual because our quality of desires come from philosophy and daily ritual, after we invest our resources to the time, we are not entitled to interrupt the time’s job, let the time works as it usually does and we must believe the process.

Push yourself to do when nobody is going to do for you

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about how to push yourself to do something inspired when nobody is going to do for you, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people let their daily habit to be controlled by their expectation and they prefer to choose soul destroying job, as a result, they feel lifeless because they let the unknown circumstance to change what they can do, the main reason why most people don't want to push themselves to do something more because they don't have vision about the future plan and they have obsessed with the uninspiring dream where they have built it in their daily habit, if this condition still happens continuously; I worry they can't control where their sense of expectation goes, remember this note; if we don't do something that we think only we can finish it, the life circumstance will give us the desperate state, here is the reminder to self; don't ever feed the negative emotion with the desperate state or we will obsess with a poor mind state, every new chance in life will invite human's attention when they have no sense of the desperate state, when we grow our mood with a sense of desperate, it’s probably we never approach a new chance, sometimes we need to hack our mind and chose a hard decision in order to leave our satisfaction, we need the force of friction to change our mentality, if there is no any force of friction, we can't control ourselves and automatically our mental age won't grow.

 The most important thing we should do when we face the unpleasant thing is improving our mindset and improve the mechanic we have such as our working style, our good service, our attitude skill, our speaking skill, we learn the way we associate with other people, we notice the way we dress, we change the way we spend our money, etc. Here are the good news if you can push yourself to do the difficult thing; your mental power will develop as fast as you learn about it, your life will be no dull because your life journey will be forgotten about the painful experience where it had occurred in the past moment, You need to train your mind to find solution that most people don’t have or people get afraid to do, when you keep this kind of habit, everything you want will be transformed into reality, now the main reason why not many people want to help us to manifest our dream into reality because we don’t have any vision and any reason to be shared to them, sometimes we need to evaluate about what we want to do before we share to others, prime ourselves to create something valuable is a must, we must create something simpler and understandable, so other people can absorb what you share, when we have created something that most people understand about it, other people will help us.

A sense of self-control will never happen when we don't lure it with great ambition, we must know our intelligence capacity level, we shouldn’t create a low goal or create the uninspired goal, besides that, we must attach the reasonable time to reach our clear goal, so we can monitor what we evaluate or we can improve what we need to improve, we must ensure that we have a reasonable time to control what we do, if we don’t have a reasonable time to pursue our ambition, we will lose our desire because we can’t get longevity patience, remember this note; when we push ourselves to set goal, we must ensure our goal can be measured with our deadline, furthermore, don’t let our goal can make us got desperate because it can't heal our inner world when we are willingly to take a long term plan, furthermore, don't let our opportunity is gone because of our carelessness and our casual habit, the most important goal is not fulfilling what we want, but how to give a small contribution for as many as people.