Common mistakes in leadership

Hi guys, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "common mistakes in leadership", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people just want to be a follower and they don't dare to be leader, if you ask me why many people don't want to be leader because they think being leader must possess some good requirements, it is not true, being leader mustn't possess good requirements, the basic skill how to become leader is know how to make open communication with others, let me tell you about the reality "leadership is a complex skill", it is quite common for leaders to make some mistakes, here is the common mistake is leader can't communicate effectively, sometimes leaders show their high expectations without considering the capacity of their team, so the leaders need to be clear when they show expectations to the people that they have lead, another mistake from leader is not providing the constructive back, meaning, the leaders can provide what their team need in order to grow and improve their team's skill, for the most important part is the leaders can point out the area where people can do better.

Sometimes the leaders forget how to delegate someone when there is right position, the leaders may feel like they need to do everything for themselves, but this condition can lead the leaders to get burnout because the leaders don't allow their team to develop the new area which can burden their team's responsibility, lastly, the leaders forget how to appreciate their team's skill when the teams can finish something crucial, that's leader's common mistakes, as we know everyone needs to feel valued and feel recognized for their hard work, the leaders who forget to do this will make the situation is weird between the leaders and the team member, remember; the team who doesn't get appreciation and recognition from their leaders, they tend to feel unmotivated, here is another mistake which is done by the leaders, they avoid a difficult conversation, meaning, the leaders tend to avoid the confrontation when the team members try to make a tough conversation to the leaders, but avoiding the conversation can lead to larger problem down the line, it is important for the leaders to address issues head-on and in a respectful manner, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your career, good luck.

Type a personality at work

          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Type a personality at work", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in a toxic relationship and they suffered in the rest of their lives, at this moment let me share something to you about kind of people’s character you need in your life, hopefully it can improve your relationship development, here is the first type personality at work; Compliance, if you meet people who have compliance's character, don't ask them how to dominate the conversation in the meeting room because they are not type of person who loves to talk out of their favorite topic, people who have compliance's character tend to do something meticulously and also they love to do something precisely, on the other side, they have type of fear which can immobilize their focus, e.g. what they do at work looks imperfect or dissatisfied, if you meet with person who has this type of character, don't criticize what they can't do, but support what they can do, ask them to do something preciously and they will be happy to work on it even though they don't get paid yet, here is the second type personality at work; Steadiness, if you meet with people who have steadiness characteristic, don't ask them to do something more than they love to do because they hate with new challenge which can make them looked pathetic, commonly, they don't like new surprise because they tend to follow their mood stability, they tend to behave persistent, patience, and tend to do something concerning with every rule at workplace, people who have steadiness's characteristic; what they hate most at work is changing the work ethic suddenly because this situation can lose their mood stability, they tend to work at company as Human resource department staff.

         Here is the third type personality at work; Influence, if you meet person who has the influence's characteristic at workplace, please don't try to avoid their existence even though you may dislike their personality because they don't want to get exiled by other people's existence, that's what they fear, people who have the influence's characteristic, they can entertain other people with their conversation style, besides that, they love to make a friend with newcomer because they think that they have confident enough to communicate with the stranger, type of person who has the influence's characteristic, commonly, they love to work as salesman or marketing, here is the fourth type personality at work; Domination, if you meet people who have domination's characteristic at workplace, they love to dominate other people's work ethic, they love to work under pressure because they want to prove themselves to get higher recognition than what other people get, people who have domination's character, they only fear their work result will be manipulated by other people who behave unjust, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully you can apply these strategies in your daily life, good luck.    

What are the 3 big questions in life

      

          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “What are the 3 big questions in life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes about the truth of life, if you ask me why not everyone wants to know about the truth of life because they think talking about the truth of life is so deep and complicated, no wonder many people are very proud when they are agnostic or atheist, at this moment let me share something to you about 3 big questions where it is used to know about truth of life, here is the first question which is used to reveal about the truth; where did I come from and why was I born on earth?, if you set this question to yourself, you will not play about your life because you start searching it through your religion or the ancestor, the main purpose why you need to ask this question because it will help you to find your source of power, in the Holy Koran Surah Ad Zariyat chapter 51 verse 56 "Allah said >I don't create human nor genie unless they worship me", from that verse, it concludes that every human is created to acknowledge and worship Allah, who is Allah ?, He is the creator of the universe and its content, plus He is the creator of heavens and earth.

Remember this note; Allah is the happiness owner, we can't get happiness without approaching Him, here is the second question which is used to reveal about the truth; what can I do for my destiny on earth?  you can't find that question from the ancestor you believe because your ancestor is not representing God's existence, your ancestor is human as well, the answer from that purpose is you become the leader of creature who spread the kindness, spread the peace, be a good servant to Allah by giving a good service to mankind and prevent the bad or evil-doer, here is the third question which is used to reveal about the truth; "where do I go after death?", the answer from that question is stated clearly in the Holy Koran Surah Al Baqarah chapter 2 verse 156 "Indeed, we belong to Allah and we return to Him", meaning, we aren't authorized to make our lives as we want, all affairs will be returned to Allah, if we don't follow Allah, we will get the misleading way, here is the conclusion; we only live once on earth, there is no reincarnation phase, if we don't want to recognize Allah, we will live on the hell for everlasting, that's the most horrible place, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

You will see it when you believe it

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “You will see it when you believe it”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone believes with the miracle, if you ask me why not everyone believes with the miracle because they only believe if the miracle is in line with self-fulfilling prophecy, as long as they can't see the miracle, what they expect so far is related with wishful thinking, if the miracle is not line with self-fulfilling prophecy, people will consider the miracle is nonsense, based on psychological research; whatever people see something in reality, it is actually reflected to what people built in their own subconscious mind, if people get mad easily right now, meaning, they build a hatred feeling by believing something which can increase their bad feeling, whereas, if people don't get mad easily, they usually build sense of self-love by saying something inspired to themselves, in order to see something in the future, we don't need a fortune teller, we just need to optimize our deep intention, focus in the learning process and we act based on what our intuition tells us, remember this; you are stronger than what you think, if you keep doing something even though you disbelieve it, meaning, you try to unlock your hidden potential, that's the way how to develop the miracle within you.

Remember this note; life will always hurts everybody as long as they stop believing in what they can do, life will burden everyone's mind if they consider life as the prison, life is like the empty land where it needs a cultivator, only human can become a cultivator, at this moment I would like to share how to unlock the power which can make you believing in what you do, here is the first tip how to make the miracle works for you; you don't need to think about whether what you do is right or wrong, do you know why I say like that? Because right or wrong is part of God's decision for everyone, as human being, we aren't entitled to judge being right or wrong, we can live in this world until now because of His grace, not our power of decision, here is the second tip how to make the miracle works for you; consider every reality is part of God's decision, if you violate what reality tells, your life will burden you, what we can do as human being when reality has been set is we adapt with reality and do something more than our expectation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

what to do when bored at work

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “what to do when bored at work", the main reason why I choose that topic because many workers feel bored at workplace and they still don't know what they should do when a sense of boring came up, if you ask me the main cause of boredom is coming at the workers at workplace because there is no next level of difficult where it will drive them to do something really new, as long as people spend their time to wait the opportunity, they will never be able to get higher level of good chance to make a bright future, remember; the life system is running faster than what we imagine so far, if we just spend our time to wait the opportunity at workplace, we automatically lose the opportunity and we intentionally give it to other people who struggle for welcoming a good opportunity, the biggest challenge when it comes to human's lives is when people don't waste their time even though they have opportunity to waste it, instead, they will try to fulfill many people's hope or solve many people's problem which induces feeling of severe pain, they unintentionally build an enormous power to reduce sense of boring, maybe you ever hear the Spiderman's film quote, which it states "the great power comes great responsibility", it is true, if you feel there is something you need to do and it can't be waited for longer time, it means, you are will being waited by great power which can help you to change your life to be better, that's rare challenge, I believe very few people have been granted with such feeling, if your job can't give you such deep curiosity and deep enthusiasm, meaning, you are playing a small role in this world. 

        Starting from now, if you feel bored at work, don't try to find what makes you comfortable, instead, you need to increase your awareness, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to release a sense of boring at work, hopefully these strategies can help you to improve your career at working area, here is the first thing you need to do when you feel bored at work; you must prolong your target, meaning, you need to add the intensity of difficult at your work when you are at the comfort zone at your workplace, you need to show your eagerness to the target itself, for example; you usually finish 1 or 2 target a day without feeling burdened, next time, you need to add the intensity of target, maybe you achieve target 3 or 4 target a day,  remember; when you are interested with the new target, you will never be bored because your subconscious mind never try it before, here is the second thing you need to do when you feel bored at work; you need to offer your assistance to your teammate as possible as you can, when you offer your assistance to your teammate, you indirectly build the connectivity where it can increase your reputation, if you have a good reputation at workplace, your reputation will attract big opportunity to you, bigger opportunity, bigger responsibility, when you have bigger responsibility, you will never be bored at all because you are busy to prepare what you require to fulfill big opportunity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Redesign your life in 15 days

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Redesign your life in 15 days”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people want to change their life course, unfortunately, they feel not okay when they realize their destiny is not changing as they expect, if you ask me why life is not changing as they expect because what they do in daily basis is not connecting with their big why, what people pursue is how the benefit can fit their daily needs, as long as people's intention is not bigger than their big why, they only get satisfaction and they are trapped in the comfort zone, this circumstance will not help people to change their own lives for everlasting, let me give you the clue how to change your life; what you contribute must be bigger than what you are getting paid, in the other words, we can say "you work on yourself more than you work on your job", so you need to find the information where it can fulfill your inborn ability until you feel something "clicked", at this moment I would share some strategies how to redesign your life in 15 days, here is the first strategy you must do if you want to redesign your life in 15 days; you must fix your grand why, meaning, what you do in daily basis must be giving you a sense of urgency to your feeling, if you feel enthusiastic with that pressure, you are on the right path, you have to ensure your grand why can help other people to solve their problem, the basic requirement we need is type of problem which is connected with our enthusiasm, if you work on yourself, life will make the suitable room for you.

          Here is the second strategy you must do if you want to redesign your life in 15 days; you must ask yourself "Who can I serve and what kind of service do I offer?" from that question, you need to shape your own mission, you carry that mission into your soul as if you were destined by God to bring that mission on earth, if you can develop your mind with your own mission, you will have many opportunities to grow yourself, besides that, you will receive the power from Almighty God because you carry the mission, remember; money is the energy, if you want to be pursued by the money, you must carry the mission and work on it until other people get benefit from what you offer, when your mission can help other people's problem, other people will pay you more than you expect, so your job is how to turn your mission as your daily work, to fulfill the glorious mission is not simple and is not easy because you will be facing the unpleasant experience, so you will feel pain of mistake, pain of rejection, pain of adversity, pain of delay, so your mentality must be ready for that preparation, Here is the third strategy you must do if you want to redesign your life in 15 days; you must find a way how to give an access for other people until they want to use your service, means, other people will use your product or service for longer period of time, the more people find you and use your service, the more benefits come to you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Define usage of internet

Surfing the Internet

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Define usage of internet”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are curious about the function of internet, if you ask me why usage of internet is very popular for 30 - 50 years later because it can help people to solve their problem, e.g. business marketing, selling the product, the communication problem in community, making new relationship, job vacancy, transfer data, money transaction, and delivery, basically usage of internet is a good opportunity for people who want to get new challenge in this life because the world is more open and more transparent, even though there are many opportunities, we must beware of what the internet offers to us because not all good things from the internet is good to use and compatible with our emotional needs, remember; the power of internet depends on what people put inside into internet, the internet is the tool, it can create a better opportunity for people who needs the product and it can destroy human's future if the informers put something which can offer negative product, e.g. pornography, illegal product / black market, hoax news, slander spreading act, etc. Now our attitude is on the stake because our attitude will represent our action, if our attitude is cruel, our lives will destroy other people's lives through internet, we must be wiser if we want to use internet.

                                    

         Usage internet is like living in the market which runs 24 hours, do you know why? because we will look at many things through internet, if we aren't wise enough, our emotion will take place everything from internet until we feel perplexed and anxious, before that circumstance will happen, we must take precarious act, e.g. we must set the type of information we are seeking at the first time before we surf the information through internet, maybe we want to buy book through internet, we must set the budget quota before we spend the money, if we are investing good thing at internet, it will manifest good thing back to our lives, whereas, if we are investing bad thing at internet, it will manifest bad thing to our lives, life is very fair enough, but unfortunately many people don’t realize about the power of internet, the reason why people's life journey will never change because they don't want to  invest something good into their knowledge, that's consequence if people don't set the purpose, here is the conclusion; the circumstance we have now is the product of accumulation from what we see through internet, the things we have done through internet, if we feel peace, we invest good thing through internet, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

7 qualities of a healthy relationship

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “7 qualities of a healthy relationship”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples are trapped in toxic relationship and they don't know how to get out from the toxic relationship, so in this article I would share about several qualities of a healthy relationship, hopefully it can give your relationship is better than before, here is the first quality of a healthy relationship; giving the benefit, not taking the benefit, meaning, we only focus how to give the benefit to our spouse, if we don't give something that our spouse needs, meaning, there is no love, if there is no love, there is not trust, if you or your spouse can’t trust each other, meaning, your relationship is no longer bringing good fortune in the future, here is the second quality of a healthy relationship; keep building quality time, means you and your spouse show caring,  attention and merits, when you and your spouse can understand how to give quality time, I am very optimistic that your relationship will be fine, here is the third quality of a healthy relationship : give the compliment to spouse, I think every couple must need compliment because it can help people to reduce ego. giving the compliment means giving the detail attention to spouse. 

      Here is the fourth quality of a healthy relationship : friendliness, means, you and your spouse will not feel sorry when there is friendliness, this strategy also will bring good fortune when it is being nourished together, if your relationship can make warm relationship, you and your spouse will not feel regret to stay together although there is problem ahead, here is the fifth quality of a healthy relationship : integrity, this character can’t happen in short period of time, the learning process may take at least 5 years to strengthen the relationship, integrity is not talking about accepting your spouse’s weaknesses, but how to prolong your spouse's endurance skill, here is the sixth quality of a healthy relationship : loyalty, I think every couple must have this kind of character, when there is no loyalty, there is only nightmare within relationship, remember this; building loyalty is like making the personal branding to what they build in business, when there is person can’t show his loyalty in relationship, means he insults himself, here is seventh quality of a healthy relationship : building the same dream, means, you and your spouse are willing to grow together with the same dream, I think every couple needs this strategy, when you and your spouse can't build the same dream, it will raise the conflict in long period of time, furthermore, there will be a lot of misunderstanding unexpectedly in every life moment if every human's relationship doesn't build the same dream, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

10 negative emotions

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “10 negative emotions”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can get out from negative emotions easily, in this article I will discover about 10 types of negative emotions, I hope you will stay alert about it, here is the first type of negative emotions; perfectionism, the main reason why we should avoid perfectionism because it’s trying to influence people's mind to stop improving their potential, if we look at reality, every day there is something we don't know, especially new problem and science, in order to avoid being ignorant in the future, we must survive and grow our potential in order to prevent the crisis which can come at any time, here is the second type of negative emotions; slander other people's name, this attitude is supposed to be avoided by us because it can’t give negative reaction to what human do in daily activity, this attitude is like the virus where it can kill the human’s potential unknowingly, besides that, slander people's name can instill new chaos in human's relationship, here is the third type of negative emotions; self-doubt, I think everybody agrees self-doubt has potential to immobilize human's creativity because this attitude can create the mental block to human’s brain system, if they build self-doubt, everything around them looks alike the enemy of shadows.

       Here is fourth type of negative emotions; fear of unknown, this attitude shouldn’t be applied in daily activity because it can remove new hope, we would better to prepare negative anticipation rather than keep overreacting about something out of control, we must know what to do and what not to do rather than we try to respond something we should neglect it, here is the fifth type of negative emotions; sense of worry, this attitude is not good because it’s trying to reject reality quicker than using real time calculation, worry changes nothing except it destroy the human's mental health, 50% sense of worrying will not change everything, instead it will burden the human's mental health, "the more we worry something, the more we lose our confidence", we can't reject reality when we aren't ready to welcome unexpected thing, in order to face reality, we need to upgrade our power of perception because it can free us from misunderstanding, here is sixth type of negative emotions; complaining, this attitude is not good because it will steal your power of focus, you need to learn how to unlearn this attitude because complaining starts destroying everything we build, here is the seventh type of negative emotions;  trying to control everything, we should avoid this attitude because it will create a panic attack, as human being, human can't control everything unless we control our character, perception and habit, here is the eighth type of negative emotions; too proud with the achievement, this attitude is not good because it will make human's creativity is not growing drastically, here is the ninth type of negative emotions; self-righteousness, this attitude is not good because it will create mind block and self-arrogance, if our mindset is not growing, we must check what we build in our character, maybe self-righteousness is the major factor which can block our potential to grow, here is the tenth type of negative emotions; overthinking, this attitude can evoke depression, we must write down what we think if we want to reduce the impact of overthinking, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Example of happy family

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Example of happy family”, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people desire to have happy family, but it doesn't happen yet in reality, if you ask me why having happy family is difficult to shape because it needs good cooperation between man and woman who are building the same purpose, building high qualification, and building strong commitment, even though we can't ensure when happy family can be built, if we combine between qualification, commitment and purpose, there is nothing can against us, what can stop us from developing our qualification, commitment and purpose is our fear, doubt and our satisfaction, happy family can be created beyond our expectation if we don't hurt our spouse's feeling with something they don't want to get, it is very simple, as long as we work hard on our capacity, I am sure we can build happy family, for the most important thing is we can keep good communication with our spouse, we share our good feeling to our spouse and we comprehend her/ his love language, let me tell you one thing, our duty right now is not demanding our spouse how to fulfill our expectation, but how we let our spouse to develop her/his own qualification, it is not easy, but if we can lower our ego, there is nothing against our path, please remember this philosophy; building happy family is like building house, we need to evaluate what is the value of house, we must choose the type of house we will use for longer time, we must discuss with our spouse related with the function of the room A, B, C, the more often we can discuss about the detailed point with our spouse, the more we can create solution easier because the detail is the source of power. 

         
        Let me give you the criteria or example how to build happy family, hopefully this strategy can help you to build sustainable family relationship, here is the first strategy how to build happy family; you can allocate your time to do something together with your spouse and your kids even though you belong to busy person in your career, this method is not easy, but if we can allocate our time to fulfill our family's emotional need, as impact, we can reduce the conflict and a sense of peace will be created by itself, here is the second strategy how to build happy family; you are willing to listen your spouse's deepest feeling even though you are tired, this method is simple, you just need your sincerity and conscience, if you feel this method is not easy, you can practice it in every single day by talking to yourself in the mirror, here is the third strategy how to build happy family; you don't push your opinion to your spouse even though you think your opinion is more valuable than your spouse's opinion, this method needs self-minded clearance and humility, whether we like it or not, we must admit that what we think is right is not absolutely right for others because opinion is just accumulation of perception, not representing the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

What motivates you to do your job well

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What motivates you to do your job well”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people really appreciate about what they do in their work, the root cause of the problem why people can’t appreciate what they do in job because they demand more benefit than their working performance, as we know together that most people are working like living in the rat race, they just feel motivated by money, not dream, so they will never stepped out from the rat race, at this moment I would like to share how to make your job is getting inspired, the first thing you need to do how to work well; you have to create the deadline’s target, if you don’t have any target or don't set limited time, you will feel bored because your emotion will not feel motivated by what you do, make sure your deadline’s target is very compatible with your working experience, do your job well as if you were the only person who has been sent by God to finish it, don’t expect too much other people’s help because not everyone will plan for your bright future, you don't need to think when you will stop working because you will never know until when your service will be needed by the universe, do your job as if you were living with it and you were dying with it, if we realize what we do in our job is bringing so much peacefulness, so we can make it as motivation, so my suggestion to you, don't focus on the money's pursuit, if you don't  get money as you expect, you will get disappointed and your work performance will lose its strength.

    Don’t look for job just for earning money, you must have reason why you choose that job, you have to ensure you can show your big responsibility at your work although it needs a lot of struggles and a lot of patience, do your work for increasing your intelligence, integrity and patience, if you work for money only, you will never get more money after you lost your job, here is the second thing how to work well; you work by solving a lot of people's problem, if you work for money only, your earning ability will devalue by itself as the time goes by, but if you work for people's problem, you will earn a lot of creative thinking because you have experienced by collecting other people's different problem, remember this note; if you dedicate yourself to work for problem, you will never get fired because problem will never end until the end of this world, here is the third thing you need to do how to work well; do your job as if that is the last farewell gift, I am really sure if you consider your job as the last farewell gift, you will not feel a lot of pressure because you have found your "big why" at your work, besides that, your enthusiasm will be renewed every time you think like that because you will leave a lot of good memory in it before your job leaves you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Take charge of your life

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “take charge of your life”, the meaning of that statement is we don’t need to bluff to other people about what we intend to do in our life journey, the reason why we don’t need to show our plan to other people because every human has own responsibility, everybody is busy, so we shouldn't take so much attention to them, let them know about what we can do for them, so people will find us, if we plan better world for other people, they will give us new opportunity how to end our trouble, if we have no plan for other people's hope, we will never take opportunity to take the next level of the higher demand, here is what people don’t get if they don’t take charge of their life; they will never meet the moment of happiness because they intend to live into the rat race, remember this; life is not demanding people how to make freedom of action, but life is demanding people how to make new experience, people who don't earn new experience, they can't get the freedom of action, so if you want to take charge of your life, you have to end up your freedom of action and help other people to end up their trouble, here is the biggest risk when people just spend their time to live in their own luck condition; they will imprison themselves into the desperate zone and they will never find their inner faculties because their mindset has shut down the opportunity to their eyes.

   The reason why people always get trouble because they lack of interest how to build self-confidence and they are more committed to become entertained, in my opinion; if people are looking for fun, they will never end up their quota of trouble, maybe you may hear this statement; person who has fueled his own life with something he pursued, what he pursued is going to be returned to himself, means, if he can’t see any value to his resources, he builds the strongest wall in his mind to get himself swindled by what he does, please don’t spend your life like you were living in the past 5 years because it will make you feel crushed, there is only thing you can do for taking charge of your life is taking initial step, upgrading your skill set, embracing new failure and renewing your enthusiasm, remember; every new life is begun with renewed enthusiasm, now your main job is how to allocate your sense of enthusiasm to find your vocation, it may take at least 10 years before the right vocation finds you, if you are willing to take charge by taking vocation, your future will borrow something you need to do by now, if there is no vocation, there is no change at your personality, if there is no change at your personality, there is no future, if there is no future, there is no hope, that's consequence, maybe you will ask me “why do I need to take charge of my life?” here is the answer; if you take charge of your life, the destiny is leading you to the right direction, if you don't take charge of your life, the destiny is leading you to the wrong direction and make you feel guilty when you make new decision , I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.