Today I would like to talk how to differentiate
between insecure feeling and secure feeling, we all know that insecure feeling
and secure feeling are happening because of our decision making, the more clear
decision we make, the more clear hope will fill in our life journey, now we
will try to analyze how do we recognize secure or insecure feeling in our final
acceptance, normally most people will feel bad when there’s something insecure
enters to their happiness and when they haven’t found the happiness, they start
to blame the insecure feeling.
The question is “what factor will make the insecure
thing to be active?”, if you concern that the factor will make you have the
insecure feeling, none other thing the factor is coming from your bad
experience alive or your expectation result is bigger than you expect it, if we
know the main cause, that’s mean we are bold enough to secure the insecure
thing.
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| train our mindset to secure the insecure feeling |
The problem
is not coming from your feeling, but you choose to live together with your bad
experience in the pastime and also you are staying away from the reality and
your life path, that’s prove that you want to embrace the insecure feeling, now I will mention what’s the secure feeling? the
secure
feeling covers the patience, the greatest determination, hope, love, decisiveness,
honesty and happiness, please remember; the
secure feeling will not be active automatically, but the secure feeling needs
to be built from the humble beginning, if we do the greatest thing
without making plan, without making certain drive and without following the
guidance, we will not achieve the power to activate the secure feeling to
secure the insecure feeling.
The insecure
feeling can’t be activated automatically except it is be trained by the human’s
decision, how to build the secure feeling and the insecure feeling are needing
the different method, the secure
feeling needs more extra power to train it and also we need a longer time to
prepare ourselves, whereas the insecure
feeling doesn’t need the training program to build it, it easier to embrace
the insecure feeling rather than the secure feeling because the secure feeling
always resists the pain and suffering.