Define smart goals

Smart goal gives you perseverance to make progress

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Define smart goals", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware about the goal setting's influence, let me give you the definition of smart goals, = type of journey which can direct our mental, heart, physic to the destination where it can bring the blessing for us as well as others, do you know why people need to set smart goal? Because every smart goal can help us to leave what's unimportant thing in this life, as we know the behavior of procrastination can become big obstacle when we just follow what procrastination wants, here is the first characteristic of smart goal; it can help us to prevent us from doing something dangerous and enjoy with the learning process, this strategy really works when we will feel enthusiasm to enjoy the process, if we can't enjoy the learning process, it indicates that we set the wrong goal, if we really want to create smart goal, we have to analyze whether the goal doesn't make us fear or not, if we don't fear accepting new mistake or failure after we make attempt to reach the deadline target, that's smart goal, if the goal setting can make us fear or it doesn't give us peace, it indicates that we want to destroy our confidence, it is not good idea, here is the second characteristic of smart goal; it can help us to unlock our mental block, here is the good news; if we know what mental block does something to us, we can counteract it by offering something which can mental block hating us.

Awareness level

  Now, I have question for you; before you want to pursue what you accomplish, you must measure your mental acumen by asking the critical question "Am I ready to receive nothing from what I struggle?", if you aren't ready to accept something which is opposite with your expectation, your conscious mind indirectly destroys your plan because you are too fearful to see about the result, if you have smart goal, it doesn't give you fear, worry or regret although you have failed at many times, here is the third characteristic of smart goal; it will remain forever with us every time we make new achievement, it means, smart goal will run lifelong after that smart goal evokes your potential to create more different result, here is the good news; smart goal doesn't need motivation from other people's influence because smart goal teaches us how to become independent person who possess unique ability to help people's problem, here is the fourth characteristic of smart goal; it will never offer the feeling of regret even though you can get the possibility to fail, here is for your note; smart goal will keep you communicating with God's plan once you finish something, if your smart goal can help you to improve the connection between you and Almighty God, so whatever you do right now, you will never feel enough during trying something new, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Smart meaning goals

Smart goal gives you perseverance to make progress

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Smart meaning goals", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware about the goal setting's influence, some people just set the goal they desire without knowing about strong reason behind it, as impact, they will feel difficult during process because their goal can't inspire what they do, in order to create smart goal, people must have deadline to monitor the goal, do you know why people need to set the deadline for their goal? Because creating the deadline can prevent a sense of procrastination to grow, as we know having a sense of procrastination can become big obstacle to increase our competent skill, here is the first characteristic of smart meaning goals; it can help us to prevent a desire of procrastination to grow, this strategy really works when we will feel enthusiasm to enjoy the process, if we can't enjoy the learning process, it indicates that we set the wrong goal, if we really want to create smart goal, we have to analyze whether the goal doesn't make us fear or not, if we don't fear accepting new mistake or failure after we make attempt to reach the deadline target, that's smart goal, if the goal setting can make us fear or it doesn't give us peace, it indicates that we want to destroy our confidence, it is not good idea, here is the second characteristic of smart meaning goals; it can help us to unlock our awareness and improve our potential relentlessness, here is the good news; if we can combine between our awareness, potential and other people's problem, three of them can become a new currency for our worthiness.  

Awareness level

  Now, I have question for you; before you want to pursue what you accomplish, you must measure your mental acumen by asking the critical question "Am I ready to receive nothing from what I struggle?", if you aren't ready to accept something which is opposite with your expectation, your conscious mind indirectly destroys your plan because you are too fearful to see about the result, if you have smart goal, it doesn't give you fear, worry or regret although you have failed at many times, here is the third characteristic of smart meaning goals; it doesn't last on short term period, it means, smart goal will run lifelong after that smart goal evokes your potential to create more different result, here is the good news; smart goal doesn't need motivation from other people's influence because smart goal teaches us how to become independent person who possess unique ability to help people's problem, here is the fourth characteristic of smart meaning goals; it will turn into inner peace when you finish something progressively, it means, smart goal will keep you communicating with God once you finish something, if your smart meaning goals can help you to improve the connection between you and Almighty God, so whatever you do right now, you will be blessed by God at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Behavior definition

Good behavior always follows the one clear direction

  Hi, good reader? howdy, welcome back with me, Fian, I hope you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness,  today I would like to share about the topic "Behavior definition", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone wants to adapt with their behavior, many people prefer to pursue what they desire rather than to follow what their behavior wants, meaning, there is big difference between desire and behavior, desire is just a part of illusion / false belief which can give a high pressure to one's mind, whereas, behavior is part of mental state which creates real action which follows one clear direction until its process is done, let me explain to you about the behavior definition; act of realizing what has been started and keep continuing the clear direction until its journey will complete, if you ask me why many people give up to chase their dream because they don't realize that their behavior is totally opposite with their endurance level, besides that, people don't realize that every dream offers a high pressure which demands everyone's mind to pursue it, people who don't improve their endurance level regularly, their behavior tends to avoid what their dream wants, in addition, human's behavior tends to avoid something which offers unpleasant feeling, if we use different perception "there is no difficult term in any career if we love to try something even though we aren't sure to do", our job as human being is not convincing ourselves to finish everything until it is over, our job is ensuring our behavior is in line with the direction we have headed, that's enough, here is my recommendation to you; don't use your focus to pursue something pleasant if you want your behavior is able to attract something bigger than what you imagine, you must do something not because you want to get money or fame, you must have intention to do something useful for dealing with uncertain future, your future investment lies in your knowledge, endurance and awareness, if you use your knowledge, your endurance and your awareness can make a better life for others, your behavior will demand the skill to follow your command and your behavior will help you to manifest what you need in the future.

Sad is caused by poor behavior 

  In order to collect knowledge, awareness and endurance, your must demand your behavior to find a problem which pushes you to solve it, if your behavior just offers comfort, instant pleasure and ease, it indicates you are doing something in the wrong direction, if you just do something based on what you desire, you only get stress, complicated thing and disappointment, you will not get what you want if your endurance and your behavior still can't endure the pressure from your dream, you must start although you don't know about the next process, if you don't know, learn to invest knowledge to your mindset, if you feel incomplete about yourself, it indicates, you lack of endurance, so you need to challenge your comfort zone by doing something inspired or excited, the more you start something you don't know, the more you leave your comfort zone which lies in your capacity, it is wonderful message, right?, God doesn't ask you to do something great, He just wants you to guide your behavior to the God's plan, if you want to know whether you are in the good career or bad one, you just need to look at your fearfulness level, if you are ready to get failure even though it takes your time to adapt with unpleasant thing, meaning, you are on the right track, but if the failure makes you worry / fear after you try something else, meaning, you work in the wrong career, remember; you can't manipulate your deepest feeling even though you want to change it, maybe you can kid other people around you, but you can't kid yourself, your behavior will guide you to fulfill God's destiny if you just use your time, focus and energy to serve what other people need through your assistance, if you are busy to satisfy yourself, your behavior will crush your peace and you will get perplexed with uncertain mental illness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Depression definition

Depression is like overthinking about undefined direction

  Hi, good reader, Howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, Hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Depression definition", the reason why I choose that topic because almost everyone in this world ever got depression, if you ask me why people get depression because they don't know why they must keep surviving and they don't find the meaning of their purpose, depression is always caused by inability to interpret what life wants, depression is not normal mental state, but it is part of degradation of mental state, depression is the consequence from people's misbehavior and misbehavior is the result from poor information we consume, remember this advice; depression is not part of overworking, depression comes from the lack of resource to work better, don't misjudge overworking will cause depression, depression will not come easily when we have strong resourcefulness, a job is not designed to make people depressed because every job is designed to empower human's resource, if there is someone who isn't capable to adapt with his job, meaning, he miscasts a job, in order to reduce depression, we must find a job where it helps us to gain our inner strength because it can attract more happiness, if there is a job which can't deliver a new happiness to you, meanings, you got a wrong job, you must be brave to express your capable hand by doing something where you haven't tried before, remember; duty, excellence and having a noble purpose can bring a joy and meaningful life, here is another note I would like to remind you; every job you pick and your intention must be coherent into each other, if you work just because you need a money or recognition, as impact, your job will bring a lot of stress or depression, if you work because you accept the risk and love with consequence, as impact you will not get disappointed with the money you receive. 

Depression is motivated by lack of resources

  Starting from now, don't compare between what you have and what other people have, based on research; 85% human's mental disorder can bring a lot of diseases, if you feel depressed in your daily routine, it indicates, you have built many expectations to other people's power, if you ask me "what should I do to make my sense of depression is inactive?" you must renew your habit and don't try to repeat something you had done where you were in 5 years ago, the more you do something different, the more you shape a unique character, here is the first strategy how to regain mental health; stop pursuing something which doesn't need your reaction, meaning, you must be alert from something paralyzing, you can block your mind from the activity where it doesn't empower you, e.g. watching TV more than 6 hours, playing online game more than one hour, here is the second strategy how to regain mental health; you have to ensure your activity will be needed by a lot of people out there, the reason why you must do it because other people will give you the power of influence, the more people need your good service, the more you regain your mental health, if you have mental health, you will not get crack under life pressure, here is the third strategy how to regain mental health; stop living in the past, meaning, you dumped your past experience in the past and you start to do something new today, the more you let go something which already happened in the past, the more you get something new today, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Depressive disorder symptoms

Depressive disorder symptoms

 Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Depressive disorder symptoms”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people still don't know between what makes them satisfied and what makes them happy, if you ask me why many people suffer unspecified depressive disorder symptoms because they lack of power to manage self-control, here is my suggestion for people who suffer unspecified depressive disorder symptoms; people must have few expectation and start appreciating whatever they receive from life, “we can't live peacefully on earth by having the general thinking or having the unspecific wants", for example; someone wants to spend their time to go to the school, after they graduate from the school, they stop learning new thing because all they target is how to get the money as much as they can, this is part of general thinking, I would advise you to get out from general thinker's habit because it can create unspecified mood disorder, the main reason why you need to specify your point of view about your life purpose because not all things in this life are suitable for you, in order to save your future life, you must create the long term goal where it can empower your intuition, passion, extreme curiosity, patience and problem you want to solve, those are specific components that can help you to avoid unspecified mood disorder symptoms and also it can help you to find your prowess and vocation.

Unstable emotion is caused by unspecified depressive disorder

 I don’t recommend you "spend your major time to find what makes you happy", but I recommend you "how to find the problem you want to solve as much as you can", do you know why I suggest you find the problem? Because every problem can guide you to meet with the enlightenment, "your real happiness lies into the enlightenment", if you meet with enlightenment every day, it means, you have met with Almighty God's plan, remember this philosophy; “you can't get unspecified mood disorder if you devote to your vocation”, do you know why? Because you have found specified purpose, here's my best recommendation for people who get mood disorder symptoms is "don't be a devoted follower, be a new student every day", we can’t survive on earth if we rely on yesterday's good treatment, life is always full of uncertainty, we must be ready to take what life demands to us, here is the first problem why people get unspecified depressive disorder symptoms; they lack of meaningful goal, we must train our mind and body to find the problem we want to solve, that’s meaningful goal, remember; everything on earth will perish except kindness, if we build a good personality by having meaningful goal, I believe our life journey will be meaningful, here is the second problem why people get unspecified depressive disorder symptoms; they want to be the follower from other people's plan, not being a leader for their own soul, in order to become a soul leader, we must know what makes God happy, not to find what makes us happy, that's the highest purpose in life, if we have highest purpose, we are surrounded by positive energy, if we can apply positive energy into our habit, we will not get unspecified mood disorder symptoms, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Phobia of leaving the house

Hi, good reader, howdy? Today I would like to talk about the interesting topic "Phobia of leaving the house", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people have phobia which is mostly called "agoraphobia", since COVID-19 was spread out, the majority of people don't want to get out from their houses because of COVID-19's pandemic, if we learn more about it, basically what makes COVID-19 getting stronger is our uncontrolled fear which became our reality, that's fact, COVID-19's power is produced by our uncontrolled fear or our poor mental health, based on psychological research; phobia will not grow if we don't give our major attention into it very much or we don't take it as the most important thing in this life, the fearfulness grows in the human’s belief and it is trained by the human’s habit and poor habit usually breeds unproductive attitude as well as bad influence in mentality, if you ask me "is there any possibility to overturn phobia into productive thing?", yes there is possibility, what we can do is enrich our knowledge with high value of information, in my own opinion; knowing about the existence of fear is most concerned, as human being, we can't get rid of the phobia, what we can do is how to break a habit which can connect between phobia and our memory, the fearfulness is getting bigger when we fight it with our hatred feeling.

Sometimes we must become an eye opener and look the situation without regret, that's most important thing, if we judge something with the feeling of regret, as impact, we breed the phobia to grow, before we have the phobia of leaving the house, we must give the big reason to our mentality that there is nothing to be scared and the scare itself is the one should be fearing to us, remember; fear doesn't grow without power, the phobia's power comes from our ignorance towards knowledge, phobia will not grow if we know what makes the phobia is growing, our lacking is the most essential impact, phobia is not the answer to reflect what we lack, but the phobia is the answer of what we feel towards our own self.

the ignorance is the mind killer

 The fearfulness needs the momentum of training to grow like someone who is achieving the career, if we want to achieve good career, we need to know where our fearfulness is going up and going down, that’s law, and the successful people know if they want to achieve good career, they must go outside and do something where it can't be done at home, before the phobia of leaving the house is getting worse, so we must train our emotional feeling by being great listener to listen other people’s experience and we give the incantation, please be mindful of who you let it touch you because energy transfer is real, maybe our incantation is the great cause which can invite the phobia to come

Be faithful with Almighty GOD is the way to exit from everything we pursue in this life

Life is full of uncertainty; not all bad can be turned in the positive side, but not all good can be considered as guidance because we need positive and negative as the perception, so what we need to do now is try to reduce too much expectations towards the phobia and try to face something opposite from phobia, if we can give the phobia with high purpose and sincerity, we indirectly let our phobia to go away, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.  

How to stop being shy

Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome to my blog, Today I would like to discuss about the interesting topic "How to stop being shy", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people's behavior are locked with their own shyness, I am not saying having shyness is bad, but sometimes we need to know that our shy can limit our potential to grow, we look at the society's lifestyle, most of them like to buy something without showing their shyness, but they feel shy when they sell something to the customer, that's ironic attitude, if you ask me why many people are being shy when they realize that growing their career is important because their mindset is blocked with people's belief system, belief system comes from their poor visualization, their fear, their hatred feeling towards life's adversity or life's uncertainty, their low esteem, etc. now the question to you is "what you can do if you have shyness?", remember; having shyness to do kindness is not good, do you know why? because having sense of shyness will block the miracle to change our lives, in my opinion; do kindness will help us to multiple our wealth or increase our inborn skill, whether we like it or not, we must offer something important to the world and let others know what we do, that's life's demand, if we stop doing something good in this life, we only receive something undeserved. 

The first thing you should do if you feel shy is do the research about type of problem you love to do in deep scale and how to make it as your life purpose, this process will take more time to realize, so you can't sit and do nothing, you must find as much as information how to know what you can and what you are enthusiastic with, if you stop evolving inborn specialty which has been endowed by God's granted to you, as impact, you will lose everything, in my humble opinion, you must create a journal and try to dictate your mind by writing down something which can make you feel triggered to do in reality, the first question is "what is my big why if there is nobody will help me to grow?", the second question is "what to do with my big why?", the purpose of that question will drive you to practice your mind by trying something until you feel renewed than before, if you already find your big why, you definitely find a clear purpose

   Remember this note: having a clear purpose is superpower, you can't do something if you stop doing what makes you excited to do, stay focus on your true feeling is the best reflection in this life, if you can't find your self-mirror, you will not find your enthusiasm, Here is The second thing you should do if you feel shy : have contingency plan to rip off your dignity, meaning, you must convince yourself that dignity is part of ego, dignity is not good thing to grow with our lives, dignity is mental block that we must dump in the past, if we have contingency plan, meaning, we have something to struggle and we realize that our lives will get dangerous pressure when we keep growing our dignity, remember; realize something unreal is better than realize something we don't know its impact, sometimes our shyness materializes into dignity and block our enthusiasm to grow, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully you can get something benefit from this article, good luck. 

Types of amnesia after head injury

Amnesia is like a temporary memory loss

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Types of amnesia after head injury", the main reason why I choose that topic because almost everyone in this world has ever experienced with amnesia, at this moment I would like to share about 7 Types of amnesia: 1. Infantile amnesia, 2. Dissociative amnesia, 3. Lacunae amnesia, 4. Transient global amnesia, 5. Blackout amnesia, 6, Retrograde amnesia, 7. Anterograde amnesia, now let me elaborate one by one for you, hopefully my explanation can help you to understand better, 1. infantile amnesia is type of amnesia which is causing a childhood memory loss, if person has ever experienced with infantile amnesia, he will feel difficult to remember the specific event which had happened in his childhood, 2. Dissociative amnesia is type of amnesia which is causing someone can't remember his personal information even it's related to his important past experience, probably he can't remember his personal life, such as hobby, childhood name, childhood friend, etc. 3. Lacunae amnesia is type of amnesia which is causing someone loses his memory randomly, but this type of amnesia doesn't break person's past memory which had happened in short term period, this type of amnesia happens because there's something wrong with limbic system.

Amnesia is causing the lack of focus power

4. Transient global amnesia, this type of amnesia causes someone loses his total memory loss, this type of amnesia is caused by someone who is doing to do something heavier in his activities frequently, 5. Blackout amnesia, this type of amnesia causes someone losing his memory because he consumes alcohol or illegal drugs frequently, so someone can't remember something he said or he felt when he was drunk in the past, 6. Retrograde amnesia, this type of amnesia which causes someone losing his memory because he had got a brain system pain which compels him to get a brain surgery operation at hospital, 7. Anterograde amnesia, this type of amnesia which causes someone to lose his recent memory before he got Anterograde amnesia, this type of amnesia is caused by the disease which is making a brain memory infection, person who ever got Anterograde amnesia, he usually consumes alcohol and the alcohol's side effects causes his memory can't work efficiently, here is the preventive action you need to do is you want to avoid amnesia; you must train your focus to finish something which is considered to be important, the key is self-achievement, if you can increase your self-achievement, your life will help your brain to make a new transformation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Psychogenic amnesia

Memory loss is caused by overwhelming stress

  Hi, good reader, howdy? Welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "psychogenic amnesia", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to help themselves how to get out from psychogenic amnesia, based on the psychological evaluation, there are several symptoms which causes psychogenic amnesia: 1. memory loss of certain time periods, events, people and personal information, 2. a sense of being detached from emotion and self awareness, 3. Having a perception of the people and things around is considered to be unreal and distorted, 4. Feel a blurred sense of identity, this type of amnesia may last for only few minutes, but in rare cases, it can persist for years, someone who gets psychogenic amnesia, he usually receives something scarier from what he stares at, so his face is like someone who is in the state of catatonic trance, people who get this type of amnesia, he may lose his total memory, but he can gain a small piece of his memory when he is guided to go to the favorite thing where he usually gets before he entered in the state of psychogenic amnesia, if we review about this type of amnesia's research, psychogenic amnesia is characterized by a sudden loss of autobiographical memories for the whole of a person's past, in order to help a person who gets psychogenic amnesia, we must bring him to the place where it can remind him to his childhood's place or his childhood's favorite food, or his beloved people's lives.

Psychogenic amnesia is caused by traumatic events

  Starting from now, we must treat the patient who suffers psychogenic amnesia is like a child who is trying to find out what he fond of, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to deal with psychogenic amnesia, here is the first strategy we must do if we meet with someone who suffers psychogenic amnesia: don't remind him to do something heavier than what he never did before, a person who ever got amnesia's record, he isn't allowed to do something which can empower his stress or bipolar emotional, here is the second strategy we must do if we meet with someone who suffers psychogenic amnesia: don't talk about something seriously,  the main reason why we don't need to talk something seriously with someone who gets psychogenic amnesia because a serious talk may hurts his memory, the most important topic is how we can make a person is laughing with our topic or we can make him forget about his traumatic events, if we don't understand how we treat someone who gets psychogenic amnesia, at least we don't let him go to the place where it can remind him to think about the events, basically we must untie him from his past reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Overcoming self consciousness

Self-consciousness is reflecting what you build in yourself

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Overcoming self consciousness" the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize and develop their consciousness, if you ask me why so many people aren't happy even though they are entitled to utilize their own consciousness because they only focus how to make themselves feared, not to focus how to find a deep meaning of their lives, I just to remind you that finding pleasure is not the best option how to make our survival skill is enhanced, we will never get a happy life if we don't give our lives with a noble purpose because life is not designed to make us happy, but life is designed to guide us how to identify about our potential, problem solving skill is designed to make us feeling better and problem is the tool how to improve our consciousness, if there's no problem, we probably won't make something work in reality, happiness lies is the contribution that you have put into your self-awareness until you don't need very much with your contribution, now our duty is how to access our consciousness and habit to embrace discomfort zone in order to access enlightenment, discomfort zone represents hardship, uncertainty and setback.

Self-consciousness is self-awareness

  If we are not sure about what we think, at least we don't destroy our life path by doing something worthless, I don't know what will happen in our future, the only way how to predict future is how to create something we haven't done in our life story, our consciousness is designed to stay guard at the door of our mind, basically our consciousness will develop its strength when don't allow any worthless information to creep into our mind, e.g. gossip, hoax, people's private life, pornography, here is the first strategy how to overcome our self-consciousness: we create the incantation about we will review about what we will have in the future, if we aren't happy now because we invested something which it's not needed by our subconscious mind, here is the second strategy how to overcome our self-consciousness: lock our valuable time by scripting our daily activity, the main reason why we need to do that because our quality of life depends how we are serious to limit our focus and our energy for the right purpose, our life will be worthless if we just let our focus expanding without any direction, when we lose our focus, we automatically drain our energy, that's dangerous, here is the third strategy how to overcome our self-consciousness is stop trying to imitate about someone else's figure and be an actor on your own creation, as we know God creates every human being with uniqueness and authenticity, if we always follow other people's story, we lose our own way how to reach our destiny, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Finding a passion in life

A passion comes from what you persevere

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Finding a passion in life", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't differentiate between finding a passion and finding a pleasure, if we see reality, many people can't differentiate between passion and pleasure, many of them are trapped in misleading belief which drives their habit to do something which can't bring the enlightenment or peace to their soul, remember: soul doesn't need pleasure because every pleasure in this world will lead human's heart into the darkness of life, the more people put their life into pleasure, the more they can't see something enlightened, instead people will make themselves to go into despair zone, in my opinion: finding pleasure will never be able to touch human's potential because pleasure is designed to stop people from doing something productive, whereas, a passion is designed to make human's potential works and fulfill what people really need, based on psychological research: human's passion always needs something which making human to feel unpleasant, e.g. rejection, hardship, setback, if you want to salvage your future, you only need to feed your life with passion which can bring you to go outside from comfort zone.

Gut feelings needs your determination

  If you can survive in discomfort zone at least 1 year of period, I really appreciate your willingness and value your enthusiasm because you put your life in the right direction, in my opinion: life will never be hard for you if you focus how to fulfill your life with the power of love, if you don't know what you need in this life, you just need to follow your intuition and find a passion which can drives you to go out from comfort zone, you can't get the power of love if you aren't willing to go outside from your comfort zone, here is the good news: your passion will be alive once you feed it with a long term new mistake and plus your noble purpose, if what you do now can bring you closer to discomfort zone, meaning, you are on the right track and you will be waited by unlimited power which can make you to be different person because you find your uniqueness and authenticity, remember: there's no power in comfort zone and there's no learning process if you put yourself in comfort zone, when you already pass through a difficult journey in a tough time, you indirectly arrive in the area where God shows something you really need in life, so you don't need to dictate God with your plan, you just need to practice your consciousness by doing something unpleasant and let God works on what you really need in life, remember: nobody will know what they really need in life, if you want to salvage your future, all you need to do is avoid something which can connect you to the instant pleasure or comfort zone, once you arrive in comfort zone, you must prolong your new goal where it can drives you to the discomfort zone again, if you feel disassociated with the majority of people's habit, meaning, you will become 1% person who can get an extraordinary success, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Dealing with anger

Angry expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Dealing with anger”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can deal with anger, some people prefer to create destruction rather than create something which can make them in peace, what people see if they get angry is they consider every obstacle as hurdles, the reason why people see obstacle as hurdles because they don’t want to get blamed for what they can’t or what they don’t know, here is the bad news; when people use their anger to determine something they hate, as result, the whole life story will be fueled with feeling of hatred, if this condition will be repeated, feeling of hatred will become people’s major character, when there is energy comes into people’s attention, the reality will be set in human’s character, this case has related with the power of anger, if people focus on what makes them angry, the reality will make their emotion is not good and their rational thinking will be shut, finally what angry people see is hatred, ashamed and regret, now I recommend you to find something which can make your life is getting appreciated by many people if you want to make your feeling is good, the only way how to reduce a bad impact of anger is stop your activity which can make your emotion is not good and you cab do other activity can make yourself feel the opposite of anger, it means, you do something that makes your life is calm, when you feel calm, at least you can save your future from feeling of hatred.

Angry expression

  Here is the good news if people use a sense of calmness; they will see every obstacle as a stepping stone, when they consider every obstacle is bringing the miracle for them, they can improve their skill set, knowledge and philosophy every time they see obstacle, remember; what we see about the world at the first time is our interpretation, not reality,  I understand that there are many things in the world that can attract our anger, one of them is bad influence, starting from today; we must select the information which has potential to influence us, if there is no good information to serve, we need to do something meaningful, such as kindle yourself with a new productive hobby, remember; it doesn’t matter how many angry people around us, if we don’t put our interest to respond angry people’s reaction, we can master how to deal with anger, it is not easy to deal with anger because we lack of practice by seeing angry people’s reaction, the only way how to stop producing a sense of anger is observing angry people’s reaction and learn what angry people feel, if angry people feel satisfied, it means, they sell their happiness to the hopeless feeling, when hopeless feeling comes, the reality of life will make people feel lonely and distress, here is the last note; a sense of angry is like hereditary illness, once we give our response to angry people’s reaction, we will become the second angry person, if we just show our anger to other people, we will lose our dignity and  people will lose their good attention to us that’s not good idea to upgrade our career, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Signs of depression teenager

Self delusion

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Signs of depression teenager”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many young people realize about warning signs of depression, some teenagers ignore signs of depression because they consider what they do is always right and always benefit for themselves, in fact, many teenagers do something worthless during their youth, e.g. staying up late with friends for chit chat's purpose, playing the online game for making instant gratification, here is my conclusion during observing their daily problem; "young people who idolize their instant pleasure, they indirectly buy the power of darkness to kill their bright future", instant pleasure is the part of darkness, the more people pursue their own darkness, they will never find a way how to get the enlightenment, the power of darkness doesn't like to meet with the power of light, that's metaphor how to represent instant pleasure versus the enlightenment, in order to get out from warning signs of depression, "we must do something where it can attract the enlightenment even though we hate to do about it", that's the key how to stop receiving warning sign of depression, here is the statement you need to ponder; “failure is not part of making people depressed, but lacking of failure is part of making people depressed”, do you know why I say such thing? because every failure always offers new enlightenment, you can't get it from the school education system because school doesn't teach you how to embrace failure, instead school teaches you how to be follower of teacher, starting from now; don't follow an instant pleasure even though you like it to do because instant pleasure always obstructs your mental growth and seal your potential growth, e.g. buying the lottery ticket, smoking the cigarette, playing the money game, playing the online game. here is my suggestion "as long as those activities which I mentioned above can be postponed at least 3 days, your life will not get into dangerous path, if your life do not enter into dangerous path, it means, those activities which I mentioned above have meaningless value".

Build your value as your currency payment

          

 At this moment, I would share some strategies how to make our life is on the right track, hopefully these strategy can keep you away from warning signs of depression and also how to make your life is meaningful, here is the first strategy how to keep you away from sign of depression in youth; don't follow your instant pleasure if it can be postponed at least 3 days, if your life is still okay if you don't follow the instant pleasure, your life will not get depression, in order to make our life is on the right track, we must ensure our daily routine offers us the enlightenment every day, "if our daily activity can't offer enlightenment to us every day, it can be assured that our daily activity will offer us an illusion / instant pleasure/ comfort zone", that ritual is making people get self-delusion, here is the second strategy how to keep you away from sign of depression in youth; you must know how to differentiate between the daily needs and our desire, that's important note, do you know why? Because our life will be in dangerous if we can't differentiate it, if we always follow our desire without prioritizing the daily needs first, our habit will behave like a beggar and burglar because they idolize their desire more than what they really need to survive I believe that there is no single person in the world wants to be a beggar, but most people predict their future by doing like a beggar's habit, they risk their life by fulfilling their own desire rather than fulfilling the daily needs, starting from now, here is the third strategy how to keep you away from sign of depression in youth; don't look for a high price stuff to get other people's compliment, but look for what's usable for your condition, if you always buy something for getting other people's compliment, you will live like a prisoner, if you have kid right now, maybe you can apply this article to educate your kids for saving their future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Someone is depressed

Depressed expression

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Someone is depressed”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped into signs of depression, some people consider every new change causes chaotic mind in the rush hour, it is not true, chaotic mind is caused by lack of concentration during pursuing a clear goal, if we use different perception about this case, "problem has no ability to create chaotic mind", every problem can't destroy people's life because human's brain system is designed to make an option to people to survive, if there are people consider chaotic mind causes sign of being depressed, it means, their capacity can't interpret about what's happening to their lives, in order to end up sign of depression; we must find out some meaning in the human's suffering, we can't eliminate a sense of suffering within us unless we change our tradition first, the law of cause and effect says "human will reap what they sow" it means, we can't reject reality because reality comes after we have sown something into our habit long time ago, e.g. tradition, lifestyle, the main reason why sign of depression comes to us because we try to escape from what we commit and we try to control something we can't, if we aren't ready to get consequence from what we commit, at least we must find alternative option to prevent any bigger risk because we have no ability to change reality, "we don't need to argue about what we are incapable of, what we need to prepare is how to make our capacity is capable to welcome what's coming to us, not what's leaving us", in order to reduce the pain or suffering is shorten your fantasy and start to serve a greater power which has been destined for you, e.g. you create a masterpiece to answer the problem where most people have or you find something valuable until passion chooses you to work at something priceless.

Depressed person has mixed emotions

          

 If you are too obsessed about your desire, you will lose your peace, wisdom, insight and the benefit within your capacity because you lack of maximizing your potential to solve meaningless existence in this life, before you pursue your desire, you need to work on your potential first because your potential will buy something worthy for your life, remember; potential is like the water, if you use it properly, you will get benefit from it, if you don't use it, you will die because you dehydrate, as long as the water stays inside in your physical body, you have opportunity to solve meaningless existence in the future in order to save your life as well as other people's, here is the good news; if you work on your potential, you will see something never seen, you will feel something never felt and you will receive something unexpected, from this statement, I conclude that we must accept what's destined for us because God knows better than what we know, here is the special note; Almighty God plans based on what you left in your life history, if you aren't satisfied about what you get now, it indicates you still have a mission to pass, please don't wait your feeling to change to take action, you have to take action first and your feeling will tell you about what's best for you, if you can’t make a better world for other people's lives, at least you don’t hurt yourself by surrounding yourself with fantasy and expectation, Greek philosopher says “if you want to live happily, you must have a few expectation”, the main reason why having a few expectation is good because a few expectation can clear our mind from something we don't deserve in the future, besides that, not all expectations are designed to make us live happily, 85% of expectation is fantasy and 15% is possibility, the reason why some people need the fantasy because they think they are incapable of in doing something good, if you want to possess something magnificent in your life, leave the tradition which can block your potential to grow, serve your high spirit and don't let your desire controls your habit because habit is the only way how to prophesy your future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.     

Competent person training

Competence lies in what you discipline to potential

   Hi good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, I hope you always have the abundance of health, wealth, and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Competent person training", the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize their competence, if you ask me the obstacle which can make people can't recognize their competence because it is being caused by profit-oriented mindset, here is the main reason why profit-oriented mindset is very bad for your mindset because profit can lock your mental growth once you want to look for another opportunity and profit is not having ability to develop your ingenuous skill, I don't say you don't need a profit when you work in career you choose, what I mean is you shouldn't focus on profit if you want to build competent skill because building a skill needs strategic focus on one specific target, progressive action and perseverance, if you just prioritize how to get profit first at the first step, your skill will not grow as you expect because building a skill is totally opposite with what profit offers to your emotional intelligence, you must beware about profit because it simply offers a sense of satisfaction to you temporarily and it doesn't offer self-improvement at all in your career, sometimes you need to pay yourself with time, energy and focus if you want to build competent skill, from the data research; you can't achieve something great when your skill doesn't support in what you aim, your skill will not grow rapidly if you put your skill into the amount of profit because every skill needs mental adaptation with new problem you are going to deal with it, remember; competence comes from what you commit to your job even though there is nobody else will give you a credit, competence will grow if you do something not because you are motivated by profit you will get in the future, competence grows from self-awareness about a life problem which disturbs your core belief and your deepest curiosity.

Competence is not luck, it is part of self sufficient

  Starting from now, please don't too focus to pursue profit if you want to develop competent skill, profit will find you automatically when you succeed to develop competent skill in long period of time, that's part of God's guarantee, the reason why not many people want to pursue competent skill because they consider building a skill needs several years to grow, besides that, they must endure pain of uncertainty and pain of fear, remember this advice; people who are not willing to adapt with uncertainty, they are unable to adapt with a big problem which needs competent skill, only trusted person who is able to run competent skill, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to be competent person, hopefully it can give you encouragement to do something better in your career, here is the first strategy you need to do if you want to be competent person; you must be willing to compete against your ego, meaning, you must do something new every time your ego whispers you to stop what you develop, if you just follow and listen what your ego tells you, it indicates you can't compete against your ego, whether you like it or not, ego always whispers something bad for you, ego can't motivate you to become a competent person, that's your challenge, here is the second strategy you need to do if you want to be competent person; you must focus on your purpose, not the result, meaning, you must focus to develop about your potential if you want to grow together with what you aim, if you stop doing something just because you don't get profit, as result, your potential will not grow rapidly, instead, you only get stress and desperate because you don't get reward which you are supposed to get from what you do in your potential, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.