Why am i slowly losing interest in everything

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Why am I slowly losing interest in everything”, the main reason why I choose that topic because recently many people slowly losing interest, if you ask me why people can lose their interest because they tend to look for something enjoyable and they can't adapt with unpleasantness, this phenomenon often happens in reality when people can't stand with uncertainty and also they aren't ready with something enlightened, remember; life doesn't ask us to succeed at something we are interested with, life only asks us to prepare the mental factory which isn't developed yet, the meaning of the mental factory is we must unlock our infinite power which resides in our soul and we need to spend out some efforts to detect our interest from the outer world, as we know that there is two kind of the world; the inner world and outer world, the inner world covers imagination, commitment, characteristic, faith, mentality, curiosity, intention, habit, attitude, whereas, the outer world covers knowledge, experience, mistake, failure, rejection, pleasure, now let me tell you the basic reason what makes people lose their interest is they don't know what's the function of the interest, had people known the function of the interest, they can multiple their inborn skill in reality, what people need to trigger their interest in the problem which lies in this world.

        Enthusiasm is one of the big factor how to empower the human’s potential, the more often people use their enthusiasm, the more people will get something beyond their expectation, now the question; how long can you defend your enthusiasm? The reason why I give you question such thing because not all people can defend their enthusiasm, some people sell their enthusiasm for short term desire and short term purpose, the main cause why people lose their enthusiasm easily because people are too obsessed about the benefit where it can be obvious seen, besides that,  they can't stand with the learning process, in fact, enthusiasm is one of the most important human resource which can support people to empower their interest in reality, remember; human's interest will not be active if there is no deep curiosity, so we need to trigger our curiosity with the painful experience, such as failure, mistake and brokenhearted, failure will never touch success if there is no enthusiasm, don’t let your enthusiasm is gone, in order to find your enthusiasm, you just need to find your gift from finding as much as information you can collect, you must keep searching your gift and work to what you love, here is the key; when you put your love to the job / career you have picked, your enthusiasm will help you to pass the failure and create your own masterpiece which can promote your excellent ability, here is the additional note; you must feed your enthusiasm with the problem which is making you interested, if you want your life is full of blessings, don't let the comfort zone is holding you back from growing self, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Confidence building activities

         Hi good people, howdy? welcome back to my blog, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Confidence building activities”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes how to choose the activity which can increase their confidence, if you ask me why not everyone can feel high self-esteem because many of them choose the activity which can't offer high self-esteem, the key how to build confidence or self-esteem is people must choose activity which can build confidence, for example; reading the book, do the physical exercise, create the masterpiece, develop your personal character by doing something more than you can do, practice the communication skill, have good reputation, have credibility, integrity, have the adaptation skill to new environment, etc. those are human's virtues, Now the question is "how much virtue you can apply to yourself?" if you just have one or two things from human's virtue, you will lose your potential and you will have low self-esteem, remember; not all activities can build confidence, you have to ensure that the activity you choose can make you perspired and give you uncomfortable feeling in the learning process, if your activity only makes you comfort and too relax, meaning, you face the wrong path, "there is no mental growth if there is no learning process", that's point how to build confidence.

        Now, my question to you is "what will you do if you lose your confidence? remember; the frequency from what you do will make big difference for your future career, if you just do little thing for short period of time, it won't make big difference even though you work hard, basically there is no overnight success how to build self-esteem, there must be needing a huge sacrifice to build self-esteem, e.g. time length, repetition, discipline in time, strong commitment, relentless drive, unrelenting faith, remember; time will never forget how to calculate your action, your time will calculate everything you do, there is no excuse for you not trying something new because you will never know what's exact time your confidence level is increasing, at this moment I would like to share some several factors which can develop human's confidence, here is the first factor what makes human is confident: knowledge, it is difficult to obtain knowledge because we need special courage and commitment for longer period of time, if we have knowledge, other people will give us credit when we can solve other people, here is the second factor what makes human is confident: love what they do from the bottom of heart, I think the power of love can empower human's perception, as long as people love what they do, their confidence is increasing exponentially and it will never immobilize human's action, here is the third factor what makes human is confident: discipline in what they do, the main reason why discipline can give an huge effect because discipline can offer the exponential power to human being, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Art of problem solving

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Art of problem solving”, the reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to use art of problem solving, if you ask me why people behave like that because people’s mentality are weaker when the problem comes to them, they prefer to stay in comfort zone rather than challenge themselves to do something new, as human being, we shouldn't consider every problem like the enemy, the real problem lies in our attitude, not the problem itself, problem is neutral, problem can poison you if you try to avoid it and problem can heal your suffering when you are serious to study it, the main cause why problem can make people upset because people use single perspective area and reject to another view from a multifaceted perspective, that’s real problem, remember this; problem is designed not to curse every single person’s life story, but problem is designed to fix human’s mindset, however, problem doesn’t need to be solved by human, problem will end by itself when we have enhance our mindset from wrong mindset, here is the truth; every problem has own weight, problem will not come exceeding than every single person’s capacity, so when problem comes around, we shouldn’t make judgment bad easily because the problem we faced is accumulated based on what we are capable of, problem knows what we need and the same problem will not attack us when we have passed the same level of problem before, the purpose of problem is increasing our survival skill, if we reject the problem’s existence, means, we insult what God’s plan for us, the problem is inability to increase our lacking capacity.

       Problem will not come unless you are being prepared by God to be ready how to face new situation, that’s reason why making good preparation in long period of time is very important because making good preparation can increase your mental strength, remember; the problem's value can't be exchanged with the money's value you have, if you measure your ability based on the amount of money you will receive, problem will not fix your mindset, please learn how to get temperance when you receive the amount of money, money doesn't care whether you are capable or not, money would be pleased when you stop learning and stay in complacency zone for long period of time, so please don’t fit your ability with the amount of money, if you do it, your mentality isn’t growing, remember this note; if you want to change your life, don’t consider making good preparation is part of waste of time, but making good preparation is part of daily life necessity, if you reject your preparation, you would no longer surviving on earth, you must have the passion of learning because it is the basic ability how to prolong the survival skill and how to reduce the pain of regret.

       If we feel problem will hurt us, so problem will hurt us, if we feel challenged by the problem, whatever problem will become our spiritual teacher, the more we learn something we are passionately, the more we can use a multifaceted perspective to welcome the problem, please don’t let the negative thing overtaking our potential of skill-set, sometimes problem will make us feeling down, but it’s good because life wants us to be eye witness to see about the new reality, if the problem can’t make us feeling down, means our mental strength is getting ahead of the problem’s capacity, remember this; if you don’t get problem, you will never know how much progress you have made so far in your life story, every problem is investment, not all problems can be avoided, maybe you can avoid the big problem but you will never win to avoid small problem which it lies in your soul, in my opinion; when you use your multifaceted perspective towards problem, so the problem will turn into opportunity by itself, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to have a strong mindset

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to have a strong mindset”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people feel distressed when they meet with something that burden their mind, if you ask me why people feel burdened because they don’t possess strong mindset, if people feel like that in long term game, as impact, they will get something that makes them more stressed easily, if you ask me why people get stressed easily because they don't build strong mindset, in this article I will recommend you about 3 basic components how to shape strong mindset, the first component I called “reading the situation”, the second component is “train what you go through every day” and the third component is “Leave a legacy for your capacity”, if we don’t focus on three components that I mentioned, we will never know what we are supposed to do on earth, the worst situation is we don't recognize our strength and weaknesses, now I will share to you about 6 signs how to have strong mindset, here is the first strategy how to have strong mindset; you don't run away from reality, means, you don't feel regret about what you do and you choose to be responsible what you do till the end, here is the second strategy how to have strong mindset; You embrace new problem, that second part is challenging because not everyone is willing to embrace new problem, here is the good news; if you try to challenge yourself, your life will be no boring because your mindset will adapt with the pressure and your maturity will grow up exponentially.

          

         Here is the third strategy how to have strong mindset; you don’t focus on what you can’t control, this is part of strong evidence that you have faith about what you control and you let Almighty God controls what you can’t control, this is not easy method because most people I know, they try to control everything around them, no wonder if they can get stressed easily because they don't know what they control and what they can't control, the more we focus to something we control, the more we get closer to the progress, the more we focus to something we can't control, the more we get closer to depression state, here is the fourth strategy how to have strong mindset; you solve other people’s problem although you still have own problem,  this is kind of sense of caring, this character is not easy to do because most people care about their beloved people, such as family, comrade, etc. but if you apply this strategy within your daily habit, you will be able to receive something more than what you expect, here is the fifth strategy how to have strong mindset; you are willing to take calculated risk, means, you are not making aggressive action, instead, you are ready to take the risk and you show your best performance even though you may get the possibility of failure, people who dare to take calculated risk, means, they are ready to take huge profit when they can take calculate risk, remember; life's challenge doesn't intend to make you loss, but it intends to promote your capacity to get big responsibility, here is the sixth strategy how to have strong mindset; you don't fear of failure, this attitude teaches us how to stay patience because not all circumstance in life can follow what we want, remember this; fear is not something we need to fear, instead we should fear if we don't do something when the world needs something, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Faith without action is dead

The circle of faith to problem

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Faith without action is dead”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is aware about the power of faith and the power of action, both are the ultimate power where it can serve human's need, both can't be separated, for your information; they can do something more than human do physically, here is what I believe, "if there is no faith, human will not take action at all", if human just believe something without being attached with action, meaning, human create self-doubt about what they believe, that's dangerous, if human feel doubt, they will never take action even though they are offered with many advantages", so faith is representing who we are and what we become so far, if we realize we can't live without faith, so we must build the power of faith through imagination, guts and reason, remember; imagination will not empower human's power of faith if they don't add a big reason and guts into it, we will not get a better life if we lack of reason, lack of will, lack of guts and lack of knowledge, now we can ponder a bit about when the power of faith and the power of action that have existed into reality, if there is question "if people do misbehavior and immoral, what they do is getting motivated by their belief system?" the answer is yes of course, belief system is contained by the information people collect for their mind, if people do something immoral or ruthless, meaning, people's belief system is contaminated with toxic mindset, toxic relationship and toxic reference.

       Remember; we can't take action if we don't fill our soul with the power of faith with new resource, e.g. knowledge, skill, willingness, the strong reason to do, clear purpose and commitment, even though the job sounds easy to do, but it is easy not to do, do you know why because we need to detach ourselves from ego, e.g. laziness, know it all, judgmental ego, shyness ego, the biggest enemy is ourselves, not other people out there, sometimes we need to challenge ourselves whether we want to survive and feel hurt or we give up and feel regret, if we want to win the competition against ourselves, so we need to feel fucking hurt in mentality, physicality and spiritual realm, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to grow our faith, here is the first strategy how to grow the power of faith; we need to set goal, the reason why we need to set goal because it can make us easier to focus and do the best, if there is no goal, our faith will wander in the unknown direction,  here is the second strategy how to grow the power of faith; we keep practicing the skill we believe until it is matched with our character, this strategy helps us to test our enthusiasm and our intuition, sometimes we need to take repetition the ritual to know about our capacity, here is the third strategy how to grow the power of faith; we need to step out from the comfort zone, the reason why we need to step out from the comfort zone because faith will not grow if there is no mental suffering, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life career, good luck.  

How to sell yourself in an interview

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to sell yourself in an interview”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows how to sell their ability when they work at company, in this article I would share several tips how to sell yourself in an interview before you are accepted at the company, here is the first tip how to sell yourself in an interview; try to search about the company product, the main reason why you need to know about the company product or the product knowledge because it can make the interviewer is very surprised or impressed at the first time, remember this note; if you are willing to research about the company's product, meaning, you put your biggest attention to learn about it, if you can show your expertise with the company product's knowledge during the interview, you will get the extra point because you can show what other candidates do not do like you, here is the second tip how to sell yourself in an interview;  you offer your demonstration about the achievement you made in the past to the interviewer, if you can show your achievement even though one or two things that you made in the past, I am positive you will get something more experience if you are accepted at the company.

        Here is the second tip how to sell yourself in an interview; give the answer where it can make the interviewer is surprised, meaning, you can add the study case as your answer to the question is offered to you, please don't give the ambiguous answer when you want to answer the question, if you want to get extra point, you can offer the question "is there anything else you want to know from me?" if you can let them curious about your knowledge until the interviewing time is prolonged, meaning, the interviewer is impressed about your knowledge, the more they are curious about your knowledge, the more you can get a chance to get accepted at the company, the main reason why you need to behave such thing because this strategy can help you to increase your reputation at the first glance, here is the third tip how you sell yourself; share your vision to the interviewer about your mission, that's strategy can give you a new currency if you succeed it, even though it takes more time during interview process, I am sure the interviewer will not regret about it because you show your caring about the company future's vision, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

7 qualities of a healthy relationship

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “7 qualities of a healthy relationship”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples are trapped in toxic relationship and they don't know how to get out from the toxic relationship, so in this article I would share about several qualities of a healthy relationship, hopefully it can give your relationship is better than before, here is the first quality of a healthy relationship; giving the benefit, not taking the benefit, meaning, we only focus how to give the benefit to our spouse, if we don't give something that our spouse needs, meaning, there is no love, if there is no love, there is not trust, if you or your spouse can’t trust each other, meaning, your relationship is no longer bringing good fortune in the future, here is the second quality of a healthy relationship; keep building quality time, means you and your spouse show caring,  attention and merits, when you and your spouse can understand how to give quality time, I am very optimistic that your relationship will be fine, here is the third quality of a healthy relationship : give the compliment to spouse, I think every couple must need compliment because it can help people to reduce ego. giving the compliment means giving the detail attention to spouse. 

      Here is the fourth quality of a healthy relationship : friendliness, means, you and your spouse will not feel sorry when there is friendliness, this strategy also will bring good fortune when it is being nourished together, if your relationship can make warm relationship, you and your spouse will not feel regret to stay together although there is problem ahead, here is the fifth quality of a healthy relationship : integrity, this character can’t happen in short period of time, the learning process may take at least 5 years to strengthen the relationship, integrity is not talking about accepting your spouse’s weaknesses, but how to prolong your spouse's endurance skill, here is the sixth quality of a healthy relationship : loyalty, I think every couple must have this kind of character, when there is no loyalty, there is only nightmare within relationship, remember this; building loyalty is like making the personal branding to what they build in business, when there is person can’t show his loyalty in relationship, means he insults himself, here is seventh quality of a healthy relationship : building the same dream, means, you and your spouse are willing to grow together with the same dream, I think every couple needs this strategy, when you and your spouse can't build the same dream, it will raise the conflict in long period of time, furthermore, there will be a lot of misunderstanding unexpectedly in every life moment if every human's relationship doesn't build the same dream, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

How to train yourself to be more disciplined

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to train yourself to be more disciplined”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t motivate themselves to be more disciplined in what they do, if you ask me why not many people can't apply disciplined in their lives because they can't hold the pain, besides that, they want to live comfortable in daily basis, based on psychology, "people who are more disciplined than other people who aren't disciplined, they are strong enough to face adversity and more confident than people who aren't disciplined in daily basis", in this article I would give you several tips how to train yourself to be more disciplined, here is the first tip how to train yourself to be more disciplined; you must take higher responsibility than what you usually do in daily basis, means, you challenge yourself to solve as much as problem you can get from other people, this step is not easy because it will create self-doubt once you start at the first time, here is the good news: the more you care to solve problem, the stronger you become, if you ask me why many people aren't strong enough to face new problem because they don't train themselves how to solve other people's problem, instead, they avoid problem, if you want to increase your inner capacity, you must take higher responsibility and do what you are interested with, if you put the problem you love as your main goal, your body will adapt with the pain of struggle and you will see yourself as hard working person.

      Here is the second tip how to train yourself to be more disciplined; remind yourself that every opportunity can’t be waited by your desire, so you need to prepare your craft as if your craft were be waited by other people, if we live in this world without preparation, we plan to crush our future, remember this; good luck will happen when opportunity and preparation are met together in the right time, don't let the good luck waits you, let your luck pursues you, encourages you and let it shapes you in good quality, your main job as human being is keep enduring to what you pursue, you must ensure what you pursue is empowering you, here is the third tip how to train yourself to be more disciplined; you must become a future oriented person, meaning, you don't look back about your past, rather you focus how to make your future career is making you impressed, if you don't apply discipline right now, you only create the same story as yesterday, here is the fourth tip how to train yourself to be more disciplined; scare yourself that nobody will help you in the future if you do nothing, means, you must rely yourself when you want to do something big, if you don't scare yourself with your unpleasant experience, your fear will grow and your potential will lessen, I am sure you will work harder than before and you apply disciplined action because you want to avoid the punishment that makes you scared, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

What is a knowledge base

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What is a knowledge base”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone considers knowledge is power, some people think knowledge is for ignorant, it is not quite right, life is designed to give what we deserve and life is not giving what we want, if you ask me what's a knowledge base? the answer is new experience because every knowledge base comes from new experience, furthermore, the real education can't grow without new experience, remember this; if there is no new experience, there is no worthy lesson from what human learn,  life is not something we can do repeatedly, we must do something new because life is long term journey, life will be shorted if we just do the same thing again and again, if we can't extend our life journey, our capacity will not grow as well because we tend to avoid the risk and pain, there is nothing we can do as long as our life journey is short, we need to extend our knowledge base, meaning, we need to find new experience where most people tend to avoid to do it, experience comes from failure, rejection, pain and betrayal.

        Knowledge is just the switch where it is used to open a sense of enthusiasm, we can’t create better life by losing enthusiasm, our future will not change when we haven't increased our paradigm's frequency, now here is the question, "how someone keeps increasing his paradigm frequency?", he must adapt with his unpleasant experience from time to time until his paradigm frequency can harmonize with the universe's law, as long as someone doesn't want to taste an unpleasant experience, he will lose his dignity, lose his reputation, and lose his confidence, remember this; human future is not accumulated based on how many hours people have worked, but human future is accumulated based on how much value they bring to the marketplace and how much problem they solved, now let me give you another clue; your existence and the lifestyle you have now came from the type of knowledge you have collected so far, your knowledge can determine the moment of life where you can't reject to receive, please don't be lazy to increase your knowledge because knowledge you have can be used to create the personal branding, credibility, integrity, self-worth, etc. if you want to get new future hope, you need to work in the darkness area, means you must adapt in adversity, uncertainty and a lot of pain for long time period, remember this note; there is no problem can kill human, only ignorance can kill human, knowledge base is created to ensure human will not underestimate the risk which may come at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

How to start writing a story

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to start writing a story”, the main reason why I choose that topic because writing a story is part of understanding oneself, as we know many people want to understand themselves, unfortunately not many people can realize whether what they do is part of self-awareness or self-fulfilling prophecy, in order to reveal our own mind's work, we need to start writing a story, what I mean is not writing like what people write in the novel, but it is like journaling something with relaxing mode, at the first time, we need to recall about "having an experience since childhood", in the childhood, we need to review about what we had done in the past and review about what we hadn't accomplished in the past, it takes a lot of time, at this time we need to write down about the experience when we were enthusiast to do in the childhood, maybe it could be reading book, watching the movie, going to the child's playground, rekindling a hobby, so, if you feel connected with your past moment, you expressed how you feel as free as you could into the writing mode, wrote down what you receive from that moment, wrote down what you contribute from that moment, make a draft as if you were not making a mistake at all.

      

      After you make a story draft, you can start to select the year of experience when you made at the first experience, you can add the date, the month, the year into the detailed point, e.g. you start to write down when you play football at the first time, you can write down 10 October 1995, at the Bung Karno stadium, you can mentioned your friends name when you joined with them at the friendly match tournament, you can draw your imagination as far as you can, please start writing down as comfort as possible, when you finish something in your activity, you start to write down the moment you played the football at that time, maybe you can attach people who you admire, you can attach the team who win the game at that time or you attach the team who lose the game, after that, you can write down the painful experience when you were kid, e.g. when you practiced the bike at the first time, you can tell the story when fell down from the bike, you can tell "what you do feel after you were waking up from falling down", remember this note; in order to make a good story, you must write down your emotional content 85%, the fact 10% and the moment 5%, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

10 negative emotions

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “10 negative emotions”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can get out from negative emotions easily, in this article I will discover about 10 types of negative emotions, I hope you will stay alert about it, here is the first type of negative emotions; perfectionism, the main reason why we should avoid perfectionism because it’s trying to influence people's mind to stop improving their potential, if we look at reality, every day there is something we don't know, especially new problem and science, in order to avoid being ignorant in the future, we must survive and grow our potential in order to prevent the crisis which can come at any time, here is the second type of negative emotions; slander other people's name, this attitude is supposed to be avoided by us because it can’t give negative reaction to what human do in daily activity, this attitude is like the virus where it can kill the human’s potential unknowingly, besides that, slander people's name can instill new chaos in human's relationship, here is the third type of negative emotions; self-doubt, I think everybody agrees self-doubt has potential to immobilize human's creativity because this attitude can create the mental block to human’s brain system, if they build self-doubt, everything around them looks alike the enemy of shadows.

       Here is fourth type of negative emotions; fear of unknown, this attitude shouldn’t be applied in daily activity because it can remove new hope, we would better to prepare negative anticipation rather than keep overreacting about something out of control, we must know what to do and what not to do rather than we try to respond something we should neglect it, here is the fifth type of negative emotions; sense of worry, this attitude is not good because it’s trying to reject reality quicker than using real time calculation, worry changes nothing except it destroy the human's mental health, 50% sense of worrying will not change everything, instead it will burden the human's mental health, "the more we worry something, the more we lose our confidence", we can't reject reality when we aren't ready to welcome unexpected thing, in order to face reality, we need to upgrade our power of perception because it can free us from misunderstanding, here is sixth type of negative emotions; complaining, this attitude is not good because it will steal your power of focus, you need to learn how to unlearn this attitude because complaining starts destroying everything we build, here is the seventh type of negative emotions;  trying to control everything, we should avoid this attitude because it will create a panic attack, as human being, human can't control everything unless we control our character, perception and habit, here is the eighth type of negative emotions; too proud with the achievement, this attitude is not good because it will make human's creativity is not growing drastically, here is the ninth type of negative emotions; self-righteousness, this attitude is not good because it will create mind block and self-arrogance, if our mindset is not growing, we must check what we build in our character, maybe self-righteousness is the major factor which can block our potential to grow, here is the tenth type of negative emotions; overthinking, this attitude can evoke depression, we must write down what we think if we want to reduce the impact of overthinking, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Adventure life cruises

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Adventure life cruises”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can enjoy their life journey, if you ask me why not everyone can enjoy their life journey because they consider what they feel so far is more painful than having sense of happiness, it is not always true if people give opinion such thing, life is like cruise, we need to adapt with the life journey which there is something unpleasant in the journey, e.g. high sea wave, wind pressure, thunder, raining, basically we don't have much options if we are facing in the reality, if reality doesn't show something we expect, we initially go back in the previous plan and start to remake the plan until it is harmonized by reality, we don't need too much plan in this life, what we need is how to adapt with negative expectation, that's the most important thing, as human being, we can't change reality, but we can change what we think, what we feel and what we do, if we reject what reality manifests, as impact, we will be reality's enemy and we will lose our vision to see a good opportunity, beautiful life is talking about adventures, meaning, we will pass through from moment to moment and we will never get the same thing again like we got in the past, if we get the same thing again and again, meaning, we don't create habit revolution, instead, we create the unproductive habit. 

      Let me remind you that life will not give direction to us until we give the direction to our lives, creating purpose is not easy to do because we need to gain some knowledge and also we need to leave our comfort zone which is offering a limiting belief, as human being, we need to renew our belief system until there is nothing stopping our deepest curiosity which wants to know more towards the mysterious of life, sometimes life will give us the cloud or mist in order to test our capacity whether we want to grow more or not, remember; life will never stop giving us problem until we are stronger than the size of problem, the more success we get, the more stress we must endure, please don't ever think life will not give us problem even though we are considered by other people as smart person, you and I are like the captain of the ship, whereas, GPS which is installed on the ship is considered as kind of faith, our duty as the captain of the ship is combining between what we believe, what's our good at and what we are headed, that's the simple word how to make adventure life cruise in real life, if we don't become the captain in this life, at least we become the crew who give a good support to someone who has glorious purpose, even though we will never know what will happen in the future, but if we activate GPS, we will not get lost because our calm feeling can represent the direction, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Psychology of perfectionism and anxiety

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Psychology of perfectionism and anxiety”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people become the victim of perfectionism and anxiety, if you ask me why many people build perfectionism and anxiety because people create the program where it can burden a lot for their capacity, if the capacity considers what human talk is impossible or difficult to do, the brain system will give negative reaction for self-defense, here is the note; anxiety is related with perfectionism and the cause of anxiety is coming from the perfectionism's side effect, at this moment, I will share about several reasons why people who possess perfectionism, here is the first reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism creates fixed mindset, when someone has fixed mindset, his thoughts will make himself to stop learning more, as long as person applies fixed mindset into his daily life, he will never care about his own blind spot / weaknesses, as we know together that every life’s movement is dynamic, if people are unable to be dynamic person or self-adapter, they will never be able to adapt with new situation or new condition in a long period of time, here is the second reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism tends to reject new idea or wisdom, please beware about perfectionism because it always offers something limited or irrational thinking, if people love to keep conformed with easiness, their potential can't help them to fight against the life crisis, when their potential doesn't grow, their thoughts can't stand against the life crisis, as result, a life crisis will keep people stressed easily, in my opinion; people must stay open-minded and being a progress maker if they want to create better life because every progress will remove all frustrations which it has been created by perfectionism.

      Here is the third reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism influences person not to take risk, means, perfectionism always rejects the risk because perfectionism considers the risk is real enemy where it can destroy the comfort zone, if people reject new risk, means, they will reject a new chance to make better life, remember this; if there is no risk, there is no new chance, if there is no new chance, there is no progress, if there is no progress, there is no future, if there is no future, the crisis will destroy everything what people have, here is the fourth reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism steals someone’s creativity, please stay alert with perfectionism because it can hid your creativity, if your creativity is not evolving, you will be treated like the life's victim where you will be forced to live poor or inadequate, here is the fifth reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism hates something new, do you know why perfectionism behaves such thing because perfectionism is static, it feels there is none incomparable with anything else, this attitude will influence person to stay perfect, when this condition becomes habit, a perfectionist will do something the same again and again.

      Here is the sixth reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism hates critic or advice, if people hate to get advice or critic, people aren't willing to adapt with high pressure in this life, as impact, people will receive sense of anxiety when people don't want to grow better, here is the seventh reason why perfectionism can cause anxiety; perfectionism blockades any possibility means, perfectionist will never accept God's plan, as result, if people hate about God's plan, there is no better future anymore, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.