Habit forming behavior

 

        Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Habit forming behavior”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people realize about type of behavior they have built, some people just do something based on what they repeatedly did in the past, if you ask me why people prefer to repeat what they did in the past to be presented at this time rather than they try something they have never done before, it is about mindset, habit is the key how to determine who we are becoming in the future, remember; good behavior is not created by itself, it is shaped by good habit and good behavior is accumulated between repetition and willingness to feel the pain, so we can conclude that good behavior can't be created from poor habit, and poor behavior can't be created from good habit, that's the law of cause / effect, based on psychological research; habit will create behavior when habit's speed has been calculated at least 7 days (24 hours * 7 days = 168 hours), so behavior is part of result, not the middle of process, if we think our behavior is not good, meaning, we have built bad habit in several years ago, maybe you want to know about what's type of bad habit that can influence someone's mind to create bad behavior, here is the first bad habit that can influence people's mind to create bad behavior; the low value of information, meaning, people just consume whatever information they get without selecting the quality of information itself, in my opinion, the inability to select the quality of information is really horrible for someone who survives on earth, do you know why I say such thing because having inability to select any information indicates that someone has not worth thing or someone has nothing to be proud of.


Running away from problem indicates someone's behavior is fear


 As human being, we must treat ourselves like the king, meaning, we intend to add some good values to ourselves, it could be new knowledge, new experience for getting new failure, new insight from other people's experience, if we want to get better life, we must consume some information that majority of people can't have it, the reason why we must consume the information privately because to prevent other people to know more about our private life, if people know about our private life, other people will try to get our weaknesses and they will make our weaknesses as the deadly weapon for us, basically there is no instant process how to get good behavior, we need to build productive habit which needs 21 days in probationary period, if we realize our behavior is not line with our faith and good intention, meaning, there is something wrong with our ideology, the first question we can ask to ourselves is "what type of habit that I consume every day?", so we need to make a list, the main problem why we have poor behavior because it comes from the low value of information we consume every day, here is the second bad habit that can influence people's mind to create bad behavior; feel safer all the time in any circumstance, meaning, we only prioritize our behalf and we don't care at all about what other people feel, if we feel safer all the time, we build fixed mindset and we tend to utilize other people's help to serve what we need, that's egoism, here is the third bad habit that can influence people's mind to create bad behavior; behave omniscient / know it all, this kind of habit is showing up to when we don't intend to add new experience and we deliberately want to lack of survival skill, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Work life balance

 

          Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Work life balance”, the reason why I choose that topic because I want to show you about the greatest masterpiece on earth and how to understand the most important thing in life, when we were child, we had been taught how to get smarter and get good grade, especially when we were studying at school, the education system was taught by teachers to students not to make many mistakes because the education was designed to create sense of perfectionism, but if we take a look in reality, life doesn't teach such thing, it’s contradiction, right?, The reason why the education system teaches student how to behave perfection because creating an ego, in the school, every student is designed to memorize something repeatedly and they will not be taught to learn something new as if students are taught to fear about mistake, remember this; thinking without learning, it will bring more terrible vice, whereas, learning without rethinking the process, it will bring more pride and satisfaction only, the main point; we must not stop learning about new thing although we have learned something, the main reason why we must do that ritual because we must keep a chain which it connects between our masterpiece and potentiality, staying curious is the major key how to discover the life’s riddle and how to understand the learning process, the life source is unlimited, so we mustn’t stop studying and mustn't limit our potential.


          The key how to know whether your goal is successful or not is based on how you discipline your mind into target how you value your time, life will not fulfill what you have if you don’t appreciate about time or you don't create little progress, life will not create miracle if you stay casual within your daily activity, that’s secret how to know the life's work, life will appreciate your work if you dare to starve your ego by doing something unpleasant constantly, it just like the farmer is watering the seeds in the garden every day until the seeds become the fruits, it may take several months, that’s life’s working principle, remember this; if you don’t love the slowest process, you will never complete the fastest process, that's the universe's rule, but if you dare to love the slowest process, you automatically do something faster, that’s mindset you need to possess if you want your life is working in progress, if you never start little thing, you can’t achieve big thing, working hard is like unlearning a bad behavior until one's mindset has changed, the most important job in this life is self-improvement, nobody can arrive a life purpose until people let go what they love and do something challenging, life will show its work balance when we treat ourselves like other people's lives, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

How to handle problems in life


      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to handle problems in life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can handle problem in their own lives, the reason why not everyone can handle their own problem because they just spend their time for pursuing their pleasure only, before we spend our lives to pursue for pleasure, we must realize the planet earth is not paradise, earth is the prison for every human, the reason why I say such thing because human will be pushed to taste something unpleasant when they live in crisis, such as, poverty, deprivation, mistake, rejection, uncertainty, adversity, affliction, insecure feeling, etc. living on earth is not perfect place to look for safety or comfort, but living on earth means, we are challenged by life to handle every life problem where it has been prepared by God to us, if you can't handle problem, you can't handle the responsibility to success, you will never know about the truth if you just spend our time to pursue the pleasure in this the world, you need to find your strength and your limitation, if you don't understand the importance of your existence on earth, you will become prisoner who lives in the most darkest place and not knowing how to plan something in the next day, if you want to know whether you can handle your days or not; it depends how you look at within your own biggest curiosity about your personality, if your personality can't control life pressure, you can't control your anger, if you can't control anger, you can't handle self-gratification, if you can't handle above, you don't deserve success.


      If you just love something for increasing your pleasure, means, you love something wrong, if you love something but your ego really hates to do it, means, you do something right because there is something  great come to you and you will need  to adapt after you finish it, life always teaches how to adapt, not how to be rich and happy, if you can adapt with life pressure, you will be more happy, the key is adaptation, if you can't adapt with life pressure, you can't get confidence, it same like when you can handle today’s problem, your mental strength will grow to solve in the next day’s problem, but if you reject to handle today's problem, you will get a regret and you have no opportunity to finish in the next day's problem, here is the important note; you need to practice your potentiality until your time will meet with the universe’s frequency, if you just pass the day without progress, you can't appreciate your time value, when it becomes habit, time will not count your struggle, time will not care whether your struggle is imperfect or not, but time will proceed your struggle if you do it passionately, don't count your day but make the day counts your struggle, the universe will not let your potential empty after you keep providing the masterpiece for others, don’t let your potential can be exchanged with money, if you fit yourself with the money you receive, you will not get something bigger than you usually get, here is the first tip how to handle problems in life; keep focusing one specific area you want to observe, meaning, you aren't allowed to seek something which can distract your focus away from problem, here is the second tip how to handle problems in life; find a role model who it is connected with your problem, meaning, you take a role model's tips how to solve problem, if you don't find a role model, you will get perplexed by your own problem, here is the third tip how to handle problems in life;  dissect your problem into small piece, meaning, you classify which problem that you can finish first and which problem that you can prioritize it later, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Easy learning activities

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Easy learning activities”, the reason why I choose that topic because there’s simple strategy how to get easy learning activities, we all know every human is unique, but if we don't know how to create easy learning activities, we will learn as much as subjects where they don't refer with our enthusiasm, remember; enthusiasm can't be created by human being, it is not human's authority, as human being, we are entrusted by Almighty God to own enthusiasm, but before we get sense of enthusiasm, we are being asked by Almighty God to study something in order to detect problem, basically we are demanded by Almighty God to study because He wants us to detect problem, we all know that problem is invisible, even though problem can't be seen obviously, it can be detected by our eyes when we study about the subject where it is concerned with problem, at this point, we aren't being pushed by Almighty God to be clever person, we are being demanded to be man of value and bring peace to all mankind, now imagine if we can't bring a good value to other people, we were born on earth for nothing, as we know that all human being were born for fulfilling Almighty God's prophecy, what we can do is merely being a channel for God's behalf, if we can't fulfill it, what will happen to our future? I am sure we will not get anything valuable because we don't invest something good in our capacity for fulfilling Almighty God's prophecy.


   At this point, I try to give you strategy how to apply easy learning activities, here is the first step how to apply easy learning activity; we must empty our ego, the reason why we must do that because it can help us to listen Almighty God's command through our reflection and our intuition, if we don't empty our ego, we don't get something new from reality because everything we need has been provided by Almighty God through reality, maybe you will ask me, how can I empty my ego? Don't complain when you get problem, don't judge easily about something you don't know and don't curse Almighty God's plan, here is the second step how to apply easy learning activity; we must listen more than speak, meaning, we must stop behaving like a talkative, if we talk only, we repeat what we want to say, but if we listen a new thing, we receive the insight from other people's experience, the reason why not many people get insight easily because they talk more than what they listen, here is the third step how to apply easy learning activity; Be your own self competitor, meaning, we don't try so hard to compete with other people's skill, there is good news : if we challenge our limit, we will get a new insight every time we succeed to break our limit, when we get this occasion more often, as impact, we will never be the same person like we were yesterday because we break our comfort zone, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Top quality management

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic "Top quality management", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone cares about top quality management, if you ask me why not everyone cares about top quality management because it must be referring to people's behavior and people's qualified passion, besides that, people must research about people's future hope and people's fear if they want to learn deeper about top quality management, what people need is safe, comfort and guarantee, that's clues how to create top quality management, we all know there are many variety if we talk about people's hope, if we can specify people's need, people will demand us to serve something they need, at the first time we need to do if we want to serve people well; we must feel the customer's pain, this strategy may look unpleasant at the first time, if we can show our empathy to people, our attention will make them safer, now imagine if people around us will feel safe when they are with us, they will care about us and they will acknowledge what we need, do you know why they behave like that? because we had delivered the right value to them at the first time, remember this note; delivering the right value can increase our reputation, our skill and our integrity, if the right value can be remembered by many people, they indirectly tell something to people whom don't know about our service, top quality management can be collected from customer's satisfaction, repeated order and customer's low complaint level, I am sure if we go to somewhere, we want to find what makes us comfort or what makes us satisfied, that's psychological basic need. 

Quality always be pursued by the masses

    The more you pursue people's pain, the more you will find people's hope, it's law, people start to notice us when we always do something good for them, even though good is relative, but if we can collect the possibility of human's psychological need, our service will be valued as delivering the right value, if we sell something based on the market's severe pain, we only get complained by the customer, but if we offer the antidote for the market's severe pain, we will be pursued by potential of market demands, the potential of market demands will not complain to us if we ensure our service can fit the demand and we don't deliver the wrong value, top quality management can't be accessed if we only deliver the right value but our service can't relieve the market's pain, remember; the right value can become the wrong value if we delay for delivering the value, do you know why? because the customer wants to get the value at the right time and the right place, now, what's more priority? delivering the right value in punctual or we relieve the market's pain in punctual, it is an option, we can't solve both at the same time, sometimes we must be ready to get complaint when our service can't fulfill 100% customer satisfaction, that's the reality we need to face it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Good fortune and prosperity

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic "Good fortune and prosperity", the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to spend more time to make for their own good fortune, the cause why they don't create it because they are too satisfied with last achievement in the past, Besides that, most people don't believe with luck and miracle, they hate to do something which it concerned with uncertain condition and they believe daily needs must be fulfilled by pursuing what money wants, if people keep thinking how to pursue what money wants, as impact, human's mindset will be forced to pursue money until they pass away, that's bad side of money's character, remember about this fortune's rule; "fortune really hates with people whose a fixed mindset because it always produces the limiting belief towards human's thought, on the other hand, fortune really loves with people whose a developed mindset because it always gives a sense of new hatred for human's good feeling", the reason why fortune can't be attracted by people who are doing something lovable because fortune lies in the most hatred feeling by human, means; people must forget what they love instantly and they must challenge themselves to do what it takes to meet with what fortune requires, such as develop our skill set to solve problem, read book every day, research new thing every day, Stay curious about new problem they want to solve every day, set goal every day, those rituals are often being rejected by most people in this world, If you want to be pursued by good fortune and prosperity, you must work like oxygen and water, your service must be everywhere (it can be accessed in public and you have to ensure your service is not be restricted by your presence).  



  Here is the additional note; if people just keep doing what they love for long period of time, the human's vibration energy will not reach in the fortune vibration energy because fortune vibration energy always demands people to do something constantly in pursuit, here I just remind for yourself; fortune lies the human's creation, if you want to be approached by fortune, you have to do something unprofitable for yourself and do something what most people hate to do, such as doing charity, share your belief to people for free, teach people how to make a life works for free, share your happiness to others for free, etc. here is the important clue; if you spend your major time to let go something you love to others for free, fortune will give everything you need for free, remember this; the human's mindset has two options; Comfort and discomfort, if people just do something comfortable, their mindset will lock their potential and they will be forced to pursue what they love forever, whereas, if people just do something discomfort until they must force themselves to learn something new for their own potential, finally people will be pursued by fortune, that's strategy how to make your own good fortune, if you don't believe with the process, you will be forced to chase something until you feel desperate from it , I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Get over yourself meaning

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Get over yourself meaning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone are willing to prepare something different from what they have done in their own lives, the root cause of problem why people don't care about their own future because their expectation is bigger than their mental suffering, in the daily life, these people prefer to spend their liability budget and indulge their consumption habit rather than prepare for increasing their own productivity, remember this; people who spend their life journey casually, they will never become the luckiest person in their life story because they underestimate about future, the reason why we need to make ourselves prepared because tomorrow is always offering mysterious thing, such as new disaster, new adversity, new opportunity, and new circumstance, if we aren't preparing everything we have, our time of fortune will perish soon,  maybe you ever hear about it, “the more you learn something, the less suffer you will become”, means, if you aren’t ready to face life test, you plan to suffer and your enthusiasm will go down, please don’t just rely on luck if you want to meet with your fate because fate is always finding people who value their own time and people who maximize what they can give to this world, here is the note; the fate doesn't teach you how to improve your life, but fate needs you because you deserve to do something bigger, better and stronger than what you imagine, maybe you have question "how to get over myself in the life uncertainty",  you must create the zoo in the jungle, meaning, you must limit yourself from the life's uncertainty and you focus on what you develop in your territory, when your preparation is good enough, you can let the life's uncertainty working on what you start.


    If you don’t follow your intuition, you will be treated by life as the victim, meaning, you are treated like someone who is begging for food and live in scarcity, your life mission must be important than your sense of pleasure, if tomorrow gives you a new problem because you are ready to learn it, please don’t be afraid if your struggles aren’t being appreciated by people because your fate will do something what you do and you will feel amazed with new experience where most people don’t get it, the most important thing to do after you make great endeavor is surrender with your fate, means, let your fate works for you, don’t let yourself unprepared of doing something good because there is nobody will work for your future, here is the purpose of fate; you will live peacefully with godlike personality and you work in this world as the messenger of God, such as "serve others well like God serves you well", God assigns life to you because you are entrusted to do something better in your generation, if you work like the messenger of God, there is nothing impossible for you and you will live happily as if you were not living in your own suffering, if you get problem now, it is not because you are doing something wrong, but life needs you to do something where most people aren't prepared yet, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Calmness definition

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Calmness definition”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone considers calmness is part of supernatural mental power, the root cause of problem why not everyone can put their emotional intelligence into calmness because they don't hinge their faith to Almighty God, as impact, people get too excited about what they enjoy and they are anxiety about something not existed, as the limited creature, we shouldn't force our belief to execute something we can't control, we must realize that not all we can do will change everything, the main cause why most people can't calm themselves into their inner circumstance because they hinge their faith into mortal expectation and they don't enjoy about the learning process, remember this advice; “the more we pursue about what we want, the more suffering we wear from it”, in order to create sense of calmness, we don’t need to pursue what we want, but let we prepare something for it and let what we want is going to pursue us, expectation is like the fire, potential is like water, we are unable to conquer our expectation if we don’t awaken our potential first, our potential comes from the daily ritual and good habit where we have built long time ago, if we just keep asking the world to grant what we want, we will be forced to pursue the world until we no longer existed, calm person doesn't demand something to the universe, but he surrenders the result to the universe's law,  if we can't surrender to the divine's timing, at least we can create calmness, here is "calmness definition" = the decision to crush our ability to wish, choose not to own something and accept whatever God does something to us.



    Being calm person doesn’t mean someone does nothing for the world, but he leaves a good legacy for the world, calm person doesn't want to compete with others, but he races with his own time, that's life strategy, here is the additional note; calm person doesn’t demand something out of his limit because he understand his own limitation and calm person doesn’t do something based on his irrational thinking, calm person is always planning something ahead for negative anticipation, now what are you going to do if you commit to become calm person?, here is what you need to do; stop asking "what I can receive", but ask about "what I can be more delivering for this world?", means, you don't demand the world to serve you, but you let yourself to be found by the world, it's fantastic idea, isn't it, we must consider our time is very limited, don't sell our time to repeat what we are capable of, but we should sell our time to work on what we never learn, if we enjoy learning, automatically we practice our mind to calm in every situation, the world is like the shadow, the more we pursue, the less opportunity we can have, the more we take from it, the less we have, the calm person works like a farmer, he sows a talent seed in the soil, he waters it every day with his strong commitment and he reaps when the time shows the outcome, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


Stages of creative process

Stage of creative process is like walking step by step
 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Stages of creative process”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone consider this strategy is working for their creativity, there is another reason why common people  don't get stages of creative process because they avoid to make mistake and they consider mistake as their big enemy, at this moment let me share something about stages of creative process, here is the first stage of creative process, you will hit many things that you don't expect to come, at this stage, you can't choose something that you like very much and you can't reject something that you hate it very much, in the first stage of creative process, you will receive a hundred of mistakes where it isn't related with what you do in the past, so please don't feel ashamed or feel guilty because it is part of learning, if you feel guilty or ashamed, you will attract something that can burden your emotional feeling, the reason why we will hit many things that can give us shocked because we don't know about the God's plan, if we know about God's plan first, I am really sure we tend to avoid the lesson and we tend to stop working hard, if we train our mindset to do like that, we only get little experience and little good impact, remember; we aren't authorized to choose something until reality provides something we need, as human being, I can't choose the level of creativity as my identity, I just let creativity chooses my personal strength and my skill, if I want to get higher level of creativity, my power must be higher too, the human's power lies in how much care we sacrifice our time to serve other people's problem.


     Here is the second stage of creative process; you must try to focus how to create a trial and error as much as you do, remember that you will not get opportunity until you get a trial and error, in my opinion; you will not get something to learn until you create a trial and error,  that's requirement, if we don't create a trial and error, as impact, we will get bigger consequence which can destroy our mentality, so the purpose of making a trial and error is strengthen our mental capacity, here is the special note; the more we get the pain of unpleasantness and restlessness, the stronger our mentality we become, here is the third stage of creative process; you will not get enlightenment until you get feedback from other people's perspective, either negative side or positive side, sometimes other people's existence will add new value to our creativity, at this point, we must be ready to accept other people's perspective because we don't know our blind spot, here is the fourth stage of creative process; you will feel demanded to do something more and more, if you reach this stage, I congratulate you because your creativity is needed and Almighty God chooses you, not other people, remember; creativity is not something we can own as we wish, creativity is responsibility, if God doesn't allow us to own creativity, we can't do something, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Stay focused and never give up

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Stay focused and never give up”, the main purpose  why I choose that topic because major people are being hurt by putting in their major focus on something that can't grow their mentality, if you ask me why people must focus and not to give up because life is always mysterious and uncertainty, we can't create better life if we don't feel better with what we accomplish, please check these steps, the first thing you should realize is “see what lies in your ahead as opportunity to improve what you can't do before, don’t make your inner circumstance is getting worse by correcting something outside of you as if there was God's fault in what you do”, remember this; there is no crisis will happen if it doesn’t come from our ignorance and our incapability to adapt, focus is the main power how to create a new change, if we can't focus on what we do, we will get undoing changes, please beware of this condition, the unknown circumstance may drive you to the desperate zone but your decision will define everything, the second thing you should realize is “stop comparing what you don’t have with people who have had what you don’t”, if you focus on comparison only, you will not recognize about your talent, expertise and personality, if you are making habit of it, you only create gloomy situation, remember; you are the creator and you are life director of your own life, if you want to get better life, improve what inside of you, if we are unable to see something we need right now because our inner ability doesn't grow yet to welcome what we start, sometimes we need to stay ignoring the information which doesn't add value to our lives, if we just collect the unknown information out there without selecting it, our poor mindset can destroy what we start.


      Even you have scary moment, don't let it fuels your mind, you just need to consider it as the shattered mirror, remember this; giving up is not an option, giving up is like stop eating your food even though you need to live in this world, if you feel there is nothing can offer you peace, you can create your own peace by doing what other people can't do for you, be the fate creator, not just be an actor and do what the director says to you, remember this advice; you and I don't know about what we are going through in the future because the future is always private, if we realize the future is always private, what we can do  as human being is trying as much as we can and stop thinking about the failure or the setback, please stay focus on the present moment because you will find yourself in the cyclic processes of nature where you get renewed, as long as you dare to do something new, you must have been renewed with new resources, in order to survive on this earth, we must assume whatever we do is like eating the food, we can't stop eating just because we don't find solution, if we don't find solution, we must keep trying about new thing, if we don't try something new, we get undoing change, that's default system where it is embedded into our life's journey, here is the additional note; to stay focus and forget how to give up, you must treat yourself like the customer at business, you coach them, you brief them,  you serve what they need, that's strategy how to focus on the present, starting today; practice your mind to use your life 80% do positive thing and 20% for negative anticipation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.     

Another word for problem and solution

 

      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Another word for problem and solution”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people consider their life story is like just doing what they love and ignoring what they hate only, in fact, this life can't be validated with kind of subjective mind because life is not created to make human satisfied, but life is created to give a lesson to every human being, every decision we make is going to prophesy our future, if we train our mind to seek problem, not solution, as impact, our knowledge is bigger, stronger, more creative and more innovative, but unfortunately, some people consider seeking solution is the best option they need to end the mental suffering, if that so, people's mindset can't not adapt and grow with the life purpose, God will not push us if we can't finish the problem, but God will ask us about the solution we receive, if we just receive all solutions without trying to make own fortune through expertise, we will never create a different path of opportunity, but nowadays, many people still expect to get solution instantly, that's problem why they can't make good life, in spirituality, it doesn't teach human how to hate problem or how to love solution, life only gives you an option, if you do this part, you will get this part, if you don't do this part, you will never get this part, if people hate about problem, they will never find the essential of living because they always hate about what life gives to human, if this condition becomes habit, they will get distressed a lot because they aren't ready to meet with problem, if I can say about problem and solution, both are designed to complete each other, if there is no solution, problem will arise, if there is no problem, solution will be worthless, they are like the bird's wings, both will create peace in human's lives.


      Remember this; we will never be able to create solution if we aren't interested with problem, life is responding to you not because you need it so much, but life is responding you because it knows what you prepare for your own future, if people don't prepare themselves with solution and anticipation, they will feel a bleak outlook about their own lives as consequence, in my opinion; seeking an instant solution is easier than detecting problem, the reason why I say such thing because an instant solution doesn't teach human how to survive, this kind of subjective mind belongs to narrow minded because it can’t differentiate whether there is true or wrong, good or bad about what people do in daily activity, remember this; we don't need how to be rich person on earth, it is not part of life purpose, don't expect to be rich before we know how to seek problem and how to survive, if we can survive, automatically we are getting rich, but if we can't survive, automatically we are getting poor, to survive and being happy person, don't expect to get very few mistake in our lives because some of problems are inevitable trap, problem only gives us an option; become wise or become loser, if we just believe fortune will always accompany us, means, we have to adapt with new demand of tomorrow and not being afraid to change, if we just want solution only or just want to be righteous, it’s not reality because life doesn’t teach human to behave such thing, all we need to do as human is how to make our life journey is inviting more blessing from God, that’s simple, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Insanity definition


      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Insanity definition”, the main reason why I choose that topic because some people believe insanity is just mental illness, in fact, insanity describes a person who rejects to learn and accept about reality, the root of cause the problem why many people reject reality because they aren’t prepared about their own expertise and they can't control their own gratification, remember this, “the more you pursue your pleasure, the more you will feel loneliness and fear about new change”, if we reject the reality, that means, we hate about what we do, if we hate what we do in our daily activity, as impact, we will never find the mean of what we are doing for the future, the late of Albert Einstein ever said “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different result”, from that’s statement, we can conclude that we can't get something different in this life if we just follow our ego, besides that, we will never get approached by the truth if we feel can’t get wrong, as long as we don't take initiative to learn, we will never know how to handle all problems we receive and problem will make us trapped in the desperate zone, if we just expecting good thing and we are ignoring mistake, we will be living into insanity of life, means, our lives will get distressed without knowing the reason why we deserve to get what we do.

                              

     To provide a good thing for our future, we shouldn’t fight against the universe’s law because this action just spends our time for creating meaningless purpose, whether we like or not, we should delegate the universe’s law to proceed our attempt, so that we will reap after the struggling process is completed, remember this; our lives will waste if we just use our time to wait the good thing happens or we will do nothing when the opportunity comes, "the more we waste our time for getting a lot of pleasure, the more we kill our potential", that’s consequence we need to realize it, remember this note; living without dream, faith and enthusiasm is like the insane person who hopes everything is going to be okay without doing something for it, before life will give us a crisis such as economy crisis, health crisis, and confident crisis, we should change habit, core belief and our daily ritual first, that's strategy how to renew our emotional health, here is the key how to make our life journey is valuable; we treat our future like our family, means, we facilitate something when we understand about people’s pain, we are ready to provide for what other people need from us, and we help others to manifest their dream, if this condition we build becomes new habit, this life will provide something more than what we need, there is another advice; if we can’t provide something valuable for others, our lives is like junk food, if our lives is like the junk food, we will have no new future, if we have no future, automatically our lives will treat us like the insane person, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

What is the goal of true education

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What is the goal of true education”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people prefer to fight against other people's opinion rather than being a good observer and peacemaker, we must realize everybody is unique, they have different mindset, different story, different expertise, different perspective, different habit and different behavior, if we know we are different, why would not everyone does a peace offering to eliminate argument? remember this; the real education is not like what you learn from the educational background or formal education, the true education is based on how you maximize what you can receive from this life as the last mission on earth, if you behave to what other people think without any argument, you will lose your self-identity because you don't show about your perspective to them, although other people have different ideology with yours, it doesn't mean you need to fight theirs by making an argument, all you need is be listener, be reviewer and make it as additional note, if we want to get true education, we must find the problem in human's lives first, and then we find human's spending habit, do you know why? because true character of human being can be detected through spending habit and problem they have, if you find people like what I mentioned, would you make a peace offering or you just leave him behind? if I were in your position, I shared my life experience.


    Remember this; you don’t need to make people to be good for you, all you need to do is finding a good people who can accept you wholeheartedly without any exception, if you always spend your time to make people liking you, you just start a quarrelsome without knowing whether what you are doing is good or not for them, every human has different comfort ego zone, we shouldn’t quarantine our time with people who aren’t interested about our personality, now it's time for you to make self-reflection, if you want to become a better person in every single day, you have to ensure your social circle can manifest what you want to become in the future, if your social circle rejects your ideology, that means, you will become a quarrelsome cause for them, it is not good for your life story if you keep associating with people who can’t accept your ideology, remember this; don’t try to get people schooling when they don’t want to receive it, your duty is just sharing your ideology to them and let them contemplate about it, don't think your school is very important for everyone, if they aren’t interested with your offering, they will reject it because they think they don’t deserve to accept your offering, the goal of true education is to ensure you know who created you and you become the messenger of God who spreads the kindness, in order to get true education, you need to learn about reality and become a daily good observer, if you are eager to know who is the best person who can explain about reality, you may refer to the prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) and learn his ideology, the reason why I recommend you to learn about him because he represents all human's virtues in this world, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

3 steps to change bad habits



     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “3 steps to change bad habits”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in their old habit, besides that, many people prefer to come back to their old habit because they can’t endure with mental suffering and they still don’t know how to escape from that old habit, that’s classic reason why people’s lives can’t grow rapidly, before we identify our daily habit, we must know what the difference between productive habit and unproductive habit, hopefully you have one of these features within your habit, here are the productive habit’s features; your habit is always making you stayed curious about what you design about your future, your habit will motivate you to work with a sense of urgency, your habit will fuel your enthusiasm to do something very hard although you really want to avoid it, your habit feels renewed when you face new problem and your habit can adapt with new situation although you feel burdened about it, remember this; your habit will determine whether you can be happy or not, at this critical point, you must beware when you want to choose new habit because that habit will represent your reputation and self-image, if your habit just offers you with a short term gratification, that means, you have to try the opposite, namely a long term gratification, here is the special note; by having a long term goal will assist you how to delay your short term gratification and shape your productive habit in the future.

      Now let me share something related with the opposite of productive habit, namely unproductive habit, hopefully you will start to redesign something for your habit, here are the unproductive habit’s features; your habit is always influencing you to feel complacent and being self-opinionated person, your habit will not motivate you how to get better person from day after day, your habit will block your vision how you will become in the future, your habit will scare you when you want to try something new, your habit can’t stand longer with new difficult situation, your habit will reject any information which it’s related with knowledge, and your habit will devalue what you do and what you enjoy, from these unproductive habit’s feature, I don’t mean to scare you and make you feel bad about your life, I just tell you about the reality of life, my main reason why I mention those productive and unproductive habit’s feature because I really care about your future as well as the next generation, my life purpose is how to design a habit where it can attract God's blessing and how to multiply the source of happiness, prosperity and health through habit, remember; money is not the asset, but our habit is the ultimate assets, if we don’t care how to design habit, our habit will kill our future’s hope, maybe you have a question "why change bad habit is a must?" the answer is bad habit can blockade our right to get new bright future, here is the first step to change bad habits; leave your social circle / group of people who can't inspire you, please beware with people who trap your kindness in the name of group because you will get bad influence when other people in group can't create kindness, here is the second step to change bad habits; leave the tradition or ideology where it can't keep you grow, the reason why you must leave them because you will get pushed to keep bad habits, here is the second step to change bad habits; create new habit that can't keep you in the sadness state, the reason why I recommend this strategy because most bad habits will keep you in the sadness state, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Hardship benefits

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Hardship benefits”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don’t realize that a great momentum of this life will happen when adversity reveals about what people should do for their innate ability, unfortunately most people don’t want to pursue it because they need a guarantee before they embrace adversity, in fact, we don’t need to know why adversity comes in to our lives, all we need to do is how to make ourselves prepared and being active to welcome adversity, we don’t need a guarantee how to face adversity because every difficult thing is designed to make us stronger than we were yesterday, we don’t need to avoid every adversity because it’s part of the maturity process in our deepest soul, if we reject adversity, it is like we reject to accept new gift from Almighty God, remember this; every happiness we have is not based how we work in our daily life, but every happiness happens when we already manifest our developed skill set to overcome every adversity, as long as we don’t pass the life challenge, we will never feel the moment of happiness and every gratification we feel can’t represent the true happiness, don’t ever hope true happiness comes from expectation because it is not lies within what we expect, but true happiness lies within our endurance skill that we trained it every day.

     

      Don’t think adversity is like punishment, if we think it is like punishment, we don’t need to do it, adversity just represents the life manifestation and also represents the power of our faith, if we feel everything in this world is offering secure, we don’t need to prepare about tomorrow, am I right? Our opportunity is just lies in today’s moment, not tomorrow or yesterday’s moment, we don’t need to argue why adversity comes to our lives, we just need to contemplate “if adversity is inevitable, means, adversity needs a strong warrior like us to accomplish God’s mission”, remember; not everyone will get the same adversity, every adversity is measured based on how people propose something to Almighty God, if we think big and dream big, our intellectual capacity will be challenged by Almighty God to accept adversity and resistance from within, whether we like it or not about adversity, it tries to reveal about who we are and what causes us to live on earth, let the power of faith answers it, as long as we can give our dedication to serve what God wants us to do, our success will find the greatest potential's path to be implanted to our vivid vision, here is the first benefit from hardship; we don't become the same person like we were yesterday, sometimes hardship teaches us how to survive in the unpleasantness, if we become powerful person, we don't get caught by the same mistake, here is the second benefit from hardship; we don't consider the problem as nightmare, instead of consider it as masterpiece, it takes long process to consider the problem as masterpiece because most people avoid the problem, if your life gets hardship, you should be thankful for it because your mentality will get strengthened and your career will be brighter, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.