How to deal with overprotective parents

Child's safe is too protected by parent's incapacity to care


   Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to deal with overprotective parents” the main reason why I choose that topic because many young people feel insecure when they have parents who treat them overprotective, if you ask me why parents treat their children is overprotective because many parents worry the environment doesn't support the children's mental development, besides that, there are many crimes which may occur in the big city, that's the positive side, as children, they don't care about their environment's bad side because they still have high curiosity to find out what they want to know around them, on the other hand, parents feel guilty if they let their children getting involved with the unknown circumstance which may influence their children's mental development, some parents are initiatively taking the homeschooling program for their children in order to minimize the unknown environment's negative impact, in my opinion; there is a contradiction in terms between children and parent if both of them can't respect with their decision, as children, they will feel insecure when the parents show overprotective treatment which may have possibility to block the children's hidden potential.  


                                    

    If your position as children, you may feel confused how to deal with overprotective parents, here is the first strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you must make your parents to be proud when you can create the achievement at school, if your parents feel proud about what you do at school, your parents will not show overprotective treatment to you, basically every parent doesn't want the unknown circumstance will do something bad to their children, here is the second strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you must possess something which is related with adult's mindset, meaning, you prove yourself that you can do something unexpected until your parents feel impressed about what you do, such as, you can show your troubleshooting skill when your parents have problem, here is the third strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you can convince your parents that your behavior doesn't worry your parent, meaning, your behavior can help you to solve your problem without getting your parents involved, as long as your behavior makes your parents worried, your parents will behave overprotective, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

How to write a written apology

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         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to write a written apology”, the main reason why I choose that topic because every year there are some people want to express their feelings by sending their congratulatory card to their family member at hometown, some congratulatory cards contains some words which expresses "written apology",  unfortunately, not many people know how to write a written apology properly, some people just say "sorry...bla..bla..bla" at congratulatory card they have sent to their family member or distant relatives, it is very common statement, based on psychological research, when someone is saying "I am sorry" at the congratulatory card, this kind of expression will represent the sender's weaknesses, it is not should be done, here is the first strategy how to write a written apology; you must try to confess the addressee's achievement at the first time, the reason why you must do it because it can help you to harmonize the situation and your mood, if your mood is unstable during writing section, what you write at congratulatory card will misunderstand the addressee's perception, here is my suggestion; after you confess the addressee's achievement, you try to commit to help the addressee's problem even though you may dislike it, that's service's offer will help you to minimize your regret about the mistake you made in the past.





       Please don't misjudge something bad to yourself when you write down at congratulatory card because it will lower your self-esteem, remember; people tend to remember the mistake you make rather than the achievement you have made in the past, that's the natural human's behavior evaluation, so you can't blame when other people remember your past mistake, when you recall your mistake at the congratulatory card, you indirectly dig your own grave, finally you close the good opportunity, here is the second strategy how to write a written apology; you offer new hope to the addressee, so at least they can consider your offer, you have to ensure your offer can connect between their need and your skill, remember this note; your mistake will never be forgiven by other people as long as you can't offer something bigger and more valuable than your mistake, you need to set new arrangement with the addressee when you write a written apology, promise is promise, you can't retard or reject it, you need to write about the project which can benefit others if you want others will forget your mistake, you must give more often than you receive something from others, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

5 regrets of dying


         

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “5 regrets of dying”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people have the same problem in this life, namely, regret, if you ask me why most people get the pain of regret until they pass away because they underestimate what they can do and they overestimate what they can’t do in daily life, basically, the core of undetected problem in this life is started by maintaining the procrastination habit, if people are making habit by avoiding the undetected problem, as a result, they will lose many valuable things in their lives, such as, creativity, enthusiasm, inspiration, at this moment let me share something about 5 regret of dying, here is the first regret of dying that people own; they spend too much time to gain pleasure, means, people aren't interested to learn how to invest their time for self-study in anywhere place, remember this advice; the more we gain pleasure, the less we gain power, here are the example of pleasure; staying up late every day to play online games, holding the party with friends every week, spend more money to watch cinema every week, watching TV in hours, drinking alcohol, etc. those bad habits will create the regret of dying for people who aren't interested with power, here are the example of power; good reputation, credibility, creativity, enthusiasm, endurance, patience, ingenuity, etc. 



          Here is the second regret of dying that people own; not showing a deep feeling to seek the truth in life, if you ask me why people aren't showing a deep feeling to seek the truth in life because they love too much with the content of world, remember; the world is full of tragic and unrequited love, we shouldn't put our deepest feeling to pursue the satisfaction which is offered by the world because the world is the not suitable place to satisfy our deepest feeling, here is the third regret of dying that people own; dare not leaving their bad habit, if people let their bad habit dominate their logical sense, as impact, their brain will shut itself from seeing the opportunity, here is the third regret of dying that people own;  dare not to take tolerated risk, means, people will consider every risk is their enemy, I don't mean to belittle you by not taking the risk, what I mean is you should measure the risk with your own capacity, your knowledge, your capitals, remember; having the ability to take tolerated risk will increase your self-awareness, here is the fourth regret of dying that people own; dare not to forgive other people's mistake, if people have a revenge and dare not to forgive other people's mistake, as impact, they will never get inner peace, here is the fifth regret of dying that people own; don't recognize their creator in entire of life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Characteristic of a person



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Characteristic of a person”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people consider what they behave so far is good without brining any problem in this life, but the other problem is people can't conceal the fact that what they behave can lead them to the instant solution, not permanent solution, if people only get the instant solution, meaning, people indirectly will not build mental strength, instead, they build weaknesses to their characteristic, do you know why I say like that? because easiness is the biggest obstacle / threat which can weaker people's characteristic, if peoples characteristic is consider to be weak, it means, people build low value characteristic and low mental strength, it is occurred in the future, as impact, people will consider everything around them as the biggest enemy in their own perception, remember this note; high value characteristic always optimizes the human's mental strength, whereas, low value characteristic always paralyzes the human's mental strength, now you can choose whether you want to become a future oriented person or become a small-minded person, here is the conclusion; every habit you choose will define your main characteristic, every characteristic can represent your destiny / fate in the future, 



     In this life, there is nothing better than having good characteristic, if we don’t improve our characteristic continuously, as impact, we will lack of confidence, the more we lose value, the more we lose confidence, in my opinion; improving the character is very crucial, we shouldn’t procrastinate how to improve our character in every single day because every good opportunity is new day, good character can teach us how to face insurmountable problem, whereas, bad character can make us doom and gloomy, sometimes good character can become a shield and it can protect us from the darkness of life such as regret and self-doubt, here is the important note; our destiny is shaped by our improved character, if we stop developing our character, as impact, we will create mediocre living for everlasting.


Here is the good impact if we possess a good character; we will get the sign of maturity to our mental age and we will get the invaluable reward from Almighty God, furthermore, we will be granted with the powerful idea, the good influence and the powerful inspiration, in my opinion, the human's unlimited wealth, by sticking with those rewards, we train ourselves to be a sage person and we will be pursued by the wealth, prosperity, health and longevity happiness, if you are depressed by now, means, you choose wrong habit and there is something wrong with your ideology which leads to your main characteristic, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Why life is so hard



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Why life is so hard”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get depressed every time the problem comes to their life journey, if we use different perception, problem is not designed to kill human's life, instead, problem is designed to make human's capacity is stronger, if there are people who tell you about the reason why life is hard because they don't optimize their unlocked potential and they aren't interested to challenge themselves to learn more, the main problem why people's destiny isn't changed because they lack of failure experience, at this moment let me share something to you how to do when you face tough life experience, here is the first tip how to do when life gets tough; don't fight the life pressure, try to adapt with it little by little, if you experience with the life pressure which is trying to challenge your inner capacity, your duty is don't try to magnify your wild expectation and also don't try to increase your standard living suddenly, instead of increase your standard of giving to others.



      Here is the second tip how to do when life gets tough; don't go easy on what you do, means, you keep challenging yourself by learning something new, if you stop challenging yourself, as impact, you only live as mediocre person's living, here is the third tip how to do when life gets tough; increase your knowledge which is related with your enthusiasm, here is the good news; if you increase your knowledge and your skill for your enthusiasm, as impact, you will create a new legacy for others and your will be a savior for your own future as well as other people's lives, here is the fourth tip how to do when life gets tough; learn how to accept what's out of control with wholeheartedly, if you are making habit of it, you will get something beyond your expectation, even though you definitely receive a high pressure, if you sustain with such circumstance, your life will be different than the majority of people's lives, here is the fifth tip how to do when life gets tough; try to create the positive affirmation to yourself in every morning, remember this note; if you stay focus on the present, you will free from the distressed circumstance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

10 skills every man should know



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “10 skills every man should know”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not every man can detect these skills in their history of life, if you ask me why these skills are very important to be recognized by the men because every man is destined as the leader in this life, here is the first skill every man should know is having self-compassion, the main reason why having self-compassion is important for our lives because it can help us to discover what we don't know in our deepest potential, if men don't practice their self-compassion in daily basis, as impact, men will do something with heartless decision, besides that, men will do something dangerous if they don't build self-compassion, here is the second skill every man should know is having problem detector, the main reason why men must have problem detector because this natural skill has not been granted by God to women's characteristic, do you know why I say thing because problem detector is related with men's characteristic and men's logic is more dominant than women's, if men have no problem detector, meaning, they behave like the loser, here is the third skill every man should know is negotiation skill, the main reason why I say like that because not every man has mastered negotiation skill, if men have no negotiation skill, they will never have a golden opportunity when they need to do the business with other people's resource, here is the fourth skill every man should know is having good parenting skill, the reason why I say like that because not every man commits to behave like a good parent for their children, the main cause why men have no parenting skill because men are willing to work very hard until they have no quality time with their children, here is the fifth skill every man should know is being a good listener, this skill is important because not every man is willing to be good listener when their spouses start to tell about a problem.



           Here is the sixth skill every man should know is being the mirror for women's character, meaning, this skill is very important because not every man has owned this skill, some men try to oppose women's reaction when women try to express their deepest feeling, women will be happy when men can lower their normal ego and start to give advice when women ask it in previous time, here is the seventh skill every man should know is being good friend for their children, the reason why I say like that because most men are busy at their work until they don't have sufficient time for their children, that's why children don't want to appreciate what their parents give because the children have no longer owned the right to lend their parent's ears, besides that, some parents behave bossy and this kind of attitude will mistreat children's future, here is the eighth skill every man should know is being a peacemaker, having this skill is important because many men like to start arguing or fighting when they feel discomfort in any situation, here is the ninth skill every man should know is having visionary skill, this skill is important because it is used to create the good opportunity for other people who have no decent life or poor living, having the visionary skill is not easy because we must challenge ourselves to take the risk when other people don't want to do like we do, here is the tenth skill every man should know is being environmentalist, this is important role because not many people are willing to protect the environmental, instead, some people destroy it, like the illegal logging, as men, we must preserve the planet earth with good protection in order to avoid the global warming or the disaster which may come at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Signs of emotional maturity



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Signs of emotional maturity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many adult people still show up their emotional childhood when they face something difficult, in order to develop emotional maturity, people must do something beyond logic, at this moment let me share something to you about the sign of emotional maturity, hopefully you can learn it and make it as preference, here is the first sign of emotional maturity people should have; you forgive toward misunderstanding point, the main reason why act of forgiving is powerful because it is psychologically healing  your deepest soul and protect yourself from having a sense of selfishness and sense of self-righteousness, if you have the power of forgiveness, you can motivate yourself to be better person every time you meet with unwelcome problem, if other people have problem with you right now, you must dare to forgive and forget the past moment with empathy, if you are busy to deal with your past moment only, you will lose your focus which can help you to design about the future, here is the second sign of emotional maturity people should have; you respect difference between you and others, if you have this kind of behavior, you will be glorified with good experience because you are ready to accept people's different character, remember  one thing; not all adult people can respect difference because they love with their own idealism.


          Here is the third sign of emotional maturity people should have; you don’t force love to come at you, means, you don’t force anybody to like you or you don’t force someone to stick together with you, if you build power within your own attitude, the universe will lend you its power to empower your skills and enhance your charisma, before you need a love, you need to build a sanctuary where it can accommodate other people’s problem, I think this strategy is very efficient rather than you force other people to follow your ideology, here is fourth sign of emotional maturity people should have; you accept reality without any complaint, if you master this mental skill, your mental age grows faster and the problem you face in reality makes you stronger, in my suggestion; please try to accept reality even though it bothers you, here is the fifth sign of maturity people should have; you don’t judge easily about other people's problem, means you don’t want to judge something before you understand about the real situation, in my opinion; before you judge something that you never meet before, you would better increase self-knowledge and improve your quality of argument first, at least you can avoid a nonsense dispute.


          Here is the sixth sign of emotional maturity people should have; you avoid the small talks or chitchat, means, you don't want to waste our time by talking about the unimportant topic, please remember this note; the mature person usually doesn't like to talk about the unimportant thing because he focuses on what he can develop something for his future, if you engage with small talks, you probably will lose your opportunity to improve yourself, here is seventh sign of maturity people should have; you become more open-minded than close-minded, means, you don’t create egoism when you receive something unpleasant in your life, when you start to become more open-minded, you indirectly believe that there is something greater will come to you, the reason why you need to be more open-minded because this attitude will empower your character if you are willingly to accept life challenge from God, here is the eight sign of maturity people should have; you prefer to be silent than to engage in a dispute, means, you avoid the dispute when other people start to provoke you, in reality not all people will do such thing, some of them prefer to engage in dispute rather than live in peace, that’s immature people, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Top 10 self-limiting beliefs



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Top 10 self-limiting beliefs”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get degraded mentality after they set self-limiting beliefs, if you ask me why many people create self-limiting beliefs because they aren't aware of the miracle's existence, here is the fact; not everyone realizes that what makes them stop believing about God's grace, so far self-limiting belief is actually designed by the individual own belief, maybe you are curious about type of self-limiting belief would be influencing people's lives, at this moment let me share to you about top 10 self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow, here is the first type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I will stop because I am very tired with this", that's part of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow, if someone feels like that, meaning, he wants to stop the learning process, in my opinion; he doesn't need to stop the process, he just needs to find a way how to rest well for moment, here is the second type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I am sick of this circumstance, I really dislike it", if there is someone who exclaims like that, he indirectly immobilize his own blessing, I don't recommend you to exclaims  with such statement, if you feel sick about the unknown circumstance, you just need to practice the deep breath for reducing your negative thinking, 


    Here is the third type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I already know about this", if someone often says like that, he indirectly wants to close the new opportunity, he is type of easily satisfied person, here is the fourth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I am better than them", this attitude is dangerous character because it is part of self-arrogance, it can inhibit people's power to grow, here is the fifth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I can't do more than this", type of person who loves to say like that is trying to prophesy himself as he is desperate person, here is the sixth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I am too bored about it, there is no way around to do it again", people who express bored easily, he is trying to cover his laziness, person who practices his gratefulness every day, he definitely will not find the reason to stay bored because he tries to renew his own perception, here is the seventh type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I don't believe it will be worked", person who expresses like that, he will never meet the miracle because he doubts his own strength, here is the eighth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "failure is too risky, I don't want to get the same failure", as long as there is person who really hates with the failure, he will never meet with success because failure and success is very thin, here is the ninth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "I need the capitals to do something", person who always needs the capital to start something, he indirectly blocks his own opportunity to do something miraculously, in my opinion; the greatest capital is willingness to try, not other capital the way we see it, here is the tenth type of self-limiting belief which can limit people's power to grow; when someone says "tomorrow will be the same like yesterday", person who expresses like that, he indirectly asked God to make the permanent failure residing for his own lives, here is the last note; every word which is coming out from our mouth is the part of self-fulfilling prophecy, please use the word wisely, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Inherent risk assessment



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Inherent risk assessment”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to face risk with wholeheartedly, if you ask me why inherent risk is tend to be stuck in human's life because we lack of information how to face reality, basically we can't avoid the risk even though we are equipped with modern technology, do you know why? because our resource is very limited by the time, as long as our resource is limited by the time, we can't master the risk around us, do you know that human's resources are divided by 3 things, 1. money, 2. influence, 3. knowledge/ skill, if we lack one of the human's resource as I mentioned above, our lives will be controlled by the risk, remember this advice; every risk represents our ignorance, even though ignorance is nearly inevitable, but all we can do is how to minimize the inherent risk before it may harm us, 



In order to minimize the risk, we must create the goal which can increase our knowledge at least 2 multiplied times than before, now I understand why many people's life journey gets stuck between rock and bottom because they don't have plan how to strengthen their mentality through inherent risk, the reason why so many people failed to plan their goal because they build a habit which avoid the risk, we shouldn’t avoid with the risk because every risk can develop our mental strength, survival skill and good habit, as I reviewed, many people work hard in their job but they don’t work hard for inherent risk, in my opinion; big risk or small risk can be calculated by our philosophy, if we don’t upgrade our philosophy, we will get crushed by the risk itself, here is the first strategy how to face inherent risk; we calculate the negative preparation as best as we can, meaning, we prepare how to face the failure which may happen in near future, that's important, here is the second strategy how to face inherent risk; we develop the probability of loss, not to maximize the benefit, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Why do we suffer in life



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Why do we suffer in life”, the meaning of that topic is many people are curious about the big reason why they suffer in this life, if you ask me why people suffer in this life because people choose to do 3 things, 1. they don't want to recognize who is their creator, 2. they don't learn something useful from the past, 3. they violate with the natural law, as long as people underestimate 3 things I mentioned, as impact, there is no peace, there is no justice and there is no revolution, in my opinion; suffering is coming from the result of our lacking of capacity, remember this; human's capacity is having limitless potential, like the universal law's potential, our limited resource is time, space and energy, we never be lacking potential and resource, only capacity can be renovated, maybe you have a question like this "what's difference between capacity, resource and potential?" what are they for?", 1. capacity = the ability to accommodate, 2. potential = the ability to produce something that it has been received, 3. resource = Almighty God's power, if we can combine capacity, potential and resource, we will be invincible.


Starting today, don't be afraid about the external thing because the external thing is illusion or not the root of cause, what we interpret towards the external thing is more important than the external thing, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to optimize our sense of suffering to be inner power, hopefully these strategies can help you to change your life to be better, here is the first strategy how to optimize our sense of suffering to be inner power; renew our mindset until we can create new perception to be put into our mindset, the reason why we need to apply this strategy because our mindset is the best asset we have in this life, if we suffer in poor living, it is not because our education, but we lack of information how to renew our mindset, remember this advice; what's inside determines what's outside, no other way around, here is the second strategy how to optimize our sense of suffering to be inner power; we prolong our target term, the reason why we need to prolong our target term because it can prolong our strength to face our sense of suffering, here is the third strategy how to optimize our sense of suffering to be inner power; try to manage our breathing, the reason why I suggest this strategy to you because breathing is the media how to transfer energy, for example; 3 second inhalation, 2 second inhalation and 5 second exhalation, if you practice it frequently, you will not get suffered instantly, instead, you feel relaxed, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Sleep affirmations for positive thinking




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Sleep affirmations for positive thinking”, the main reason why I choose the topic above because many people feel difficult to do positive thinking, many people try to do affirmation when they sleep, but most of them can't get a new change after they do affirmation, now my question is "what makes people can't apply positive thinking?", the answer is caused by two main causes, namely they lack of doing the repetition and they are used to do some activities which can attract too much negative thinking, let me tell you that feel addicted is the result of side effect from consuming too much negative thinking and feel addicted is also the result of side effect from consuming too much positive thinking, basically we are challenged to do the balance between positive and negative energy, if we avoid the usage of negative energy by making negative preparation, we will get disappointed when our hope can't be realized in reality, before we try to do sleep affirmation, we need to let go of what they had expected about what was happened in the past 24 hours, here is my suggestion; you need to do inbound breathing exercise and out-breathing exercise before sleeping at night. 




        Here is the first strategy how to make sleep affirmation for positive thinking; you need to write down what you want to hear in the paper, the reason why you need to do this because it makes you more focused how to do sleep affirmation, if you just write something you don't want to hear, as impact, you only strengthen your negative energy and it will affect to your quality of reaction, if you hear what you are eager to hear it, as impact, you will feel renewed and you will not get the side effect from overthinking issue, 
Here is the second strategy how to make sleep affirmation for positive thinking; you need to meditate for short period of time around 5 minutes, during the meditation process, you need to whisper something to yourself about what you are grateful during past 24 hour, if you show your deepest gratitude, your subconscious mind indirectly tries to let go of your unpleasant feeling, if you succeed to let go of your unpleasant feeling, your subconscious mind will try to record new affirmation before sleeping at night, Here is the third strategy how to make sleep affirmation for positive thinking; you need to do body stretching before making sleep affirmation, the reason why you need to do body stretching because it will produce dopamine's hormone, after that, you say something about what you want to manifest, for example : "I am successful, powerful, handsome and happy", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Treatment for anger



        Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Treatment for anger ”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows how to calm when their anger is trying to raise its power, if you ask me about the main cause why people can get angry easily because they try to force something to be fitted in their idealism / expectation, besides that, people who get angry easily is actually having the difficult to deal with their lack of mental resiliency when a sense of anger is trying to create a strong resistance which can touch their deepest soul, in order to develop our mental resistance, we need to do something which can combine between what we love and what we aren't interested, at this moment, I would like to share some strategist how to treat our anger well, here is the first strategy we need to do how to make treatment for anger; we detach ourselves from our idealism level and we try to lower our idealism as possible as we can until we can accept reality completely, this strategy seems simple to do, but we don't try it, we will never know about its consequences.

                                        

 
    Here is the second strategy we need to do how to make treatment for anger; don't push alter-ego to be active, meaning, we don't hold the anger when it is trying to blow up, we just start to distract our focus by seeing or listening something which can give a relax atmosphere, for example; easy listening music genre or Barok classical music, remember this; when we can change our focus to another object, we indirectly solve half of anger problem, here is the third strategy we need to do how to make treatment for anger; if you are surrounded by the swimming pool, try to swim and hold breath around 30 second, the main reason why swimming can be one of best solution to anger because the cold water can reduce the pain of anger, if you dive in around 30 second in the swimming pool, your anger will be reduced by the cold water, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to make yourself feel better




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to make yourself feel better”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in the same place again and again until they are frustrated, if you ask me why many people can't make them feel better because they still can't find what's important for their own life journey, as long as people don't consider their life journey as important and as long as they don't find meaningful journey, they definitely find a fake happiness by pursuing the instant pleasure, in order to make yourself feel better, you need to stay curious about your own potential, the first strategy how to find your potential ; doing something you never tried before until you gain the moment of failure or you get something that can renew your mindset, the reason why I recommend you to gain the moment of failure because every failure will give you a new life where you will never be the same person like yesterday, remember; the real gift is self-awareness, not the expensive stuff, if your knowledge has the same content like you had lived in 5 years ago, as impact, your future will be the same like 5 years ago, if you are making habit like that, then, you will never be able to make yourself feel better and your life gets stuck because you don't upgrade your knowledge within 5 years period, here is for your note; knowledge is the fuel to generate our potential, if we don't embrace the knowledge, we will never get a new chance to renew our happiness level.


Maybe you ever heard "happiness can be bought by money", if you consider that statement is right, then why many people can't get enough sleep well if they think their happiness level can be bought by money?, that means, the money can't guarantee their happiness level to last longer, let me remind you that money is the tool, you can't exchange your happiness by the tool, the purpose can give you a new value to your character and also new comprehension, here is the simple formula how to make yourself feel better is bringing your expertise to each person where you can meet, either offline or online, if you can teach yourself how to be a good lender and give it to the other people, your emotional content will be richer as if you had received a multiplying return in exact time, that's practice how to make yourself feel better and how not to absorb the greedy characteristic, it sounds simple, but it is not, being a good lender is very hard because the logic says "what you give is gone and it never come back", here is the bad news; when you lack of giving what you love to others, as impact, you will absorb the greedy characteristics automatically, beware of that condition, here is the second strategy how to make yourself feel better; don't expect anything after you give something to this world, if you still expect a gift after you give something to this world, your emotion will be tied by anxiety or fear, eventually you can't access your ideal of life, please let go of what you own because it can blockade your worthiness and your happiness to grow bigger, here is the third strategy how to make yourself feel better; be grateful what you remain possessed and detach yourself from your wild expectation which pushes you to pursue something you aren't supposed to pursue it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Habits of successful students

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         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Habits of successful students”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many students are interested how to build successful habit, if you ask me why not every student is interested how to build successful habit because they lack of will and lack of curiosity towards knowledge or science, at this moment let me share to you about habits of successful student, hopefully these strategies help you how to maintain your focus to study and how to adapt with study pressure, here is the first habit of successful students; they study based on the defined time, not overnight study, meaning, the successful students really appreciate about sleep time and study time, they don't want their time is mixed into each other, if they feel asleep, they will not stay up late, instead of going to sleep at the bedroom, based on psychological review; student who have enough sleep at night, they can memorize what they learn at the school, if you are student right now, you can apply this strategy, for the student commonly, they must sleep around 6-8 hours per day, remember this; a student would better take enough study and can sleep well rather than study till overnight, here is the reason why you need to have sufficient time for sleep; sleep tight can improve your brain memory and your focus power.


       Here is the second habit of successful students; they can manage their priority in daily basis, maybe you consider this strategy pattern is simple, yes, you are right, if student don't know how to manage their priority, as impact, they will use their major time to play around and hang out at some unknown place for chit-chat, remember this advice; students who can manage their priority list, they can control their own future and they will be highly valuable person, here is the third habit of successful students; they will appreciate their time by making good achievement, maybe it seems simple, but in fact, not every student are dare enough to make a good achievement at their school, remember; confident student is not coming from rich family, but they are coming from their achievement.


          Here is the fourth habit of successful students; they do self-correcting every time they finish something, the reason why this habit is so great because it can strengthen human's mentality, even though mistake is nearly inevitable, every mistake can grow student's mentality to do more, there is wisdom from China in old century; people who consult with wise man is better than reading a hundreds of books, if wise man can help you how to do self-correcting, as impact, you will become the next Socrates, Here is the fifth habit of successful students; they write something they learn to the paper every time they find information that can inspire themselves, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.