Son becomes father and father becomes son

Today I would like to talk about the derivative characteristic between son and father, if we look at their behavior, they always behave like twin people, and they don’t want to lose the good moment although they have a different busy activity, what we can learn from them is they are like teacher and student, they are learning one another, starting from attitude, curiosity, discuss, expressing, etc.

Father is the main backbone of family, he is leader among every aspect of family affair, but he can’t be a good leader when he doesn’t care so much about the responsibility he bears, father must learn something from his family member although father looks powerful and stronger than his family member, father can’t be judged as good father when he wouldn’t try to comprehend what his children’s wishing.

Father must become a good sample for his family member because all of family member will follow what’s father behaves about something, all family’s decision are coming from the father’s final decision and also father must become an executor for keeping the family’s welfare, father must possess the wise man’s characteristic who has an authority to shape his family member to become good follower, besides that father must become a great motivator and a great listener because that’s characteristic will help him to overcome seemingly ghastly problem in the family’s affair such as economy dispute, school payment, daily needs, etc.

Here’s the important thing; every father’s decision will be proclaimed by his children and children will start to behave like father in public area , and every father’s bad habit will be descending to his children’s habit unknowingly, becoming a good father is like electricity’s programming system, it will transmit the energy and also it will give a supply to subsidiary’s electricity mini circuit breaker, Mini Circuit Breaker is like the family member, when the main system’s characteristic is irreplaceable, all subsidiary electric’s station in the city will rely on it, otherwise when main system is outdated, it can’t supply everything valuable.

What’s the glorious mission?

Today I would like to talk about how to recognize what’s the meaning of the glorious mission, as you know that human’s existence will be no meaningful when there’s no mission, only the perseverance people can be recruited to fulfill the mission, the glorious mission will not been given to the weak people who they have no idea how to live in this world, the human will be extinction when human don’t want to recognize and detect about the mission, the human’s mission is not talking about happiness, sadness, rich or poor, but the human’s mission is talking about GOD’s path and learning how to understand the purpose of life.

The purpose of life is activating the awareness within humans mindset and let people feel enlightened about something priceless and valuable thing about the thing in this life, so we need to train people to boost their ideas and start to observe about what benefit we can take from this universe, I am really sure every people want to know why they are created, to answer that question, we need to gather much information in order to prove and locate where we should live and when we should leave, all the treasure are belonged to the trusted path, the trusted path can be recognized by seeking the glorious mission on earth, if we want to know why we should be alive, then we should ask about the function of time and power where they live side by side within us.

The definition of glorious mission is not talking about result of happiness, but it is talking about how to start and how to end something before time is over, so as human being, the only thing we can do is we can find and observe something known and the unknown within our strength until we know how to let them work for us, that is the purpose of the glorious mission, the source of power is supposed to be utilized to make a good service, being a lender, not being a sender.

The creator who creates the unlimited energy, He intends to lend it to us His energy in order to teach us how to become a strongest believer, then the glorious mission will not be given to the betrayal because He feels disappoint with their doing. The Creator lets us to utilize His trust in order to build the human’s prophecy, and learn how to act responsibly in this universe, The creator only wants us to make a deal with human being because other creatures can’t fulfill the requirement, the human is the best creation He had ever created in this universe, remember this note; not at all human being will be given the glorious mission, because not everyone doesn’t want to know how to act responsibly with The Creator’s unlimited wealth.

How to know my principles is wrong?

Today I would like to talk how to know my principle is wrong, this topic is very difficult to be comprehended, but now I would like to invite you to observe something we had done long time ago in the past time and compare with something we have done recently, whether any progress or any different between your obsession with your capacity, we will not know what will happen in the future short time till we know exactly about the mistake we have learned.

The wrong principle is not making you how to become a wrong person for everlasting, but it will elevate your life mission until you know about yourself and know about your purpose, the wrong principle is always stopping you from making a progress and keeping you away from the truth, if you feel unmotivated, if you feel doomed, if you are treated like a dead person in every single day, if you feel your life career is stuck in the same level and going to backward, that’s sign your principle is wrong. Please be mindful with your responsibility because only the man who keeps wrong principle where he can’t see any clear hope, and his heart is going to be filled with full of hatred.

Sometimes we need to bear earning the thousands of mistakes before we get one truth, to acknowledge good principle within our life, we need to compare between our last accomplished achievement with our best mistake we have ever made, our principle can be compromised when we see the world in the eye of depression, the age of principle is only 1 time, it needs couple of years to improve to represent who you are.

the greatest value

So please don’t underestimate with this condition because it’s very crucial, the main reason why we can’t evolve our career because we like to magnify our feeling of proud and stop making different mistake in the future, please remember this note; our principle will not change when we are not having huge eagerness to unlearn the bad habit, our life will not change significantly if we run our rest of life for chasing the material wealth only.

How to make different impact in result

Today I would like to talk about how to make different impact in order to get the new thing from what people have done, recently many people assume they have done something great to ascertain they are doing more and more to achieve a big target, every time they achieve target, their effort can’t achieve the target because they are just doing more, not doing better, by that I mean, when we do something to achieve target, don’t think about how much time you need to finish the target, but how much available idea to make different impact.

I believe many people try to work really hard to make different impact but they still argue, angry and doubt with the end result because they just copy what other people usually do to achieve target, to make different impact we need to observe what most people need something and what most people don’t need something, with the key word I mentioned, you probably will find new opportunity you may haven’t met beforehand.

I would remind you that becoming different guy has offered many things and bring the positive side when we realize about the meaning of it, being different you in every day situation will empower your mentality to grow better, the most difficult situation will not keep you away from feeling of self-confessed, but in the contrary the most difficult situation will run your inner power to clear your mind and focus to achieve the target, in this modern area there are many people are getting misunderstood by interpreting between to be different and become strange, the reason why they don’t understand about it because in the daily activity they often become victim of life and they already been trapped by dogma where they are trained to accept the fear and accept the doubt on their mindset.

At this point of thinking, we will try to differentiate between strange person or be different person, now we will try to interpret the definition of strange man; the strange man means doing something out of standard, out of majority capacity, and strange man’s behavior usually is not accepted by the most people because he is doing something irrelevant and absurd, otherwise the different guy is doing something when other people don’t have any courage to finish job or mission, then different guy is learning something from the specific area when most people don’t recognize it carefully, a different guy tends to make creativity and he is not doing what most people do in the usual way, he is keep engraving his idealism to create the unique idea for everlasting.

The great depression is great recession

Today I would like to talk about the symptoms of great depression and the great depression equals with great recession, it is part of illness mentality, if we take look from the human who has great depression in their habits, averagely they are afraid to seek something in the future because they are showing lack of something valuable and they are trapped into pollutant's environment, so if we look the depressed people around us, we are not allowed to give more burden to them when we can’t help to minimize it, whatever difficult situation we are now, we can’t return them back to the pollutant area, instead we need to pull them from the pollutant and invite them to the better place.

We all know that depression is caused by neglecting the reality and refuse to accept new changes, in fact every changes are needed to upgrade our inefficient system which had been implanted in our mindset and turn it into something more powerful and more positive, habit is the main role how to change every decision from individual person, habit can’t be represented, habit can’t be duplicated, habit is self-responsibility, the great depression are accumulation of people’s bad habits and every bad habits are coming from uneducated and unwillingness of appreciation .

Uneducated means showing lack of attention to accept the reality and run away from mistake, at this point we can’t change other people’s habit, we only can give them a good sample and let them see your habits until they start to understand different thing between himself and different you, habit is like program, we are not authorized to change a other people’s program, we just can retrace the story from the people who felt depression in the past time, as we know that All the depressed people are always losing their feeling of control until they don’t know how to differentiate between their memory data and their imagination.

The greater depression is embedded into someone’s memory data, the greater hole will gnaw their power of hope, depression can't be neutralized with giving a reward but it can be neutralized with associated with good people's idea, the depression can’t be seen easily by naked eyes or it can’t be felt easily by word of mouth, depression is the state of feeling sad because of lack of determination, lack of knowledge, lack of attention, lack of care, lack of love, lack of accepting advice, and lack of decisiveness. My suggestion is when people around you feel symptom of depression, you can replace their memory by giving them valuable memory and train them with busy weekday schedule in order to make them forget something bad in the past time.

How to handle the life pressure

          Today I would like to share how to handle the life pressure, the reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in the life pressure, I just want to remind you that life is always neutral, life becomes dud which is designed by human’s inability to make decision, so basically negative energy and positive energy are designed to serve what people need during thinking process, please note; negative feeling can’t influence human’s thinking way to create the dangerous thing because human being possess six intelligence; mentality intelligence, intellectual intelligence physical intelligence, emotional intelligence, natural intelligence and spiritual intelligence, so when human can’t make a better life and they feel bitter, the main cause is coming from the people’s unclear purpose and people keep pushing the life harder to serve what people need.

          No matter how hard your life is, when you don’t push the life to sue what you need of service, you will be wiser and calmer, when you want to make better life, life just needs you to make a plan, do what you can do and life doesn’t ask you to do something that you can’t deserve, when you believe there’s nothing is impossible, means life is going to give you the unconditional gift after you deserve to learn what life requires, what I see in the picture of the world is most people don’t get what they want in this life because they just push their limitation and they don’t pull something what’s making them inspired a lot to do it, we can’t handle all pressure from anyone else before we ourselves can resolve our life pressure, please follow the basic rule; life is always be neutral, when you push life harder, you will get bounce back from it, when you don’t push life, you will be controlled by life, all we need to do is not to follow the life rule but we can make it follow us by creating the law of attraction.

          The law of attraction can make better decision when we are too soft by dealing with feeling of afraid and anxiety, sometimes we just make a hope for fulfilling our satisfaction but we forget that we don’t make something to be attractive, we all know that life is always be mysterious and we don’t know what will happen in the near future whether it will provide the bad thing or the good thing, if we want to tame life’s characteristic, we need to make the best preparation and make it a trap for life by promoting our philosophy, so this purpose is intended to make life is becoming our slavery.

Train your mind to control where your feeling wants to go

Train our mind first with good philosophy and observe about the truth

              Hi smart people, howdy? Today I would like to share how to train our mind to control our emotional feeling, as you know that in modern era, there are many people are losing their self-control, losing self-worth, losing their dignity because they let their emotional feeling going anywhere without purpose, so at this moment I would share how to train our mind from the darkness of emotion feeling, the main reason why our lives is so miserable and bleak because we always follow where our feeling is going and we always believe about instinct's foundation work, besides that we prefer to choose the easier job and we don't like to take new responsibility and new risk, that's reason why we failed at some turning point of our lives journey because we don't recognize about our clear decisions where it comes from our feeling or our thoughts.

       Remember this note; the human's emotional feeling always goes without purpose, that's the natural law, so if we don't train our feeling to follow what we really want, we will get suffer automatically, some people think doing something easier is good because there is no risk within this, unmistakably, that's decision will destroy their future, the reason why human's future destroys by itself because people reject the natural law, the law says "whoever can survive, it is caused by someone will take the risk and opportunity", I just to remind you that our mind is like stomach, our mind needs some foods to think or idea whereas our stomach needs food and beverage to do something physically, here is for your note; human thought's food are philosophy, knowledge, truth and dream, if we don't feed our mind with those, we will get suffer and unwittingly we always follow where our emotion is going because there is no clear direction to guide our emotions and the clearest direction is usually produced by our mindset, if there's something wrong happen upon our lives because we always rely on instinct to work for us, here is note for you; instinct and emotional feeling are like GPS's working, it's designed to give information only, we can't blame them if they give you the wrong direction because they are not asking you to believe it.

Our body gets pain because we don't train our mind to get information how to get health

             

    Now I understand why people are easily get deceived in daily life because they are too believing about their instinct's working and they don't clarify whether the information can be trustworthy or not, the first thing we must do if we don't want to get tricked by the dishonest people is don't believe with our emotional feeling when we face the problem because human's emotion is designed like GPS's foundation work, its only giving information, our priority job is clarifying whether the information is correct or wrong, we need some evidences, such as data, history, communication, etc. remember; if we always believe about instinct, our mentality won’t grow because we don't do something greater than instinct, remember this note; our thoughts don't give single response when we use instinct to make decision, here are the signs that growth mindset; you keep having a positive attitude while you are facing the insurmountable situation, you start to think negative when the instinct is commanding you to make destruction of something, you can detect when the feeling of negativity is entering into your emotion, etc. here is my personal advice; you must be alert at any time because there's nobody can behave positive all the time.

          The human’s emotional intelligence are started to work at maximum level when people feel there’s something wrong with the external issue such as the human’s relationship issue, economy crisis, politic issue, rumor or meet with insurmountable problem, from that example, we can take conclusion, if people don’t train their emotional intelligence with the right mindset, their emotion will absorb the darkness of life such as following GPS's working,  in my personal advice; before you will meet with the insurmountable problem, you must train your paradigm how to adapt with your environment whether it's serving good thing or bad thing, you can learn from the fish’s philosophy, "they keep persistent to swim even though their position in the dirty water", from the fish’s philosophy, it teaches us to keep moving and adapting from one position to another position although we often see new problem.

Train mind is like pulling out the inessential thing from brain memory

Remember; this life has no meaningful if you follow where your feeling is going, creating the dream for this life is very important because it can track where your life journey is going, such as practice your major skill to invent something, if you have a clear purpose and you find matched vocation with your inborn ability,  i am certain you will not get bored while you are doing it because you find source of happiness for your soul, if you just work without having a specific purpose, you will be easy to absorb the darkness of life because you let your ignorance will crush your life path.

Consistency is more than perfection

          Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share how to make the consistent habit during undergoing the unpleasant situation in this life, the main reason why I choose that topic because there is something valuable information I will tell you about the benefit of consistency, as we know that act of consistency is one of the highest habit level which is loved by Almighty God because this kind of habit can be used to knock Almighty God’s heart, there is no meaningful success in this world when there is nobody will enjoy his own life journey, remember this note; it doesn’t matter whether you start earlier or later, if you don’t commit to the consistent process, you will lose by your desire power, the consistency is the only way how to keep opening the door of opportunity although you haven’t guarded that door at every moment, if we don’t want to keep consistent on the clear purpose, we will lose our vision about our purpose ahead, that’s the law, here is the major cause why we can’t reach our target; we have the perfectionism standard, lack of consistency and we have many goals, when we apply that kind of belief into daily life, we will lose the sense of enthusiasm because unwittingly we underestimate a small chance which may help us to reach the target, that’s the frightening thing.

In my opinion; everybody has sense of perfection in their idealism, but don’t let our idealism will preempt new opportunity which may give an answer for our problem because it will devalue the power of opportunity itself, if we behold to the positive side of the sense of perfection; we can use our sense of perfection to monitor our best performance to the specific field we want to get in, but if we behold to the negative side of the sense of perfection; the perfectionism believer will not receive a new idealism easily from the other people or the unknown reference although the information gives the true information, here is the philosophy you may need it, "the sense of perfection is like someone is running in the treadmill machine, he is doing something consistently, but unfortunately he puts his satisfaction to the unpromising scope, so he plans to fail", we will not lose any opportunity if we keep consistency how to discover it, but the problem is “not all opportunities can be approached to any person because every opportunity just welcomes any person whose a ready made product”, besides having a consistent habit, we also need sense of enthusiasm and reward to attract our sense of urgency, if we lack the sense of urgency, finally we will produce unproductive habit.

When I review about the perfectionist’s habit, he can’t recognize self-worth because he uses their major time to focus on the wrong direction, means “the perfectionist focuses how to access the perfection value”, but he is not focusing “how to keep on the consistency value”, here are the good news if you start to apply the sense of consistency into your daily activity, the first benefit; you will never get failure, except your mental age is going to be mature, invincible and stronger, the second benefit; the universe will lend its energy to help you to access the power of imagination, the third benefit; you will never touch with doubt, fear or the negative feeling.

How to deal with overprotective parents

Child's safe is too protected by parent's incapacity to care

   Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to deal with overprotective parents” the main reason why I choose that topic because many young people feel insecure when they have parents who treat them overprotective, if you ask me why parents treat their children is overprotective because many parents worry the environment doesn't support the children's mental development, besides that, there are many crimes which may occur in the big city, that's the positive side, as children, they don't care about their environment's bad side because they still have high curiosity to find out what they want to know around them, on the other hand, parents feel guilty if they let their children getting involved with the unknown circumstance which may influence their children's mental development, some parents are initiatively taking the homeschooling program for their children in order to minimize the unknown environment's negative impact, in my opinion; there is a contradiction in terms between children and parent if both of them can't respect with their decision, as children, they will feel insecure when the parents show overprotective treatment which may have possibility to block the children's hidden potential.  

                                    

    If your position as children, you may feel confused how to deal with overprotective parents, here is the first strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you must make your parents to be proud when you can create the achievement at school, if your parents feel proud about what you do at school, your parents will not show overprotective treatment to you, basically every parent doesn't want the unknown circumstance will do something bad to their children, here is the second strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you must possess something which is related with adult's mindset, meaning, you prove yourself that you can do something unexpected until your parents feel impressed about what you do, such as, you can show your troubleshooting skill when your parents have problem, here is the third strategy how to deal with overprotective parents; you can convince your parents that your behavior doesn't worry your parent, meaning, your behavior can help you to solve your problem without getting your parents involved, as long as your behavior makes your parents worried, your parents will behave overprotective, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Example of happy family

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Example of happy family”, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people desire to have happy family, but it doesn't happen yet in reality, if you ask me why having happy family is difficult to shape because it needs good cooperation between man and woman who are building the same purpose, building high qualification, and building strong commitment, even though we can't ensure when happy family can be built, if we combine between qualification, commitment and purpose, there is nothing can against us, what can stop us from developing our qualification, commitment and purpose is our fear, doubt and our satisfaction, happy family can be created beyond our expectation if we don't hurt our spouse's feeling with something they don't want to get, it is very simple, as long as we work hard on our capacity, I am sure we can build happy family, for the most important thing is we can keep good communication with our spouse, we share our good feeling to our spouse and we comprehend her/ his love language, let me tell you one thing, our duty right now is not demanding our spouse how to fulfill our expectation, but how we let our spouse to develop her/his own qualification, it is not easy, but if we can lower our ego, there is nothing against our path, please remember this philosophy; building happy family is like building house, we need to evaluate what is the value of house, we must choose the type of house we will use for longer time, we must discuss with our spouse related with the function of the room A, B, C, the more often we can discuss about the detailed point with our spouse, the more we can create solution easier because the detail is the source of power. 

         
        Let me give you the criteria or example how to build happy family, hopefully this strategy can help you to build sustainable family relationship, here is the first strategy how to build happy family; you can allocate your time to do something together with your spouse and your kids even though you belong to busy person in your career, this method is not easy, but if we can allocate our time to fulfill our family's emotional need, as impact, we can reduce the conflict and a sense of peace will be created by itself, here is the second strategy how to build happy family; you are willing to listen your spouse's deepest feeling even though you are tired, this method is simple, you just need your sincerity and conscience, if you feel this method is not easy, you can practice it in every single day by talking to yourself in the mirror, here is the third strategy how to build happy family; you don't push your opinion to your spouse even though you think your opinion is more valuable than your spouse's opinion, this method needs self-minded clearance and humility, whether we like it or not, we must admit that what we think is right is not absolutely right for others because opinion is just accumulation of perception, not representing the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How not to hate yourself when you make a mistake

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How not to hate yourself when you make a mistake”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people are ready to accept mistake, besides that, they consider making mistake is part of humiliation, that's negative stereotype, I just want to remind you that not all mistakes are negative, there is difference between mistake and punishment, mistake is part of knowing nothing about what circumstance happens, whereas, punishment is part of evil thing, most people consider the mistake is designed not to make them stupid, in fact, life is not offering the mistake unless we know how to handle them, if this life is designed for stupidity, what’s point of living ? Here is the main point of living is undergoing the life challenge to search what God promises to us, if we want to know about God’s promise, we need knowledge to deal with the mistake because mistake is part of golden ticket how to keep us growing better than today, the life challenge is designed to get us stronger, wiser and more accountable, the reason why people get suffered during they're living on earth because lack of making mistake within themselves and they lack of the survival skill, if we put the hatred feeling to what God does to us, means, we reject to know about God’s promise, this phase is very challenging because not everyone wants to meet with God's promise, in my opinion; only deserved person can get new mistake, whereas, indifferent person only get worse mistake than it should be done.

         At this moment I would like to share some strategies how not to hate yourself when you make a mistake, hopefully these strategies can help you to excel your mindset, here is the first strategy how not to hate yourself when you make a mistake; you must say to yourself "Almighty God knows better than what I know, if this mistake is not directed to me, I will never get it", meaning, mistake is part of delegation where it is given from God to deserved person, Almighty God will not give a mistake if He thinks you aren't ready to accept it, here is the second strategy how not to hate yourself when you make a mistake; you must assume a mistake is the ladder for the top of success, there is no elevator that can lift you up unless you climb the ladder, if you don't climb the ladder, you will not get something new in your vision, the same journey is on the ground, if people get the same thing again and again in their lives because they avoid the new mistake and they think do something new is risky, here is the third strategy how not to hate yourself when you make a mistake; you must say to the mistake "thank you for having me, without your existence, I will never know whether what I am doing is right or wrong", if you feel grateful every time you get a mistake, as impact, you will be wiser than before, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.        

How to have a happy and peaceful life

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to have a happy and peaceful life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware how to have a happy and peaceful life, if you ask me why not many people get pursued by happy and peaceful life because they do something which is not needed by happy and peaceful life, as long as people only do something for instant gratification and for personal life, they will never get happy and peaceful life, people must pay the price with their time, effort, knowledge, skill, and good habit, in order to welcome a happy and peaceful life, we must offer our resources to this world and be a good lender to people who need our resources, at this moment I would share some rules how to have a happy and peaceful life, here is the first rule how to have a happy and peaceful life; don’t be greedy, be grateful, means, greedy person can't enjoy what they have, no matter they receive more or less, they will never be enough, whereas grateful person can enjoy everything from reality, no matter what he receives more or less, because he realizes what he receives reflects to what he gives, if you limit yourself by doing something less, the disaster will attack you and take your peaceful heart, what you give to this life is seeking you, what belongs to you is seeking you, what doesn't belong to you is not seeking you.

Meditation is part of unleashing your own ego

      Here is the second rule how to have a happy and peaceful life; learn something positive from something that can give you enthusiasm's energy, the main reason why I say such thing because enthusiasm will get you freeing from frustration, you can't be happy if you wait or ask people's validation, if you do something positive, you will get something positive automatically, there’s no doubt about it because it's universal law, so you just need to adapt yourself with the process although it takes more time, here is the third rule how to have a happy and peaceful life; stay away from indecision, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because indecision will prohibit you to get clear mind, clear purpose and clear decision, the best response you can make if you want to live peacefully is don’t judge bad about your own deprivation and you hold responsibility to what you choose and stop thinking about something you can't control, remember this advice; it is better you get mistake rather than you never know your mistake, to create happiness state, you need to balance between what you receive from life and what you give to life, your duty is pursue the feeling where it can give you something more than you expect, so don't live with your expectation because your expectation is not kind of self-help, expectation is part of your limit, surpass your expectation by doing what majority of people don't do,  I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Self satisfaction

satisfaction is fantastic seducer but it's lousy teacher

Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome to my blog, Today I would like to talk about the interesting topic "Self-satisfaction", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is aware about the advantage and the disadvantage from the meaning of self-satisfaction, when we were kid, we were taught by our parents / teachers how to enjoy what we are facing and how to pursue what we want, but it is not good point to make us feel happy, do you know why I say such thing? Because we are trained to listen the voice which it is not our own, how our parents know if we are happy or not, the only way how to find our voice is stop pursuing what makes us satisfied and start doing what makes your awareness is increasing every day until we can say "that's good, this is point of destination where I am looking for", here is the meaning of self-satisfaction = the ability to demand ourselves to pursue what we think is always right, if we practice our mindset like that, we aren't trained to face about the risk, instead, we are trained to make us to be stressed, do you know why I say such thing because we pursue too hard the direction where we aren't entitled to make it happen.

leave the satisfaction zone is one way to make us different 

Self-satisfaction is really different than self-actualization, the most horrible thing which may happen to the reality is when people try to compare between self-satisfaction and self-actualization, now let me give you the description of self-actualization; act of combining our intuition, our biggest curiosity to our infinite capacity, embody our specific purpose and express our soul expression to real world, whereas, self-satisfaction is pursuing our short term desire even though we don't know the effect of our short term desire, in my opinion, I don't recommend you to do develop your self-satisfaction because your inner quality is more important than your self-satisfaction, inner quality is like integrity, patience, work hard, enthusiasm, faith, Sometimes we must open our eyes a lot if we want to change what haven't done yet, we need to do something until we got wakeup call from our soul, if we only focus on self-satisfaction, we only pursue expectation in the certain way without any limit, the negative bias is we only get stress from our self-satisfaction because we compare between limited area and unlimited area, Life is full of uncertainty; what we can do as human being is do something until we don't need what we have done, if we do that, we will receive something more than what we deserve, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life career, good luck.