Today I would like to talk about the derivative
characteristic between son and father, if we look at their behavior, they
always behave like twin people, and they don’t want to lose the good moment
although they have a different busy activity, what we can learn from them is
they are like teacher and student, they are learning one another, starting from
attitude, curiosity, discuss, expressing, etc.
Father is the main backbone of family, he is leader
among every aspect of family affair, but he can’t be a good leader when he doesn’t
care so much about the responsibility he bears, father must learn something from
his family member although father looks powerful and stronger than his family
member, father can’t be judged as good father when he wouldn’t try to comprehend
what his children’s wishing.
Father must
become a good sample for his family member because all of family member will
follow what’s father behaves about something, all family’s decision are coming from the father’s final decision and
also father must become an executor for keeping the family’s welfare, father must possess the wise man’s characteristic
who has an authority to shape his family member to become good follower,
besides that father must become a great
motivator and a great listener because that’s characteristic will help him to
overcome seemingly ghastly problem in the family’s affair such as economy
dispute, school payment, daily needs, etc.
Here’s the important thing; every father’s decision will be proclaimed
by his children and children will start to behave like father in public area , and
every father’s bad habit will be descending to his children’s habit unknowingly,
becoming a good father is like electricity’s programming system, it will
transmit the energy and also it will give a supply to subsidiary’s electricity
mini circuit breaker, Mini Circuit Breaker is like the family member, when the main system’s characteristic is irreplaceable,
all subsidiary electric’s station in the city will rely on it, otherwise when
main system is outdated, it can’t supply everything valuable.