Synchronize between our expectation and reality

Uncover the fact is one way to create new path in this life

            Today in this topic I would like to talk about the expectation and the reality, as we know that many people are so eagerness to create the same standard quality in their whole life, on the other hand, expectation and reality will chase down to the human’s being personality and also both will determine what exactly clear purpose the humans want to become with.

when we enter to win, we need to forget the expectation

            The reality will shape the last human’s effort and also reality will determine what kind of next journey the human will take, most people in the world are trying to speculate about their journey of life, they think this life will give a good option and some of them speculate this life will give humans the significant love, that is the result of expectation, they have made their expectation in order to remind us that we need to accept the bad influence which may adhere to our expectation, overall if we are talking about our expectation, we need to persevere the determination area we need to improve.

when we enter to the competition, prepare your best self esteem

Some people also consider that life is offering the full of punishment, live in this world like a prisoner in the jail, and many of suffering will be offered in this life as long as the humans being exist, so what should we do if we face the abnormality between expectation and reality? The first thing we should prepare is we accustom ourselves to accept the real condition and we don’t object about the bad condition which may happen to us; the second thing we should prepare is we need to behave like an adventurer in the new place, we need to train our mentality to decrease the friction between this life and us.

prepare your good story is one of the sensible way to create hope

The more critical question we make, the more option we will obtain from it, the less critical question we make, the less option we will obtain from it, that’s law, I agree the expectation is not part of good teacher who will teach you how to survive, but it is having slogan which is ensuring you keep moving forward and keep you in the right track, without expectation’s existence, you will not find new momentum within your life and also you will not find the greatest thing within you, the more sensible way how to synchronize the expectation and reality are making hope and creation, without activating it, our life are so full of anxiety, the purpose we learn about the expectation is building the self-esteem, if we insist to build it, we will embrace the good moment between the reality and expectation.

What’s difference between insecure feeling and secure feeling?

Today I would like to talk how to differentiate between insecure feeling and secure feeling, we all know that insecure feeling and secure feeling are happening because of our decision making, the more clear decision we make, the more clear hope will fill in our life journey, now we will try to analyze how do we recognize secure or insecure feeling in our final acceptance, normally most people will feel bad when there’s something insecure enters to their happiness and when they haven’t found the happiness, they start to blame the insecure feeling.

The question is “what factor will make the insecure thing to be active?”, if you concern that the factor will make you have the insecure feeling, none other thing the factor is coming from your bad experience alive or your expectation result is bigger than you expect it, if we know the main cause, that’s mean we are bold enough to secure the insecure thing.

train our mindset to secure the insecure feeling

The problem is not coming from your feeling, but you choose to live together with your bad experience in the pastime and also you are staying away from the reality and your life path, that’s prove that you want to embrace the insecure feeling, now I will mention what’s the secure feeling? the secure feeling covers the patience, the greatest determination, hope, love, decisiveness, honesty and happiness, please remember; the secure feeling will not be active automatically, but the secure feeling needs to be built from the humble beginning, if we do the greatest thing without making plan, without making certain drive and without following the guidance, we will not achieve the power to activate the secure feeling to secure the insecure feeling.

The insecure feeling can’t be activated automatically except it is be trained by the human’s decision, how to build the secure feeling and the insecure feeling are needing the different method, the secure feeling needs more extra power to train it and also we need a longer time to prepare ourselves, whereas the insecure feeling doesn’t need the training program to build it, it easier to embrace the insecure feeling rather than the secure feeling because the secure feeling always resists the pain and suffering.

How do I improve my reputation?

Today I would like to talk about the topic how do I improve my reputation? As human being, the reputation is sign of retention, if someone wants to get good reputation but he is not willingly to make retention, as result he will ruin his own reputation through habit, there is none other way to keep reputation alive except he will make better improvement in every single day.

You may forget the moment you build reputation at the first time, but once you will lose every moment or opportunity in every single day, you will not see the clearest momentum of yourself, reputation is not just building popularity, popularity is not good purpose, but it’s optional which is taking a lot of risk within, I have seen many people are competing one of each other and against the rule because they think popularity is more important than reputation.

Don’t think popularity is attractive and invite full of happiness, in return, making yourself to become the self-centered person is not going to build good reputation, but it is going to ruin you from the unexpected reason, the reason why many people are becoming less confident today not because they are belong to rich family but they prefer to build a bad reputation rather than building a good value for other people’s lives.

Please remember this note; Reputation is not promising a prosperous life or popularity, but reputation is being built not because you deserve something good but you are responsible for the good things you have made one act of kindness for the mankind, in the future’s time, the reputation will invite you to become famous and popular person although you are not intending to make yourself becoming popular, but your biggest care and biggest value are promoting you to become the deserved person, so please keep in touch with your unlimited value and don’t ever forget to propagate the meaningful words to other people because one day your reputation relies upon it, there's additional information; once you keep your attitude to build a good character, your reputation will be known as many people soon or later.

What kind of innovation I should prioritize?

Today I would like to talk about the innovation, many people think that innovation are belonged to the clever person’s right but now anyone can have the innovation if they recognize what capability of they are participating in this life, the clever or stupid are not part of innovation characteristic, but the innovation can be built by seeking the right people who surround you and supporting you to do something different in long term period, that’s secret how to make innovation.

No one can be considered as good inventor when they just do something in the short-term period and do the same thing over, over again, the innovation we should take as priority job is keeping studying about the new qualification which can help you to become new person in every single day, innovation needs observing, it is one of the human’s good habits which is advancing the knowledge.

Before we make innovation, we should know about what kind of scope or the aspects we will create, without any specific scope, we will create doubt and the feeling of doubt will make us procrastinated when we want to do something benefit, we may lose our dignity and lose the significant love, but that’s not very important, the most priority thing we should prioritize during making invention is Ignite a new hope and  don’t quit when you persevere going to your next destination, quitting from hope, means it will burn down the path of hope.

The innovation will not see the end result once you are working on it, but the innovation will see the process enjoyment you are collecting with, especially when you are starting the process from the humble beginning, so the purpose of making innovation is giving each person about the biggest momentum when they are receiving biggest momentum in their life, the biggest momentum in this life covers lesson which making every single person can become proactive, progressive and productive person. Please remember: your innovation doesn’t work unless you use your time to make yourself becoming the different person in every single day and also has a unique idea to solve a big pressing problem, every innovation can’t be created automatically, all needs good habits like perseverance, love, peaceful heart, faithful, right timing, creation, tireless spirit and hope.

Shape the new personality

Today I would like to share with the statement “shape the new personality”, this question describes not everyone can utilize an opportunity to secure their personality when they work under pressure. The basic principle of shape new personality is creating new human being who can endure everything bad in this life but they are having self-control to make fortune, without activating the value, someone will do something dangerous and he is going to lose hope, the reason why we need to possess the attitude because it is part of our last shield in which case it helps us determine where exactly we want to become.

Now we are going to acknowledge what factor we need to build the secure personality, the first thing we must do to secure our personality from the bad thing is forgetting about the last moment we have passed, that is the first quality we need to build, it sounds easy but not everyone has willingness to forget the moment in the past time, when people can’t do this simulation, their soul will get trapped in the past time and they will make the repeated problem in every single day.

Remember this note; every miracle in this life will not happen except every human insists to break up any excuses which may give small spark in their own mindset and make decision by doing the hardest thing in every single day such as making the simulation program to create small suffering, once we succeed to train our mindset to accept the simulation program, we will get new idea from the uncomfortable thing, that is the second thing we need to do in order to secure our personality, and the secure personality teaches us how to engage strong, the process is not going to make us get happiness.

Don’t easily break up the simulation program because one simulation is enough to determine all moment you have in one year, life is not talking about happiness and sadness, but life is talking about the appreciation, whether you like the treatment or not, sooner or later you will earn it, that’s how we learn how to secure our personality, someone who has a secure personality, he usually applies the simulation program and he starts to resist the bad influence which may come into his mindset and he will utilize his creativity to change the bad influence as milestone in order to get higher purpose in every single day  because he believes some higher purpose will treat him as a winner, when he wins, he can control the unlimited power within.