Children like an empty cup



Today I would like to talk about how to rethink about children’s behavior, as we know that children are doing something without considering whether the result is true or wrong, that is the inborn ability which it has multimillion brilliant program where it has been implanted by Almighty GOD when children is born.


Every children is wishing to make mistake because they think that’s funny thing they can only do in every single day and they will repeat that mistake until they understand better about what they exactly are doing, so being stupid during starting new thing is normally process in this life, nobody can finish the perfect job without they were making little accomplishment through mistake in the past.


 We can’t learn new thing if we are not willingly to take the responsible about the object we are enjoying with, the responsibility means we can’t escape from something we haven’t finished yet, so we always be blamed if only we deliberately stopped the process, nobody knows when responsibility will end, or it will run for the everlasting moment.

The children’s behavior describes there’s the sign of genius because they keep doing although they don’t know about what they are doing, and then children sometimes love to behave like the adult people as if they had known everything in this life, now I would like to elucidate the difference between the adult people’s behavior and the children’s behavior, first of all, the children are preceding to take action rather than applying the reasonable thing whereas adult people are preceding the reasonable thing rather than taking action, the second thing is the children are making a lot of mistakes rather than adult people’s whereas the adult people are afraid of making mistake because they think making mistake is treating them embarrassed, the third thing is children are having strong curiosity rather than adult people’s.



Based on the difference between adult people’s behavior and children’s behavior, we can conclude that children has enormous intelligent rather than adult people because children don’t care so much about the negativity and they love of being empty cup which it can accept any opportunity and risk from the circumstance of life, the children use the insatiable curiosity to reveal the behind of mistake and they always love to learn from zero point.

Son becomes father and father becomes son



Today I would like to talk about the derivative characteristic between son and father, if we look at their behavior, they always behave like twin people, and they don’t want to lose the good moment although they have a different busy activity, what we can learn from them is they are like teacher and student, they are learning one another, starting from attitude, curiosity, discuss, expressing, etc.


Father is the main backbone of family, he is leader among every aspect of family affair, but he can’t be a good leader when he doesn’t care so much about the responsibility he bears, father must learn something from his family member although father looks powerful and stronger than his family member, father can’t be judged as good father when he wouldn’t try to comprehend what his children’s wishing.


Father must become a good sample for his family member because all of family member will follow what’s father behaves about something, all family’s decision are coming from the father’s final decision and also father must become an executor for keeping the family’s welfare, father must possess the wise man’s characteristic who has an authority to shape his family member to become good follower, besides that father must become a great motivator and a great listener because that’s characteristic will help him to overcome seemingly ghastly problem in the family’s affair such as economy dispute, school payment, daily needs, etc.



Here’s the important thing; every father’s decision will be proclaimed by his children and children will start to behave like father in public area , and every father’s bad habit will be descending to his children’s habit unknowingly, becoming a good father is like electricity’s programming system, it will transmit the energy and also it will give a supply to subsidiary’s electricity mini circuit breaker, Mini Circuit Breaker is like the family member, when the main system’s characteristic is irreplaceable, all subsidiary electric’s station in the city will rely on it, otherwise when main system is outdated, it can’t supply everything valuable.

Don’t just follow your passion


Today I would like to talk about passion; as we know that passion is part of the human’s unlimited energy which can encourage us to determine something we desire about it, passion can be used to develop the human’s creativity, decrease the variant, sharpen the intuition, enhance the inborn ability to control human’s mindset and increase productivity.

Control yourself

As we know that passion is inborn natural ability, it can be learned in order to create the masterpiece or it can be nothing meaningful when people don’t know how to utilize it, no matter how much powerful resourcefulness in the human’s mind, when people don’t know how to unleash it, passion can go to the wrong direction, it is very dangerous because it can kill the human virtue.



Dream and passion have different meaning, dream is like the strong reason where it can drive us to the final destination, whereas passion is something powerful which keep us moving with our masterpiece and power of passion keeps us staying together with the correct information and the right motivation, passion will ensure our creativity keeps enhancing and will leave new track in order to make us keep in touch with the future’s channel.



Passion is the kind of ultimate resources which it can give human being the new inspiration in every single day, passion will teach people how to make, how to shape, how to handle, how to take responsibility, how to react and how to behave, at this point I would like to remind you, the strong passion can be driven to the wrong direction and also it can be driven to the right direction, passion is neutral, it can be activated once there’s a will and it can be non-active once there’s no order from the human’s mindset. So the greatness can run 1000 miles / hour faster before human already create the outcome at the first time, that’s passion’s characteristic, passion has no a limited access although human’s body is limited, passion is started from the power of imagination, it can accommodate everything limitless in the human's mind, the imagination supports humans being once it’s necessary.

How do I know if my pain system is being over protective?


Today I would like to talk about the critical question “how do I know if my pain system is being over protective?”, as we know that pain will appear when we try to refuse the natural law which has been set since the universe was created, so there is no other reason to argue about the pain’s existence, what we need to do now is stop asking ourselves about how to reject the pain and starting to ask how much time we can understand about the pain system.


The pain system is like a self-protection, it will protect something important from inside and it will be linked with system, once we are trying to resist the security system or once we get out of the system’s reach, we will taste a pain and we will become the victim because we attack the pain, basically the human’s pain is not monster, it will protect us from the unnecessary dangerous thing, but when we try to understand the pain, we will be treated well and justice, the pain also can be utilized to be motivation and it keeps us going to the particular point area.


The life‘s pain system characteristic are fair, honest, integrity, perseverance, care, sincere, responsibility and persuasive, the human’s pain system can’t be modified or it can’t be manipulated in several ways, all we need to do is just living and sticking together with the existed the life’s system as long as we are alive, but there is turning point when we follow the pain’s system, as result our life will be guaranteed by having peacefully heart for everlasting.


the human’s pain system sometimes tells to our conscious mind about what we choose about something right or something wrong in our last determination, so the human’s pain system can be divided into two kind, the first thing is discipline and the second thing is regret, both of them will make us feel uncomfortable and feel suck for temporary time, remember this note; the greatness success in life can be built from the mind’s discipline and good attitude, so how to know that our pain system is being over protective is because of our unsteadiness during keeping our attitude, I hope when you read this article, you can start to understand about the human’s pain system and you will find your pain‘s system in your well-being, so you will no longer be treated injustice in this life, that’s law.

How do I retrain my pain system to be less protective?



Today I would like to talk about the critical question “how do I retrain my pain system to be less protective?” many people are trying to avoid this condition because they think the life’s pain is inevitable, sometimes pain can’t change the human attitude and sometimes pain can change the human attitude, all depends on how we think, how we react and how we feel about the pain itself.


I have shared my point of view in the previous article, the pain system is working like the self-protection, we are protected from the dangerous thing when we do something we don’t understand about the risk which may destroy our peacefully heart, based on my observation result, I see myself many people are deliberately taking risk without considering about the next effect.


The pain system can become less protective when we follow the life’s rule and engage the positive characteristic such as justice, integrity, loyal, honest, care, responsibility, persistent, etc. we may don’t have of those good characteristic but now that’s our opportunity to retrain our pain system in order to make us feel better and the pain system to be less protective, I will remind you again, the pain system is created not to fulfill human’s needs and evoke the human’s mind to feel insecure in this world but the pain system is created to teach human being how to survive.


So we need some strategies to remake better world, all the big things are determined from the smallest thing we have made it consistently to achieve higher purpose in this life, no matter how chaotic our creation, the smallest thing will become a participant to embody the new hope for ours, we can’t fill up our lives just depending on the baseline of material worlds although it is considered to become good for facilitating the human’s need, sometimes we do something for nothing to clear our mind from the complex problem, the solution how to retrain our pain system is making a new accomplishment in every single day, that’s we call life revolution, we have to make sure that new accomplishment is doing something different to make better idea.