How to create trust in a relationship

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic how to create trust in a relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can be trustworthy when they make new relationship, at this moment I would share something related how to create trust in a relationship, here is the first strategy how to create trust in a relationship; you must stay honesty in what you do or what you talk, means you develop a sense of trust in what you do / what you talk without feeling of doubt, this is the basic requirement how to build long term relationship, becoming reliable person is not easy because you need to stay honesty in what you do even though you have many mistakes, other people will trust you when you add more value to what you do, here is the second strategy how to create trust in a relationship; don’t disclose about people’s private matter when they entrust something to you, this is about good manner, if you don’t want to get trouble with other people’s lives, you must keep something secret, if you don’t understand about it, try to ask people to explain clearly, don’t let other people feel disappointed by you when you disclose other people's private matter, remember; people will remember your mistake easily rather than remember your kindness, don't let your reputation is crushed in several minutes after you had built it in several years.

        Here is the third strategy how to create trust in a relationship; show your empathy to what others feel, means you don’t need to prove that you show what you feel, all you need to do is doing what others can't finish even though they may have a strategy to do it, here is the fourth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; make two ways of open communication to build a commitment, this is crucial point, commitment is part of self-education, when you can't prove what you commit, you will be judged by someone as uneducated person because you prove that you can't prove what you commit, here is fifth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; don't push your opinion to be other people's perception, remember; you may can get wrong and others may get wrong as well, so, you just need to share what you know and stop demanding others to believe what you share, if you have attitude like this, others will not think of you as dictator, instead of considering you as a best friend, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully you can get something useful from this article, good luck. 

Overcoming loneliness in marriage

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "Overcoming loneliness in marriage", the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel alone although they are tied in marriage, if you ask me why many couples can't overcome their loneliness in marriage because they expect too much about the advantage of couple's ability, remember this advice; we must realize the  purpose of marriage is to complete couple's inability, not to demand more than couple's ability, at this moment, I would like to share some several tips how to overcome loneliness in marriage, hopefully after you read this article, you can do self-introspection, here is the first tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: fix the way of communication, meaning, you need to offer what your spouse wants to hear something, sometimes you need to forget your egoism and start to offer your ability to your spouse, here is the second tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: add the quality time with spouse, for example; you only have a free time 5 hours per week, so you can offer the favorite place where your spouse wishes to go there.

        Here is the third tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage:  be curious about what’s your spouse’s major interest, make sure you know well about what is your spouse’s major interest, if you know more about your spouse’s interest rather than your own spouse, you will be valued as romantic person because you invest your time to find your spouse’s interest, starting today: don't just focus how to prioritize your self-indulgence, but rather you service your spouse's emotional need, here is the fourth tip how to overcome loneliness in marriage: self-care, meaning, you don't too concentrate how to make your spouse is happy, you need to have me-time to reflect on what you did in the past, you can engage your activity as long as it can increase your good feeling, self-care will benefit to you and you will always receive from self-care, remember; self-care is not the same with egoism, self-care is protecting yourself from your own expectation or your bad mindset, egoism is doing something more to yourself and eliminate your sense of caring to what your spouse feels, my last advice is learn, understand and save your emotional feeling, then you save your spouse's emotional need, if you aren't happy about yourself, how can you offer your ability to your spouse, the lack of service can inflict the loneliness in marriage, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.

top 3 marriage problems

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "top 3 marriage problems", the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples still don't know how to detect marriage problem, if you ask me why many couples are trapped in top 3 marriage problems because they prioritize their ego overs win-win solution for reducing the internal conflict, at this moment let me share you several tips how to detect top 3 marriage problems, here is the first sign of the marriage problem; communication problem, this problem is often happening to the marriage affair, having communication problem is the root of marriage problem, such as, misunderstanding, assumption, not expressing feelings which can lead to resentment and frustration, it is important for couples to learn how to effectively communicate their needs, expectations and feelings to each other,  here is the second sign of the marriage problem; financial stress, money can be the major concern for marriage's affair, money can be significant source of tension in a marriage, sometimes disagreement from spending habit can inflict the issue, lack of savings, lack of financial goal, lack of financial security can strain a relationship.

         If the couples make a fuss because of financial distress, meaning, they have built their spending habit more than their earning habit, my suggestion is every couple must have strategy how to build earning habit rather than their spending habit, here is the third sign of the marriage problem; lack of intimacy, meaning, couples don't want to invest their time to build their quality time in a deep intimacy, remember; build emotional intimacy is more important than physical intimacy, do you know why? because human is part of emotional creature, couples may drift apart over time if they don't maintain a close bond, sometimes talk about experience or share about love feeling can create new sense of affection to each other, here is the key to reduce marriage problems is address these openly and work together to find solutions, if there is no intense communication for solution, there will be a social gap in the family bond, hopefully you can get something useful after you read this article.

How to make a business partnership work

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "how to make a business partnership work", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone applies good relationship in business, if you ask me why people don't apply good relationship in business because they don't know how to recruit business partner and also they don't know how to fit business partner in business canvas, making a business partner work is not easy because we need to build a trust, communication, shared goal and mutual respect, at this moment I would share some strategies to enhance your life career, here is the first rule how to make a business partnership work; shared vision and goal, meaning,  we must create open communication until our partner agrees with our business canvas, in order to make strong bond with our partner, we must offer our reputation, remember this note; reputation is like the personal character which tells anybody else about our profile, it can’t be represented with the worldly stuff, reputation will represent our value which can be considered as our personal branding, before we recommend something to other people, we must be a history maker first.

        To make stronger partnership, we must know what our partner's problem and help them to solve their problem, this is the key, when we have this kind of mindset, we will learn something ahead before other people do, here is the second rule how to make a business partnership work; be honest about what we develop to our business plan, meaning, we must tell the detail of our business plan to our partner, after that we can ask their advice as if they were at your position, it is very challenging because not all partners can be proactive to give new perception, if we can show our honesty, our business partner will be no objection to accept our poor perception, here is the third rule how to make a business partnership work; define a role and responsibility, this is important, if we can’t define the role we need, as impact, our business partner will doubt about our reputation, in front of our partner, we shouldn't behave the same like what ordinary people always do, we must have strong vision and know what our responsibilities are, if we can't define a role and responsibility, we can't recruit good business partnership, here is the fourth rule how to make a business partnership work; conflict resolution, meaning, we must establish a fair and expand the meaningful of the conflict until it can be accepted by our business partners, hopefully after you read this article, you can apply this lesson to your business field.

How to find out if a trust exists

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share the topic "How to find out if a trust exists", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are being trustworthy, if you ask me why find someone who is trusted is difficult because we don't know about their personal life, sometimes we only know from what we hear only, before we find a trust from other people, we must ask to ourselves "how can am I trustworthy?", that's basic question how to get sense of trustworthy, if we can't rely on what we feel plus we can't be trustworthy person, how can others expect us to be trustworthy?, that's challenge, find a trust if like finding the diamond in the bottom of sea, it is nearly impossible, but it can be done if we trust ourselves to do something, here is the first strategy how to find out the value of trust; we must test ourselves to be trustworthy person when others expect us to do something important, if we can prove that we can do something useful for others, we indirectly create reputation / self-reward plus we build a confidence through having the contentment of giving a service, remember this; if people can give us a trust after we do something for them, that's real trust, if we don't create a sense of trust, we don't create respect to ourselves.

        Here is the second strategy how to find out the value of trust; check the credibility of others after they give us something crucial, meaning, we wait whether others can create a value to us or not, if others can prove that they can do something 100% as it is matched with what they say, that's value of trust, for example; I talk about the insurance company, if someone gets the insurance policy plus they get redemption 100%, meaning, the insurance company keeps a promise to us, Here is the third strategy how to find out the value of trust; we keep doing to something uncertain until reality can give us a result beyond what we imagine, this strategy is difficult because we are going against our time, although life is so uncertainty, it doesn't mean we lose a hope and let reality works by itself, we must change something before reality does something for us, we must lead reality with our dream until reality can cooperate well with our progress, remember; reality can't be backward, reality is the result of what we did in the past, in order to lead reality, we must do something we believe that what we do is possible to exist, that's our job as human being, we don't need to know whether we can get the result  or not, that's not our job, our sense of belief to what we do is more important than reality because reality is the lame world, here is the last note; reality follows what we believe and what we do, if we don't do or we don't continue what we start, meaning, we don't believe in what we do, if we don't believe what we do, then we crush our own future hope, hopefully this article can give you an insight and help you how to improve your career, good luck.