Words of encouragement for him during hard times

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Words of encouragement for him during hard times”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all women realize how to calm themselves during facing hard times with their spouses, if you ask me about the main problem why women can't calm because they don't recognize the love language in men's world, as we know that not all men need women's advice, do you know why? because men are more logical than women, besides that, men have many possibilities in their thought how to find solution rather than what woman can do, I say like this doesn't mean I discourage women's capability, sometimes putting oneself to self-quarantine time is more valuable for men to women, that's men's world, on the other hand, women feel difficult to adapt with self-quarantine time, if your position as wife, don't try to demand your husband to do something more than their capability even though you and your family are facing hard times, demand something more than husband can will induce the family dispute, here is the first thing woman needs to do how to encourage your husband during facing hard times; don't remind your husband about the past moment, do you know why?  because remind your husband about the past moment will inflict man's bad mood timing, besides that, hard time already happened now, remember this; logical person will ignore about the past timing and focus on the present moment, what you need to do as wife is asking a question " if you have something to tell or you shall need any assistance, you should contact me? and I will do the best for our family".

     Here is the second thing woman needs to do how to encourage your husband during facing hard times; you shouldn't blame the situation and burden your husband's mind with your complaint, as wife, you can entertain your husband by doing what your husband needs from your service, remember; when woman doesn't complain about the current situation, it will relieve 50% husband's bad mood and it helps man to find solution because man feels refreshened every time his wife doesn't do something burdened for husband's thought, Here is the third thing woman needs to do how to encourage your husband during facing hard times; remind about the purpose of family's longevity, meaning, a wife gives a new perception to husband's mind with the new vision, for example; when hard times begins, you say to your husband "I know we are facing hard times, we need to create a new atmosphere where it can enliven our spirit, how about we make a cup of tea and we pray together to Almighty God about the current situation we already dive in" , Here is the fourth thing woman needs to do how to encourage your husband during facing hard times; you can write down about your husband's strengths and show the written you wrote in the paper to your husband, this strategy can help you how to strengthen your husband's good mood level, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Obstacle course

The balance of life

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Obstacle course”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many of us realize how to detect obstacle course, if you ask me when the obstacle course is going to be active ? the obstacle course will be active when we don't optimize our skill, our knowledge, our integrity, our commitment to a clear goal, our reputation and our awareness, it sounds difficult, but that's life's challenge, you can't say " I don't like with the life's challenge", remember; life will never want to stay comfort for longer time, do you know why I say such thing because life is part of the survival arena, once we decide to stay comfort for longer time, time will crush good opportunity which may come to our life path, everything we see, we hear and we feel is going to meet the obstacle course as long as we try to step forward to unlock our hidden potential,  we all know that every opportunity can't be waited, nor the miracle, if we want to be great person who can master the situation, we must break our comfort zone which is trying to hold us back from growing and evolving, life will not give a damn about our current situation, we need to be a ready person as if the crisis always comes at us every day, basically obstacle course is not the part of disaster because it is just a test to know our current capacity, the real disaster in this life is comfort zone because it is trying to blockade our bright future, remember; the comfort zone is trying to show our incapability once we want to make decision while the crisis comes right away.

       Now I have question, do you know the reason why most people live in mediocre life? Because they keep glorifying about their own limitation and they prefer to do something for their limit rather than facing the new risk which may help them to upgrade their survival skill, besides that, people don't recognize how dire the comfort zone is, if you ask me why the comfort zone belongs to the most dangerous thing on earth because the comfort zone will blockade human's potential to grow, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to countermeasure obstacle course, hopefully the strategies help you to improve your life journey, here is the first strategy you need to do when you meet obstacle course; change your perception, if you can't change your perception when you meet with obstacle course, you will fail to face obstacle course, finally you will get mad at yourself, here is the second strategy you need to do when you meet obstacle course; stop playing the victim, meaning, you try to blame for everything around you, if you behave like playing victim, you will not get solution, instead, you only get stressed, here is the third strategy you need to do when you meet obstacle course; find the information how to defend yourself from the feeling of upset, in addition, you need to practice how to be grateful to obstacle course's existence, when you can show deepest gratitude, you won the circumstance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to sell yourself in an interview

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to sell yourself in an interview”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows how to sell their ability when they work at company, in this article I would share several tips how to sell yourself in an interview before you are accepted at the company, here is the first tip how to sell yourself in an interview; try to search about the company product, the main reason why you need to know about the company product or the product knowledge because it can make the interviewer is very surprised or impressed at the first time, remember this note; if you are willing to research about the company's product, meaning, you put your biggest attention to learn about it, if you can show your expertise with the company product's knowledge during the interview, you will get the extra point because you can show what other candidates do not do like you, here is the second tip how to sell yourself in an interview;  you offer your demonstration about the achievement you made in the past to the interviewer, if you can show your achievement even though one or two things that you made in the past, I am positive you will get something more experience if you are accepted at the company.

        Here is the second tip how to sell yourself in an interview; give the answer where it can make the interviewer is surprised, meaning, you can add the study case as your answer to the question is offered to you, please don't give the ambiguous answer when you want to answer the question, if you want to get extra point, you can offer the question "is there anything else you want to know from me?" if you can let them curious about your knowledge until the interviewing time is prolonged, meaning, the interviewer is impressed about your knowledge, the more they are curious about your knowledge, the more you can get a chance to get accepted at the company, the main reason why you need to behave such thing because this strategy can help you to increase your reputation at the first glance, here is the third tip how you sell yourself; share your vision to the interviewer about your mission, that's strategy can give you a new currency if you succeed it, even though it takes more time during interview process, I am sure the interviewer will not regret about it because you show your caring about the company future's vision, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

What should you do to improve your skills in communication

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What should you do to improve your skills in communication”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people confuse how to improve their communication skill, if you ask me why improving communication skill is not easy because there are many variations of speaking skill and depends on the problem people want to know, if there is no curiosity, there is no intense communication, basically, every human needs the valuable information from the trusted informant, but the problem is not every human gets the valuable information from the trusted informant, if we want to improve our communication skill, we must know the type of problem we want to know and the type of solution we want to hear, as long as we aren't interested to know about solution and problem, as impact, we will never improve our communication skill, the most important communication skill is we can communicate with our deepest soul and detect what our intuition wants, whether we like it or not, we must buy information when we know nothing, if we don't buy the information from other people's resources, as impact, we will get inadequate resources and we loses our ways, remember this note; the first thing we must build in our habit if we want to improve our communication skill is having the mission model, after that, we try to offer that mission model to someone who is interested with it.

    As human, before we want to make communication, we can offer the topic which may intrigues others who are around us, for example : if you are surrounded by powerful person who knows about the solution, what kind of problem do you want to ask to that person?, that's the basic training how to improve our skill, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to improve our communication skill, here is the first strategy how to improve our communication skill; we shouldn't ask the question when other people don't allow us to ask the question, the reason why we must apply this strategy because not all people are ready to answer the question, besides that, we must respect other people's privacy when they don't want to answer the question, maybe we can note what other people say something to you, if we can consider what they say is important, we can note it down into our journal, remember; if we listen more often than we talk, we can get new insight, if we talk more often than we listen, we will become the yesterday's person, here is the second strategy how to improve our communication skill; we don't talk about the topic when others don't want to hear it, meaning, we must identify about the topic people want to hear it, if we offer something they don't need, as impact, we will lose our reputation because we just talk whatever we want to,  I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to strengthen your subconscious mind

        Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to strengthen your subconscious mind”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to strengthen their subconscious mind to support what they really need to survive, there are many factors why people can’t strengthen their subconscious mind, here is the first factor why people can’t strengthen the power of subconscious mind because people only focus on short term plan, I just remind you that a lack of interest can bring a lack of consistency, so if we don't have any ambition to pursue something magnificent, we will live casually and our life will not change at all, eventually we will lose our high value, remember this; subconscious mind is like the parachute, it will rescue us when there's crisis which it is going to make our life hits into desperate zone, but if we are indecision to jump out from crisis, our subconscious mind will not salvage us, here is the bad news; when we don't strengthen our subconscious mind in long period of time, our creativity becomes our eternal problem and we will become the life's victim because we don't know how to use our own potential for facing the life's challenge, as human being who are well known as an emotional creatures in the world, we must know how to strengthen the subconscious mind. 

         Strengthen subconscious mind is not simple because we need to build productive habit which can be hated by most people who live in this world, building the productive habit could be: learning new skill, learning new language, upgrading knowledge, teaching other people how to set goal or how to earn money, giving the good donation to powerless people, here is the first strategy how to strengthen your subconscious mind; don't consume the information which contains about negative things, e.g. pornography, the vulgar picture, the conflict, the war, people's private life, hoax, the sensational news, the money game, If you cultivate your subconscious mind with those things, they will destroy your inner potential, let me remind you that you can't strengthen your subconscious mind by doing something easy, instant and worthless, so you must challenge yourself by doing something which can make you surprised once you have done it, here is the second strategy how to strengthen your subconscious mind; you must set goals where it can give good impact to others consistently, this mission is not easy because you need to leave your private matters to serve something bigger than your behalf, here is the third strategy how to strengthen your subconscious mind; don't stop learning new thing every day, when you challenge yourself to learn new thing every day, your subconscious mind will receive new power from the information you gained, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to become a better person as mentally

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to become a better person as mentally”, the main reason why I choose that topic because becoming a better person is not easy to deal with, do you know why? Because we need to conquer our ignorance, that's our dark side, in order to become a better person as mentally, we must do something discomfort but it can leave sense of happiness, here is the first step how to become a better person as mentally; thinking out of the box, means, you need to train your mindset to get out from the comfort zone and reject to conform with easiness, the reason why you need to reject feeling at ease because it will immobilize your mental strength as well as decrease your enthusiasm to learn more, remember this note; you can become a better person if you can combine between what you hate to do and what you love to do at the same time, here is the second step how to become a better person as mentally; find good habit and associate with it until you can make it as your partner, means, you need to discipline your mind with new good habit because habit is the bridge which it can connect between your past, your current circumstance and your future, I am sure you will feel discomfort about it, please don't hate about it because that’s strategy how to become a better person you admire in the future. 

     Here is the third second step how to become a better person as mentally; practice every day no matter what, means you are not allowed to stop practicing until you can't do anymore, practice is not kind of difficult to do as long as you keep the pain inside to your soul, remember this; if we can’t create self-restraint about personal gratification, we always do something inefficient and ineffective at the daily activity, starting today, don’t just do what you love, but do what it takes how to increase self-worth through developing new skill or practice your hobby, the future will give respond to you based on the activity which can offer something progressively, if every day your skill and your knowledge doesn't increase significantly, meaning, you have been deceived by your lust and your desire, here is the fourth step how to become a better person as mentally; set idealistic goal, in order to make an ideal life, we need to set idealistic goal and take higher responsibility rather than we usually do daily, the main purpose why we need this strategy because we can monitor how much progress we have done and monitor what we haven’t done yet in our career.

    Here is the fifth step how to become a better person as mentally; you avoid something easy or avoid the shortcut process, meaning, you enjoy the learning process in the long term, probably you will meet with failure and adversity, remember; failure and adversity is part of blessing, you will not know how to change your life until you meet with something you hate too much, here is the sixth step how to become a better person as mentally; surround yourself with people who tell you about long term in building personal development, means, you go associated with trustworthy people, idealist people, honesty people, if you are making habit of it, you always get something beyond your expectation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

How to increase focus and energy

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to increase focus and energy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lose focus and energy when they meet with the adversity, if you ask me why people can't increase their focus on energy because they believe adversity's size is more heavy than their capacity, here is the first tip how to increase your focus and energy; put your focus to the activity where it gives you high energy, means, only you can feel that energy, whereas, other people can't feel that energy, if you think your activity can't give you high energy, you would better to shut down that activity and find another activity which can attract your enthusiasm and your curiosity, here is the second tip how to increase your focus and energy; you must pay attention to what you eat/drink and not to consume something not hygienic, the reason why you must notice it because not all foods / beverage can increase your focus and energy, sometimes there are types of food or beverage which doesn't offer hygiene content, as human being, we must pay attention to the food or beverage we consume every day, we must avoid food or beverage which only offers satisfaction only, for example: alcohol, fast food, pig meat, dog meat, pig oil, pig flour, etc.

        Here is the third tip how to increase your focus and energy; do the physical exercise regularly, means, you need to do the physical training at least one a week in order to improve your strength through the health awareness program, here is the fourth tip how to increase your focus and energy;  you read the book before you sleep at night, the reason why you need to read the book before you sleep at night  because your subconscious mind will do defragmentation and your memory will do the renewed process when you sleep at night, this strategy can give you high focus after you wake up in the morning here is the fifth tip how to increase your focus and energy; train yourself to apply self-discipline in one specific area, means, you need to give yourself responsibility how to manage the priority in time, don’t let yourself playing around without learning anything new about life education, you must teach yourself how to appreciate what life gives to you, how to learn about moral value and recognize what life really demands, here is the sixth tip how to increase your focus and energy; train yourself to forgive yourself and stay open-minded, meaning, you try to let the past stays in the past and you don't behave self-righteous even though you know something, if you forgive yourself and stay open-minded when you walk through this life, you indirectly release your negativity and detach yourself from your low vibration in your spirituality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

10 reasons why businesses fail

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “10 reasons why businesses fail”, the reason why I choose that topic because most people reject to accept failure because their mindset has been trained to accept a success paradigm from other people who had succeeded in long time ago, in fact, failure is not kind of humiliation, failure is a gift from God's mercy, the more often people reject to accept failure, the more often people are staying in the misleading course, the reason why I say such thing because some failures are inevitable, if we don't fail, we will never know how to reveal the life's riddle from Almighty God, a failure not only happens at experimental purpose at laboratories, but failure also happens at the businesses, at this moment I would like to share some reasons why businesses fail, here is the first reason why businesses fails because the business owner doesn't want to innovate their product, meaning, people only focus on their past achievement and they are over-optimistic for the future, they assume their product can fulfill the market forever, that's wrong idealism, here is the second reason why businesses fails because the business owner doesn't calculate the tolerance risk which can bring the worse impact, in the business rule, we need to minimize the risk impact by stripping down the product which it is no longer have a fast selling, here is the third reason why businesses fails because the business owner fulfill all customer's expectations, I just want to remind you that not all customer's expectation needs to fulfill, do you know why? because not all customers are responsible for our business's capacity, here is the fourth reason why businesses fails because the business owner want to get benefit quicker than the market's demand, it is absurd, if we want to get benefit quicker than the market's demand, we must become the center of market's demand, it is having irresistible offer, here is the fifth reason why businesses fails because the product can't fulfill the market's demand capacity, if it is happening, we must negotiate with the market demand and we let them know about our capacity.

Failure is just part of unfinished journey, not ending process

        Here is the sixth reason why businesses fails because the product can't be integrated with another product in the market's demand, meaning, the product is independent, it can't be used when it is combined with other products, here is the seventh reason why businesses fails because the customer hasn't found the unique in the business idea, based on research, "the customer needs to see the unique from many products in the marketplace", here is the eighth reason why businesses fails because the product can't fulfill the customer's basic need, meaning, the customer doesn't find emotional validation in the product, here is the ninth reason why businesses fails because the business owner doesn't react when the crisis is happening in the internal management, meaning, the business owner doesn't prepare the contingency plan for facing the crisis, it is dangerous thing, here is the tenth reason why businesses fails because the business owner doesn't want to collaborate with small medium enterprise, whether we like it or not, collaboration can minimize the risk and elevate the business acumen when we try to promote the market's campaign in the marketplace, the conclusion is we must be the innovation maker and we must use reality as an eye opener for our ignorance and our weaknesses, the more we improve what we build in the business, the more we elevate our self-awareness in the market, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Prepare a place for you

The world is like the natural disaster, be prepared for that

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Prepare a place for you”, the meaning of that topic is everybody must have long-term provision in order to prepare against the worst condition, if they hadn't had a supply reserve, they must suffer a lot with scarcity, the reason why I choose this topic because not many people dare to prepare a mental stocktaking before the upcoming worst situation is happening, we must realize the world is unlike the heaven, if we live casually and don't acquire new knowledge or new independence skill, we will get shocked when we can't escape from the worst situation which may happen any time, remember this; even though the worst situation isn’t coming yet, it doesn’t mean the worst situation will never come, if we don't anticipate something bad, we will be the victim, everybody mustn't behave such a self-bragging  although they get financially free today, money is the part of future reserve, remember this; just because we financially free today, it doesn't mean tomorrow we will be free, we aren't allowed to think about financial freedom again because the life system doesn't work such thing, as long as we are still living on earth, there is always disaster which is trying to get us away from proper place, we must increase our survival skill, the life system is very serious, we must take a lesson from this life every single day or we'll die in vain.

        Don’t ever say “I should prepare myself to make a proper place for me”, remember; you can't move yourself to live at the place as you wish, only your life will choose the place where you deserve, the reason why I say such thing because your life follows what you demand to yourself, if you just focus to stay perfectionist, means, you don’t prepare yourself to live in proper place, remember this; you and I will never know about tomorrow whether there is good or bad thing which will happen, sometimes we need to practice who to taste a suffered living in order to strengthen our mentality before we are facing the higher life pressure,  here is the good news; when we practice how to suffer like poverty people, our mind will not focus how others own because we already taste our pain, if we feel deep enough about our pain, our subconscious mind will whisper to us "how to salvage my future?", here is the first strategy how to prepare a place for your future; you work on the problem, not to work for money, do you know why I say such thing because only problem can give you a lot of value, remember this; value is always higher than the price, if you can work for the problem, other people will give you the intangible value such as reputation, testimonial for your service,  here is the second strategy how to prepare a place for your future; don't feel satisfied with your achievement, meaning, you must continue how to increase your unique ability or privilege, your achievement will not give you the next promotion if you stop right now, you mustn't let your achievement stopping your next action / progress, here is the third strategy how to prepare a place for your future; prolong your dream, meaning, you choose to postpone your pleasure in order to pursue your next dream, if you can apply this strategy, the magnificent thing will happen in reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Mental health awareness

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Mental health awareness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people believe what they choose is going to alter a new life for them, but in reality, their awareness can't guide them in the freedom they deserve, now the question is "what kind of freedom people deserve?", I think if there is not enough clarity, there is no freedom they deserve, basically the problem is not about freedom, but the way people behave is not congruent with their the future's hope, remember this; people don’t get what they believe is not caused by lack of clarity, but people lack of big reason behind self-awareness, if you want to get freedom in life, you will never get it unless you must free every human from their daily life problem, that's I call as the life mission, if you think it is impossible to do, you don't need to do what you can't possible do, every single day there must be a new freedom is offered as long as you stop focusing on your own gratification, that’s requirement how to know whether your freedom is supposed to be right or wrong, if you keep pushing yourself not to focus on progress, you will never get the freedom from this life, instead you will get boredom, that’s consequence, to discard the inessential thing in your life, you need to make research about what most people really want in life, when you can provide what people want, you will get golden ticket to get the freedom, to prolong your freedom, make sure every day you shape your great days by making new masterpiece or you create a habit which can connect with something which can offer a mental health.

     The reason why people can’t get clarity and self-awareness because they walk in the mediocre habit where most people are used to run it for their daily activity, if you keep following what most people used to it, you would feel confused, anxiety and fear as consequence, remember this; the mediocre path can’t get you freedom in your career because you prefer to get along with the crowded people who can't help you to achieve your goal, please don’t be proud when you can walk into the mediocre path because it just offers pleasure, lack of difficult, instant process and lack of new lesson offering, here is the special note; to live into your life freedom, you must drag yourself to walk in the new path where nobody sees it as opportunity, please don’t get affected by most people’s idea where they believe their life journey is okay without new lesson, you must take the new path where most people see it as the craziest thing which it will never work in reality, that’s fixed mindset where it can block people’s opportunity to achieve a greater potential in life, please beware about what you believe because not all you believe can bring something good for you, sometimes you need to stay open-minded in order to receive the abundance of new lesson in life, here is my additional note; self-awareness is always talking about the strategy how to unlearn something we had done and we try something we never taste before, here is the first strategy how to gain mental health; don't prioritize about what your want, but prioritize your skill and mindset development, meaning, you don't let yourself an ease with your environment, when you get what you want, you only get the same journey, if you focus how to develop your skill, you will get new journey where it is more challenging, here is the second strategy how to gain mental health; sell what you know to others as much as possible, if you can apply this strategy, your brain memory keeps improving and also it is will be renewed, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

What is true education

 

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What is true education”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are getting the sign of true education since they are childhood, the main cause why not many people get the sign of true education because they are not trained by their parents / teachers how to pursue and overcome the problem, how to delegate the power of  focus to the right target, how to prepare provision before the crisis and how to find self-potential, now let me share something related with the sign of true education, hopefully you will get something benefit from these tips, here is the first tip how to get the sign of true education; you feel enthusiast when you get a new mistake in whatever situation you involved with, the reason why you need to take this strategy because the world changes faster every day, “the faster the world changes, the more demand from the marketplace will be there”, if we don't adapt with new change, we will be left behind by new opportunity, in order to maximize our potential, limitation and stamina, we need daily problem to test our potential, I know it may be difficult and unpleasant, remember this; whether we like it or not, we must educate ourselves from two things; our own mistake and other people's mistake, here is what's true education is freeing ourselves from self-ignorance and salvage our mental inventory from having sense of scarcity, if we lack of mental inventory, our lust will enslave us. 

The sign of true education is giving a good legacy and stay humble to accept new unpleasant experience

     If we don’t try new thing, we will get a long pain of regret, if we keep this condition becomes a habit, our opportunity would be gone easily because our the pain of regret is greater than the size of opportunity, sometimes we need to borrow the power of the future to test whether our potential and mental strength is adequate or not, we will never know about how powerful of our potential if we don’t try to hit rock bottom from problem we faced, most of us often underestimate what we can do within our control and what we can not to do beyond our control because we lack of clear purpose in life, if we lack practicing our potential, we will get the painful fear every time we will get new mistake, here is the second tip how to get the sign of true education; we compete with the universe’s law, means, we will keep acquiring new effort and hone our skill although we already get something that we accomplished, as long as the life journey keeps running, we keep pursuing our potential, then resting for moment and we are running again to pursue new dream, the basic purpose of getting a true education is we are ready to fight against ourselves, such as the painful ego, the painful ignorance and the painful regret, if we succeed to pass the life challenge, we deserve to get what we want, that's message from the universe, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Real wealth is about freedom

 

  Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Real wealth is about freedom”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can exchange their freedom with new opportunity because they lack of skill to be exchanged with the market demand, to build the personal's wealth, people must use their time freedom to dig up their own potential constantly and give it to others as free gift, as we know that not many people are willing to share their potential because they always have a profit-oriented, it may seem absurd if we don't get the profit for what we share something, that's the mortal world's principle, but if we look at the world of spirituality, "every givings will be returned to the giver", means, you will be pursued with the profit wherever you go, whether you believe it or not, it depends on how strong your power of faith to make it real, now I understand why there are many people can't make themselves richer because they follow what money wants, that's problem, if you compare between the human's wealth and money, there is none comparable, here is the key "we shouldn't focus on how much money we will receive but we should focus on how much our creativity which it will be exchanged with the market's demand", now let me share several laws you need to learn, here is the first law how to get wealth is share your profit to others for free like what God does to you, means, you must spend your major time to focus on what you can develop for free, if you are unable to give your profit for free, how can you share when you have nothing?, that's universe's question, here is the second law how to get wealth is don’t ask for more, but give for more, means, you don’t worry if you don't get what you expect because you believe the law of God will not make you living poverty by giving more for others. 

  Remember this; by giving more doesn't mean you will receive with the same amount of what you give, at least you will receive something different than you usually work for earning money, if you train your mind to give more than what you expect, your personality will become the magnet of sustenance, if you have this kind of habit, you always be founded by people who are ready to reward you, remember this; we are living in the uncertain world, don’t let ourselves becoming the prisoner of money because money can't make you richer, instead money will give you the sense of fear, if you focus on your potential, the universe will return what you deserve to get, remember this law; "the amount of greed is having same equal with the amount of fear at coincidence", if money gives you sense of fearfulness, you will receive the sense of greed as consequence, if this condition becomes habit, money will stop your creation and you tend to pursue more money rather than attracting more money, when your emotion keeps asking more money than before, you will behave like a greedy person's character and you work until the money will leave you forever, here is the third law how to get wealth is don’t wait the outcome, but enjoy your potential growth, the reason why you need to do this because the outcome isn’t part of the human responsibility, sometimes you need to delegate your job with the universe’s law and let the universe and God surprises you with unimaginable outcome, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Always trust the process

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Always trust the process” the reason why I choose that topic because not many people believe about their own growing skill in the long term period, some of them try to rush the process because their attempts and their prediction has taken a longer time to succeed, in my opinion; the problem is not lies in the process, but the problem comes from someone who is inability to have vision, make progress and lack of competence skill, it is very fatal, I think we don't need to rush the process because we will never know how is the importance behind the process, sometimes the process is taken for longer time because it can help us to detect new opportunity and avoid the high risk which may threat our future plan, such as the life crisis or the market crash, in my opinion; we shouldn’t judge something bad about the process we created because it comes from our restricted space, our mental age and our different capacity, if we just too obsessed with result and skip the process, it would be unexpected loss will happen to us, the reason why we aren’t allowed to skip the process because in the middle journey of process will shape new circumstance for us, either spirituality, mentality, or physically, remember this advice; a new fate will follow the strengthening process from disciplined action and our readiness of personality.

                                                                                 

    Success is like the butterfly’s life transition, it needs several part of long process to succeed, if someone interrupts the cocoon’s process, the butterfly will be dead because its wings are not strong enough to fly, in reality of life, we must not wait the result because the result is part of God's authority, nobody will know when the result comes because it is not part of the human’s responsibility, our main job is just studying, adapting with new circumstance and make a good service to others, remember this note; although we don’t know how good what we are capable of, we must practice our potential, we work on our philosophy and we work on our personality, that's it, maybe it seems hard, but don't worry about that, we don’t stay forever to continue the process we already create it because the next stage of process will be continued by the universe, as long as we focus on our potential, we will not get failure and we will not regret about what we have done, only indecision will end everything we hoped, although our attempt doesn't seem blooming like we hoped, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is you study more than you have been given from a paycheck, don't listen other people who aren't willing to support you, here is the most dangerous thing we should avoid in this life; stop making progress, stop staying curious about your power of vision and lose the passion of learning, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

how to deal with negative emotions

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with negative emotions”, this topic is very interesting because I am sure every human being has ever felt such thing, the main reason why negative emotions approach to human's life journey because human’s mentality is not ready to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, so their brain which is called amigdala is playing role to give negative response when people don't know how to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, if we want to create the positive response, so we must enrich our knowledge with some valuable information at the first time, the more we increase our knowledge, the more it can give us many options to make decision, the quality of information is the first power how to make us easier to make decision, if we lack of knowledge, we will make decision based on the emotional feeling, I just want to remind you that relying emotional feeling is not always bringing good value because emotional feeling doesn't give us any direction, it just gives us sense of fulfillment, the best way to make decision is train your mentality to do something challenging, but not doing something dangerous, doing something challenging is not the same with doing something dangerous, if someone does something challenging, he is not motivated by fear, but he is motivated by his biggest curiosity, whereas, if someone does something dangerous, he is motivated by fear and irrational thinking, here is the first step how to recognize negative emotions: you must identify your 24 hours of habit and identify the information you have consumed every day, if you can’t share something valuable to others within 24 hours, means, your mind has absorbed too much information which contains negative emotions unknowingly.

     I wouldn’t say we can escape from negative emotion easily, there is nobody can go away from it, all we need to do is learn something from negative emotion and learn how to stop negative emotion from its growing, although negative emotion often makes human feeling is overwhelming anxiety, I don’t say all negative emotions are useless, negative emotions will be useful when there is something suspicious or unusual comes up suddenly to us, negative energy will not dominate your feeling if you don't doubt your true self, let me give you an example about the negative energy; negative energy can form almost everything in aspect of life, such as problem, swindle, rejection, failure, setback, betrayal, humiliation, error and risk, for average person, I am sure they are depressed if they get involved with it, here is the bad consequence; if negative thing in this life isn't being learnt by human, human can't optimize their power of emotional intelligence for making good decision when human don't have enough resources, we need to balance between positive emotion and negative emotion, if we let our positive emotion is dominating us, we will feel too excited when we get something easy or we behave overoptimistic, if we let our negative emotion is dominating us, we will feel depressed or sad, remember this ; we are the life designer, we can't create good life if we just focus on positive feeling or negative feeling, here is the second step how to recognize negative emotions: when we lack of resources, our negative emotions will try to dominate our logic, do you know why it is happening? Because negative emotions will strengthen its power when there is no knowledge, knowledge is super power because it can help us to decide whether we need to choose negative emotion or positive emotion, negative emotion will save us when we consider there is something dangerous in reality, whereas, positive emotion will save us when we live in rock bottom or we get the miserable life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Work life balance

 

          Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Work life balance”, the reason why I choose that topic because I want to show you about the greatest masterpiece on earth and how to understand the most important thing in life, when we were child, we had been taught how to get smarter and get good grade, especially when we were studying at school, the education system was taught by teachers to students not to make many mistakes because the education was designed to create sense of perfectionism, but if we take a look in reality, life doesn't teach such thing, it’s contradiction, right?, The reason why the education system teaches student how to behave perfection because creating an ego, in the school, every student is designed to memorize something repeatedly and they will not be taught to learn something new as if students are taught to fear about mistake, remember this; thinking without learning, it will bring more terrible vice, whereas, learning without rethinking the process, it will bring more pride and satisfaction only, the main point; we must not stop learning about new thing although we have learned something, the main reason why we must do that ritual because we must keep a chain which it connects between our masterpiece and potentiality, staying curious is the major key how to discover the life’s riddle and how to understand the learning process, the life source is unlimited, so we mustn’t stop studying and mustn't limit our potential.

          The key how to know whether your goal is successful or not is based on how you discipline your mind into target how you value your time, life will not fulfill what you have if you don’t appreciate about time or you don't create little progress, life will not create miracle if you stay casual within your daily activity, that’s secret how to know the life's work, life will appreciate your work if you dare to starve your ego by doing something unpleasant constantly, it just like the farmer is watering the seeds in the garden every day until the seeds become the fruits, it may take several months, that’s life’s working principle, remember this; if you don’t love the slowest process, you will never complete the fastest process, that's the universe's rule, but if you dare to love the slowest process, you automatically do something faster, that’s mindset you need to possess if you want your life is working in progress, if you never start little thing, you can’t achieve big thing, working hard is like unlearning a bad behavior until one's mindset has changed, the most important job in this life is self-improvement, nobody can arrive a life purpose until people let go what they love and do something challenging, life will show its work balance when we treat ourselves like other people's lives, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.