What do I need in life right now

 

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What do I need in life right now”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t accept their reality because they assume their life journey is part of God's plan, besides that, most people only pursue what they need rationally, not fulfill what life demands for them to do, here is my insight; the main cause why people don't recognize about their life needs because they consume too much low value of information every day and they don't select which social circle they should stick with it, when people feel unfair, feel rejected, feel neglected, and feel unloved because they sell their own fear to this mortal world, I just want to remind you that what you need right now is working like the universe, meaning, you serve other people with your skill or your masterpiece, this world is not like the fun game where it gives us what we want, as long as we don't serve this world with our inventory of resource, we will be forced by this world by receiving something which can offer us sense of scarcity or deprivation, remember this note; don't expect the mortal world will give you everything you need because the mortal world can't produce peace, love, respect and serenity, "the more you demand more gift from this mortal world without adding something benefit, the lessen you receive something than what you expect it", that's why everyday life gives us challenge such as adversity and problem in order to let us do something good for this world.
      To encounter the problem in life, we need to build a idealism in life in order to unlock our hidden potential and do something different from time to time, our lives is like the big vehicle where it gives us an access if we intend to improve what the big vehicle needs, that's requirement, if we can improve the big vehicle, it will give us an access how to move on the next life journey, basically life doesn't give us what we want, life only provides the resources we really need to build idealism in life such as imagination, skill, creativity, faith, and knowledge, basically idealism comes from conviction and affliction where they have been built a long time ago in the human’s thought, if you want to win from this circumstance, don’t ever say “why would I deserve this pain?” this kind of mindset will shut down your opportunity to escape from greater pain, it would better if you change the question such thing “I deserve this persistent pain because God knows I am stronger than problem and God knows there is something great awaits me if i get this pain", so to build an idealism in life is like design a house, you need to measure your progress and learn something new, if you realize that your house is more important, so you will not live casually with your behavior because you need to give your effort, time, and knowledge into it.

     Now let me share something you need to know, if you think life will treat you unfair because life wants you to be different creature than most people who just do nothing for their own future now maybe you will get new glimpse in your mind about this question “why would some people necessarily build a persistent pain?” because they understand that endure pain is the part of life strategy how to build idealism and how to take care of worth thing in this life, such as love, peace, respect, and sincerity, so I think that is reason which may help you to answer “is it really the life I want?”, just for information, for people who love about perfectionism, they may think this life is too cruel, the reason why people say such thing because they consider life offers the perfect place to stay and offers what they really want, once again I would strengthen your emotion by remembering this statement, you must fully disagree with perfectionism, do you know why? because perfectionism fights against reality, life would be risky if people stay fighting with reality, whereas life keeps giving human with the relentless pain, remember this note; every human being in this life is treated like the custodian where they hold responsibility to take care of what they don’t possess, such as serenity, kindness, love, faith, kindness, if we can't hold responsibility, we will get life punishment from God such as fake gratification, ignorance, and regret, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

What does guilty pleasure mean

Pleasure is dead end

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What does guilty pleasure mean”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't understand about what's guilty pleasure, if you ask me why guilty pleasure is happening to them because people do something which can evoke their wander lust, the main reason why this kind of pleasure can give a sense of guilty to human being because this pleasure can offer a low value to human's feeling, the word of "low value in pleasure" means, someone prioritizes his own pleasure by violating other people's right or someone prioritize his own pleasure but his pleasure has possibility can violate the universe's law, if we build habit which can offer guilty pleasure, meaning, we build a habit which can violate the universe's law, I say such thing not because I know everything about my life, but this is my research, pleasure in this world is not but the deceiver, let me give you example for the first activity which can offer guilty pleasure; drinking alcohol, although some countries allow this kind of activity, alcohol can offer low value in pleasure, when you see people who drink alcohol, their lives will not give so much peace after drinking alcohol, here is the second activity which can offer guilty pleasure; free sex, although some countries allow this kind of activity, free sex can offer low value in pleasure, people who do adulterine, their lives will get full of guilty because they have violated the universe's law, remember; people who break the universe's law, their lives will give a lot of trouble and their vision will see something destroying, it could be business's ruining, relationship's ruining, etc.

   Remember this note; pleasure is temptation, whereas, self-control is the real pleasure, now your job is find a deep meaning of your wishes, if your wishes can help you to develop new skill set and develop self-resilient, don't stop it, the reason why I say pleasure is temptation and self-control is the real pleasure because pleasure doesn’t require any pain to start whereas self-control needs relentless pain to control where the pleasure goes, now I want you to imagine you are in the car, a gas pedal represents your pleasure and a brake pedal represents self-control, when you press a gas pedal, your car will start running, now imagine if there is no brake, your car will bring you to the accident or car collision, that’s reality, not joke, now my question, if your car represents your own life, where do you bring it with? If you want to live peacefully, you need relentless pain to control your pleasure because most sense of pleasure is a toxic in the human’s mind, if there is no pain within your psyche, means your sense of pleasure will be exchanged with sense of guilty and your mental strength will be encumbered with greater suffering from this life because you can’t exchange your own pain with your pleasure, remember this; there is no free lunch in order to get something you want from this life, everything pleasure needs self-control, if you build guilty pleasure in your life, you will lose your self-control, if you feel this kind of action, you will not deserve to get what your life needs, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Avoiding bad influence

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Avoiding bad influence”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are expert how to avoid bad influence, based on my research, many young people get bad influence from other people because young people still don't know about their action's consequence, what they do is based on what their ignorance level wants, sometimes they just do based on what the average people do in their daily lives, it is really inconvenience, every human has different skill, different talent, why we follow other people's lives and ignore what our conscience telling to us, it is not right if we behave such thing, we must start with new revolution where it takes a lot of effort and time to accomplish, we can't create big impact to our lives if we just make the small effort, Jim Rohn ever said "we shouldn't major in the minor thing, we must major in the major thing", if we just do something in the minor thing, we indirectly create bad influence to our own lives, other people can't crush down our lives because the decision comes to our own, we are the real enemy which resides into our own lives, in order to create good influence, we must have a mission to solve problem which happens to other people's lives because most problem resonates with bad influence. 

 The reason why many of us can't avoid bad influence because we don't have authorized figure or role model who can guide us to the right path or peace path, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to avoid bad influence, here is the first strategy how to avoid bad influence; you can check from the other people's unproductive habit rate, if people's unproductive habit rate is higher than people's productivity rate, meaning, people build bad influence, as long as people don't increase their productivity rate, they indirectly build bad influence or negativity,  here is the second strategy how to avoid bad influence; you can check from the vision or mission where it is built from people's idea, if the vision or mission can't bring good impact to many people's lives, meaning, it belongs to bad influence, here is the third strategy how to avoid bad influence; you can check from the environment where it clusters people, if people don't care about their environment health, meaning, they intend to destroy their environmental health by building bad influence, please avoid when you meet the situation which can make you awkward to do something, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Prepare a place for you

The world is like the natural disaster, be prepared for that

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Prepare a place for you”, the meaning of that topic is everybody must have long-term provision in order to prepare against the worst condition, if they hadn't had a supply reserve, they must suffer a lot with scarcity, the reason why I choose this topic because not many people dare to prepare a mental stocktaking before the upcoming worst situation is happening, we must realize the world is unlike the heaven, if we live casually and don't acquire new knowledge or new independence skill, we will get shocked when we can't escape from the worst situation which may happen any time, remember this; even though the worst situation isn’t coming yet, it doesn’t mean the worst situation will never come, if we don't anticipate something bad, we will be the victim, everybody mustn't behave such a self-bragging  although they get financially free today, money is the part of future reserve, remember this; just because we financially free today, it doesn't mean tomorrow we will be free, we aren't allowed to think about financial freedom again because the life system doesn't work such thing, as long as we are still living on earth, there is always disaster which is trying to get us away from proper place, we must increase our survival skill, the life system is very serious, we must take a lesson from this life every single day or we'll die in vain.

        Don’t ever say “I should prepare myself to make a proper place for me”, remember; you can't move yourself to live at the place as you wish, only your life will choose the place where you deserve, the reason why I say such thing because your life follows what you demand to yourself, if you just focus to stay perfectionist, means, you don’t prepare yourself to live in proper place, remember this; you and I will never know about tomorrow whether there is good or bad thing which will happen, sometimes we need to practice who to taste a suffered living in order to strengthen our mentality before we are facing the higher life pressure,  here is the good news; when we practice how to suffer like poverty people, our mind will not focus how others own because we already taste our pain, if we feel deep enough about our pain, our subconscious mind will whisper to us "how to salvage my future?", here is the first strategy how to prepare a place for your future; you work on the problem, not to work for money, do you know why I say such thing because only problem can give you a lot of value, remember this; value is always higher than the price, if you can work for the problem, other people will give you the intangible value such as reputation, testimonial for your service,  here is the second strategy how to prepare a place for your future; don't feel satisfied with your achievement, meaning, you must continue how to increase your unique ability or privilege, your achievement will not give you the next promotion if you stop right now, you mustn't let your achievement stopping your next action / progress, here is the third strategy how to prepare a place for your future; prolong your dream, meaning, you choose to postpone your pleasure in order to pursue your next dream, if you can apply this strategy, the magnificent thing will happen in reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Best of curb your enthusiasm

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Best of curb your enthusiasm”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lost their enthusiasm, the main cause why someone is losing enthusiasm is not coming from low esteem, but people lack of strong will, lack of good behavior and lack of productive habit, in this article I am going to let you know how to curb your enthusiasm, I hope you can find a good career after you have read this article, here is the first strategy how to curb your enthusiasm; you have to ensure your enthusiasm is attached with long term goal, meaning, you must work on your enthusiasm, the reason why you need this strategy because having great enthusiasm is not something easy to sustain, you need the life's problem to sustain your enthusiasm, you should behave grateful when you are surrounded by life's problem because it’s requirement to remake your new life story, here is the second strategy how to curb your enthusiasm; you must have clarity of choice and the tranquility of mind, the reason why you need it because it will push you to do something different although you don't know whether the result will be right or wrong, to make clarity, you just need to let go of something which can distract your attention, focus on your potential and eliminate a unclear desire, remember that sense of enthusiasm will not appear into your mind automatically, it needs a bait such as having the vividness of dream, when you store it in your subconscious mind, it can revive your enthusiasm although you are uninspired to do something.

   Here is the third strategy how to curb your enthusiasm; you must be surrounded by the right people to support, if you are surrounded by the right people, you will not burden to work on your biggest enthusiasm, remember that sense of enthusiasm will follow you as long as you have self-compassion and care to others, if you want to earn more sense of enthusiasm, you need to accept a new challenge and solve the problem as much as you can. here is the fourth strategy how to curb your enthusiasm; you have to build idealism in life, means, you build specialty in your life, the reason why you must have idealism in life because it will help you to avoid the bad influence and increase your luck through hard work and perseverance, when you have idealism, at least you will reject to live mediocre for long time period and you keep enhancing your masterpiece through enthusiasm, here is the fifth strategy how to curb your enthusiasm; discipline, if you apply this strategy, you will not waste your time for meaningless purpose because you understand about your most important thing, sometimes you need to stay away from the source of distractions if you want to revive your sense of enthusiasm, remember this; if there is no discipline, there is no enthusiasm, if there is no enthusiasm, there is no masterpiece, if there is no masterpiece, there is no profit, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.