Self esteem builder for adults

Today I would try to explain about self-esteem builder, as we know that every human wants to get confidence during fulfilling their career, unfortunately no one knows how to obtain the confidence under work pressure and self-esteem builder is not going to work when people haven’t committed with their passion, purpose and grit.

Self-esteem builder is part of unlimited wealth which is helping human to determine about the improvement in order to teach human how to get a self-esteem in everlasting, how will I know we can detect self-esteem builder, The first thing is you have to ask yourself about “what factor makes me happy with the good values I have recently”, the second thing is you must explore about “what kind of ability will facilitate yourself in order to get the true happiness”.

Without any friction or the life pressure such hungry and poverty, we will not get the meaning of self-esteem builder, in many years many people are trying to get self-esteem but averagely they have lost the meaning of it because they just obsess about their satisfaction, please take a note: self-esteem builder is not talking about each person’s satisfaction only, but it is talking about the clear purpose of life and it will demand you to build something valuable thing and give your best preparation to facilitate other people achieving the kindness in addition let they stick together with your ability, that is the secret how to create self-esteem builder.

The characteristic of self-esteem builder is always having good influence to make people aware about the meaning of kindness, self-esteem builder is the kind of facilitation which is ensuring other people can go to the next destination safely, self-esteem builder always demands you to prepare best facilitation in every single day to other people, facilitation means you must prepare your attitude, update your aptitude, keep your health, raise your standard of virtue, improve your basic mentality and upgrade your naturalistic intelligent, all your best facilitation will help you paying the self-esteem you want to live together with it.

Compassion for yourself

Hi good reader, howdy? Today I would like to share about good topic "Compassion for yourself", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone cares about themselves, if you ask me why not everyone is willing to show their compassion for themselves because they too focus on something outside of their limit, based on Psychological evaluation, "people who don't show their compassion to their own selves, they would do something riskier than what their mentality health can", let me give you an example, there is young man goes to work, he complains that he can't afford a motorcycle to be used for working purpose, so he intends to buy a new motorcycle by installment, instead buying a second-hand motorcycle, based on that story, maybe you will think that decision is normal, but the truly it is not normal, do you know why? Because he pushes his mental health to work beyond his limit, if he keeps doing it, his limitation will crack and he will be burdened with new disaster which may disquiet us, he should show his compassion to himself, instead, he is willing to risk his life to burden his mental health with more responsibility, if he loves his own life, he shouldn't buy new motorcycle if he can't afford, remember this; we shouldn't owe something from this world because our lives is limited by time, if we keep owing something from this world, our happy will never stay alive, "money is like the spiritual energy" if our spiritual energy can't buy something for our needs, we shouldn't buy what we want or we should work to get it, if we push harder our limit to buy something we want, as impact, our spiritual energy will receive something which can't reassure our mind and heart to live virtuously, we should beware once we spend our money, if we stay careless, we sell our spiritual energy for something mortal, remember this; doing something beyond one's capacity is called a disaster, compassion is used to save our dignity, not to crush down our dignity, before we show compassion for our wants, we should show compassion for our limit / capacity.

respect and compassion will create harmonious journey 

The reason why not everyone can show compassion because they are not willingly to pay for their own privilege / inborn skill with their time and energy to work on their biggest enthusiasm, people who show compassion for themselves, they keep working harder, they keep learning newer, compassion will adhere when people who are responsible for something they grant to the world, such as solution, talent, if we don't want to hurt our lives, we should show compassion to our gift, if we work on our gift, the whole world will be pushed to receive it, that's reputation, if we really love and behave compassion to ourselves, we must create good reputation every day as if we were making the last reputation in this world, when someone is not trying something to prove about what he deserves, he will not get benefits from his gift / talent, remember; take care of character will define our compassion, if we build character, we should not owe something from this world, instead, we should practice how to sell something we own to the world, People who have compassion, they will not show about their weaknesses, but they will promote their talents to as many as people, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your career, good luck.

Discipline vs punishment

Self discipline will convert action into profit

  Hi good reader, Howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you will always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Discipline vs punishment", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people misunderstood about the value of discipline, some of them hate about discipline because it can force people's behavior to do something they dislike as if they have been abused to do something bad, it is not quite true, do you know why I say such thing? because discipline basically is designed to shape new character for human's future, so discipline can't enslave our habit to do something cruel, discipline is part of renewing process in human's character until human will get some meanings in what they do in daily routine, remember; every human's character is incomplete because we were born on earth at the first time with unshaped character, when we have unshaped character, it indicates we know nothing about our behavior and every behavior is like unfinished product, in order to renew our character, we must have strong commitment to shape our environment by doing something regularly, if we don't build our environment by applying discipline progressively, as impact, outer environment will shape our behavior until we don't know what kind of character will stay with us, if we don't recognize well about our character, we will judge ourselves is like a slave where we will be forced by outer environment to do something we aren't supposed to do, here is my suggestion "before outer environment will shape your character, you must build your character by doing something inspired with discipline", here is the first thing you need to do how to recognize your inner world; you must have a mission where it is connected with other people's problem or pain, if you commit to do something different for other people's lives, you will renew your character as if you have changed a life pattern where other people can't do for their own life, when your main character is new, your fate will change into something better.

 

Self discipline is like punishment because it can induce self growing pain

  Here is the second thing you need to do how to recognize your inner world; you must not let other people tell what you can't do, if you just let other people dictate what you do until you can't hear your inner voice, at that time you will get trapped in punishment mode because you just follow what other people say without checking whether the activity you have been offered can make you feel good or not, if we see reality right now, many people are trapped in a habit where they feel like a slave and they aren't allowed to do something with their own creativity, remember; your behavior will shape character and your fate starts manifesting based on behavior you have shaped it in long time ago, if you don't feel renewed with what you do, you must ask yourself "what's value do I obtain from this job ?", if your activity can't renew your strength of character, you must leave that job because you will become a slave of job when you keep doing it, Here is the third thing you need to do how to recognize your inner world; you must invest your daily habit with good information, it means, you just focus how to enrich your knowledge with good information which can drive you out of bad habit, remember; good habit can't dwell together with bad habit in one's soul, as long as your knowledge can push out a bad habit from your character, then your life will be fueled with the power of discipline, only disciplined action can make your life is useful, meaningful and happy, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Panic attack management

Panic expression

 

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic “Panic attack management”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are being prepared how to face the unsuccessful hope, for some reasons why many people aren't prepared to see something out of expectation because they are trained to dictate themselves to see something they want only and they aren't equipped to exceed their expectation, now here is my critical question: ”what were you preparing before you realize going to lose your savings?”, I believe most people just think how to make a debt after they lose their money, am I right?, that's worse experience, remember this wisdom; before the war begins, we must end the war before it is getting started, it means, before we lose the money, we must evolve our mental acumen by developing our inborn skill and solve some life problems, if we don't use our mental strength to solve some problems, this life is going to give us the unexpected problem which may give us too much stress, remember; life doesn't get easier, life gets harder, have you ever wondered why strong minded person doesn’t get panic attack easily once he meets with the unpleasant situation because he doesn’t focus on something out of his capable hand and he only focuses on what he develops on his skill only, here is the key how to avoid panic attack; don’t waste your life to protect your instant pleasure, if you dedicate yourself to look for instant pleasure, the more you get suffering because instant pleasure is irresponsible about your future, remember; your life is as valuable as other people’s lives, if you just focus how to please yourself, you will invest a panic attack in the future, but if you focus to enhance your skill until you no longer prioritize your instant pleasure, as impact, your life will complete your journey and your skill will increase your survival skill and eventually you will not get panic attack easily.  

 

Panic is kind of severe fear effect

  At this moment I would like some strategies how to create panic attack management, hopefully it can give you enlightenment, here is the first strategy how to avoid panic attack; strengthen your major focus on your big picture, it means, you must know what you are going to commit in the near future, if you don't know what you are going to do, your focus will lose its strength and eventually you will lose a sight of hope, here is the second strategy how to avoid panic attack; don’t look back on the old history which reminded you with the unpleasant experience, meaning, you must block your focus from the old history and you keep continuing your life mission, don’t let any circumstance interferes what you can do, our duty is not rewriting the history, but how we create new story which may bring good impact to our future lives, the reason why many of us get panic attack because we too focus about our past memory and we believe it will happen again in the future, here is the third strategy how to avoid panic attack; stop trying so hard to follow someone else's character, the reason why we aren't supposed to follow someone else's character because every human is unique creature, if we just follow someone else's character, we will lose our unique ability and also we will lose our novelty value in our soul, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Person responsible

Responsible person is always keeping his promise

   Hi good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, I hope you always have the abundance of health, wealth, and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Person responsible", the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize their purpose, if you ask me about the main reason why many of us can't recognize our purpose because our conscious mind is intrigued by profit-oriented mindset, here is the main reason why profit-oriented mindset is very bad for our long term life because profit can lock our mental growth, I don't say we don't need a profit when we work in good career, what I mean is we shouldn't focus on profit, but we should prioritize how to develop our competence, we can't build our competent skill if we don't discipline our mind and body to be responsible to what we work on the problem we love, that's the first vision we need to build, if we just prioritize how to get profit at the first step, our skill will not grow as we expect because building a skill needs progressive action and perseverance, remember this advice; being responsible person is always digging new information to know more about what he can and what he chooses, from the data research; our mental acumen can't achieve something great when our skill doesn't support in what we aim, our skill will not grow rapidly if we feel satisfied about the result which has been shown in reality, sometimes we need to ignore reality in order to gain new problem which can accelerate our skill, competent skill will grow if we take new responsibility by taking a new challenge every day which can guide our deepest curiosity to unlock the mysterious problem which can impact to most people's lives.

Responsibility is lies within your own purpose

  Starting from now, please don't too focus to pursue profit if you want to develop your competent skill, profit will find you automatically when you succeed to develop competent skill which has been buried long period of time within yourself, that's part of life's system, the reason why not many people want to build their competent skill because they consider building a skill needs several years to grow and the uncertainty test, besides that, people must adapt with the rejection from reality, remember this advice; people who are not willing to adapt with uncertainty, they are unable to survive once they meet with a big problem which needs competent skill, only responsible person who is able to build the competent skill, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to be responsible person, hopefully it can give you encouragement to do something better in your career, here is the first strategy you need to do if you want to be responsible person; you must be willing to compete against your ego, meaning, you must do something new every time your ego whispers you to stop what you develop, if you just follow and listen what your ego tells you, it indicates you aren't willing to be a new person you admire in the future, whether you like it or not, ego always whispers something bad for you, remember this; ego can't motivate you every time you face something in the difficult time, that's your challenge, here is the second strategy you need to do if you want to be responsible person; you must focus on your long term purpose, not the result, meaning, you must accelerate your potential by doing something for other  people's problem, if you do something because of a big profit, as result, your potential will not grow rapidly because your intention and your vision aren't walking in the same path, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.