How to learn the people’s judgment

the indecisive people can't make good judgment


Today I would like to talk about how to learn the people’s judgment, we all know that judgment is the ability to make sensible decision after carefully checking the best to do, the best is not part of the end loop, by that means we still have a lot of improvement to rectify some points which may raise misleading point to the wrong direction.

please check up your experience before judging something

Now we will try to comprehend about the people’s judgment, as we know that the judgment will determine size of reason and big reason will evoke human mindset to create the action, so if we want to learn the people’s judgment, the first thing we need to know whether the human’s has enough competent or not during judging about the object, we must be careful at this step because the wrong judgment will create wrong direction, wrong direction will mislead the human’s emotional feeling to the desperation area, in addition, the human’s emotional unintentionally will deceive the human mindset once human doesn’t know how to differentiate between the true judgment or the wrong one.

the coward people will make careless judgment

The second thing we need to learn is about the past’s history and the human’s experience, the good judgment is coming from the human’s best experience, without having enough good experience, someone will lose his way how to make good judgment, we can’t allow ourselves to spread the freely judgment without considering the fact, the wrong judgment will create wrong idea and the wrong idea will create stupidity.

Talking is easy but making wise decision needs good judgment

The safety judgment must align to the proven system which is ensuring every the judgment will not make the wrong accusation, if there’s no prove there is no judgment, here is the bad news; if human is deliberately making the wrong judgment freely, it will evoke other people’s mindset to make the same mistake as the influencer did before.

clearness judgment is coming from the clear mindset

The good judgment must be aligned with the fact, realistic news and also there’s enough proven system as the supporting data, the competent people will not make careless judgment before they are having enough data to support what they have done, the judgment’s value will be meaningless when people consider the rumor as the best data. The wrong judgment is like the computer’s virus, it will spread to our mindset once we are not carefully choosing the best thing from it, If people choose to live together with the wrong judgment and ignoring the fact, they will not find themselves in their peacefully heart, in addition they will do the destructive thing in the environment and also they will harm to other people’s habit.

No good data, No good experience

reading book is part of making good experience


Today in this article I would like to talk about data and memory, data will determine the direction where people are going, and data will tell people what kind of decision people are going to deal with it, what will we do to make good experience? The first thing we must deal with book, book represents about the purpose, and it represents your unique sense of your skill, the successful people know about the book’s title they are going to read, the book will describe about someone’s future, the more book people will read, the more opportunity will lead them to the new ways.

to collect good experience, we need to make tough decision ahead

“There is no meaningful chance when there’s nobody will arrange his time to make little accomplishment through learning liability”, reading book is like to try conquering someone’s fear, no fear will spread to human’s mindset when there’s knowledge within human’s mindset because there’s only knowledge has ability to blockade the fear and diminish a doubt.

intention and awareness = energy

Bad experience will not create good data but the bad experience will help human being to prevent the same mistaken which is going to happen tomorrow, when someone is embracing the bad experience, it doesn’t mean he deliberately chooses that treatment, he just learns how to synchronize the unconscious mind data and make it to be the precious experience in his life, the unsystematic habit indicates someone needs to make the contingency plan to rearrange his spiritual energy to create new emotion and make good data in his brain memory.


The only way we can do to collect some good data is by embracing new problem which we may dislike to learn it, in order to learn about the meaning of life, sometimes we can’t choose which good way or bad way of something when it deliberately approaches to us, we only need to appreciate the process and stop making accusation to something which may goes in the wrong way, running in the wrong direction sometimes is better than standing still, we should not resist the fact and accept it as the consequently to live in peace.

The highest potential is mutual friend for human being


Hi, good Today I would like to share about the topic "The highest potential is mutual friend for human being", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people want to possess highest potential for fulfilling their career, but unfortunately their potential will not work like what they desire, do you know why ? Because people only focus about what they want and they don't want to adapt with unpleasant experience, it is not congruent, if people want to achieve something they never possess, they must receive something they never receive before, such as failure, rejection, adversity, mistake, this is rule we need to follow, at the first time, maybe you will think you must collect everything you want after you work at company, but in reality, you can't apply your ego into reality because you can't fulfill what life wants, no wonder life doesn't follow what you want because you don't have highest potential, life only follows you if you have fulfilled what life wants consistently, that's mutual relationship, the first we must do if we want to possess highest potential, we must tame the beast (ego) within us, as long as we can't conquer it, we will never reach our highest potential, sometimes we need to put ourselves to the hard situation to measure how fast we can learn from painful experience and how far we can go with the pain, that's how to monitor our growth potential.

the beast represents human's ego

 When the situation puts us into the hard situation, don’t be afraid about it because that's strategy how to unlock potential, we will never know our potential until we challenge our ego to do something we never try before for other people's problem, remember this law; when there is problem, there is a seed of opportunity for harvesting our potential, if we train our habit to avoid problem, we will never find where our potential grows, starting from now, you must train your mind and heart to feel grateful if you get problem, God will never put problem to the wrong person, only deserved person will receive problem, you will get problem because God wants you to reveal something important that you left behind so far, here is the first thing you must do if you want to increase your potential; don't just follow your passion, but follow the majority of people's problem which is congruent with your passion, it means, you must develop your curiosity to know more about other people's problem, your potential will not grow if your passion can't fulfill other people's emotional problem, here is the second thing you must do if you want to increase your potential; don't be lazy to upgrade your standard in order to be matched with higher difficult problem, this strategy is recommended for people who are running business, this strategy is very difficult to apply in reality because ever human has different ego, the more often people increase their ego, the fewer golden opportunity people will get, the beast (ego) within us will fight us if we feed our ego with instant pleasure consistently, such as drinking alcohol, pornography, watching TV in hours, etc. whereas, the beat (ego) will turn into potential if we feed it with new knowledge, new inspirational story, unpleasant experience, adversity, disciplined action, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea to improve your life, good luck. 

How to understand the pain



Today in this article I would like to talk about how to understand the pain, as we know many people are feeling bad, they consider there’s something wrong with their own thinking but they don’t know “why”, as if they had been trapped into their own commitment until they don’t know how to get out of it, in every single day they are not interested by doing something new because they assume pain is always blockading people’s creativity.


When they concern the pain, they only get destruction from it, so I am really sure people will find new trouble in their whole life once they insist to resist the pain, before we judge pain is the severity disease, I will ask to them “pain is created by who? when humans are trying to oppose the reality and life’s plan, who will activate the cure for a pain? suffering is appearing when people follow their commitment, so pain is inevitable thing but suffering is one's having too much obsession about mystery”.

When people failed to make commitment, not because of adversity goes and comes into human’s life, but the main cause is people are not living naturally with real situation, that’s mean people get failed by their default, we just need to balance between self-commitment and self-awareness when pain is appearing, sometimes we need to make the contingency plan to make pain is appealing and it gives us the additional energy to make another route once the one path doesn’t work for us.


 Something doesn’t work, not because of one’s commitment result, but we don’t choose to live naturally with the adversity, adversity is created by life circumstance in order to give us an option to think what we are doing with such condition, life wants to know how competent we are once there’s hardest part puts us into trouble.

Sometimes we need to choose the wrong path to make us awareness about something wrong and doing right will teach us how to be wise man, please remember this note: we only need self-awareness to promote the pain as the booster in life because pain is one of awareness, when you break one pain, it will help you to break another pain, and pain becomes a cure.

making pain as motivational option


All we need to do as human is understanding about our possession and exceed the expectation by engulf pain for temporary action, let one pain will heal all another one. Making one decision is not difficult option, the most difficult option understandings about life’s pain, but when you succeed to understand the life’s pain, you will become a master because you can cure all human’s pain.

Don’t break your eggs until they hatch


Today in this article I would like to talk about “egg and chicken”, this story seems familiar and now I just want to deepen the meaning of it, as we know that this life needs process to create new thing, life creates creativity and the nature is patient during running process, sometimes we are forced to wait the long process because the nature needs time to run the process until it will end successfully.


Nature and human are having same characteristic, such as vitality, patient, creativity, talent, intelligent, ingenuity and limitation, but in this section we will see the difference between human and nature, nature is always believing the process whereas human is denying the process, so we don’t have any right to push the process to follow what we want, when we breaks the rule, process will not run as naturally, on the other hand our patience will be insolvent because our patience are not enough to pay the momentum.

Every invention needs ingenuity, then ingenuity needs repetition from the human’s creativity, but we must remember that every creativity will not work when it’s content is not having different subject, whereas the creativity is working when we are doing different in every single day to achieve one purpose.

Doing same subject will make us stuck to the one place, so when everybody employs his ingenuity to make creativity, let creativity is running the process and we just need to prolong our patience to welcome new creativity, that is HOPE (Hold On, Pain Ends). Egg represents the human’s creativity, the light represents a hope, chicken represents commitment, we need several days to make the egg is being hatched by its process, the question is “What are we going to do when the egg is processing to be hatched?”, we keep producing the egg.


Please remember; every egg will not know when it will be hatched, the only sensible way we need to do is trusting with process and keep producing the chicken, sometimes we are left behind with the next process in order to know how persistent you are to make the creativity is really ending, process is our guidance, we are being taught by process to be strongest, boldest person in this life, only surprising will let us know how the result really ends, means our hard working eventually not know when all hardworking will be successful or they are being accepted by its process, sometimes we need to let go of something benefit in order to catch the big deal, then the next process will let us moving to the higher place in order to make us ready to accept the biggest reward, that is life mission.