What is your level of urgency?

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to know our urgency level, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willingly to create the sense of urgency for themselves, but unfortunately they forget one thing; the miracle will not come when there is no urgency level in human's life purpose, as a result, the life circumstance will put a sense of desperate to type of people who love to postpone something important, the main reason why people love to postpone doing something important because their expectation level is higher than their capacity level and they reject the reality, at this moment let me explain why we need to urge ourselves to break our expectation level and start to make about the urgency plan because our freedom are restricted by time, reality, negative mind and space, if we don't urge to do something that it means to us,  we will never get chance to pursue a new chance, remember this note; expectation comes from satisfaction, money, reputation, mutual relationship, lack of curiosity, etc. If we don't break our expectation level, we will never have any chance to enter the urgency level, here is the benefit if we have a sense of urgency; we will never get pissed off about failure because we realize being patience during doing something consistency is the powerful weapon to resist the chaotic mind and we will succeed faster than other people's opinion.

         The first thing comes up to your mind about a sense of urgency; it's probably you think that you never get any chance to rest, that's totally wrong, it's just part of strategy how to freedom your life from the chaotic mind because a sense of satisfaction will create a chaotic mind automatically when you don't have any plan to build a sense of urgency in your life, let me share how to create a sense of urgency; you must think "what's purpose am I born on earth?", there must be a strong reason to answer that question, when you think about it, I am sure you will be curious and you start to make research from any reference, it comes from spiritual teacher, religion, environment, nature, philosophy, wisdom, animal, plants, etc. That's first lesson you have been given from life, besides that a sense of urgency also can be adopted to create a new career in business, here is a note you need to ponder if you have a plan to build business; “what kind of value you can provide every day? The second thing you need to ponder “how many people want to urge themselves to buy your level of urgency?” the third thing you should ponder “why people need your product/service right now?” If you can answer these kind of question right now, I am really sure you will have a sense of urgency and you will not dare to postpone what you want to do because you need to provide other people’s daily need, it’s look simple, but it’s hard to do, if we think what we do today can’t be postponed later, our existence will be more valuable than product or service. 

       Please remember; If you think your product/service can rescue the human's life from a chaotic mind, desperate, and a midlife crisis, please don't postpone to do it because there is God's existence within your service, you are within God's lifetime project, your resources will be more valuable if you do that project than you just sell a product which has been used by people occasionally, here is the quality number one that you have a high level of urgency in this life; you have a high pain tolerance during you building a new career and you feel lifeless when you don’t do something valuable within 24 hour, now you may ask me “why do I need a high level of urgency in my life?” if you don’t have it, you are forced by life to work with a soul destroying job, in my opinion; if you want get an extraordinary life, you must avoid a soul destroying activity where it teaches you how to work for self-pleasure only, not building a high purpose to bring a million of good impact for everyone, if you only prioritize about your pleasure, you will have a poor soul and you will be forced by life to wear something you don’t deserve to wear it and you will live with chaotic mind and you will stick together with a pressure cooker.

A wise question is half the answer

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to make a wise question, the main reason why we need to create a wise question because it can be used to create a better imagination, a better plan and a better idea for our future, I have ever researched about the power of how to make a wise question, it really works to my life, you know why? Because the human’s brain system will work optimally when it accepts a wise question, if there is no wise question which it is being intended to the human’s conscious mind, the brain will cause the bad respond to the people behavior, when we have a sudden difficult situation, don't put bad judgment on this area because life will bring a worse reaction twice times more severity than our expectation, we can't use bad judgment to change our condition, we must create a wise question in order to invite life and let it creates a good reaction for us, when we can create a wise question, automatically life will not hurt us, instead it will give a better solution, the human’s brain system is like the parachute’s working principle, the parachute is useful once it’s has been given with the wind’s blow, if there is no wind's blow, the parachute is useless, it's same thing like the human's potential's principle, the human's potential will be meaningful when it has been given with an insatiable curiosity, practice and a critical question.

           But remember this; not all questions can activate the human’s brain potential, all depends on the quality of question which it is created by the high quality of human’s emotion, nobody knows how to make a critical question till people will get a personal bad experience or they receive an inspiring story from other people who give a good influence, here is the note; when people have a good experience, it comes from people’s good judgment, and good judgment comes from people’s bad experience, then people’s bad experience comes from their bad judgment, we must beware when we make a bad judgment towards problem because most problem we have is coming from the quality of our bad manner, when we make a bad judgment, it gives command to our conscious mind to do something bad, if we commit to do repeatedly, it becomes bad habit, the main reason why most people don't realize about their bad habit because they feed their mind with uninspiring question, if people ask themselves with a wise question, I am sure they will think five times before doing something bad, let me gives you the example of wise question, "what loss I will get if I love to postpone something important to my future?" and "what factor makes human get grateful today instead of waiting to receive money?"

 In my opinion, when we can’t speak about truth or good words, we would better to shut our mouth because our bad habit is determined by our quality of words, starting today, we must train our mind by giving it with a wise question or critical question, if we this kind of habit, I am sure our lives will be magnificent because we always prepare good thing before bad thing happens, now the question, how many a wise question do we make during a month recently? if we provide a wise question, it will help our lives from a midlife crisis or a chaotic mind, if you ask me "does a wise question give human an opportunity to succeed?" of course, because the success story comes from the human's eloquent words and also there are repeatable wise questions at that time, hopefully you can start to teach your beloved family how to make a wise question.

The deeper you’re feeling, the harder they are to express

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to recognize our deep feeling, as we know human are having variety of the emotional character, some people can teach themselves how to be eloquent speaker, some people can't express when they have low self-esteem, some people can't express their potential habit because they are educated by their family's member how to manage their expectation since they were young, if they know how to utilize their feeling, I am sure they can create the new future by their own design, now let me share something how to express your feeling to the right direction and how to increase your self-esteem, here is the major cause why people can't express their feeling because they always train their mind to get a pleasure and choose the easiest way to be their own principle, people believe this philosophy "do the easiest thing can create a simple life", in my opinion that kind of bad philosophy because it has influenced people to make an uninspired life story, at this time we need to design our character with the mental picture, so it can lead us how to make an attractive personality.

Don’t let your feeling is blocked by your own ignorance, you must express your own potential by dedicating something you are interested with, then you share what you know to others, don’t just do the same thing and you repeat what you know in order to get more money or you attract people with your uninspired story, it’s fixed mindset, when you set your mindset such thing, you will receive a fixed payment and you will never obsess an attractive character in the future, remember this note; good character can be built when we duplicate the nature's character and we apply it in our daily habit, then let habit will shape our personality at least 90 days, when you have a deep feeling, you must challenge yourself to express what your inborn ability wants into reality world, and don't let it going down deeper and unreachable, if you don't dig it, you will get desperate or doom's lifestyle, you must cultivate your inborn ability with knowledge because it can man you unfit to be slave, you keep practicing your feeling until it can become into creativity, don't let your feeling is drained with meaningless purpose and expressionless, you must build a skill where it can sustain your deep feeling for a long period of time, you can use your own masterpiece to make bright future, when you put your deep feeling into your own masterpiece, your feeling will attract the infinite power, finally your masterpiece will make you a self-indulgent person

When you have a deep feeling, it doesn't mean you will share your desire to everybody around you, it's totally wrong direction, as human being, we must know what is the purpose in life, if we express our feeling by doing something what we like and reject a new lesson from the unknown circumstance, we will become a loser, here is my daily note; don’t put any unclear feeling into someone or something where they can’t be trusted, when we trust something that we don't examine it earlier, we will a prisoner of life, not a master of life, we must find a new source where it is impossible to betray us, such as God's wisdom, our family, our devoted partner in life, nature's philosophy, remember this note; the more you put your feeling into trusted source, your life will free you from the darkness.

Don’t try to find the right person, but being the right person

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to be the right person whom you love in the long period of time and not trying to find the right person, the main reason why I recommend like that because we ourselves will live fullest with a personal habit, a personal responsibility, a personal skill and a personal ritual where it can’t be duplicated into other people's lives, when there is statement above mentioned comes up to your mind, you may ponder a bit about it, “why I shouldn’t need to find the right person first to be with me?” here is the answer; because not everyone wants to be with us and not everyone is attracted with our personal character, that’s a crucial statement we need to examine to our own personality, if we want to be pursued by the right person, we must build a personal character where it can design a beautiful journey for everyone's dream, so there is life mission we need to do it by ourselves, the right person usually will look for person who is able to provide what the right person needs, that's the law, the more we are able to create emotional healing in our personal character, the more we will be pursued by the most people who suffer a mental disease, as we know that everyone has mental disease, eventually most people usually try to find someone who can create emotional healing for curing their personal character, here is the note to self; when we possess an attractive characteristic, we will be met with someone who has a right principle.

Remember this note; we can't get the right person's attention until we challenge ourselves to improve our personality, if we just wait to give reaction to the right person, we will find the unpleasant regard from everyone's attention because we don’t have any ability to attract the right person’s attention, here are several principles we need to possess in order to attract the right person's character, the first principle; we must possess a productive habit where it can inspire everyone to possess the power of giving, here is the main reason why we need to possess the power of giving because the right person's character possess the power of giving, besides that, "this life will not give a bad reaction to us when we will preempt something good for our personality improvement”, we must build attractive character and this life will help us finding the right person to be with us, the second principle; we must have life mission like the right person has, the right person is not interested by attracting everyone's attention but the right person can attract everyone's sense of feeling with his legacy, here is good philosophy you need to learn; "the higher purpose you build, the higher value you will consume", means, if you work for making a better place for everyone around you, life will give you an extraordinary result, but unfortunately, not everyone will like by what the right person does because they really envy it.

If you gather around with people, make sure you find the grateful people, you know why? Because only despicable person will give a bad reaction to you no matter how good your capabilities, if this condition is happening to you, so you must leave that person immediately because he/she has disgraced your service, here is wisdom you need to remember; a despicable person will be married with a despicable person, a disgraceful person will not be married, unless he/ she will get along together with a disgraceful person’s character, starting from now, please don’t ask the right person to be with you, but ask yourself “how I can be observed with the right person?” if you understand about that statement, you will find a way how to calm yourself from bad reaction and eventually you will meet with the right person.

When someone get angry easily, he needs love the most

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to calm ourselves from anger, as we know human are emotional creature and every human has been graced with several intelligence, one of the most powerful intelligence is emotional intelligence, it has power to create a light and darkness for their heart, the light of heart can be represented by love, whereas the darkness of heart can be represented by anger, when human create love, it automatically can flow something benefit to the human's heart, such as grateful, fully appreciated, serenity, patience, etc. When human create anger, it automatically crash the logical mind and give a toxic in the human's mind, please beware about the power of emotion you have chosen because your future is shaped based on the quality of your emotion, don't hear wild notion where it can influence you to get angry, the human's emotional character is like the water, it can flow something benefit and also it can crash something meaningful, remember this note; when you are unable to awaken the power of love, automatically you are able to awaken the power of anger, now you may think about this question, “why most people get angry if they are able to create love?” because they don’t appreciate something valuable and they trust something which it can't be trusted, I have ever written in another article “life will give reaction when there is action” means when people get angry easily, because they preempt a bad judgment to their life and life automatically will give bad reaction to them, so we need to monitor our daily habit before it will be taken over by a sense of darkness.

Remember this note; life is designed to give reaction and nature is designed to give something reliable, if you see angry person around you, means he doesn't have ability to control where his emotional flowing current, if he doesn't want to feel angry, he must increase his survival instinct like what reptilian does to its environment, sometimes we can adopt the reptilian instinct to make sure we can fight our anger and we can continue our exist on earth, when we are trapped between rock and bottom, we shouldn't show an anger reaction, but we can use our survival instinct to keep alive and keep searching how to find solution, now the problem is“are you interested with bad reaction or good reaction?” if you are interested with good reaction, you will find a way how to find the nearest solution, but if you are interested with bad reaction, life will give a bad reaction to you and you will be punished with a bad reaction, here are the signs you are interested with a good reaction; you can create serenity, you can preempt harmony in the human relationship although there is dispute situation, we must understand that feel angry is not part of huge power, but it is part of self-punishment, if this condition is repeated over and over again, it can leave big hole destruction to the inner soul peace, before someone gets angry, he must build love and improve his survival instinct.

 This life will not give bad reaction if there is no bad action from the human’s emotional behavior, but unfortunately most people don't realize their power of words which it can create different impact to their lives, when people say to them "how can I do it? and "what should I do to avoid a sense of angry?", the human's survival instinct will grow up and it will give the possibility to find solution, beware of our words because it is very powerful, it can create inspiration or it can create desperation, the unpleasant thing which it happens in this life is not part of the life purpose, but it’s part of wrong direction where it has been created by human’s lack of survival instinct to fight their ignorance of knowledge, starting today, don’t get overworked  when you have job because it has potentially create a sense of anger and also please don't act casually when you have a clear target to be pursued because it will decline your survival instinct, hopefully after you read this article, it will help you to recognize where your power of emotional intelligence is going.