The deeper you’re feeling, the harder they are to express

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to recognize our deep feeling, as we know human are having variety of the emotional character, some people can teach themselves how to be eloquent speaker, some people can't express when they have low self-esteem, some people can't express their potential habit because they are educated by their family's member how to manage their expectation since they were young, if they know how to utilize their feeling, I am sure they can create the new future by their own design, now let me share something how to express your feeling to the right direction and how to increase your self-esteem, here is the major cause why people can't express their feeling because they always train their mind to get a pleasure and choose the easiest way to be their own principle, people believe this philosophy "do the easiest thing can create a simple life", in my opinion that kind of bad philosophy because it has influenced people to make an uninspired life story, at this time we need to design our character with the mental picture, so it can lead us how to make an attractive personality.

Don’t let your feeling is blocked by your own ignorance, you must express your own potential by dedicating something you are interested with, then you share what you know to others, don’t just do the same thing and you repeat what you know in order to get more money or you attract people with your uninspired story, it’s fixed mindset, when you set your mindset such thing, you will receive a fixed payment and you will never obsess an attractive character in the future, remember this note; good character can be built when we duplicate the nature's character and we apply it in our daily habit, then let habit will shape our personality at least 90 days, when you have a deep feeling, you must challenge yourself to express what your inborn ability wants into reality world, and don't let it going down deeper and unreachable, if you don't dig it, you will get desperate or doom's lifestyle, you must cultivate your inborn ability with knowledge because it can man you unfit to be slave, you keep practicing your feeling until it can become into creativity, don't let your feeling is drained with meaningless purpose and expressionless, you must build a skill where it can sustain your deep feeling for a long period of time, you can use your own masterpiece to make bright future, when you put your deep feeling into your own masterpiece, your feeling will attract the infinite power, finally your masterpiece will make you a self-indulgent person

When you have a deep feeling, it doesn't mean you will share your desire to everybody around you, it's totally wrong direction, as human being, we must know what is the purpose in life, if we express our feeling by doing something what we like and reject a new lesson from the unknown circumstance, we will become a loser, here is my daily note; don’t put any unclear feeling into someone or something where they can’t be trusted, when we trust something that we don't examine it earlier, we will a prisoner of life, not a master of life, we must find a new source where it is impossible to betray us, such as God's wisdom, our family, our devoted partner in life, nature's philosophy, remember this note; the more you put your feeling into trusted source, your life will free you from the darkness.

Don’t try to find the right person, but being the right person

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to be the right person whom you love in the long period of time and not trying to find the right person, the main reason why I recommend like that because we ourselves will live fullest with a personal habit, a personal responsibility, a personal skill and a personal ritual where it can’t be duplicated into other people's lives, when there is statement above mentioned comes up to your mind, you may ponder a bit about it, “why I shouldn’t need to find the right person first to be with me?” here is the answer; because not everyone wants to be with us and not everyone is attracted with our personal character, that’s a crucial statement we need to examine to our own personality, if we want to be pursued by the right person, we must build a personal character where it can design a beautiful journey for everyone's dream, so there is life mission we need to do it by ourselves, the right person usually will look for person who is able to provide what the right person needs, that's the law, the more we are able to create emotional healing in our personal character, the more we will be pursued by the most people who suffer a mental disease, as we know that everyone has mental disease, eventually most people usually try to find someone who can create emotional healing for curing their personal character, here is the note to self; when we possess an attractive characteristic, we will be met with someone who has a right principle.

Remember this note; we can't get the right person's attention until we challenge ourselves to improve our personality, if we just wait to give reaction to the right person, we will find the unpleasant regard from everyone's attention because we don’t have any ability to attract the right person’s attention, here are several principles we need to possess in order to attract the right person's character, the first principle; we must possess a productive habit where it can inspire everyone to possess the power of giving, here is the main reason why we need to possess the power of giving because the right person's character possess the power of giving, besides that, "this life will not give a bad reaction to us when we will preempt something good for our personality improvement”, we must build attractive character and this life will help us finding the right person to be with us, the second principle; we must have life mission like the right person has, the right person is not interested by attracting everyone's attention but the right person can attract everyone's sense of feeling with his legacy, here is good philosophy you need to learn; "the higher purpose you build, the higher value you will consume", means, if you work for making a better place for everyone around you, life will give you an extraordinary result, but unfortunately, not everyone will like by what the right person does because they really envy it.

If you gather around with people, make sure you find the grateful people, you know why? Because only despicable person will give a bad reaction to you no matter how good your capabilities, if this condition is happening to you, so you must leave that person immediately because he/she has disgraced your service, here is wisdom you need to remember; a despicable person will be married with a despicable person, a disgraceful person will not be married, unless he/ she will get along together with a disgraceful person’s character, starting from now, please don’t ask the right person to be with you, but ask yourself “how I can be observed with the right person?” if you understand about that statement, you will find a way how to calm yourself from bad reaction and eventually you will meet with the right person.

When someone get angry easily, he needs love the most

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to calm ourselves from anger, as we know human are emotional creature and every human has been graced with several intelligence, one of the most powerful intelligence is emotional intelligence, it has power to create a light and darkness for their heart, the light of heart can be represented by love, whereas the darkness of heart can be represented by anger, when human create love, it automatically can flow something benefit to the human's heart, such as grateful, fully appreciated, serenity, patience, etc. When human create anger, it automatically crash the logical mind and give a toxic in the human's mind, please beware about the power of emotion you have chosen because your future is shaped based on the quality of your emotion, don't hear wild notion where it can influence you to get angry, the human's emotional character is like the water, it can flow something benefit and also it can crash something meaningful, remember this note; when you are unable to awaken the power of love, automatically you are able to awaken the power of anger, now you may think about this question, “why most people get angry if they are able to create love?” because they don’t appreciate something valuable and they trust something which it can't be trusted, I have ever written in another article “life will give reaction when there is action” means when people get angry easily, because they preempt a bad judgment to their life and life automatically will give bad reaction to them, so we need to monitor our daily habit before it will be taken over by a sense of darkness.

Remember this note; life is designed to give reaction and nature is designed to give something reliable, if you see angry person around you, means he doesn't have ability to control where his emotional flowing current, if he doesn't want to feel angry, he must increase his survival instinct like what reptilian does to its environment, sometimes we can adopt the reptilian instinct to make sure we can fight our anger and we can continue our exist on earth, when we are trapped between rock and bottom, we shouldn't show an anger reaction, but we can use our survival instinct to keep alive and keep searching how to find solution, now the problem is“are you interested with bad reaction or good reaction?” if you are interested with good reaction, you will find a way how to find the nearest solution, but if you are interested with bad reaction, life will give a bad reaction to you and you will be punished with a bad reaction, here are the signs you are interested with a good reaction; you can create serenity, you can preempt harmony in the human relationship although there is dispute situation, we must understand that feel angry is not part of huge power, but it is part of self-punishment, if this condition is repeated over and over again, it can leave big hole destruction to the inner soul peace, before someone gets angry, he must build love and improve his survival instinct.

 This life will not give bad reaction if there is no bad action from the human’s emotional behavior, but unfortunately most people don't realize their power of words which it can create different impact to their lives, when people say to them "how can I do it? and "what should I do to avoid a sense of angry?", the human's survival instinct will grow up and it will give the possibility to find solution, beware of our words because it is very powerful, it can create inspiration or it can create desperation, the unpleasant thing which it happens in this life is not part of the life purpose, but it’s part of wrong direction where it has been created by human’s lack of survival instinct to fight their ignorance of knowledge, starting today, don’t get overworked  when you have job because it has potentially create a sense of anger and also please don't act casually when you have a clear target to be pursued because it will decline your survival instinct, hopefully after you read this article, it will help you to recognize where your power of emotional intelligence is going.

The best revenge is move on, get over it and continue to succeed

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about how to continue a life journey by moving on our focus and enthusiasm to the right direction when we have met with setback or failure, sometimes we feel like uninspired, unmotivated, feel angry, feel undeserved, but there is still a good news as long as we are still alive, tomorrow is a second chance and today is the first chance, we can leave the past moment as mood booster and we start preparing a unprecedented opportunity for tomorrow, act of moving on our plan to another direction is a good choice, remember one thing; when we change our feasibility plan, it doesn't mean we will change our dream, when everything goes wrong, it is part of evaluation, sometimes God gives us to the wrong direction in order to know whether we realize or not with our commitment, as long as we commit with our dream, move on is just like steeping the stair, if we look at the ladder's philosophy, every step of ladder is designed differently from one step to another one, means, every step is the part of progress, not kind of setback, I believe that everyone has ever experienced with a bad situation where it may interrupt their inner peace, but if there is no bad experience in our lives, our lives will be bored and we will become a limited edition stuff because there is no new design, new innovation and progress at all.

        We shouldn’t get angry about a bad experience or we get betrayal from our friend, all is good for us because we will know about other people's bad characteristic, every bad experience is designed to increase our survival instinct and increase our mental age level, we should be thankful to everyone who has ever given something unpleasant to us, such as get betrayal, rejection, broken heart, get swindled, all we receive are the part of mood booster and progress, remember this note; the more problem we face, the higher calling from God is coming, means God wants to see our best response and best preparation, if our preparation is good enough, God will win your battle, Please don’t judge too early to something we haven't ever experienced because not all bad experience are bad, some bad experience can turn into wake-up call for someone has never learned something. always remember this note; if you get problem within your hands, means, God entrusts something meaningful to you and He leaves problem to you because only you are chosen to be His messenger, so everyone has possibility to become God's messenger, when you are entrusted with a great power, means you can make a better world with your own version.

           When you find something unchangeable like environment or a social circle, don’t get stressed about it because it is a sign that you must get it over with them and you start a new life journey tomorrow, maybe some people has ever experienced by receiving a low responsibility job or bad career, this condition sometimes very painful because at that time you feel your working experience is unappreciated, that's new chance to improve your current skill and you can leave that job, if you keep staying with job which can't appreciate your skill, you will feel uninspired and unmotivated, here is my note; this life is neutral, it can serve you with a good service when you do good deeds and life will become evil when you risk your life by trusting something or someone who can't be trusted, here is the best revenge to end your painful experience; change your unproductive ritual with a productive habit, refine your philosophy and become a man of value.When you commit yourself to become a man of value, you will be offered with many opportunity to succeed your career and you will not get stress about your past because you really understand about God's plan.

Your future needs you, your past doesn’t

           Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how prioritize our future and leave the past, the main reason why we need to leave our past and prioritize our future because past would move away from our time zone and it is no longer existed, we will never change the past history because the past time was obsolete, the more we want to go back in the past, the past would give us a sense of desperation and a sense of doom, there is no hope to rewrite the last history because the past time was no longer existed, we only have today as first chance to write a new chapter in our life story, we can learn something new and give a good design to the future, let the future works by its own way automatically, here is the important note; don't interfere the future's main job because the future itself has known about its responsibility, now let me explain the main reason why we shouldn’t back to the past because there was no path which it can be offered to us,there was no entry door to go back in the past, even though we act of repenting, it was pointless, besides that, if there was no time, there was no hope, if we ourselves insist to go back in the past, life would give us a threat, a severity pain and a miserable experience because we deliberately reject the truth.

           When we reject the truth, automatically we reject new opportunity which it’s being provided by the future, if we feel there were many setback and failures in the past, it doesn’t mean we have no hope at present time, but it’s part of progress, every failure and setback are not kind of the act of stupidity, it just God’s plan to leverage our preparation for the future, we will never know something about future because our knowledge are very limited, we don't have many choice to know something about the future because tomorrow is always mysterious, we are only being asked to keep growing our skill, keep improving our productivity and keep hoping to the future, that’s kind of God’s education system, remember this note; we are not being punished by God once we produce a new mistake or we keep doing wrong, but God will give us a severe punishment when we don’t dare to make new mistake and stop trying, that’s God’s wisdom, as human being, we are not entitled to determine a final result, but we are demanded to show some evidence that we deserve to get a reward from all great effort we made in the past, I think make a new day by writing a new story is kind of strategy of how to attract the unlimited potential, remember this note; if there is no preparation from today, we automatically will not get opportunity in the future.

don't return to the past because the path is broken

          Now let me give you the example in reality how to keep existing between the past and the future, if you look at the treadmill machine where it has been used by someone’s running, when someone runs into that machine, he must keep running in order to keep him existing in that machine area, if he wants to survive, someone must run because the machine is designed to keeps him going backward or felling down, the same thing with the past, if we look at the past more often, the past will make our mental strength is going decrease, finally we are feel unmotivated and feel unworthy, starting today, we must beware about the past memory because it couldn’t offer something benefit to us except it offers a sense of regret, whatever you will receive, either a good thing or a bad thing in this life, it's kind of life lesson which it can leverage your willpower, eventually you will become the tough person in whatever you do.