4 signs you are in a toxic relationship

         Today I would like to share about 4 signs you are in a toxic relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couple don’t realize that they are trapped in a toxic relationship in several years and they still can't escape from physical proximity, now let me share to you about 4 signs you are in toxic relationship, the first sign that you are in a toxic relationship; there is no single response from your spouse when you invite your spouse to talk together, means your spouse's doesn't consider you as the important person because you can't understand your spouse's problem, the reason why giving response to spouse is important because it signs that someone trusts with spouse, if your service is not appreciated by your spouse, means your spouse considers that you are supposed to walk away, don’t ever underestimate with the sign of response because a love life breaks easily not because there is fighting or any dispute, but love life breaks easily because every couple shows behave indifferent into each other, starting today, don’t let you or your spouse shows being indifferent, if you are bored about your relationship, try to challenge yourself to dig new information about your spouse’s interest, not trying to walk away from your spouse.

        Here is the second sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no progress during making a close proximity, means, you and your spouse are not finding any strong reason to live together in the future, furthermore you and your spouse are not ready to accustom with every change of respective behavior, this problem is caused by lack of commitment and lack of sense of possessive about love feeling, if this relationship is forced to keep going, your mental strength is decreasing automatically because your service is not considered as the important thing in the eye of your spouse, remember this note; don’t ever think living on earth is like living in the heaven, it’s totally wrong, in order to prolong our love life, we need to survive for what we pursue, fighting hard to go against a toxic relationship, sometimes you need guts to make tough decision and you plan to fail, not because you are doing a lot to your spouse doesn’t mean you are getting more done, here is special note; not all result are designed to make you happy, but problem in relationship will get you stronger than you were yesterday.

        Here is the third sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no sense of trust while you will plan to delegate something to your spouse, means you can’t give all authorities to your spouse because your spouse’s character doesn’t meet what your authority demands, if your spouse puts a toxic relationship, means you have to stop giving your service to your spouse because he/she doesn’t appreciate what you provide, remember this note; everything valuable will be more worthy when someone knows how to be trustworthy person, everything valuable will be unworthy when someone doesn’t know how to make something useful for spouse, here is the last point I want to share, the fourth sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; your spouse isn’t interested with your life story, and your spouse doesn’t want to plan something bigger with you in the future, hopefully you can avoid the 4 sign of toxic relationship and you can rescue your valuable resources in the long term plan.

8 ways to mend a broken relationship

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 8 ways to mend a broken relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel regret and they don't know how to mend a broken relationship, here is the first strategy to mend a broken relationship; make an official agreement in the note where it states what to do and what not to do, I just remind you that this strategy is not always getting successful, you need to behave patience when your spouse still does something irritated to you, when the condition keeps getting worst, you need to leave your spouse for awhile and give your spouse several options to rethink how to run a good relationship, here is the second strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave respective ego and prepare to compromise, this is strategy can be applied to strengthen a broken relationship as long as there is willingness to try from both of them, if you or your spouse are really serious to mend a broken relationship, both must kindle a respective interest in order to break old habit where it may create a dispute among them.

        Here is the third strategy how to mend a broken relationship; don’t fix something unchangeable but fix something measurable, means, don’t try to remind of spouse past mistake, but try to optimize what your spouse's talent and support what you can do for your spouse, remember this note; only you can fix your personal character, when you improve what you can do, there is still chance for you to rejuvenate your spouse’s mood, here is the fourth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; change your unsupported environment with supported environment, this is important, sometimes your spouse doesn’t like to see you because you are getting around with bad influence which is created by your friend circle, when you leave unsupported environment, automatically your ritual can be mended as well, when your spouse realizes it, your spouse will give you a chance to harmonize him/her mood, here is the fifth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; make the official gathering between your parents and your spouse’s parents, at least they can help you how to mend your relationship problem by offering some win-win situation, here is the sixth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave your ritual which it has potential to make your spouse hates most about you,  this is important clue, the wrong ritual will influence your behavior, when you have a bad behavior, everything you give for your spouse, result will injure your spouse's feeling, when you renew your ritual, at least it can elevate your spouse’s interest about you.

        Here is the seventh strategy how to mend a broken relationship; give a special gift where your spouse demands from you, this strategy will work as long as you don’t have any bad intention to break your spouse's feeling, here is the eighth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; learning about your spouse's life story before your spouse met you directly, show full empathy when your spouse tells a life story to you, unwittingly you can understand about your spouse's personal problem, when you keep this habit happening, finally you can find a root of a broken relationship, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.

How to survive a difficult marriage

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the topic "How to survive a difficult marriage", the reason why I choose that topic because not many people can survive in a difficult marriage, if you ask me what causes couples get trapped in a difficult marriage because they don't know their love language into each other, besides that, they don't respect their own weaknesses, the wise word says "if you want to prolong your marriage, being foolish together", meaning, every couple must do self-reflection and empty their egoism, now let me share to you about several strategies how to survive a difficult marriage, here is the first strategy how to survive from difficult marriage; don't focus how to find fault, this is important strategy, if you keep focusing how to find your couple's fault, you will get something worse beyond than your positive expectation, this strategy is not easy, all you need to do is find a solution where it can unite every couple's good memory.

       In order to prolong your marriage journey, you need to ensure you can acknowledge your incapability and start supporting your couple's blind spot, here is the second strategy how to survive from difficult marriage; don't find what makes your couple feels blamed, find a treasure memory with your couple in the past and try to make new story or rewrite history, this is not simple because you and your couple need to make a time before deciding to rewrite history, here is the third strategy how to survive from difficult marriage; don't debate for what you struggle with your couple, this strategy is simple, if you avoid debating, your relationship tends to avoid any dispute because you try to end the war before it is begun, here is the fourth strategy how to survive from difficult marriage; make open relationship with your spouse, meaning, you express what you feel and be honest about what you feel and make two ways of direction in communication, meaning, you let your spouse talks to you and you scrutinize it, do it alternately, if you consider your feeling needs to be discovered, so just get going, if you postpone or hide your feeling from your spouse, as impact, you will get trapped in difficult situation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight and also can improve your career, good luck.

Healthy communication in relationships

        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 10 ways how to make healthy communication in relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can build healthy communication in relationship for long term period, now let me share several strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship, here is the first strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; honesty, means, you don't try to cheat other people who are making a cooperation with you, this is important note, if you have this kind of habit, you will earn a respect from anyone else because your value can influence other people’s habit and your worthy will be remembered as gift although you are not around, here is the second strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; being busy to acknowledge someone's ability although you don't need it for yourself, as we know that people feel energized when their ability has been acknowledged, if you apply this strategy, they will be easy listener when you talk to them, besides that, they will appreciate your effort when you appreciate other people's skill.

    Here is the third strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; active listening, this is part of warm-hearted character, if you invest your time to be an active listener, other people will give you their time when you need them, this is part of the two ways of communication, here is the fourth strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; respect other people's privacy, this strategy is really important to sustain long term relationship, do you know why I say like this? because keep other people's privacy can build a new high level of compassion, people who can't keep other people's privacy, they will ruin their own value of respect, here is the fifth strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; don't try to talk about problem when others don't want to listen it, do you know why it is important to be noticed? because not everyone is ready to feel burdened when they listen other people's problem, if you want to share your problem, you have to ensure people you talked with are ready, maybe you can ask a question to them "Now I want to share my problem, do you want to listen it or not?" if you aren't ready to listen it, I will not talk it to you first, now let me tell you about the reason why people don't want to listen other people's problem because they don't want to get attached with other people's problem.

        Here is the sixth strategy how to make healthy communication in relationship; celebrate when you make the relationship's annual period, this is part of strategy how to prolong longevity of relationship, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight, good luck.

Principles of effective communication

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic "Principles of effective communication", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people know how to make principles of effective communication, some people feel satisfied when they try to talk only but not some of them try to make effective communication, at this moment, let me share to you about principles of effective people, here is the first strategy how to make an effective communication; stay foolish and stay curious, means, you don't try to demand others to understand you, you just stay curious about what others behave and observe what others enjoy in their daily life activities, if you are willing to get out from your shoes and enter into other people's shoes, as impact, you will get new perspective idea and new experiences, if you talk about what you do and what you have, other people will think that you're bragging about yourself, remember this; other people don't need what you have or what you do, other people only listen what they are enthusiastic about.

         here is the second strategy how to make an effective communication; you invest the quality time with people's emotional need only, if you just do something how to prioritize other people's emotional need only, you will know how to apply effective communication, here is the third strategy how to make an effective communication; giving yourself a name where people can recognize you easily, give yourself a special code to ensure people can remember you, that's the way of personal branding's strategy, if you give yourself a special code, people will communicate with you so efficiently, here is the fourth strategy how to make an effective communication; don’t choose or start a deep conversation when people you talked to can't understand you, which means, you don't create new topic where people can't understand, instead, you open the access of communication which is suitable for others and you let people know you more than you know them, remember this note; don't consider other people as having the same value as you do, if you do it, other people can't apply effective communication to you, hopefully this strategy can help you how to improve your life career, good luck.