How to win an argument against a narcissist

Being narcissistic

Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to win an argument against a narcissist”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people feel offended when they start arguing with other people who behave self-boasting or narcissist,  if you ask me why we need to win an argument against a narcissist because he / she prefer to claim something where it shouldn't be disclosed in the public place or in the open area, if we look at in reality, many people try to boast what they already have rather than they show their humility as the way of manner, here is the first strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; you mustn't reveal the narcissist's past achievement when you start an argument, do you know why ? because the narcissist starts labelling you whenever he wants with something you don't want to hear it, here is the fact; the more you discuss about narcissists achievement, he will burden you with something you feel hatred.

a narcissist posture.

Here is the second strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; don't try to follow narcissist's communication style, the reason why you mustn't allow yourself to follow narcissist communication style because he will give you a bad remark like "you can't be better if you don't follow my leads, if you follow my leads, you can get whatever you want", my suggestion is you follow your communication style and don't try to copy whatever a narcissist has possessed, here is the third strategy how to win an argument against a narcissist; try to find the opposite words from the way of speaking, meaning, you must find a meaningful word where it can make a narcissist disappointed, for example; when a narcissist tells you "you can't do anything you want without my help", so you can blockade that words from a narcissist by saying "even though you can facilitate my need, it doesn't mean you can support me all the time, you and I have limited time and limited capacity, so you can't be all right every time", I am very sure a narcissist starts being mad when he hears it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your daily life, good luck.

Value of discipline in life

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Value of discipline in life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes about the essential value from discipline, if you ask me why not everyone doesn't care about the essential value from discipline because they think discipline is hard to do, it will leave a permanent pain to human's mentality, at this time, let me share something about 7 tips you need to know how to master self-discipline, hopefully you can apply this strategy to your daily routine, here is the first tip how to master self-discipline; determine type of goal to set, when you apply this strategy to your daily routine, your focus will be expanded because you understand your type of goal and also you set your mindset to be goal-oriented, not end result-oriented, here is the second tip how to master self-discipline; breakdown your ultimate goal, means, you need to dissect your long term plan by finishing a short term goal every day, you have to love with progress rather than love with big result, if you appreciate about progress, you will not get afraid with failure because the progress you make can strengthen your mentality prowess, here is the advantage if you focus on the progress; you will not lose the value of discipline because discipline is great asset which can guide you to be very successful person.

         Here is the third tip how to master self-discipline; create a monitoring board to check your learning process, at this step, you are not allowed to finish another target until you finish your top priority plan, if you improve your learning area, you can improve something valuable which may affect to your career, Here is the fourth tip how to master self-discipline; eliminate distractions and temptation, if your focus gets distracted with many temptations, so you need to alert yourself by staying away from the source of distractions, like TV, online games, Here is the fifth tip how to master self-discipline; give yourself a small reward after you finish something, means, you need to appreciate your effort and time with small reward, remember; giving yourself a reward is part of self-compassion, if you love yourself, you will not get stressed with any circumstance, Here is the sixth tip how to master self-discipline; find role model who can inspire you a lot, sometimes having a good role model is a must because it can keep you on the daily track, if you have a good mentor, you will get a good influence from your role model, Here is the seventh tip how to master self-discipline; stay away from the instant process, do you know why you need to stay away from the instant process because it can't support your talent or your inborn skill,  I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Examples of motivating others

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Examples of motivating others”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone cares how to motivate others, if you ask me why motivating others is important because the way of your communication will gain a new power from reality when you start motivating others, here is the first example of motivating others; "you must get the big picture from your imagination if you want to improve yourself", if you motivate your business partner with the motivational word like that, as impact, you will get a good feedback from reality even though you can't see it clearly, when you motivate to others "get the big picture from your imagination", meaning, you train others how to validate a vision into reality, here is the second example of motivating others; "focus on yourself and work on yourself", this kind of motivational word will help others how to strengthen their mental as well as inner capacity, focus on yourself means, you focus on your uniqueness, here is the third example of motivating others; "stop trying so hard to be something you are not", this ritual will improve your blind spot area, do you know why? because the motivational word above is suggesting you behold deeply to your biggest enthusiasm, if you can manage your focus to your enthusiasm, the miracle will work for you. 

     Here is the fourth example of motivating others; "invest yourself more than you invest other places", meaning, you invest something where this world can't buy from you, maybe it is like intellectual asset, if you invest knowledge, experience and exposure to your career, as result, you can get something more than what you expect, here is the fifth example of motivating others; "the greatest success is lies in your greatest pain", this motivational word tells you to keep yourself chin up every time you get something disappointed, beware; there is always something that can make you disappointed when you are guided by Almighty God to your success, please be ready with that situation, the more you get something unpleasant, the more you open your self-awareness to observe something bigger than yourself, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your child’s mental health, good luck.

How to develop good habits in daily life

         

          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to develop good habits in daily life", the main reason why I choose that topic because having a good habit is the basic foundation how to get incredible life experience, if you ask me why develop good habit is important because it can bring happiness, good health and prosperous life, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to develop good habits in daily life, here is the first habit you need to do how to develop good habits; train your mind how to express your deepest gratitude in the morning, this ritual is so important because it can help you to reduce the stress’s impact and increase the endorphin hormone, as you know having endorphin and oxytocin hormone can reduce the mental pain, you can write down what your gratitude in the paper and read it repeat in several times, please train your mind at least 21 days by expressing your deepest gratitude, I am sure you can feel blessed if you accustom yourself with that ritual, here is the second habit you need to do how to develop good habits; try not to regret about your past moment and start rewarding yourself by sharing your goodness to others, the more you regret about your past, the more you absorb the darkness / the evil, remember; when you can't compromise with your time, you will have a sense of anxiety, fear, depression and ungrateful.

          Here is the third habit you need to do how to develop good habits; start appreciating whatever you get from the grace of God, this strategy will help you how to reduce stress and create peace to your mind, remember this note; just because you want to live happily, doesn't mean you must demand reality to work on your satisfaction, when you accept the result from Almighty God, you will not get hurt when reality doesn't work on your expectation, here is the fourth habit you need to do how to develop good habits;  accept your limitation, means, you don't disappoint when you get something opposite from your desire, here is for your note; limitation is not designed to restrict what you can do, but limitation is designed to help your focus is bigger and maximize your potential strength, here is the fifth habit you need to do how to develop good habits;  don’t be follower from other people's game, just play your own game scenario and be the best whatever you are, means, you must be unique, you don't compare between what other people do and what you can do, when you feel something good to the field area you are interested with, don’t just leave it behind without practicing it, you must develop it or it will be ended in regret, you have to practice your craft until your own creation can support whatever you wish, that’s one of good recipe how to create true happiness, here is the last note; only you can design your own life and you must be a happiness maker, not a happiness taker, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

5 steps to good decision making

Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “5 steps to good decision making”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped with rat race which makes them feel difficult to make good decision making, at this moment let me share something to you about 5 steps to good decision making, here is the first step to good decision making; taking a risk when people tend to avoid something unpleasant, means, we initially take decision when other people don't make decision, remember; taking a risk is not part of threat, it's just giving the signal for our mental preparation to welcome a great power from the risk we take, remember this note; if there is no risk, there is no learning process, risk is not designed to harm people’s lives, but risk is designed to teach people how to keep surviving from the unwanted problem or situation, if we don’t take risk now, we will never know about what we will get in future, maybe one day we will be pushed to take greater risk than previous one if we reject it now, so we must beware about every decision we choose, here is the second step to good decision making; you don't follow your expectation even though you can't get the result from it, the reason why you don't need to follow your expectation because it will immobilize your great spirit when you want to continue your doing, whether you like it or not, sometimes expectation can make you feel doubt when you want to make decision.

They walk into depression and ignorance

Here is the third step to good decision making; don't look back about your past when you want to make decision, the reason you aren't allowed to look back about your past because your future is determined by today's decision, when you look back about your past for longer time, your decision will be making you feared, here is the fourth step to good decision making; writing about the negative probability and positive probability into the paper, this strategy can help you to see the two sides of probability which may happen in the near future, if you can write down about the positive and negative probability into paper, you will not fear once the reality rejects your decision, here is the fifth step to good decision making;  you choose to live in the present, meaning, you don't feel regret when you make decision right now, if you don't feel any regret for your decision even though you may get counteractive result, as result, you are stronger than you think, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.