5 regrets of dying

         

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “5 regrets of dying”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people have the same problem in this life, namely, regret, if you ask me why most people get the pain of regret until they pass away because they underestimate what they can do and they overestimate what they can’t do in daily life, basically, the core of undetected problem in this life is started by maintaining the procrastination habit, if people are making habit by avoiding the undetected problem, as a result, they will lose many valuable things in their lives, such as, creativity, enthusiasm, inspiration, at this moment let me share something about 5 regret of dying, here is the first regret of dying that people own; they spend too much time to gain pleasure, means, people aren't interested to learn how to invest their time for self-study in anywhere place, remember this advice; the more we gain pleasure, the less we gain power, here are the example of pleasure; staying up late every day to play online games, holding the party with friends every week, spend more money to watch cinema every week, watching TV in hours, drinking alcohol, etc. those bad habits will create the regret of dying for people who aren't interested with power, here are the example of power; good reputation, credibility, creativity, enthusiasm, endurance, patience, ingenuity, etc. 

          Here is the second regret of dying that people own; not showing a deep feeling to seek the truth in life, if you ask me why people aren't showing a deep feeling to seek the truth in life because they love too much with the content of world, remember; the world is full of tragic and unrequited love, we shouldn't put our deepest feeling to pursue the satisfaction which is offered by the world because the world is the not suitable place to satisfy our deepest feeling, here is the third regret of dying that people own; dare not leaving their bad habit, if people let their bad habit dominate their logical sense, as impact, their brain will shut itself from seeing the opportunity, here is the third regret of dying that people own;  dare not to take tolerated risk, means, people will consider every risk is their enemy, I don't mean to belittle you by not taking the risk, what I mean is you should measure the risk with your own capacity, your knowledge, your capitals, remember; having the ability to take tolerated risk will increase your self-awareness, here is the fourth regret of dying that people own; dare not to forgive other people's mistake, if people have a revenge and dare not to forgive other people's mistake, as impact, they will never get inner peace, here is the fifth regret of dying that people own; don't recognize their creator in entire of life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Characteristic of a person

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Characteristic of a person”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people consider what they behave so far is good without brining any problem in this life, but the other problem is people can't conceal the fact that what they behave can lead them to the instant solution, not permanent solution, if people only get the instant solution, meaning, people indirectly will not build mental strength, instead, they build weaknesses to their characteristic, do you know why I say like that? because easiness is the biggest obstacle / threat which can weaker people's characteristic, if peoples characteristic is consider to be weak, it means, people build low value characteristic and low mental strength, it is occurred in the future, as impact, people will consider everything around them as the biggest enemy in their own perception, remember this note; high value characteristic always optimizes the human's mental strength, whereas, low value characteristic always paralyzes the human's mental strength, now you can choose whether you want to become a future oriented person or become a small-minded person, here is the conclusion; every habit you choose will define your main characteristic, every characteristic can represent your destiny / fate in the future, 

     In this life, there is nothing better than having good characteristic, if we don’t improve our characteristic continuously, as impact, we will lack of confidence, the more we lose value, the more we lose confidence, in my opinion; improving the character is very crucial, we shouldn’t procrastinate how to improve our character in every single day because every good opportunity is new day, good character can teach us how to face insurmountable problem, whereas, bad character can make us doom and gloomy, sometimes good character can become a shield and it can protect us from the darkness of life such as regret and self-doubt, here is the important note; our destiny is shaped by our improved character, if we stop developing our character, as impact, we will create mediocre living for everlasting.

Here is the good impact if we possess a good character; we will get the sign of maturity to our mental age and we will get the invaluable reward from Almighty God, furthermore, we will be granted with the powerful idea, the good influence and the powerful inspiration, in my opinion, the human's unlimited wealth, by sticking with those rewards, we train ourselves to be a sage person and we will be pursued by the wealth, prosperity, health and longevity happiness, if you are depressed by now, means, you choose wrong habit and there is something wrong with your ideology which leads to your main characteristic, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Why life is so hard

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Why life is so hard”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get depressed every time the problem comes to their life journey, if we use different perception, problem is not designed to kill human's life, instead, problem is designed to make human's capacity is stronger, if there are people who tell you about the reason why life is hard because they don't optimize their unlocked potential and they aren't interested to challenge themselves to learn more, the main problem why people's destiny isn't changed because they lack of failure experience, at this moment let me share something to you how to do when you face tough life experience, here is the first tip how to do when life gets tough; don't fight the life pressure, try to adapt with it little by little, if you experience with the life pressure which is trying to challenge your inner capacity, your duty is don't try to magnify your wild expectation and also don't try to increase your standard living suddenly, instead of increase your standard of giving to others.

      Here is the second tip how to do when life gets tough; don't go easy on what you do, means, you keep challenging yourself by learning something new, if you stop challenging yourself, as impact, you only live as mediocre person's living, here is the third tip how to do when life gets tough; increase your knowledge which is related with your enthusiasm, here is the good news; if you increase your knowledge and your skill for your enthusiasm, as impact, you will create a new legacy for others and your will be a savior for your own future as well as other people's lives, here is the fourth tip how to do when life gets tough; learn how to accept what's out of control with wholeheartedly, if you are making habit of it, you will get something beyond your expectation, even though you definitely receive a high pressure, if you sustain with such circumstance, your life will be different than the majority of people's lives, here is the fifth tip how to do when life gets tough; try to create the positive affirmation to yourself in every morning, remember this note; if you stay focus on the present, you will free from the distressed circumstance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

10 skills every man should know

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “10 skills every man should know”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not every man can detect these skills in their history of life, if you ask me why these skills are very important to be recognized by the men because every man is destined as the leader in this life, here is the first skill every man should know is having self-compassion, the main reason why having self-compassion is important for our lives because it can help us to discover what we don't know in our deepest potential, if men don't practice their self-compassion in daily basis, as impact, men will do something with heartless decision, besides that, men will do something dangerous if they don't build self-compassion, here is the second skill every man should know is having problem detector, the main reason why men must have problem detector because this natural skill has not been granted by God to women's characteristic, do you know why I say thing because problem detector is related with men's characteristic and men's logic is more dominant than women's, if men have no problem detector, meaning, they behave like the loser, here is the third skill every man should know is negotiation skill, the main reason why I say like that because not every man has mastered negotiation skill, if men have no negotiation skill, they will never have a golden opportunity when they need to do the business with other people's resource, here is the fourth skill every man should know is having good parenting skill, the reason why I say like that because not every man commits to behave like a good parent for their children, the main cause why men have no parenting skill because men are willing to work very hard until they have no quality time with their children, here is the fifth skill every man should know is being a good listener, this skill is important because not every man is willing to be good listener when their spouses start to tell about a problem.

           Here is the sixth skill every man should know is being the mirror for women's character, meaning, this skill is very important because not every man has owned this skill, some men try to oppose women's reaction when women try to express their deepest feeling, women will be happy when men can lower their normal ego and start to give advice when women ask it in previous time, here is the seventh skill every man should know is being good friend for their children, the reason why I say like that because most men are busy at their work until they don't have sufficient time for their children, that's why children don't want to appreciate what their parents give because the children have no longer owned the right to lend their parent's ears, besides that, some parents behave bossy and this kind of attitude will mistreat children's future, here is the eighth skill every man should know is being a peacemaker, having this skill is important because many men like to start arguing or fighting when they feel discomfort in any situation, here is the ninth skill every man should know is having visionary skill, this skill is important because it is used to create the good opportunity for other people who have no decent life or poor living, having the visionary skill is not easy because we must challenge ourselves to take the risk when other people don't want to do like we do, here is the tenth skill every man should know is being environmentalist, this is important role because not many people are willing to protect the environmental, instead, some people destroy it, like the illegal logging, as men, we must preserve the planet earth with good protection in order to avoid the global warming or the disaster which may come at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Signs of emotional maturity

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Signs of emotional maturity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many adult people still show up their emotional childhood when they face something difficult, in order to develop emotional maturity, people must do something beyond logic, at this moment let me share something to you about the sign of emotional maturity, hopefully you can learn it and make it as preference, here is the first sign of emotional maturity people should have; you forgive toward misunderstanding point, the main reason why act of forgiving is powerful because it is psychologically healing  your deepest soul and protect yourself from having a sense of selfishness and sense of self-righteousness, if you have the power of forgiveness, you can motivate yourself to be better person every time you meet with unwelcome problem, if other people have problem with you right now, you must dare to forgive and forget the past moment with empathy, if you are busy to deal with your past moment only, you will lose your focus which can help you to design about the future, here is the second sign of emotional maturity people should have; you respect difference between you and others, if you have this kind of behavior, you will be glorified with good experience because you are ready to accept people's different character, remember  one thing; not all adult people can respect difference because they love with their own idealism.

          Here is the third sign of emotional maturity people should have; you don’t force love to come at you, means, you don’t force anybody to like you or you don’t force someone to stick together with you, if you build power within your own attitude, the universe will lend you its power to empower your skills and enhance your charisma, before you need a love, you need to build a sanctuary where it can accommodate other people’s problem, I think this strategy is very efficient rather than you force other people to follow your ideology, here is fourth sign of emotional maturity people should have; you accept reality without any complaint, if you master this mental skill, your mental age grows faster and the problem you face in reality makes you stronger, in my suggestion; please try to accept reality even though it bothers you, here is the fifth sign of maturity people should have; you don’t judge easily about other people's problem, means you don’t want to judge something before you understand about the real situation, in my opinion; before you judge something that you never meet before, you would better increase self-knowledge and improve your quality of argument first, at least you can avoid a nonsense dispute.

          Here is the sixth sign of emotional maturity people should have; you avoid the small talks or chitchat, means, you don't want to waste our time by talking about the unimportant topic, please remember this note; the mature person usually doesn't like to talk about the unimportant thing because he focuses on what he can develop something for his future, if you engage with small talks, you probably will lose your opportunity to improve yourself, here is seventh sign of maturity people should have; you become more open-minded than close-minded, means, you don’t create egoism when you receive something unpleasant in your life, when you start to become more open-minded, you indirectly believe that there is something greater will come to you, the reason why you need to be more open-minded because this attitude will empower your character if you are willingly to accept life challenge from God, here is the eight sign of maturity people should have; you prefer to be silent than to engage in a dispute, means, you avoid the dispute when other people start to provoke you, in reality not all people will do such thing, some of them prefer to engage in dispute rather than live in peace, that’s immature people, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.