How to deal with unmet expectations

       Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “How to deal with unmet expectations”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people aren't ready when they have to accept their unmet expectation is rejected by reality, let me clarify "expectation can't represent your life experience nor represent your expertise, expectation is part of wishful thinking", you don't need to focus on your unmet expectation, all you need to do is how to make your expectation really needs you, it may seem difficult to do but expectation is not always right to do, our duty as human being is not fulfill our unmet expectation, but how to counter the side effect of expectation, remember this; if you just focus about your unmet expectation, you will lose sense of gratitude about what you have, life doesn't provide what you expect, but life will provide what you really need to survive, in order to start a new life, you must learn how to defend yourself from the life pressure because life in itself is the barrier which ensures you are powerful than the life pressure, when you can endure the life pressure, life will increase your current standard, remember this note; there is difference between happiness and expectation, happiness is peace, you can get peace when you focus on what you can control, whereas, expectation is an external factor which it doesn’t take your responsibility, but it will be your responsibility when you give your response, if your preparation is ready to get hurt by life pressure, life will find you and it rewards you based on what you sacrifice.

        If we look at people’s lifestyle recently, they prefer to impress other people with their pride and they expect to get something better before they prepare something worst to face the crisis, here is the risk if we just pursue our unmet expectation; we can't appreciate what we already have and we tend to underestimate what God graces to us, before we want to get something we never did, we must know what we are capable of, if we don’t know our strength, we can’t manifest what we want into reality, don’t just follow the trend of people's habit, you must find your game and focus how to develop it, the key how to learn to live peacefully on earth is facing your own problem and considering your problem as your stepping stone to solve other people's problem, remember; life has rule and you must create your own rule, don't let life overtakes your plan, you must dare to fail in order to know how far your potential works on you and monitor how your potential assists you to remove all barriers which embeds in your mind, if you want to defend yourself from temptation, distraction and obstacle in this life, you must know how you value your time and how you appreciate the privilege you receive from God, use it maximally as if it is your ultimate power to change your life, here is the last note; don’t let expectation sees you as life's prisoner, you must salvage your future by doing something where most people ignore to do, if you work on your privilege, the universe will open up the new world to you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to make my life better and happier

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “How to make my life better and happier”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people can make their life better and happier in reality, the majority of people still can't differentiate between instant pleasure and peace, if you ask me how to make your life better and happier is building a habit which can attract peace, meaning, your life only gets better and happier when you do something good and it can please Almighty God, it is impossible you can make your life is happier without getting involved Almighty God's favor, if you tell me that you become happy person because you succeed to please yourself, I will doubt about it, do you know why I say such thing because we can't own our happiness, you and I aren't entitled to define happiness by doing something which attracts Almighty God's wrath, the reason why people's life gets stuck in the same journey again and again because they just do what makes Almighty God is wrathful, if you understand what I am talking about, starting from now, you must ask yourself "what type of problem that bound to happen to other people?" , the second question you can ask yourself "what kind of skill that can solve other people's problem?", the third question you can ask yourself "how many people that get big the impact of the problem?", the fourth question you can ask yourself "how many people that get big impact of problem per day?, those critical questions will help you how to determine your wealth and happiness.

        Most people think pleasure is the only way how to make their life better, the fact it is not true, pleasure just means define your fear and expand your fear, my conclusion “pleasure only begotten when you do little effort”, here I give you another strategy how to build happiness, "the more you do what God pleased, the happiness definitely approaches you, the more you do what God hated, you will lose everything valuable such as self-respect, confidence and reputation", basically person who isn’t happy is type of person who can't stand the life pressure, whereas a happy person is the type of person who can stand against the life pressure, the greatest obstacles in human's living is making higher expectation than one's capacity and stop appreciating every progress in life, as long as what you do can increase your self-awareness, you indirectly build the new bigger capacity to your future, your life gets better when your capacity can accommodate the problem that bounds to happen in human's life.

       The busiest person in the world is type of person who is working for money and makes it as the main purpose to live, the amount of money that people receive is part of the bribe to make sure people will lose the real happiness, here is my suggestion; don’t just demand money to follow you because money needs the glorious purpose and the value from you, the more you value your time, the more money will work for you, you just need to focus how to solve your own obstacles, create good service for other people's problem and let the universe works for you, it's simple, happiness is path, not destination, you can get it from what is your most driven in life, if your enthusiasm is tied with dream, you will be driven by the universe to find what you need and then you need to work for it, please don’t seek for happiness, but let happiness finds you, your job in this life is looking for inspiration, there are many strategies how to get inspiration, such as reading book, attending the course, learning new language, observing the nature reserve, studying about the universe’s law, learning from failure, and so many other things, remember this note; not all sense of complacent can offer an interesting challenge and not all satisfaction can create longevity happiness, you must beware about the difference between satisfaction and longevity happiness, happiness can be developed through problem solving act and self-esteem, whereas, satisfaction can be developed through short term pleasure plan, if you can’t progress your life purpose, your happiness isn’t ready to serve you well, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Toxic positivity

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Toxic positivity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone thinks that positivity can bring toxic if everyone doesn't know about the risk, we all know positive attitude is good, but if we meet with "something too good to be true in current situation", our positive attitude can't work well since positive attitude can't be matched with high expectation, if you ask me why we can't apply positivism in every situation because life is not designed to confront between positive attitude and positive thing, if we just apply between positive attitude and high expectation, as impact, it will create toxic positivity, I don't recommend you to promote your positive attitude when you meet with something too good to be true, remember; we can't always succeed to promote optimism in every situation since life itself is mysterious, we must beware that life can't be demanded to follow what we want, life can be a hostile to us when we just give bad reaction and bad attitude to other people's lives and life can be a partner to us when we just bring good reaction and good attitude to other people's lives, what I mean is we mustn't show our high expectation and enthusiasm altogether in every situation, when the positive thing meets with positive reaction only, as impact, we will create toxic positivity to us, so it is very dangerous, do you know why I say such thing because not all we think is good is always good, we will feel disappointed in deep feeling when we realize that our high expectation can't be matched with positive situation, it is the same thing with negative thing, if we show our desperate feeling and pessimism altogether in every situation, as impact, we will get poor mindset and regret feeling.

       

       Toxic positivity is like we compel bad people to change their characteristic to be good people, expectation is not always good if it is related with other people's lives, expectation will hurt us if we try to expect other people do the same like we always did before, life should be neutralized if we want to get peace, if we just show high expectation only, it definitely hurts us, if we just show pessimism, it definitely kills our future, the purpose of happiness is not getting more pleasure in instant process, but the purpose of happiness is neutralizing the positive and negative reaction until it is united to become a peace, remember; we don't need to impress other people with our positive thinking just because other people want us to have positive influence, we must neutralize our positive thinking and negative feeling if we want to create peace, let me give you real sample about electricity, we all know that electricity will connect when positive pole and negative pole meets together, if there is no positive and negative energy, there is no power in electricity, we can conclude that positive energy represents a hope and negative energy represents a risk, we must train ourselves to see a risk before we create a hope, that's challenge.

        Starting from now, we must practice how to deal with our reaction first before we show our expectation to real situation, as human being, we aren't entitled to control the situation, remember this note; if God allows toxic situations will happen to human, means, toxic situation will strengthen human’s endurance, we don’t need to measure how far we have to put us into toxic situations, if human deserve to get toxic situation, meaning, God knows human have strong endurance to neutralize toxic situation, only our ignorance will kill our own selves, we will not get toxic feeling if we can succeed to combine between positive feeling and negative thinking or we combine between negative feeling and positive thinking, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Courage of conviction example

The purpose of courage is preventing the more disaster and create higher value

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Courage of conviction example”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize their conviction, some young people prefer to follow the trends rather than follow their own path, if you ask me why some young people think follow the trend is good because they consider the trend is part how to increase new experience, I know it is very hard to follow the individual's own path since there is nobody will guarantee that path, if people want to deal with their own path, they will be facing with something unpleasant, such as, self-doubt, laziness, fear of failure, pain of struggle, at this moment, let me give you how to manifest courage of conviction in reality, there is someone who loves how to cook French culinary, he spends more than 5 years to learn deeply about French culinary, if he builds courage of conviction, he is going to be a chef and opening his own restaurant, if he doesn't build courage of conviction, he is going to the hotel and apply the position as cook helper or a chef, that's example how to differentiate between people who build courage of conviction and people who don't build courage of conviction, maybe you may think my story is like theory, it is not right, what I am telling you right now is about reality, not part of the fantasy genre story.   

the purpose of courage is willing to break the seal of unlimited wealth within our soul 

       Some people believe building courage of conviction is hard, no it is not true, what makes thing hard is we follow our self-doubt about what we start,  if we stop doing about what we start and follow our self-doubt, as impact, we deliberately destroy about what we start, remember this note; we don’t need to know how the universe works for us, we are just being asked to trust the process and not interfere how the universe works, now you may have question “why do I need to accelerate my courage of conviction?", because that's requirement how to access your unlimited wealth, remember; without pursuing the courage of conviction, you will always doubt about what you see, what you hear and what you feel, if you are not interested to work hard now, meaning you don't want to pursue the courage of conviction, here is the negative impact if you don't follow your courage of conviction, your whole life will be controlled by the circumstance and your life will be controlled by other people's plan, building the courage of conviction is like building the mental factory in our brain and we use the power of imagination to create what we believe and we manifest it in reality, here is the last note; building the courage of conviction needs the one life chance, so we shouldn't miss it, the purpose of building the courage of conviction is refuse the possession of the impossible conviction, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

What does a lotus flower mean

the lotus flower needs the dirty water to be beautiful scenery

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “What does a lotus flower mean”, the meaning of that topic is the lotus flower indicates a person who is being able to behave resilient although he is surrounded by negativity, living as the lotus flower needs strong belief and tough experience, if our existence is like the lotus flower, we need to learn how to discipline between our heart and mind to balance, it takes several years to shape resilient in our mentality, that's our weapon to against injustice in life, the only way how to make a new change within our personality is we must adapt with daily adversity, daily temptation and daily rejection, if we are not willing to learn how to adapt with three of them, we will be drowned with our own negativity, as result, our character will be glued with self-doubt, insecure, fear and regret, starting today, whether we like it or not, we must learn something from the lotus flower’s philosophy, it says "the lotus flower doesn't lose its beautiful look although it is surrounded by dirty water, the lotus flower grows from the dirty water and it can defend themselves from the shitty experience in long period of time", as human being, we can’t escape from negativity, we only learn to adapt with it, remember this note; sometimes we need our darkness to find the light, our light will be futile if it is not be used to shine our darkness, we should stay hunger in knowledge if we want to be wise and rich, the light is represented by knowledge whereas the darkness is represented by self-ignorance.

       If we look at the lotus flower, it can survive from the dirty water and it needs the living energy from the dirty water, so the lotus flower’s philosophy teaches us that every single of us can’t escape from the darkness of life until we find some tactics how to accept the darkness of life as stepping stone, the key how to create different result in life is willingly to learn something quickly and being ready person who can accept any consequences, the problem we face now is most of us put our major focus to the wrong direction and false belief, it's not solution, we shouldn’t focus on the obstacles no matter how hard it is, staying focus on goal is kind of exit strategy how to conquer the poverty situation and difficult situation, if we just focus on the obstacles, there is always additional unknown problem  and it will overtake our potential energy, as result, we will not get what we aimed, except we get regret from what we have lost, the focused mind always find a way to get out from the mind barrier although it takes long period, remember this note; problem doesn’t need to be understood by you, problem just helps you how to fix your mindset until you can develop your potential and it will be your masterpiece in the future, if you try to understand your problem, you will be pessimistic and you will suffer as well, all you need to do is prepare your worst plan and maximize your potential by making good service for others, whether others don’t care about what you do is not important, the most important thing is your good service must be ready to be used up when the crisis comes, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.