Toxic positivity

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Toxic positivity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone thinks that positivity can bring toxic if everyone doesn't know about the risk, we all know positive attitude is good, but if we meet with "something too good to be true in current situation", our positive attitude can't work well since positive attitude can't be matched with high expectation, if you ask me why we can't apply positivism in every situation because life is not designed to confront between positive attitude and positive thing, if we just apply between positive attitude and high expectation, as impact, it will create toxic positivity, I don't recommend you to promote your positive attitude when you meet with something too good to be true, remember; we can't always succeed to promote optimism in every situation since life itself is mysterious, we must beware that life can't be demanded to follow what we want, life can be a hostile to us when we just give bad reaction and bad attitude to other people's lives and life can be a partner to us when we just bring good reaction and good attitude to other people's lives, what I mean is we mustn't show our high expectation and enthusiasm altogether in every situation, when the positive thing meets with positive reaction only, as impact, we will create toxic positivity to us, so it is very dangerous, do you know why I say such thing because not all we think is good is always good, we will feel disappointed in deep feeling when we realize that our high expectation can't be matched with positive situation, it is the same thing with negative thing, if we show our desperate feeling and pessimism altogether in every situation, as impact, we will get poor mindset and regret feeling.

       

       Toxic positivity is like we compel bad people to change their characteristic to be good people, expectation is not always good if it is related with other people's lives, expectation will hurt us if we try to expect other people do the same like we always did before, life should be neutralized if we want to get peace, if we just show high expectation only, it definitely hurts us, if we just show pessimism, it definitely kills our future, the purpose of happiness is not getting more pleasure in instant process, but the purpose of happiness is neutralizing the positive and negative reaction until it is united to become a peace, remember; we don't need to impress other people with our positive thinking just because other people want us to have positive influence, we must neutralize our positive thinking and negative feeling if we want to create peace, let me give you real sample about electricity, we all know that electricity will connect when positive pole and negative pole meets together, if there is no positive and negative energy, there is no power in electricity, we can conclude that positive energy represents a hope and negative energy represents a risk, we must train ourselves to see a risk before we create a hope, that's challenge.

        Starting from now, we must practice how to deal with our reaction first before we show our expectation to real situation, as human being, we aren't entitled to control the situation, remember this note; if God allows toxic situations will happen to human, means, toxic situation will strengthen human’s endurance, we don’t need to measure how far we have to put us into toxic situations, if human deserve to get toxic situation, meaning, God knows human have strong endurance to neutralize toxic situation, only our ignorance will kill our own selves, we will not get toxic feeling if we can succeed to combine between positive feeling and negative thinking or we combine between negative feeling and positive thinking, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Courage of conviction example

The purpose of courage is preventing the more disaster and create higher value

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Courage of conviction example”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize their conviction, some young people prefer to follow the trends rather than follow their own path, if you ask me why some young people think follow the trend is good because they consider the trend is part how to increase new experience, I know it is very hard to follow the individual's own path since there is nobody will guarantee that path, if people want to deal with their own path, they will be facing with something unpleasant, such as, self-doubt, laziness, fear of failure, pain of struggle, at this moment, let me give you how to manifest courage of conviction in reality, there is someone who loves how to cook French culinary, he spends more than 5 years to learn deeply about French culinary, if he builds courage of conviction, he is going to be a chef and opening his own restaurant, if he doesn't build courage of conviction, he is going to the hotel and apply the position as cook helper or a chef, that's example how to differentiate between people who build courage of conviction and people who don't build courage of conviction, maybe you may think my story is like theory, it is not right, what I am telling you right now is about reality, not part of the fantasy genre story.   

the purpose of courage is willing to break the seal of unlimited wealth within our soul 

       Some people believe building courage of conviction is hard, no it is not true, what makes thing hard is we follow our self-doubt about what we start,  if we stop doing about what we start and follow our self-doubt, as impact, we deliberately destroy about what we start, remember this note; we don’t need to know how the universe works for us, we are just being asked to trust the process and not interfere how the universe works, now you may have question “why do I need to accelerate my courage of conviction?", because that's requirement how to access your unlimited wealth, remember; without pursuing the courage of conviction, you will always doubt about what you see, what you hear and what you feel, if you are not interested to work hard now, meaning you don't want to pursue the courage of conviction, here is the negative impact if you don't follow your courage of conviction, your whole life will be controlled by the circumstance and your life will be controlled by other people's plan, building the courage of conviction is like building the mental factory in our brain and we use the power of imagination to create what we believe and we manifest it in reality, here is the last note; building the courage of conviction needs the one life chance, so we shouldn't miss it, the purpose of building the courage of conviction is refuse the possession of the impossible conviction, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

What does a lotus flower mean

the lotus flower needs the dirty water to be beautiful scenery

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “What does a lotus flower mean”, the meaning of that topic is the lotus flower indicates a person who is being able to behave resilient although he is surrounded by negativity, living as the lotus flower needs strong belief and tough experience, if our existence is like the lotus flower, we need to learn how to discipline between our heart and mind to balance, it takes several years to shape resilient in our mentality, that's our weapon to against injustice in life, the only way how to make a new change within our personality is we must adapt with daily adversity, daily temptation and daily rejection, if we are not willing to learn how to adapt with three of them, we will be drowned with our own negativity, as result, our character will be glued with self-doubt, insecure, fear and regret, starting today, whether we like it or not, we must learn something from the lotus flower’s philosophy, it says "the lotus flower doesn't lose its beautiful look although it is surrounded by dirty water, the lotus flower grows from the dirty water and it can defend themselves from the shitty experience in long period of time", as human being, we can’t escape from negativity, we only learn to adapt with it, remember this note; sometimes we need our darkness to find the light, our light will be futile if it is not be used to shine our darkness, we should stay hunger in knowledge if we want to be wise and rich, the light is represented by knowledge whereas the darkness is represented by self-ignorance.

       If we look at the lotus flower, it can survive from the dirty water and it needs the living energy from the dirty water, so the lotus flower’s philosophy teaches us that every single of us can’t escape from the darkness of life until we find some tactics how to accept the darkness of life as stepping stone, the key how to create different result in life is willingly to learn something quickly and being ready person who can accept any consequences, the problem we face now is most of us put our major focus to the wrong direction and false belief, it's not solution, we shouldn’t focus on the obstacles no matter how hard it is, staying focus on goal is kind of exit strategy how to conquer the poverty situation and difficult situation, if we just focus on the obstacles, there is always additional unknown problem  and it will overtake our potential energy, as result, we will not get what we aimed, except we get regret from what we have lost, the focused mind always find a way to get out from the mind barrier although it takes long period, remember this note; problem doesn’t need to be understood by you, problem just helps you how to fix your mindset until you can develop your potential and it will be your masterpiece in the future, if you try to understand your problem, you will be pessimistic and you will suffer as well, all you need to do is prepare your worst plan and maximize your potential by making good service for others, whether others don’t care about what you do is not important, the most important thing is your good service must be ready to be used up when the crisis comes, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Being treated unfairly at work

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “Being treated unfairly at work”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many workers feel that they are being threated unfairly at work, for me, it is very interesting topic to be discussed, if you ask me why some workers feel being treated unfairly because they think their wage is not satisfied or is not standardized with the government local minimum wage, remember this insight; the problem is not lies the company's policy, but it is lies in the company's incapacity to compete against the competitors to fulfill the market's need as much as possible,  as employee, we can't demand how to get well payment, it is not our authority, before we want the company to fulfill our demand, we must demand to ourselves by saying "what if this company can't hire me to work, what can I serve to this company?", as long as we can't provide our best service to solve the company's problem, so we can't demand the company to pay us better, basically there is no fair will happen in this life unless we build the justice to our capacity, that's law, as long as we can't offer the solution, our capacity will not be appreciated by others, if we can't make something better, at least we don't burden the company's problem, if we do the job based on the company's policy only, we aren't enough to be considered as a good employee, the good formula how to be a good employee is we show our loyalty and our dedication more than what the company can't do for us.

        Remember this note; we aren't entitled to receive the good payment before we can do something crucial or important thing which can offer a big impact to many people's lives, that's the strategy how to build a justice, if we want life is going to treat us well, we should improve the type of life experience we have learned and we solve what most people concern about their problem, if we work at the company, we must treat the company like a home, that's the strategy how to create the justice to our career, even though the company can't pay us better, if we can leave good contribution to the company we worked,  we indirectly leave a message to the universe that we prove our work ethic can be used for the company, here is the first strategy how to get ourselves treated fairly at work; we start to work on time, if we can prove that we can work on time, we indirectly create a good reputation for the company, here is the second strategy how to get ourselves treated fairly at work; we don't go home until our daily work is done, if we go home earlier before the director going home, we will got labelled that we don't show our dedication to the company, here is the conclusion how to get us being treated fairly at work; we mustn't demand something bigger than what the company can't provide, if the company can't pay us better, we shouldn't resign from it, but we can help the company to grow better, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to set personal goals in life

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “How to set personal goals in life”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone cares how to set personal goals in life, if you ask me why not everyone cares how to set personal goals in life because they think life's system will plan something for human being automatically, besides that, they consider setting personal goal in life is meaningless, now I ask question for you, do you agree with people who think setting personal goals in life is meaningless? I don't think setting personal goals in life is meaningless, do you know why? because life is full of uncertainty, so we need to prepare our resource to face the unexpected thing from life pressure, at this article I would like to share about the several tips how to set the clarity to achieve your personal goal; here is the first tip how to set personal goal; you have to ensure your personal goal will give a good impact to other people's problem,  if you can't contribute a good impact to other people's problem, you do something wrong in your life career, here is the second tip how to set personal goal; you have to ensure your personal goal will not violate other people's hope, the reason why you need to behave like that because other people's hope like praying, if you violate other people's hope, as impact, you will never be able to promote your resource because your resource is part of other people's hope, here is third tip how to set personal goal; your personal goal can promote your major interest, meaning, you can explore personal goal through developing your major interest.

        Before you save other people's lives, you need to save your own life's journey, don’t just expect the biggest reward comes to you automatically, you must ensure your personal goal will become the biggest reward to other people's lives, if you save your own life's journey, as impact, you indirectly save other people who are living more suffering than you, here is the four tip how to set personal goal; you must give a time limitation to your personal goal, the reason why you need to do this strategy because giving your personal goal with time limitation can give you sense of responsibility to your commitment and your confidence, if you work with time limitation, you indirectly prove that you show your hard work, here is the additional note you need to remember; when you focus to your personal goal, the energy will flow to your focus, the clarity is ultimate power, the miracle will happen when you can delegate your focus to propagate your resource to mankind, before you want to ask the reward, give yourself a command "how can I prove myself that I am right person to receive the reward?", when the clarity from your heart is gone, your personal goal will be futile, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.