How to deal with a negative person in your life

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with a negative person in your life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people get inflicted easily with the negative influence besides that, they deliberately exchange their power of faith with instantaneous pleasure, I have ever shared in another article “most pleasure is deceiver, it inclines people not to feel mature, not to hold responsibility, not willing to study, feel desperate about tomorrow's challenge”, it’s very opposed with the universal law which it states “the truth is ensuring people to feel uncomfortable, feel insecure, feel stupid and feel hungry about the wisdom", now you can choose which one are you side? Which character will you take with?”, if you want to get approached by negative influence, you follow your own desire, follow your strategic effort, follow your principle and follow your ancestor, whereas, if you want to get approached with the positive influence, you must dare to follow the universal’s law or the law of God which teaches you about the truth where it can’t be created, can’t be multiplied, can’t be substituted by the human’s capable hands, in my opinion; you must leave your ego for moment because ego just wants to protect you from undetected opportunity and shut your mind to see the future's hope, so basically ego is the mother of negative influence, ego is the true life test which can give you the value whether you deserve to get good personality or not.

Uninstall your negativity if you want to deal with the negative influence in your life

     Here is the first tip how to deal with a negative person in your life; stay yourself away from the source of negative social circle if you aren’t ready to welcome it, means, you must stay away from the source of negative influence for a while because you aren't preparing your mental strength, the negative influence will irritate you if you keep encircling yourself with it, remember this note; the purpose of negative influence is protecting yourself from the discomfort zone and shut your future’s hope from your own fear, here is the second tip how to deal with a negative person in your life; surround yourself with people who give you a survival skill, means, you need to step out of comfort zone and see a new perspective of people who succeed to pass through the unpleasant experience, if you can take a lesson from what people perceive, you will feel positive every time you deal with the negative influence because you know what to prepare if the negative influence comes to you, here is the third tip how to deal with a negative person in your life; don’t absorb the negative influence as mood booster, but make it as self-defense, means, you need to anticipate something bad by increasing your knowledge every time there is negative influence around you, remember; not all negative influence can end peacefully, only you yourself can choose whether you consider the negative influence as enemy or ally, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Choice advantage

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Choice advantage”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don’t believe that their future can change by making new choice, many people think choice can't be chosen, it's not right, choice, life is always about choice, whether we want to be good person or bad person, it is our choice, whether we want to be rich person or bad person, it is our choice, my suggestion; don't just look for what outside of you, instead, you need to build what inside of you, in order to build what inside of you, you need to practice your inborn skill until it can serve what you do in reality, for example; there is someone lifts up the barbell 25 kg, the reason why he wants to lift up the barbell because he wants to get bigger muscle, in order to comprehend yourself, we consider a bigger muscle is like the power, 25 kg is like life's challenge, now the question is "do you want to be rich man? if you want to be rich man, you must possess mental strength, if you don't build mental strength, you need to challenge yourself to face adversity in life", if you choose to reject adversity, meaning, you don't want to be rich literally, the basic requirement how to be rich man is facing many adversities, if someone gets suffered from living poor, that's privilege, he should be thankful for receiving that condition, do you know why I say such thing? Because not everyone deserves that life's challenge, if you get a poor condition, meaning, the universe chooses you, in addition, you are considered as worthy person, if you reject that adversity, you will not get something you deserve much more than what you get now. 

 

     Here what I believe; life will respond after we decide to make choice or decision, "if there is no decision, we create indecision", if we create indecision, life will put us to the destination where we never enjoy with the happiness state, all activities we have chosen in this life is accumulated by our deep belief, remember this note; faith doesn’t equal with consciousness mind but our faith will dictate what consciousness receives from our conscious min, faith is the spirit activity which ensures us to keep doing what we believe, basically our life pattern we have designed so far comes from quality of  our faith, every decision we make depends on something we pull from the philosophy we choose, if we choose something pleasure and easy to get in this world, our faith tend to attract the negative vibration, before we make choice, we must ensure our purpose in line with our intuition first, everything that can be measured with our purposes, we can improve our inadequacy, if we can measure our work based on life purpose, we can create big difference in our future life, here is my research; we can develop our capacity to be significant as long as we are ready to accept the consequence, if we aren't ready yet, reality will not manifest what we improve, as long as we can have the power of choice, we will get something better than we usually get, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Self fulfilling prophecy examples

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Self-fulfilling prophecy examples”, the meaning of that topic is many people have become the victim over their own lives, if we see the context, what makes people get something good in their lives because they do good deed and they do a little expectation to other people's help, self-fulfilling prophecy is not something new, it is based on what people invest into their time and habit for the future, we all know habit is part of future maker, if we invest good thing in the future, we will receive good thing, if we invest bad thing in the future, we will receive bad thing, we can't escape from the consequence because we are future design maker, everybody lives in this world like a fortune teller, we can't manipulate the law of universe, we are the actor behind our film maker, sooner or later we will get something beyond what we invested in the past, let me give you the example of self-fulfilling prophecy, we invest our money to the business where it can't provide the halal's law, as impact, we will get the sin where it can block our vision and block our heart to see the benefit from the investment, maybe we can see the money, but we will get the fearful journey from the investment, the reason why we will not get peace from the investment because we invested the sin to the investment first, that's self-fulfilling prophecy, so we can't avoid the consequence because we already started to open the opportunity for the sin to come. 

       Self-fulfilling prophecy is not about how we get something from life journey, but how we add new thing into our life journey, even though we have a lot of money, money is not part of self-fulfilling prophecy, but it is part of what you start earlier, self-fulfilling prophecy is about developing a habit and how we can unite with our habit, before we want to choose the profession or career, we should learn how to receive the consequence first, as long as we aren't ready to accept the consequence, we will never get benefit and peace from the profession or career we choose, to live in this world, we can't just rely on our wealth, but we must know the consequence as well, the most important thing is we know the direction where we want to go, not how far we can go faster, the more we pursue something uncertain, the less we get something from it, if we realize life is not our own, we must learn about the consequence, maybe we can learn from other people's bad experience, if we want to create good life, we must be ready to feel the consequence, that's it, if we aren't ready to accept the consequence, we shouldn't start, don't let our habit will put us to the journey where we aren't ready to feel the pain, that's dangerous, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Example of fact and opinion

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Example of fact and opinion”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can differentiate between fact and opinion, if you ask me why not many people can differentiate because they think opinion is part of fact, it is not quite right, if opinion is part of the fact, meaning, there is no different between human's creation and God's creation, based on research; opinion is part of human's creation, it can be right or wrong, whereas, fact is part of evidence where it can't be tolerated by human's creation, basically, human can't create the fact, only the universe will give reflection to the fact, so human can do something for the universe, even though we can't behave like the universe, we can choose to behave whether being kind or being cruel, fact can't be manipulated, whereas, opinion can be manipulated by human's wrongdoing or opinion can be valued as right thing if opinion can meet with the universal's law, now let me give you example about the opinion; there is quote "dream is always impossible until it is done by itself", if we observe a bit about that quote, it is kind of opinion, do you know why? Because some people consider dream is always impossible, besides that, dream is uncertainty, unpredictable and uncontrollable, if we see the fact, dream can't be approached by our desire, dream will approach us when we prove our commitment into reality, so we will let the universe to give appreciation to us, remember; the universe will give something to us when our masterpiece is appreciated as the right thing, we must prove our hard work until we deserve that dream.

    Now we will talk about the example of the fact, if we see sunrise from the east direction and we see sunset from the west direction, that's the fact, do you know why I say that's the fact because human can't make it as real condition, now let me give you another example of the fact, "every woman prefers to build a good relationship with the responsible man rather than having much money or success",  do you know why I say such thing because woman is lovely emotional creature, she doesn't need high logic to survive, besides that, woman can't avoid the fact because it is part of woman's basic need, what she wants is someone who accompanies her either good time or bad time, basically need and want has different meaning, "need" means something that is embedded to human's basic necessary, whereas, "want" means something that can be tolerated if it can't fit the human's daily need, remember; opinion can be right or wrong, but the fact is always right, nothing is true from human's capability because human can create the possibility, they can't create the fact no matter how strong what human's skill is, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Impulse control

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Impulse control’, means, you practice your enthusiasm until it can push yourself to do something extraordinary than what you do in daily, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people’s focus are often being distracted by the distractions such as the media, news, unnecessarily talk with friend, strengthen their unproductive habit, as result, people will lose their conviction to manifest what they need to do, steady our impulse is life time's job, to build good career, we must fight against bad influence, old habit, gratification, wrong belief, ignorance and complacency, those are the real enemy that we need to conquer every time we want to do something different, remember this note; you don't need to be great person, you just need to be different than most people who don't possess a privilege like yours, now I would give you several tips you need to prepare if you want to steady your impulse during building good career, here is the first tip you need to prepare how to steady your impulse; clarify your goal as clear as you can, means, you need to know your clearest want first to attract a clear goal, if you follow your impulse, you will not achieve something big in this life because your impulse is like a little child who is playing around without knowing what it works, if you can measure your goal with your inventory skill, your intuition will work maximally and you will get the validation from your intuition, you need a clear goal to make your intuition is working 100%, now my question; is your goal too vague or unspecific?, if you think your goal is specific, your intuition will work hard to make a clarity and your clarity will manifest good thing in your life, finally your clarity empowers your strong will, empower your skill set and empower your gratitude.

       Please don’t delay your work when your intuition is strong because it is great moment to manifest your vision and your potential into reality, you don’t need to pursue the result because it is the universe's job, let your repetition habit will work together with your impulse, to strengthen your capacity, you need to show your dedication to work on your masterpiece until it is completed, remember this; don’t play with goal where most people like to do because your story is different with other people's life story, don't let your impulse gives you the unknown direction, if you feel perplexed, meaning, you only follow your impulse wants without knowing what your role needs from this world. here is the second tip you need to prepare how to steady your impulse; use the law of repetition until you succeed to build self-resistance, means, you use the law of repetition to accelerate your competence, you will know your future if you repeat what you do until 1 year, if you don't feel satisfied with result, meaning, what you do can't fulfill your soul needs, remember this; if you prefer to work with your impulse only, you will not find inspiration and enlightenment, you build the pain of regret and you will get gratification where it can become self-punishment, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.