Act of kindness meaning

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Act of kindness meaning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because kindness represents the ultimate power in this life where it can create good impact to others and it can balance the life's system, we can’t release act of kindness if we can’t crush our ego, remember this note; kindness is not fake or hypocrite, kindness is showing the genuine of human’s natural character, showing the concern to others is power because we can build power of influence through that action, kindness meaning =  never ask or demand other people to return something we hope, if you want to possess a big influence, integrity, prosperity, famous, abundance of health and many other things, you have to stop pursuing your optimism and stop expecting any return from other people, means, you keep developing your qualification, your personality and your competent skill without involving other people's help, if you just focus how to improve the world of inside of you, the outer world will show something beyond your expectation, the act of kindness is variety, if you share knowledge to others, it is part of kindness, if you inspire others with your  achievement and your unpleasant experience, it is part of kindness,  if your service can empower human's future hope, it is part of kindness, if you can feed the animals, it is part of kindness, basically act of kindness is not always bring money for charity, act of kindness is very simple, but it can be difficult when we feel unjust, disadvantaged or envy about what other people receive, remember; everything we receive from this world is the reflection from what we add value to this world, if we feel inadequate or deprived, meaning, we lessen of giving of the kindness rather than we give something valuable to others.

The circle of kindness

       Now, I have question for you, what if people are unable to share their kindness?, the meaning; people lack of resource, lack of self-identity, lack of feeling enough, here is the bad news; if people always feel lacking or deprived, meaning, their greedy is more than their need, based in psychological research; greed is equal with fear, if people show their sense of greedy, meaning, they do something because they are motivated by their own fear, if people always feed their fear for their brain memory, as impact, they will make the irrational decision which may harm their position, remember this note; if people often create the irrational decision, they will not get a solution, instead, they will get the reflection of their fear, at this moment I would share some tips how to create kindness with simple act, here is the first thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; every month you treat your family member by dinner together at restaurant, even though this action can be done when you have money, if you don't invest your quality time for your family member, you will not do that, here is the second thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; you invest your time to care your parents whether they are sick or not, remember; act of kindness is not always related with money, if you can share your fully attention to your beloved people, it is really good act, here is the third thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; you share your knowledge to other people who are uneducated, it is valuable act, do you know why I say like this because sharing knowledge is as worth thing as money value, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Good health and wellbeing

 

       Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Good health and wellbeing”, the main reason why I choose that topic because this life always offers us with many good chance for self-improvement, many good chance for taking care of good health and many good chance for creating well being, the main problem why most people can’t get those opportunities because they build habits where it is not connected with what life demands, most of us forget hat habit is the main gate to connect with everything, most people want to get good health and wellbeing, but they don't want to go through the long term process, in order to live in wellbeing and good health's path, we must feed our mind with knowledge every day and start to receive the life's test, such as suffering from adversity, suffering from discipline, suffering from consistency and suffering of commitment, it is not easy to deal with those life's test, do you know why? Because most of us prefer to live in comfort and instant pleasure, remember this note; the higher level of reward, the bigger challenge we must accept it, so if you get rejection, adversity, setback, mistake, broken heart, bankruptcy and betrayal, those are real challenges we must go through it for strengthening our mentality, emotionally and spirituality, the main reason why the challenge is being set by Almighty God as the difficult path because this test is used to know between people who want to defeat their own darkness and people who are serious about their commitment, besides that, this test prevents the lazy people to get high level of reward, good health and wellbeing is supposed to become the highest reward for human being because it can give many options to human being when they can own it, let me remind you that we must fulfill at least 2 tests if we want to get high level of reward, namely defeat our own darkness and keep our commitment to feel life's pressure.

       Maybe you have question, how do I defeat my own darkness? the answer; you have to feel suffering or pain when life gives you something that can make you hatred and not wanting to do it, the second question is "how to keep commitment?", you discipline in your enthusiasm, follow your intuition and you follow your curiosity, that's enough, based on Psychological research, every human has darkness quota, if we want to get good health and wellbeing, we have to empty our darkness quota with science, experience, failure, restlessness, patience and unpleasantness, it looks easy, but turned out it is difficult, here is the first strategy how to get good health and wellbeing; don't feel safer than you usually feel, meaning, you must keep increasing your inner and outer capacity in order to accommodate God's grace, if you feel safer, you will not dare to try something hard or new, here is the second strategy how to get good health and wellbeing;  provide a good service to serve more people, the reason why you must apply this strategy the number of people you serve will accumulate your wealth, your health and your mentality, the more you serve people as many as you can, the more you receive bigger reward, here is the third strategy how to get good health and wellbeing; be generous person, this character is very special, if people don't have this kind of character, people will get broke very fast, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Count your blessing meaning

       Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Count your blessing meaning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can count their blessings and not everyone feels grateful about the blessings they can receive, the main cause why they can’t do it because they just concern about the worldly stuff, besides that, they just believe what they have had so far came from their hard work, perseverance and partnership, remember this note; hard work, perseverance and partnership is just the small piece of 0,00001 blessing, if people just count every blessing they have, i am not sure they can do that, the first thing you must do if you want to know about your blessing is watch yourself in the mirror, if you still look at yourself standing firmly in the mirror, you have blessing, if you are healthy right now, you have another one, if you are smart enough to solve problem, you have another one, if you can breathe the fresh air, you have another one, if you are physically disabled but you can do like normally people do, you have another one, remember this note; blessing is not like what you love or what you dislike it, but blessing is the reason why you are still needed by this life to do something useful, if you just put your happiness to something what you can’t control, you will lose your blessings, based on psychological evaluation; count your blessing means you don't have any right to own everything in this life, you only can receive something that it has been entrusted from God, you can't have something that God considers your capacity isn't ready yet, if you can't optimize God's blessing which already stays in you, you just utilize what you have for glorious purpose or kindness, if you just use God's blessing for your behalf, you will get disaster because the purpose of God's blessing is not making you happy, but for humanity welfare, the more you try to own God's blessing for your behalf, the less you will own it, that's law.

     Do you know why most people are not happy although they are rich, because they will never count their blessings and they are trained by parents, teachers, culture, religious person and tribe to believe something already existed in the past and they are trained not to believing something miraculously, in the daily life, we can't pull the blessings if we will never learn how to count all blessings we receive, here is the first thing you must do if you want to count your blessing; you can reflect to what making you still lived on earth although you face many difficult thing in this life, if you can pass the life test, you got God's blessing, if you feel something wrong, you don’t connect between the blessing you received with something you don't know, your life will never get better if you hate something you don't know, the main reason why people hate to count all blessing because they think it is difficult to do and they are trained to learn something easier and instantly to go through this life, here is the second thing you must do if you want to count your blessing; observe about the unpleasant thing in this life such as every accident, every disappointment, every hunger, every rejection, every adversity, every setback, etc. All are priceless lessons where it can guide you to create your blessings, besides that those lessons can help you how to stay humble and become wise person, if you can’t learn something for your understanding, you will be pursued by the darkness in life or you will feed your mind with the evil’s desire, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

how to deal with negative emotions

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with negative emotions”, this topic is very interesting because I am sure every human being has ever felt such thing, the main reason why negative emotions approach to human's life journey because human’s mentality is not ready to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, so their brain which is called amigdala is playing role to give negative response when people don't know how to deal with the unpleasant experience or difficult thing, if we want to create the positive response, so we must enrich our knowledge with some valuable information at the first time, the more we increase our knowledge, the more it can give us many options to make decision, the quality of information is the first power how to make us easier to make decision, if we lack of knowledge, we will make decision based on the emotional feeling, I just want to remind you that relying emotional feeling is not always bringing good value because emotional feeling doesn't give us any direction, it just gives us sense of fulfillment, the best way to make decision is train your mentality to do something challenging, but not doing something dangerous, doing something challenging is not the same with doing something dangerous, if someone does something challenging, he is not motivated by fear, but he is motivated by his biggest curiosity, whereas, if someone does something dangerous, he is motivated by fear and irrational thinking, here is the first step how to recognize negative emotions: you must identify your 24 hours of habit and identify the information you have consumed every day, if you can’t share something valuable to others within 24 hours, means, your mind has absorbed too much information which contains negative emotions unknowingly.

     I wouldn’t say we can escape from negative emotion easily, there is nobody can go away from it, all we need to do is learn something from negative emotion and learn how to stop negative emotion from its growing, although negative emotion often makes human feeling is overwhelming anxiety, I don’t say all negative emotions are useless, negative emotions will be useful when there is something suspicious or unusual comes up suddenly to us, negative energy will not dominate your feeling if you don't doubt your true self, let me give you an example about the negative energy; negative energy can form almost everything in aspect of life, such as problem, swindle, rejection, failure, setback, betrayal, humiliation, error and risk, for average person, I am sure they are depressed if they get involved with it, here is the bad consequence; if negative thing in this life isn't being learnt by human, human can't optimize their power of emotional intelligence for making good decision when human don't have enough resources, we need to balance between positive emotion and negative emotion, if we let our positive emotion is dominating us, we will feel too excited when we get something easy or we behave overoptimistic, if we let our negative emotion is dominating us, we will feel depressed or sad, remember this ; we are the life designer, we can't create good life if we just focus on positive feeling or negative feeling, here is the second step how to recognize negative emotions: when we lack of resources, our negative emotions will try to dominate our logic, do you know why it is happening? Because negative emotions will strengthen its power when there is no knowledge, knowledge is super power because it can help us to decide whether we need to choose negative emotion or positive emotion, negative emotion will save us when we consider there is something dangerous in reality, whereas, positive emotion will save us when we live in rock bottom or we get the miserable life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Time of adventure design

        Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Time of adventure design”, the main reason why I choose this topic because many people don't have much time to create adventure design for their lives, most people prefer to wait golden opportunity rather than act for time of adventure design, as we know that life is always mysterious, if we don't build adventure design, we are trapped in comfort zone and we will be dragged to feel the unnecessary pain and smoldering crisis, time of adventure design means you focus to recognize your fear, your talent, your enthusiasm, your future hope and your commitment, life is running so fast, we can't spend time to wait something that has already run faster, if we are waiting for uncertainty, we are like trying to destroy something we want to build at the first time, wait something uncertainly is not wise option, if we keep waiting something uncertain, we live in low esteem of living, remember; wait something for uncertainty is like we plan to fail and we deliberately sell our future for someone who is irresponsible for our behalf , furthermore, we never get our time to return to us when we just spend our time to wait, in this point, we must know differentiate between patience and waiting? If we behave patience, we commit to grow our potential by doing something we have never tried before, whereas, waiting is like we are unable to see any worthiness in ourselves and we deliberately sell our freedom to others, that's nightmare, remember this note; everybody races with their own time freedom, if we can't optimize our time freedom to make a choice, we will become a hot-headed person, remember this note; true wealth is lies within the freedom of action and time, if you can’t use your time to do something valuable in every day, you indirectly sell your time of adventure design to someone who doesn’t know your potential,  

                       

     Now I give you question, what are you going to do if your true wealth can appear every 24 hour? Would you sell your opportunity to others or you will do something to be embedded with your potential? Remember this; There is nobody can take place your potential because every human being is unique and has different capacity, only you can make choice for your destiny, you are self-fulfilling prophecy, if you are serious to do something for your adventure design, don't let your potential waits you, your potential will work for you if you build a habit which is needed by your potential, besides that, you need to build attractive personality, do you know why? your attractive personality can attract the miracle and your potential can become a magnet of fortune, I am sure you don’t want to lose your rare opportunity because you believe that you are being prepared by the universe to meet with big problem to be solved by you, you are the potential controller, if your potential can’t serve something for you, your life will be bored and your mind will be fueled to embrace the negativity, it’s big challenge, you have to do something before your potential will be perished by the time, you have to become a hero where only you can save your future, if you can do something for your future, your influence will give impact to others and your name will be worth remembering, here is the additional note; the miracle can’t be found at anywhere place, but it will come when you keep watering your seeds in the garden (means, you practice your own potential), I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.