Mental disorder

The symptoms of mental disorder

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth, and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic “Mental disorder”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us can get mental disorder every time we get something harder than we usually get, if you ask me why mental disorder must exist to our lives because we lack of willingness to upgrade our endurance level, in order to develop our endurance, we must have strong intention to engage with the pain of adversity for long period of time by doing something really new or we have never done before, here is the wisdom we often heard “no pain, no gain”, if we can take time to ponder that wisdom, it orders us to continue our life mission even though it takes a pain, if we see in reality, some people hate with the pain because it hurts them, but in actual, pain will progress human's mental acumen and human's survival skill, remember; pain which can't kill us, it can increase our adaptive skill, if we don't act now, we will dig the pain of regret in the future, please don't ever say "it's too late to act by now", time will negotiate with your future if you are willing to change what you develop in yourself, here is the special note; stress, depression and other mental disorder are the effects from our inability to adapt with the uncertainty, in order to salvage our future, we must challenge ourselves to do something preciously for life's problem as capable as we can, the more we can do something preciously, our habit unintentionally creates the certainty moment which can salvage our future from extinction or crisis.

Lack of mental capacity induces distress

   Now here is my question to you to ponder; "what kind of kindness you can offer today if you aren't alive tomorrow, that's basic question you need to answer if you want to gain good health for maintaining mental health, the reason why many people experienced with mental disorder because they take bigger responsibility than what they can do, such as they buy something by credit card to impress other people, they buy something to accentuate their way of living in the public place, remember this; a good life happens when you pull a unlimited source around you, not to push your limitation to gain something you want, when you push yourself to afford something you can't have, it will create a mental disorder which causes too much damage to your inner peace, mental disorder will go away when you develop your mental strength and inborn skill in the long term period, your capability to adapt in uncertainty is more important than you can buy something with your fear, as we know together that many people buy their fear by buying something without cashback, they forget that a sense of fear will turn into the disease when people can't withstand with life pressure, here is my message; before you become spender, you must train yourself how to be a good lender, that's priority goal you need to build in your mindset if you want to avoid mental disorder, if you are willing to lend the world with your unique skill or troubleshooting skill, so you don't need a job anymore because your life has become a solution for a lot of people who have problem, when you train yourself to become a spender, you open opportunity for mental disorder to grow more within your lifestyle, if you train yourself to become a good lender, you open opportunity to make your life like the center of market value because you have something that most people really pursue it, the first duty to be a good lender is build a self-love and find a problem you love then you solve it peacefully, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

How to live a more fulfilling life

Live a fulfilling life is part of progressive action

 Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "How to live a more fulfilling life", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware how to live a fulfilling life, many people are trapped in a rat race until they forget how to live a fulfilling life, if you ask me why many people can't spend their quality time to live in their fulfilling life because they always make a rule where it is designed to limit people's potential, people who create a rule for themselves, basically that rule is driving people to go to the certain place where it gives them a short term pleasure, e.g. casino, wine bar, company, downtown, If we use different perception regarding human's pleasure, remember this advice; you can't live in your fulfilling life when you are trapped in short term pleasure because every pleasure is totally different from the happiness state, every pleasure doesn't need much new challenge, uncertainty or divergent effort, whereas, the happiness state always needs a challenge which offers a steady flow state in human's brain system, in order to live a more fulfilling life, you must do something where the world can't do for you, all you need to do when you are in happiness state is you keep doing something which can drive you to the new different of you or doing something which can offer a different feeling where other people can't give it to you. 

Fulfilling a new life is the challenge for brave person

  Starting from now, please don't look for an instant pleasure because you will never become a different of you from yesterday, as we know that life is dynamic, not static, if you always do something which can give you the same circumstance, as impact, you will never get a fulfilling life, here is the definition "live more a fulfilling life" is we must do something beyond our expectation, here is the first strategy how to live a more fulfilling life; work on what makes you interested to do, even though this strategy is little bit strange, but work on our interest is the rational decision if we want to change our future story, if we don't respect to what we do, life will never give us admiration, here is the second strategy how to live a more fulfilling life; don't let reality stops what you can do, even though life is full of uncertainty, you must find an alternative course when you don't find a way how to continue your mission, sometimes reality doesn't show your high expectation because reality is always running in the behind process, if you are honest about what you do, you must do without hesitation, here is the third strategy how to live a more fulfilling life; find a career that can drive you to the new adventure where you never get from other people's treatment, if you find it, your life will not get stuck between dilemma, delusion and reality, but if you find new adventure, you will never be the same person again, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to live a fulfilling life

Live a fulfilling life is part of progressive action

 Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "How to live a fulfilling life", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware how to live a fulfilling life, many people are trapped in a rat race until they forget how to live a fulfilling life, if you ask me why many people can't spend their quality time to live in their fulfilling life because they always make a rule where it is designed to limit people's potential, people who create a rule for themselves, basically that rule is driving people to go to the certain place where it gives them a short term pleasure, e.g. casino, wine bar, company, downtown, If we use different perception regarding human's pleasure, remember this advice; you can't live in your fulfilling life when you are trapped in short term pleasure because every pleasure is totally different from the happiness state, every pleasure doesn't need much new challenge, uncertainty or divergent effort, whereas, the happiness state always needs a challenge which offers a steady flow state in human's brain system, in order to live a fulfilling life, you must do something which isn't connected with something pleasurable, all you need to do when you are in happiness state is you keep doing something which can drive you to the new different of you or doing something which can offer a different feeling where other people can't give it to you. 

Fulfilling a new life is the challenge for brave person

  Starting from now, please don't look for an instant pleasure because you will never become a different of you from yesterday, as we know that life is dynamic, not static, if you always do something which can give you the same circumstance, as impact, you will never get a fulfilling life, here is the definition "live a fulfilling life" is the situation which can offer you with new adventure, new energy, new capacity and new enlightenment where you never get from anybody else, here is the first strategy how to live a fulfilling life; work on your dream, even though this strategy is little bit strange, but work on our dream is the rational decision if we want to change our future story, if we don't respect to what we do, life will never give us admiration, here is the second strategy how to live a fulfilling life; don't let reality stops your life mission, even though life is full of uncertainty, you must find an alternative course when you don't find a way how to continue your mission, sometimes reality doesn't show your high expectation because reality is always running in the behind process, if you are honest about what you do, you must do without hesitation, here is the third strategy how to live a fulfilling life; don't find something pleasurable, find a new adventure, if you find something pleasurable, your life gets stuck between dilemma, delusion and reality, but if you find new adventure, you will never be the same person again, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to make your life better and happier

Happy life is designed to develop self-esteem

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life is imbued with the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "How to make your life better and happier", the main reason why I choose that topic because happy and better life is part of everyone's dream, if you ask me why many people will struggle everything to make their life is better and happier because many of them want to get out from the environment where it gives them the unfair treatment, uncertain situation, unpleasant feeling, here is my research about happy life and better life's meaning; happy life will not come into our lives until we have succeeded to pass through with something we hate, e.g. uncertainty, unpleasant, rejection, betrayal, failure, dead end progress, setback and new mistake, those are inevitable things, the more you avoid something inevitable, the more you don't get the point of what you reach, if you don't get the main point of what you reach, life will crush your journey, I just to remind you that life is like a birthday gift which let us surprise, birthday gift is really mysterious, surprising, and unpredictable, we don't need to know about the purpose from a birthday gift's sender because we aren't authorized to control to the sender, what we can do as receiver is how to upgrade our perception by finding valuable information which can connect with the situation we are getting in.

Happy life is full of productivity and creativity

  Our time is limited, our movement is limited, our money is limited, our knowledge is limited and our space is limited, Can you get what's my point? basically we can't choose to live freely as what we want, the more we reject something what we already received, the longer we suffered, when we already stick together with reality, we can't escape from reality because reality is shaped based on what we develop in our daily habit, the way you are getting out from your old life story is determined the way you are giving to yourself, if you just give yourself with pleasure, instant result, and easy route, as impact, you will feel bored because your habit is unable to reach what you really need as emotionally, here is the first strategy you need to do how to make your life better and happier; don't look for pleasure, look for new adventure, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because pleasure will stop your progressive action, the more you find pleasure, the more you find dead end journey, here is the second strategy you need to do how to make your life better and happier; be productivity maker, not be busy person, do you know what I mean? busy person is not the same with productivity maker, busy person is doing something what is determined by others, whereas, productivity maker is doing something new, surprising and unpredictable, if you want to get a surprising life, you have to give something to others beyond their expectation level, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck. 

How to deal with a person with anxiety and depression

Depressed person can't feel enthusiastic

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to deal with a person with anxiety and depression”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us are not ready to face the shocking event and also we often reject something we dislike it, such as problem, economy crisis, those are causing people to feel depression and anxiety, remember this; if we want to deal with depression and anxiety, we must forget about our ego and start to welcome the shocking event even it seems counter-intuitive, if you ask me "why some people feel depressed easily even though they can earn money?" because they consider money can heal emotional needs, money is the tool, it can't satisfy human's feeling, human can be happy when they use money for the right purpose, not fulfilling instant pleasure, someone who feel depression and anxiety, it is like someone who tries to go against the unsteady stream of river, he tries to change something that can't be changed, if he keeps behaving such thing, he indirectly creates the darkness within his thought, that's dangerous plan, if you feel your life is not good as you hope, you can train your mind and say to yourself "life will get better if I can do something when other people can't do for me", if you have mindset such thing, you will live like the lively fish which swims peacefully in the river without drowning against the current of river, if you are training your habit such thing, as impact, you will not feel depressed and also you will not see any problem around you, even there is pandemic, crisis, war or economy disaster because your mind accepts the unexpected lesson from God's plan, here is the wisdom you need to remember "every word is like a sound wave, it can upgrade our character when we say good word, it can downgrade our character when we say something we don't want to hear it", if we train our word of mouth by saying the positive words, we will not get negative vibration because we spread the power of love within what we say, in order to deal with depression and anxiety, here is the first strategy you need to do; knowing about what you target and give yourself with the deadline, if you consider what you target is giving you a sense of instant gratification, you must leave it because it is going to crush you, to cure the effect of depression and instant gratification, you need to ensure your main focus is not focusing about what you want, but rather you stay focus how to bring the blessing to other people's problem, if you want to change your life, help yourself by becoming a man of value and let other people will come to your life and do some helps for you unhesitatingly. 

Depression is tied by wrong belief

          

 At this moment I would like to share the causes of being depressed, hopefully this explanation can increase your awareness level, here is the first cause why someone feels anxiety and depression; he tries to control beyond himself, please beware about this attitude because this kind of attitude can ruin everything we build, here is the note; “pleasure can't be educated because it is reflection to what we build, pleasure always follows what our habit does for other people”, the main reason why some people feel uninspired to what they do because their main goal can't bring an inspiration or wisdom, here is the advice; we can't get something better until we can decrease our expectation to others,  here is the second cause why someone feels anxiety and depression; someone is too emotional to push his desire into reality, here is my suggestion; if you can't control your desire, at least you can eliminate your desire until you only have the clarity of choice to pursue, remember; "the clarity of purpose is power", if you surround yourself with the clarity of purpose, you will feel abundance because you will be guided by God to do something magnificent, remember this advice; “everybody is granted by God with the infinite power and unique ability, your infinite power will be meaningless if it no use to serve what other people require to survive”, in order to keep using your infinite power, you must find a problem that you feel welcomed to solve it, please do it regularly, if you can’t find a problem that you want to solve, maybe you need to take day off from your daily routine in order to realign your major role in this life, the main reason why you need to realign your major role from your daily routine because not all activities you have are benefit for you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.