How to deal with someone with depression and anxiety

Depressed person can't feel enthusiastic

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to deal with someone with depression and anxiety”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us are not ready to face the shocking event and also we often reject something we dislike it, such as problem, economy crisis, those are causing people to feel depression and anxiety, remember this; if we want to deal with depression and anxiety, we must forget about our ego and start to welcome the shocking event even it seems counter-intuitive, if you ask me "why some people feel depressed easily even though they can earn money?" because they consider money can heal emotional needs, money is the tool, it can't satisfy human's feeling, human can be happy when they use money for the right purpose, not fulfilling instant pleasure, someone who feel depression and anxiety, it is like someone who tries to go against the unsteady stream of river, he tries to change something that can't be changed, if he keeps behaving such thing, he indirectly creates the darkness within his thought, that's dangerous plan, if you feel your life is not good as you hope, you can train your mind and say to yourself "life is always serving human being with good purpose and God knows more than I need to survive", if you have mindset such thing, you will live like the lively fish which swims peacefully in the river without drowning against the current of river, if you are training your habit such thing, as impact, you will not feel depressed and also you will not see any problem around you, even there is pandemic, crisis, war or economy disaster because your mind accepts the unexpected lesson from God's plan, here is the wisdom you need to remember "every word from human's mouth will claim what they will have in the future", if we train our word of mouth by saying the positive words, we will not get negative vibration because we spread the power of love within what we say, in order to deal with depression and anxiety, here is the first strategy you need to do; knowing about what you target and give yourself with the deadline, if you consider what you target is giving you a sense of instant gratification, you must leave it because it is going to crush you, to cure the effect of depression and instant gratification, you need to ensure your main focus is not focusing about what you want, but rather you stay focus how to bring the blessing to other people's problem, if you want to change your life, help yourself by becoming a man of value and let other people will come to your life and do some helps for you unhesitatingly. 

Depression is tied by wrong belief

          

 At this moment I would like to share the causes of being depressed, hopefully this explanation can increase your awareness level, here is the first cause why someone feels depression and anxiety; he overfeeds himself by collecting instant pleasure, please beware about instant pleasure because most of instant pleasures in the world are deceivers and they are designed to become a lousy teacher for every human being, here is the note; “pleasure comes from the core of our unfulfilled desire, it can't determine our awareness level, whereas, our suffering or pain is the essential core how to create the antidote for anticipating to go against with mental illness”, the main reason why some people feel uninspired to what they do because their main goal can't bring an inspiration or wisdom, here is the advice; if you can’t find some meanings within what you pursue, you must change your goal or you will feel powerless with what you pursue,  here is the second cause why someone feels depression and anxiety; someone is too emotional to push his desire into reality, here is my suggestion; if you can't control your desire, at least you can eliminate your desire until you only have the clarity of choice to pursue, remember; "the clarity of purpose is power", if you surround yourself with the clarity of purpose, you will feel abundance because you will be guided by God to do something magnificent, remember this advice; “everybody is granted by God with the infinite power and unique ability, your infinite power will be meaningless if it no use to serve what other people require to survive”, in order to keep using your infinite power, you must find a problem that you feel welcomed to solve it, please do it regularly, if you can’t find a problem that you want to solve, maybe you need to take day off from your daily routine in order to realign your major role in this life, the main reason why you need to realign your major role from your daily routine because not all activities you have are benefit for you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

How to get rid of anger issues

Anger person's mind is perplexed by self-doubt

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to get rid of anger issue”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can win against their anger issue, actually anger is not designed to give the bad influence, anger is part of self-defense mechanism where it is used to criticize what we do, so we don't need to get rid of anger, what we need to do is how to reduce bad influence which comes from the worthless information, anger is not the serious issue, as long as we can break the connection from our obsession, anger will lose its direction and its influence, so basically anger can be dangerous to us when we add our sense of obsession to control something we hate, if we want to get rid of anger issue, we must accept the situation without complaint, I just want to remind you negative feeling will not give a bad thing to our lives when we don't feed it with our obsession to control, negative feeling will be neutral when we connect with the activity where it can bring us to the positive impact, e.g. reading book, taking a nap, positive and negative power will bring harmony effect when we use it for the kindness, for example; your children will do something dangerous, if you alert them with negative power, your children will acknowledge your warning, so negative power is not always bringing negative effect as long as we know how to use its power, sometimes optimism can bring negative effect when we don't balance it with sense of fear, optimism and fear will bring a new hope as long as we don't put our obsession to control, let optimism and fear live harmoniously, we don't need to get rid of one of them, remember this; anger energy is really bad for making life cultivation, what we can do when anger's energy is rising is stopping to focus what makes us hatred and observing it, the most dangerous thing is the evil character, not anger, basically evil character is the fuel which can bring bad side in our behavior. 

Anger is part of depression

   You will never be able to get rid of anger if you try to prioritize your obsession or your pleasure, you must be responsible for every decision you choose, whatever you start, your habit will receive what you demand to your own mind, here is the positive self-talk you need to remind to yourself; "I must do more than what may anger can do, if I let my anger is rising, my logic can't work more", if you don’t want to get the bad effect from your anger, you must learn the consequence first, that’s strategy how to allocate your focus energy, if you don't focus on what you hate, you will never get angry to any situation, remember this; good or bad is the part of emotional aspect, please don't focus to your over obsession, all you need to do right now is use your energy, valuable time and limited resource to serve what your vision needs, the key how to get rid of obsession is reduce your fear by doing something productive or something which can distract your focus to your consciousness, remember; every angry person is always losing his consciousness, before he enters deeply into his unconsciousness mind, you must do something happier or find someone who can remind you to do the kindness, here is the first strategy how to get rid of anger issue; stop focusing what you can't endure, start focusing how to try again when we want to know about the result, the more you control out of your capable hand, the more you increase your obsession, finally your anger will increase its power, here is the second strategy how to get rid of anger issue; share your happiness is more often than what your anger can do for you, happiness is going to be simpler when we try to appreciate the little thing we can't create, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to get rid of anger

Anger person's mind is perplexed by self-doubt

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to get rid of anger”, the main reason why I choose that topic because anger is part of human nature where it will gives a lot of pressure once its power will be dominated with the dark side of human nature, actually anger is not designed to give the bad influence, anger is part of self-defence where it is used to protect human's nature from misleading behavior, so we don't need to get rid of anger, what we need to do is how to reduce bad influence which comes from the worthless information, anger is not the serious issue, as long as we can break the connection from our obsession, anger will lose its power by ourselves, so basically anger can be dangerous when we add our sense of obsession to change something we hate, as long as we don't feed our negative feeling with our hatred, a sense of anger will not impact to our mindfulness, I just want to remind you negative feeling will not give a bad thing to our lives when we don't feed it with our obsession to control, negative feeling will be neutral when we connect with the activity where it can bring us to the positive impact, e.g. reading book, taking a nap, positive and negative power will bring harmony effect when we use it for the kindness, for example; your children will do something dangerous, if you alert them with negative power, your children will acknowledge your warning, so negative power is not always bringing negative effect as long as we know how to use its power, sometimes optimism can bring negative effect when we don't balance it with sense of fear, optimism and fear will bring a new hope as long as we don't put our obsession to control, let optimism and fear live harmoniously, we don't need to get rid of one of them, remember; energy can't be controlled, we only can utilize its strength for kindness and prevent from the evil's effect, the most dangerous thing is the evil character, not anger, basically evil character is the fuel which can bring bad side in our behavior. 

Anger is part of depression

   You will never be able to get rid of anger if you try to prioritize your obsession or your pleasure, you must be responsible for every decision you choose, whatever you start, your habit will receive what you demand to your own mind, here is the positive self talk you need to remind to yourself; "don't create something where you don't want to receive the effect", if you don’t want to get the bad effect from your anger, you must learn the consequence first, that’s strategy how to allocate your focus energy, if you don't focus on what you hate, you will never get angry to any situation, remember this; good or bad is the part of emotional aspect, please don't focus to your over obsession, all you need to do right now is use your energy, valuable time and limited resource to serve what your vision needs, the key how to get rid of obsession is reduce your fear by doing something productive or something which can distract your focus to your consciousness, remember; every angry person is always losing his consciousness, before he enters deeply into his unconsciousness mind, you must do something happier or find someone who can remind you to do the kindness, here is the first strategy how to get rid of anger; stop focusing on your obsession to control everything around you, the more you control out of your capable hand, the more you increase your obsession, finally your anger will increase its power, here is the second strategy how to get rid of anger; learn how to smile every time you see something you hate, do you know why smiling is powerful because it can accelerate your endorphin scale, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to overcome heartbreak and depression

Depressed person always blames others

 Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to overcome heartbreak and depression”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can regain their good mood after they got bad experience such as heartbreak and depression, based on the statistical data; around 55% people feel depressed because of their company's policy, 30% people feel heartbreak because they can't accept reality, 15% people feel heartbreak and depression because they are unable to provide a good resource to other people's lives, from those research data, we can conclude that many people don't recognize about their power and their weaknesses, no wonder they get painful experience, in order to overcome our psychological issue, we mustn't focus to what we can't control by our habit, all we need to do is how to improve our mindset by consuming the valuable information and how to promote our inborn ability to the marketplace progressively, at this moment I would share some strategies how to overcome heartbreak and depression, hopefully it can help you to improve the quality of your life journey, here is the first strategy how to overcome heartbreak and depression; don’t shirk your duty if you feel urged to do, the main reason why you need to apply this strategy because it can help you to strengthen your focus, once you succeed to focus to what you start, your vibration will attract the positive energy, remember; a sense of depression and heartbreak will come when you are satisfied easily with what you repeat, you can’t survive from the pain of heartbreak and depression if you stop progressing your mental age by doing something which can increase your urgency appeal level.  

Depression is tied by wrong belief

          

 Here is the second way how to overcome heartbreak and depression; don’t follow the majority of people’s habit where it doesn't relate to your mission, the main reason why you shouldn’t need to follow the majority of people’s habit because they will never teach you how to prioritize your life goal and they don't care about your circumstance, remember; life is like running marathon, you must keep your stamina and speed very well before time will break your hope, if you just focus on other people's movement, the more you lose your major focus towards the finish line, here is the third way how to overcome heartbreak and depression; do not focus about what you have suffered now, but rather you focus to the future moment where it rewards your skill, enthusiasm and hope, if you trust about what you see in the future more than what you see now, you will find something magnificent more than what you imagine, your focus will stop your heartbreak and depression if you put your dream in front of you, remember this; the chaotic mind only gives the preview about your weaknesses, whereas, the growth mindset gives what you are supposed to do in the future, now your future lies in your decision, if you want the pain of heartbreak and depression is moving away, don't treat them like a enemy, but you must treat both like a visitor where he goes himself to visit your house and not to stay forever, here is the last note; every pain isn't designed to make you weaker, as long as the pain doesn't kill you right now, it will strengthen your body immune system and your mental age for everlasting life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.            

Regain couples counseling

To regain relationship is not focus on other people do, but focus how our couple needs from us

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Regain couples counseling”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not every couple is happy when they start to make new relationship, if you ask me why not every couple is happy because they still don't find the spot area where they can put something together from the ideology they have, it takes time when they realize not all they have can be put together, having ideology is like something you believe too much until you don't want to change it or you think that there is nothing more important than what you have, if we see reality, many couple choose to break up when they can't tie the ideology they have into one purpose, if we see from different perception, we don't need to break up just because we don't have solution right now, what we need to do is how to regain confidence level and how to rebuild a sense of trustworthy, it is not easy to make deal with someone who has different character, if we want to take benefit, we shouldn't take it from relationship, but we can take from what we can't endure, we shouldn't thank to what our couple does for us, we should thank from what we give to our couple, that's way how to regain relationship, we don't need to know when our couple can do for us, what we need to know is when the last time we do things right for our couple, breaking up with our couple is not the best decision to do because breaking up means we give up to regain relationship, we can quit from the relationship as long as our service can't be thanked or disrespect by our couple.

 

How to regain relationship is started from what we do when problem is arising

     

 Starting from today, don’t demand your time by pursuing what your couple can't do for you, life is about personal responsibility, life is not teaching us how to take benefit from other people, but how we can add the value to other people, remember; build a good relationship is like build a house from brick to brick, we can't get a trust from our couple if we can't make something that we prove it first, building a trust is begun from what we build to our habit, at this moment, I would like to share about how to regain relationship, here is the first duty we need to do how to regain relationship; we must do what couple can't do, if we just demand something from our couple, we can't get something better than that, we are relationship builder, so we must build something that our couple needs it from us, here is the second duty we need to do how to regain relationship; we shouldn't deal about the old problem that we have finished it, sometimes deal with old problem can make our couple feels ill-feel if we continue it, if you are trapped in this situation, we should try how to discuss about something that our partner is very interested to speak it, here is the third duty we need to do how to regain relationship; keep our couple's privacy is secure, meaning, we don't talk to stranger about what our couple can't do for us or we complain about what our couple can't do what we ask, whether we like it or not, our couple doesn't need our lifestyle, what our couple needs is what we give is matched with our couple's emotional needs, when our service is matched with our couple's need, we automatically can keep our couple's privacy, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.