Dealing with frustration

 

Frustrated person doesn't want to negotiate with his mind

 Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Dealing with frustration”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can bear enough to deal with frustration issue, some people choose to drink alcohol as a short diversion from frustration issue and some people choose to consume antidepressant as the pain's relief, it is not good option because drinking habit will increase the intense of frustration and antidepressant will make people got addicted, as normal human being, we don't need to argue with our sense of anger, all we need to do is clearing our mind with single clear goal, in order to divert our focus from what causes us angry, we must disengage from the information which can destroy our current focus, here is the truth; "good information will never offer the sensational feeling or the false expectation", remember this; our quality of thinking comes from the qualified information we consume every day, the qualified information always offers new insight or enlightenment which can increase our spiritual experience, if you ask me “what makes people getting angry easily?” here is the answer; people don’t want to let their illusion gets destroyed with new ideology which pushes themselves to grow, from this case, we can conclude; if our perception of reality still creates an illusion, it means, we have dug up the wrong mindset, sometimes we need to accept disappointment from reality to erode our false expectation, starting from now; we must realize that there is no instant solution in the world, there is only our interpretation whether we will accept the fact or reject it, in order to break our sense of frustration, we must train our mind how to see the problem with different point of view, "all anger issues are the first ignition to create frustration's habit"

Frustrated person is not enthusiastic about something

          

 Now here is the question “can we destroy our anger issue which lies in our subconscious mind? It depends on how strong our commitment to fight the impulse of what makes us angry, the first challenge we need to do if we want to fight the impulse of what makes us anger is we take a note about the piece of bad memory which can evoke our bad feeling most and then we start to embrace a new challenge where we feel regret if we don't finish it, so we can conclude; anger can appear into reality if we always recall our bad memory and we don't increase our inner capacity constantly, do you know what's meaning of capacity? it is part of ability to have more, to give more and to create more, frustration will not appear if we always update our brain's capacity with a new information, that’s strategy how to stop producing the impulse of what makes us angry, remember this advice; our reality depends on how we select the information from the outer world, if the information we consume can make us angry easily, it means we learned nothing in the past and we were being opinionated, at this moment I would share several things what causes us frustrated; here is the first cause why we get frustrated; we are too concerned about our desire without considering about tolerance risk, the best way to heal us from this issue is we must be giving up our personal unfulfilled desire into divine's timing and we keep updating our belief system with the information which can offer us solution, here is the second cause why we get frustrated; we lack of endurance skill, it means, we don't update our mental acumen with new problem and unpleasant experience, the reason why we lack of having an endurance skill because we always feel secure in every situation, remember this truth "as long as we don't know when the pleasure's time is stopping, it means there is no secure feeling in the world", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Manifestation meaning with examples

Manifest is started from human's deepest curiosity

   Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic “Manifestation meaning with examples”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are curios about the function of manifestation, many people want to change their lives, unfortunately, what they really need to change is unavailable, the main question is "what makes the human's resource is unavailable?" Feeling the inadequate or deprived,  Here the example of manifestation is when someone focuses on the one spot, if the one spot can be enlarged to be big spot after he learns it, as impact, he can manifest what he develops into reality, remember this; time will start to work after we start earlier than what we plan, if you wonder why you can't accept something manifest at this time because you only spend your major time to do something which is opposite with your deep belief's plan, I just want to give you the suggestion; Please act according to what your intuition whispers, the main reason why you don't create the accomplishment now because you try to shirk what you do, it is not good idea if you do this because reality is not designed to promote what you expect, but reality is designed to represent what you had done in the past time, if you want to be successful person right know, you must know how to differentiate between what you aim and what you expect, that's basic challenge you must know, if you just enlarge your expectation without giving a valid reasonable choice, your habit only creates self-delusion moment and you will get bad side effect from it, such fear or worry. 

manifest is creation from the clarity of mind

  If you still confuse about the manifest definition, you can review a bit about your habit and your purpose, you can ask a question to yourself "does my habit work on my purpose harmoniously? if your habit works with your purpose harmoniously, as impact, reality will show the magnificent thing beyond your imagination, whereas, if your habit opposes your purpose, the manifest you want isn't going to work, at this moment, I would like to share about several tips how to make your dream will be manifested into reality, here is the first strategy how to make your manifestation turns into reality; you must create long term purpose by finishing daily short term target, if you don’t have long term purpose, you can’t collect the daily progress through your daily activity, here is the second strategy how to make your dream turns into reality; don't violate your promise, if you want to do, please do it as if that you got the last chance, remember this; not all good things are not always bringing something you expect and not all bad things are not always bringing something bad for you, there is always relative in many different point of views, here is the third strategy how to make your manifestation turns into reality; don't expect others people's help if you can do something for yourself, if you feel panic about what reality gives, you just need to allocate your focus by doing what makes your inner soul is alive, if your purpose gives you a sense of optimism, positive and enthusiasm, you will win even though you can't see the end result of your struggle, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Manifest meaning

Manifest is started from human's deepest curiosity

   Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic “Manifest meaning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing accept reality, many people aren't ready to accept reality when their secure feeling has been shocked by unwanted challenge or unexpected offer from the near future, e.g. small accident, new guest, new problem, natural disaster, etc. Here the definition of manifest is something to be pushed to be existed after strong commitment and strong belief work together, if you wonder why you can't accept something manifest at this time because you only spend your major time to prioritize your secure feeling or satisfaction zone and you don't recognize the power within you, I just want to remind you; your expectation is born from a sense of fear where you distribute into your mind as if you created something manifest, the main reason why you aren't happy now because you illustrate your expectation like something manifest today, meaning, you force expectation to come in real moment, it is not good idea to do this because reality is not designed to promote what you expect, but reality is designed to represent what you had done in the past time, if you want to be happy person right know, you must know how to differentiate between what you aim and what you expect, that's basic challenge you must know, if you just enlarge your expectation without giving a valid reasonable choice, your habit only creates self-delusion moment and you will get bad side effect from it, such fear or worry. 

manifest is creation from the clarity of mind

  If you still confuse about the manifest definition, you can review a bit about your habit and your purpose, you can ask a question to yourself "does my habit work on my purpose harmoniously? if your habit works with your purpose harmoniously, as impact, reality will show the magnificent thing beyond your imagination, whereas, if your habit opposes your purpose, the manifest you want isn't going to work, at this moment, I would like to share about several tips how to make your dream will be manifested into reality, here is the first strategy how to make your dream turns into reality; you must create long term purpose by finishing daily short term target, if you don’t have long term purpose, you can’t collect the enlightenment through your daily activity, here is the second strategy how to make your dream turns into reality; don’t hate reality although you can't see something worthy, instead, use reality as the natural way to express your intuition, practice your natural skill and develop your mind with the valuable information, remember this; not all good things are not always bringing something you expect and not all bad things are not always bringing something bad for you, there is always relative in many different point of views, here is the third strategy how to make your dream turns into reality; don't expect anyone else will give you a help exceeding than you can do for yourself, if you feel panic about what reality gives, you will get a negative result, if your purpose gives you a sense of optimism, positive and enthusiasm, you will win even though you can't see the end result of your struggle, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

If you believe in yourself anything is possible

Believe to something which can make you calm, not comfort

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “If you believe in yourself anything is possible”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don't set strong belief in something we haven't seen it yet, some people prefer to believe what other people think rather than they believe in what they can do, that's common mistake where it lies into animistic believer, I don't object about what people think about life, but I just want to remind you about the side effect of belief; "belief is like putting something liquid into tea pot, our character will dictate the reality to form, the root of problem why many people don't believe in what they do because they think what they do is impossible, no wonder they prefer to quit rather than struggle for making new revolution, the first thing we can do if we want to remove bleak outlook on life; we must find the strong evidence where it can resolve our false belief by doing which it is not making us feared, for example: when you realize that you are interested in western cooking style, so you must train your skill by cooking something you never taste before, here is the good news; when you can fulfill your emotional fulfillment, as impact, you indirectly create new value to your experience, here is my recommendation; if what you do can create new value, new wisdom, new faith, new habit, please continue it, don't let your time will get rid of your enthusiasm or interest, God's plan sometimes lies in your biggest enthusiasm.

Believe to your unique ability, not too focus with the result

     

 Starting from now, you must practice, practice and practice until the reality will reveal what you need, this strategy looks simpler than what you think, but it is not simple, do you know why I say such thing because you need to remove your ego first if you want to keep practicing, that's the hardest thing you must face it, even though many people think practice is simple, in fact, not everyone keeps practicing after they get the rewards, sometimes the biggest reward not lies in what you can see, the biggest reward lies in what you can't see in yourself, such as imagination, faith, grith, the momentum of action, patience, here is the first mindset you need to ponder, "believe in yourself doesn't mean you need to try everything in many job scope, what I mean is you aren't allowed to try what makes you not interested it", here is the second mindset you need to ponder, "don't too focus about the end result, but focus on what you can develop", if you focus on the end result, you will not get new opportunity from the future to do something miraculously, everything is possible to happen if you are willing to take new possibility of failure but it still make you interested, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Believe in yourself

Believe to the enlightenment

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Believe in yourself”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don't set strong belief in something we haven't seen it yet, some people prefer to believe what they think rather than believe in what they can't see through eyes, that's common mistake where it lies into animistic believer, I don't object about what people think about life, but I just want to remind you about the side effect of belief; "belief is like putting something liquid into tea pot, we will receive from what we shape and we can't escape from it, the root of problem why people get bleak outlook on life because they can't differentiate between the past's moment and the future's moment and they tend to live in the past rather than future, the first thing we can do if we want to remove bleak outlook on life; we must find the strong evidence where it can improve our false opinion and it can convince us that we face something true, for example: a sense of depression, even though we consider having depression is not good, but instead, a sense of depression can strengthen human's mental acumen and it will give another perception how to give solution to us, our biochemistry of behavior will change from depression into enthusiasm when we develop our focus to do something where it is important for other's emotional fulfillment even though it not important for us, here is my recommendation; please don't believe with something easy to do because it can't leave a good legacy to us, if we pick up easy thing to do, we will not have strong mentality to have a tolerance to pain, all what we believe is coming from what we repeatedly do, what we repeatedly hear, what we repeatedly say and what we repeatedly see, if we cut a belief into tiny layers; belief comes from the accumulated habit, curiosity, agreement and emotional fulfillment (fear or reward).

Believe to your unique ability, not to focus with others

     

 Starting from now, before you believe to a new information, you must check whether what you believe can be tested or not with the darkness, if what you believe can give you space time to accept a sense of deepest fear until you don't brave enough to neglect that, it is something true, as long as you don't give negative energy into what you believe, you will not get a side effect from what you fear, here is my point of view about life; "life doesn't give what human want, but life gives what human commit", if we commit to do something important, it indicates that we appreciate about the process, energy and time, people who don't appreciate about what they commit, they tend to believe what other people say rather than what they say to themselves, there is only one way how to remove bleak outlook on life is staying curious about something you don't know and stop giving negative energy to something unpleasant, people who have strong determination, they need something unpleasant to unplug the life suffering where they have tasted beforehand, here is the special note; the darkness will not change into neutral if we always show our hatred to everything we feel, all we can do if we feel hatred is we are moving our belief from hatred state into happiness state by looking the goodness as much as we can, the light represents the passion of learning, whereas, ignorance represents bleak outlook on life, please don't be lazy to learn something you like as long as it can give you a strong emotional fulfillment because life will never stop giving us a lesson, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.