Qualities of a good leader

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Qualities of a good leader”, the reason why I choose that topic because this personality traits may help you to shape your bright career, especially if you are leader, supervisor, manager, director, CEO, in this article I will share several tips, now here is the first quality of a great leader; learn to be strong, not impolite, means, a great leader needs to strengthen his vision and vast perception, that's requirement, the main reason why every great leader must have this kind of strength because the power of vision will create the clarity and every clarity will create the fabulous idea where it is needed by the great leader to drive many people to the right direction, if you possess strong vision, you will be able to motivate other people’ to make better future, here is the second quality of a great leader; learn to be kind but not weak, means, as a great leader, you have to show your empathy to what people feel about their own life journey, sometimes not everyone is happy with what they develop because they think their life design isn't working based on their expectation, if you are leader, you must show your great kindness to others as if they were your family, if you keep sharing your goodness to others, you will earn respect, dignity, reputation, promotion and recognition, here is the third quality of a great leader; learn to be bold but not a bully, means, you need to adapt with unwelcoming situation, as great leader, you need to embrace challenge in order to destroy your own mental block and lead others to pass through the difficult thing in this life, if you build bold characteristic, you must not fear  about the consequence, you need to welcome fear with knowledge, calm and courage.

        Here is the fourth quality of a great leader; learn to be humble but not timid, as a great leader, showing humility is basic component how to gain credibility from other people, being humble person also can attract the law of compensation, means, your hard work will be paid based on the contribution and great effort where you bring to other people, here is the fifth quality of a great leader; learn to give appreciation to what other people achieve, means, to be a great leader, you must not feel envy to other people's achievement, we all know that giving appreciation is needed to make good connection and cooperation with other people, if you are leader, at least what you do can inspire others and also you give good reaction to other people who bring something good for humanity, here is the sixth quality of a great leader; learn to be good listener, meaning, you don't show your indifferent about other people feel, instead, you welcome other people who want to share something to you, here is the seventh quality of a great leader; learn to deal with reality, means, a great leader needs to know how to be realist than being planner, when a real disaster comes to threaten everybody unexpectedly, at least a great leader can create a temporary solution where it can be used to direct other people to the safety area and you help people how to reduce other people's pain and make the alternative path for them, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Difference between fixed mindset and growth mindset

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Difference between fixed mindset and growth mindset”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people have mastered growth mindset, if you ask me why not all people have mastered growth mindset because they aren't interested how to grow their potential, besides that, they feel too comfort with recent achievement, if we use different perception regarding with growth mindset and fixed mindset, growth mindset is related with unstoppable / continuously developing without sense of limit,  means someone doesn't get motivated by the achievement, but someone gets motivated by his greatest curiosity towards his unlimited potential, we all know every human has unlimited potential, what people need is willingly to accept the unpleasant experience like big pressure and irresistible pain, that's the side effect from having growth mindset, the more success someone gets, the more stress someone obtains, if we don't want to get big pressure and irresistible pain, we just need to stay in fixed mindset and do nothing more better than today,  it looked painful story, but that's side effect if people don't want to possess the power of growth mindset, as we know that having growth mindset is unique, rare and elegant, whereas having fixed mindset is very easy to own, if people just want to be the ordinary person and having mediocre living, they don't need to learn something new, what they need is instant pleasure, remember; the most dangerous act is being ignorant and stay refusing to accept knowledge and new mistake, that's the fact.

      Fixed mindset and growth mindset has different purpose, has different value and has different power, based on my own research: people who possess fixed mindset, what they do in daily basis is not motivated by curiosity and high enthusiasm, instead what they do in daily basis is motivated by fear and pessimism, whereas, people who possess growth mindset, what they do in daily basis is motivated by high enthusiasm, curiosity and love, even though people who have growth mindset get something unpleasant thing in their lives such failure and rejection, they will not get bothered with such circumstance because what they pursue is always greater than their fearfulness, remember this; if what people do can evoke sense of gratefulness, as impact, their awareness level is increasing, people can't get something bigger than their expectation if they get the irresistible pain again and again until the pain is gone, we all know that the great thing comes beyond human's expectation, so as human being is we must make many preparations to countermeasure the unexpected thing, e.g. knowledge, skill, target, endurance and good reputation, here is the major difference between fixed mindset and growth mindset, fixed mindset is oriented in the past journey, people who have fixed mindset, they will keep strong principle which is oriented in the past, like culture, old ritual, whereas, growth mindset is oriented in the future journey, they will try something they never did before and they learn something they don't know until they will become a lifetime learner, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How to improve self esteem in adolescence

Sharing your vision to other people is kind of strategy to build self-confidence

         Hi good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to improve self-esteem in adolescence”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many adolescents lose confidence after they get something unpleasant, in this article, I would share about several tips how to improve self-esteem, hopefully your life starts changing drastically after you read this article, here is the first tip how to improve self-esteem; you must improve your philosophy, it means, you need to detach yourself from your old belief which can influence your mindset, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because your philosophy is the first gate how to define the way you’re thinking, whether we like it or not, poor mindset came from our poor philosophy, in order to build confidence, you must challenge yourself to renew your philosophy in order to get enlightenment or good guidance, maybe you can find a good role models where they can give you a good philosophy how to change your mindset, remember this advice; good philosophy can educate you how to find what your strength does for you, whereas, bad philosophy only shows your weaknesses and how to attract negative emotion, here is the good news; when you succeed to change your philosophy, your confidence level will get better and your enthusiasm will be ready to promote yourself how to get good career. 

Learn how to sell your competence if you want to get better chance.

       Here is the second tip how to improve self-esteem; reading some books, this strategy is very common, in my opinion; reading book can give you a new resource how to make yourself is ready to find a matched opportunity, the information we collect will influence the type of decision we create, if our knowledge is vast, it can help us to make decision, remember this; your confidence level equals with your knowledge, the more you earn knowledge, the more you can feed your emotional needs with good attitude, if you have good attitude, your perception will change, if you can increase your power of perception, you can master the problem which can lower your confidence, here is the third tip how to improve self-esteem; helping other people who are more successful than you, although you feel totally inadequate, there is no excuse to offer your help to others, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because helping other people can promote your expertise, if successful people acknowledge our expertise, you can get the instant promotion from it, here is the fourth tip how to improve self-esteem; you sell your competence to the marketplace, it means, you keep improving your skill progressively until the marketplace needs your assistance, her is the good news; the more you can sell your competence, the more you get self-promotion, here is the fifth tip how to improve self-esteem; you stop trying to be someone else's character, it means, you stop being a follower and start being a leader, starting from now; listen your heart and only pursue what gives you high energy, that's formula how to improve self-esteem, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

How to change your life in a year

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to change your life in a year”, the main purpose why I choose that topic because most people still are trapped in the same life journey again and again, besides that, most people only focus how to build self-adjustment with their own expectation and avoid the pain, no wonder many people get unnecessary failure because they do something with their own default system, not trying to build something new with their new mindset, remember; change our life is started from our mindset and our suffering level, if we don't expand our mindset and explore our suffering level, our life will be the same again and again, let me remind you, the worst life story is being ignorant person and not desiring to know more about oneself qualification, here is the weapon how to change our life in a year ; willing to suffer, willing to adapt with the adversity and willing to evolve inborn skill, we can’t break that life rule as long as what we do is oriented with our recent qualification because life game is always renewed in every single day, we must break our limit which is restricted by our ego, in this article let me explain about how to change your life in a year through 3 steps, here is the first step how to change your life in a year; “ we must let our mental is suffering every day”, the purpose of suffering test is breaking our own limit and welcome new potential through accepting new problem, remember this note; hard work, dedication, consistency and commitment are part of life suffering test, if there is no suffering, there is no new hope.

       Here is the second step how to change your life in a year, “life is adaptation”, meaning, we need to remove our ego when life is trying to show us with something opposite from our expectation, let me remind you that life is not designed to follow human's expectation, instead, life is designed to give the strength to human by giving a lot of pressure and giving what human really hate, in order to survive, we need to forget about our hatred feeling and we need to follow the life's design and the law of universe, if what we do is related with our enthusiasm, we can keep going, to monitor the goal we set, so we need to combine between enthusiasm, focus and life's pressure, if we think life pressure we receive is too high, we must stop from moment and try to make contingency plan to make our goal is easy to do, during adaptation process, we will be forced to suffer a lot during 1 year period, that's the requirement how to change our lives, if there is no suffering, there is no value, here is the third step how to change your life is a year, I call “habit revolution”, at this step, we need to know what habit does something to us, besides that, we need to evaluate between negative habit and positive habit we set every day, if we realize our positive habit is more dominant than our negative habit, we optimize our positive habit, we try to inspire what we know to other people and solve as much as problem we love, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Example of happy family

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Example of happy family”, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many people desire to have happy family, but it doesn't happen yet in reality, if you ask me why having happy family is difficult to shape because it needs good cooperation between man and woman who are building the same purpose, building high qualification, and building strong commitment, even though we can't ensure when happy family can be built, if we combine between qualification, commitment and purpose, there is nothing can against us, what can stop us from developing our qualification, commitment and purpose is our fear, doubt and our satisfaction, happy family can be created beyond our expectation if we don't hurt our spouse's feeling with something they don't want to get, it is very simple, as long as we work hard on our capacity, I am sure we can build happy family, for the most important thing is we can keep good communication with our spouse, we share our good feeling to our spouse and we comprehend her/ his love language, let me tell you one thing, our duty right now is not demanding our spouse how to fulfill our expectation, but how we let our spouse to develop her/his own qualification, it is not easy, but if we can lower our ego, there is nothing against our path, please remember this philosophy; building happy family is like building house, we need to evaluate what is the value of house, we must choose the type of house we will use for longer time, we must discuss with our spouse related with the function of the room A, B, C, the more often we can discuss about the detailed point with our spouse, the more we can create solution easier because the detail is the source of power. 

         
        Let me give you the criteria or example how to build happy family, hopefully this strategy can help you to build sustainable family relationship, here is the first strategy how to build happy family; you can allocate your time to do something together with your spouse and your kids even though you belong to busy person in your career, this method is not easy, but if we can allocate our time to fulfill our family's emotional need, as impact, we can reduce the conflict and a sense of peace will be created by itself, here is the second strategy how to build happy family; you are willing to listen your spouse's deepest feeling even though you are tired, this method is simple, you just need your sincerity and conscience, if you feel this method is not easy, you can practice it in every single day by talking to yourself in the mirror, here is the third strategy how to build happy family; you don't push your opinion to your spouse even though you think your opinion is more valuable than your spouse's opinion, this method needs self-minded clearance and humility, whether we like it or not, we must admit that what we think is right is not absolutely right for others because opinion is just accumulation of perception, not representing the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.