How to focus on the goal, not to become a success model

        Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share how to focus on the goal, not to become a success model, the main reason why I choose that topic because many adult people try to become a success model, but in their end of life they still can't get what they really want, maybe you will ask about the main problem why adult people still failed to become a success model because they wait for getting the compliment or achievement from other people, in my opinion; don't try to become a man of success, but try to become a man of value, if you acknowledge yourself as a success model, your life journey is like a mannequin's living, every day a mannequin isn't happy before it's  getting a compliment or achievement from other people, so in the end of the day a mannequin still can't help other people's problem because it's thinking about how to become a success model, but if you intend to become a man of value, your masterpiece can bring the benefit for other people because it can solve other people's problem, that's difference.

         Most people forget that the real success model is coming from the universe, there is nothing meaningful success if we don't use it's principle as a success model, we need to learn how to apply the universe’s law into our daily life, the universe’s law is kind of best partner you can rely on, it never break the promises, it never tell a lie and the universe’s law will work for us when we attract it’s attention by having a a clear goal, in my opinion; focus on one goal is the fundamental education how to attract the universe’s power, so we don’t need to execute about the end result, we only need to practice our craft with few small discipline every day until we can handle more challenge, remember this note; result is not part of end challenge, but it’s part of next challenge, we don’t know when we really accept the reward from God, we are just demanded by God how to make some good investments in this life and we cultivate our habits with discipline, consistency, courage, commitment and stay trust with divine’s timing.

boost your goal with discipline mind

          Remember this note; as human being, we are not entitled to become a success model like the universe because we are out of its capacity, we just need to make a plan, execute our plan to the reality, monitor the progress, make new record, promote our product knowledge to other people and face the reality when we get failed, when we don’t focus on the clear goal, we will plan to fail in the future, it’s part of the law of cause and effect, make the clearest goal is part of self-maturity process because it can guide us how to monitor it's progress, unfortunately not everyone has a plan how to make the goal is clear, that's why most people failed, the big result will come when we detach ourselves from the outcome, the main reason why we need to bigger focus on the process rather than focus on the end result because it can help us how to finish the part of goal, so don't think about result because it is part of God’s responsibility,  if we just focus on the outcome, as a result we will get more disappointment because we are impatience how to enjoy our chosen journey.

          When we focus on the clear goal, we act like sniper who is hunting the animal from the farthest distance, in the reality life, sometimes we need to hide from the crowded people, we need to forget our past memory, and we need to forget about small concern until we can create bigger focus and get the clear target, if you want to make extraordinary life in the future, be like a sniper, focus on your clear goal, enjoy the process, forget about your failure and monitor your own progress, when you reach your goal, celebrate with reward, but when you don’t reach your goal, celebrate with wise attitude and try again until God says "your attempt is enough, let me finish the end process and I will give you the reward".

How to be a good listener

          Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share how to be a good listener, the main purpose why I choose that topic because not everyone wants to listen an advice from other people because some of them think that they are self-righteousness, a bad listener always rejects to the truth, reject the advice from other people and not interested about future, now i will share several points how to be good listener, the first requirement how to be a good listener is having an empathy, this kind of ability is very important because we will feel connected with other people’s experience, "we will see what other people can see, we will listen what other people can't listen, we will feel what other people can't feel", showing an empathy can create new harmony and new serenity, when other people will get condition, they will welcome us without any complaining and when we are not around them, other people will seek us, the second requirement how to be a good listener is "showing the respectfulness to other people's principle", not trying to surpass their knowledge and don't start your topic when other people are not interested about it, the third requirement how to be a good listener is "being a good giver and being a good observer", showing your best performance when other people is showing their problem, when you have this habit, you will be known as a trustworthy person.

a good listener is having trustworthy characteristic

A good listener’s habit has same equals with a good giver’s habit, both are part of good habit because they are not having selfish characteristic, the main reason why I say such thing because a good listener has a free time to research about the human’s problem and he will try to give a good service to other people although other people are not necessarily able to pay him well, the main reason why a good listener keeps doing that habit because he considers the other people’s bad experience can become a new lesson for a good listener, in the future he is not necessarily to repeat the same problem like what other people did in the past because a good listener has collected the supply of solution, a good listener always have a good plan ahead because he knows reality is not always serving a good result, a good listener spends their major time to learn because he thinks his masterpiece will be expected by other people.

        The fourth requirement how to become a good listener is "not showing your weaknesses to other people", means whatever he has many problems, he will not beg the emergency help, he will stay trust about the gift that Almighty God gave him, and he keeps humility to prepare a best performance, best action and not complaining about failure, a good listener is having book reading habit and having strong curious how to find the valuable information which may guide him how to solve as many as problem he will meet because he considers every people's problem can become "attractiveness of conversation", here is my daily note that you may need it; when you commit how to become a good listener, your existence will be the same like the sage person's destiny in the old century, you will be needed, you will be wanted and you will feel being loved.

Consistency is more than perfection

          Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share how to make the consistent habit during undergoing the unpleasant situation in this life, the main reason why I choose that topic because there is something valuable information I will tell you about the benefit of consistency, as we know that act of consistency is one of the highest habit level which is loved by Almighty God because this kind of habit can be used to knock Almighty God’s heart, there is no meaningful success in this world when there is nobody will enjoy his own life journey, remember this note; it doesn’t matter whether you start earlier or later, if you don’t commit to the consistent process, you will lose by your desire power, the consistency is the only way how to keep opening the door of opportunity although you haven’t guarded that door at every moment, if we don’t want to keep consistent on the clear purpose, we will lose our vision about our purpose ahead, that’s the law, here is the major cause why we can’t reach our target; we have the perfectionism standard, lack of consistency and we have many goals, when we apply that kind of belief into daily life, we will lose the sense of enthusiasm because unwittingly we underestimate a small chance which may help us to reach the target, that’s the frightening thing.

In my opinion; everybody has sense of perfection in their idealism, but don’t let our idealism will preempt new opportunity which may give an answer for our problem because it will devalue the power of opportunity itself, if we behold to the positive side of the sense of perfection; we can use our sense of perfection to monitor our best performance to the specific field we want to get in, but if we behold to the negative side of the sense of perfection; the perfectionism believer will not receive a new idealism easily from the other people or the unknown reference although the information gives the true information, here is the philosophy you may need it, "the sense of perfection is like someone is running in the treadmill machine, he is doing something consistently, but unfortunately he puts his satisfaction to the unpromising scope, so he plans to fail", we will not lose any opportunity if we keep consistency how to discover it, but the problem is “not all opportunities can be approached to any person because every opportunity just welcomes any person whose a ready made product”, besides having a consistent habit, we also need sense of enthusiasm and reward to attract our sense of urgency, if we lack the sense of urgency, finally we will produce unproductive habit.

When I review about the perfectionist’s habit, he can’t recognize self-worth because he uses their major time to focus on the wrong direction, means “the perfectionist focuses how to access the perfection value”, but he is not focusing “how to keep on the consistency value”, here are the good news if you start to apply the sense of consistency into your daily activity, the first benefit; you will never get failure, except your mental age is going to be mature, invincible and stronger, the second benefit; the universe will lend its energy to help you to access the power of imagination, the third benefit; you will never touch with doubt, fear or the negative feeling.

When you can’t control what’s happening, control your respond to it

          Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share how to make good response towards the circumstance which may come from the unexpected direction, in this life, we agree that human and other creatures can’t control all circumstances, but when we don’t control our response, we will feel the worst thing for long lasting effect when we keep it that way, as human being, our emotional intelligence is very helpful resources to create boosting machine for creating new solution for us, we can delegate emotional intelligence power to make a better attitude, a better action and a better plan, remember this note; if we don't have ability to control our response, we always see negativity when new problem comes in, so we need to make strategy in advance before we will be controlled by bad circumstance, human being is a unique creature, we have been entrusted by God with five intelligence; such as spiritual intelligence, emotional intelligence, mental intelligence, intellectual intelligence and physical intelligence, those are the major resources where they can assist human how to face problem, make solution and how to recognize the universe's power, if we lack of resourcefulness, we can’t work together with them.

          I have reviewed a bit about the universe’s law, it can provide renewable resources to human's necessity without being asked by human's desire, the universe has no self-control power but the human being have that power, if we want to make carefully decision in this life, we must possess the self-control power because every minute of decision we make, it will determine our future , we can’t live by showing any recklessness in this life, sometimes we need to obey the rule if we want the universe gives the best performance for us, I just want to remind you that there is nobody can avoid the adversity or the failure during making living on earth because everyone will deserve not benefit, unless they will learn something from the consequence; here is my daily note; Almighty God doesn’t ask you to change the circumstance by creating new environment, but He insists you to change your response towards the circumstance by leaving the unproductive habit or bad habit, in addition, the universe will never serve us with good or bad thing, only our decision can give the value whether our behavior can be accepted or not by the universe.

The first step how to improve our response towards the circumstance is accepting the reality as a new lesson and monitor what we did something in every 24 hour, make sure during that time period, we invest a good legacy because  tomorrow is part of the today's legacy, every 24 hour determines our next destiny, there is no instant process will be served by the universe because there is time as interval process, so we must respect about the process, the universe will work on progress although it needs one second, during waiting the universe's working time, we need to record whether any missing result or not within 24 hour, I hope after you read this article, you won't regret about your losing time value, don't forget to love your time more than anything valuable in this life because time is the part of seasonal friend where it will never return. 

Action opens the door, consistency keeps it open

          Hi smart people, good day, today I would like to share about how to make consistent habit, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people believe that having consistent habit can help them to promote their dream to the reality life, besides that relying an action is not enough to accelerate the progress because one act will be stuck in one journey when it will meet with new problem, remember; every action will not run maximally without attaching the mental development program from the human resourcefulness, such as the consistent habit, enthusiasm, strong passion and discipline, besides that, human need to train their mindset first in several years with making the productive mistakes and embrace the self-development program before they prepare for the physical skill, that's the key, if you have similar problem like the example above mentioned, "don't try to change the circumstance first, but change your mindset first, if you can't handle your mindset problem, the more circumstance will burden your mental strength", that's the game of life.

 

          Every human doesn’t have any right to determine about the end result because there is boundary between the human's right and Almighty God's right, when there is someone who can't achieve his goal, it's not means he is failed, but his attempt still on the progress, when he is creating a momentum and progress, on the other side his dream is approaching him, at critical phase, we must be patience by exploring the valuable information to prolong our mental endurance and keep monitoring the working progress until the result comes in the right time, remember this quote; outcome doesn't happen by power of hope, but outcome is determined by relentless attempt and unwavering faith, please don't waste your time will count your waiting act, but enjoying your working progress until the result will show themselves, if you insist to manifest what you want is happening in the reality, you must do something until Almighty God grants you with the privilege to access unbelievable result, here is special note; all dreams look impossible, but when you make approach, it will change into possible thing, the great key success; "don't chase the result, but chase the possibility to succeed".

          When we can’t control what we think, we can’t control what we do, before you create the consistent habit, make sure your purpose has connected with the right track, means, you create the evolution and your masterpiece will bring a good influence to other people who may don't know about your reputation, pursue the act of consistency will open new possibility to succeed and it will reinforce our habit to make different living, when you want to manifest what you desire into reality, you must change the word "I want to manifest what i desire" to become, "I demand myself to finish what I start", when you have a good philosophy such thing, your opportunity keeps opening, and you will stay optimistic, here is for your note; act of consistency comes from someone who is taking greater responsibility rather than common people's standard, here is good news; the more you take responsibility, the more problem will come, the more you can handle the problem, the more fortune will come unexpected.