How to stop complaining

change complaining habit into compliment habit

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “How to stop complaining”, the main reason why I choose that topic because complaining habit can create new problem which can block our awareness to obtain  good opportunity, besides that, complaining about something we don’t understand will create new mental block in our subconscious mind which it can make us stayed away from the enlightenment, in this article let me share something to you about several factors why we complain, here is the first factor why we complain; we lack of the survival skill, this skill is very crucial because it will guide human how to stay enduring the life pressure, the survival skill covers reading book, practice our inborn skill, embrace new problem, learn how to create self compassion when there is no money around, remember; lack of survival skill is like finding the leftover food at the garbage, so before you lack of survival skill, you have to prepare your mentality first, in reality you must have ability to sell your ability to other people who really need your assistance before you run out of provision, if you have children, you can practice children's ability how to learn new language, learn how to have good attitude, if we lack of survival skill, we will endure high pressure from reality, have you ever calculate how much sacrifice do other people make for our future? I am sure it is not much, do you know why? because people think "every person has own responsibility", besides that, not everyone can satisfy ourselves, in order to avoid the conflict between people to another one, we need to reduce the dependency factor from other people's provision and we can start creating our own purpose, remember this note; the more we depend other people's power, the more we have a chance to complain, the less we depend other people's power, the less we have a chance to complain.

       Here is the second factor why we complain; we aren’t ready how to do more than what we normally do, the reason why we need to do more than we receive because it can create self-demanding habit, in my insight, this habit is more important than other positive habit because not everyone can plan something better for us, so we can't rely other people's help for everlasting, so we need to challenge ourselves by doing more than we normally do, now there are 3 tips how to stop complaining habit; here is the first tip how to stop complaining habit; taking more responsibility to serve what most people need and always demand yourself to do good deeds than what you normally do, the reason why I recommend such thing because life will not get easier, you must prepare your provision at any time, the life crisis will come soon or later, here is the second tip how to stop complaining habit; making strictly plan and stay curious about the new goal you want to achieve it in the future, the reason why I recommend such thing because making strictly plan keeps you focus about something you never did before, besides that, having deep curiosity will help you to forget about your past moment which can disturb your focus, here is the third tip how to stop complaining habit; hanging out with successful people who have passed the unpleasant experience, so you can learn something positively from successful people’s habit, the reason why I recommend such thing because hanging out with successful people will educate you how to appreciate every gift from Almighty God and also you can learn from how successful people survive from the crisis, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

How get things done faster

         Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back to my blogs, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “how get things done faster”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped with the busy schedule at workplace until they don't know what they  prioritize, if you ask me the main cause why people slowly execute their priority because they let themselves getting trapped in unnecessary distraction, besides that, they don't build resilient mental in daily basis, as long as people don't build resilient mental, their focus can't avoid the unnecessary distraction which may happen into them, if it is happening to them, their focus will be scattered into pieces, at this moment let me share several tips which may help your performance at workplace; here is the first tip how to get things done faster; detach yourself from your expectation no matter how beautiful of it, the main reason why I recommend you with like that because expectation will give you something which can hold you back from growing self, besides that, you will feel perplexed when you realize that you don't get anything you expect in reality, remember; the great reward will not be comparable with your expectation level, so you need to try how to detach yourself from your expectation, if you can detach yourself from your expectation, your job will get done little bit faster, here is the second tip how to get things done faster; focus on what you can control and don't let yourself getting caught with the fear of getting nothing, means, you don't let yourself getting controlled by the outer circumstance, remember this note; when you can control your own circumstance, as impact other circumstance will resolve by itself, if you have the mindset such thing, I am sure your job will get done faster because you can control yourself.

     Here is the third tip how to get things done faster; prepare something you need before you begin your work, this habit is very useful because it will help you how to take an initiative action whenever there is the urgent case came up, if you have this kind of habit, you have many possibilities to succeed at the workplace because you prepare what you need, sometimes good preparation will lead to success even though we aren't sure about it, here is the fourth tip how to get things done faster; you dissect your main goal into small pieces, this strategy will help you how to maintain the pressure which disturb you, if you can adapt with small piece of your goal, you will not get big pressure, instead, you love the process, if you can apply this strategy, you will not only get the result, but also you can get something faster in your performance, here is the fifth tip how to get things done faster; give yourself the fear about the worst-case scenario plan which may happen, this habit is very powerful because it will help you a vision how to increase your self-resilience when you are faced with something you don't want to get it in reality, this practice will take some time, remember; failure will never be able to kill you, only your expectation can kill your future, as long as you can do something with what you got, you always get something better than your expectation, the benefit of having worst case scenario is your focus will increase its power because you don't want your fearfulness will manifest quickly into reality, here is the last note; what makes you slowly do at something is you too focus on your expectation and you think what you do can't create the turning point to your career, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Why am i slowly losing interest in everything

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Why am I slowly losing interest in everything”, the main reason why I choose that topic because recently many people slowly losing interest, if you ask me why people can lose their interest because they tend to look for something enjoyable and they can't adapt with unpleasantness, this phenomenon often happens in reality when people can't stand with uncertainty and also they aren't ready with something enlightened, remember; life doesn't ask us to succeed at something we are interested with, life only asks us to prepare the mental factory which isn't developed yet, the meaning of the mental factory is we must unlock our infinite power which resides in our soul and we need to spend out some efforts to detect our interest from the outer world, as we know that there is two kind of the world; the inner world and outer world, the inner world covers imagination, commitment, characteristic, faith, mentality, curiosity, intention, habit, attitude, whereas, the outer world covers knowledge, experience, mistake, failure, rejection, pleasure, now let me tell you the basic reason what makes people lose their interest is they don't know what's the function of the interest, had people known the function of the interest, they can multiple their inborn skill in reality, what people need to trigger their interest in the problem which lies in this world.

        Enthusiasm is one of the big factor how to empower the human’s potential, the more often people use their enthusiasm, the more people will get something beyond their expectation, now the question; how long can you defend your enthusiasm? The reason why I give you question such thing because not all people can defend their enthusiasm, some people sell their enthusiasm for short term desire and short term purpose, the main cause why people lose their enthusiasm easily because people are too obsessed about the benefit where it can be obvious seen, besides that,  they can't stand with the learning process, in fact, enthusiasm is one of the most important human resource which can support people to empower their interest in reality, remember; human's interest will not be active if there is no deep curiosity, so we need to trigger our curiosity with the painful experience, such as failure, mistake and brokenhearted, failure will never touch success if there is no enthusiasm, don’t let your enthusiasm is gone, in order to find your enthusiasm, you just need to find your gift from finding as much as information you can collect, you must keep searching your gift and work to what you love, here is the key; when you put your love to the job / career you have picked, your enthusiasm will help you to pass the failure and create your own masterpiece which can promote your excellent ability, here is the additional note; you must feed your enthusiasm with the problem which is making you interested, if you want your life is full of blessings, don't let the comfort zone is holding you back from growing self, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Confidence building activities

         Hi good people, howdy? welcome back to my blog, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Confidence building activities”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes how to choose the activity which can increase their confidence, if you ask me why not everyone can feel high self-esteem because many of them choose the activity which can't offer high self-esteem, the key how to build confidence or self-esteem is people must choose activity which can build confidence, for example; reading the book, do the physical exercise, create the masterpiece, develop your personal character by doing something more than you can do, practice the communication skill, have good reputation, have credibility, integrity, have the adaptation skill to new environment, etc. those are human's virtues, Now the question is "how much virtue you can apply to yourself?" if you just have one or two things from human's virtue, you will lose your potential and you will have low self-esteem, remember; not all activities can build confidence, you have to ensure that the activity you choose can make you perspired and give you uncomfortable feeling in the learning process, if your activity only makes you comfort and too relax, meaning, you face the wrong path, "there is no mental growth if there is no learning process", that's point how to build confidence.

        Now, my question to you is "what will you do if you lose your confidence? remember; the frequency from what you do will make big difference for your future career, if you just do little thing for short period of time, it won't make big difference even though you work hard, basically there is no overnight success how to build self-esteem, there must be needing a huge sacrifice to build self-esteem, e.g. time length, repetition, discipline in time, strong commitment, relentless drive, unrelenting faith, remember; time will never forget how to calculate your action, your time will calculate everything you do, there is no excuse for you not trying something new because you will never know what's exact time your confidence level is increasing, at this moment I would like to share some several factors which can develop human's confidence, here is the first factor what makes human is confident: knowledge, it is difficult to obtain knowledge because we need special courage and commitment for longer period of time, if we have knowledge, other people will give us credit when we can solve other people, here is the second factor what makes human is confident: love what they do from the bottom of heart, I think the power of love can empower human's perception, as long as people love what they do, their confidence is increasing exponentially and it will never immobilize human's action, here is the third factor what makes human is confident: discipline in what they do, the main reason why discipline can give an huge effect because discipline can offer the exponential power to human being, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Art of problem solving

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “Art of problem solving”, the reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to use art of problem solving, if you ask me why people behave like that because people’s mentality are weaker when the problem comes to them, they prefer to stay in comfort zone rather than challenge themselves to do something new, as human being, we shouldn't consider every problem like the enemy, the real problem lies in our attitude, not the problem itself, problem is neutral, problem can poison you if you try to avoid it and problem can heal your suffering when you are serious to study it, the main cause why problem can make people upset because people use single perspective area and reject to another view from a multifaceted perspective, that’s real problem, remember this; problem is designed not to curse every single person’s life story, but problem is designed to fix human’s mindset, however, problem doesn’t need to be solved by human, problem will end by itself when we have enhance our mindset from wrong mindset, here is the truth; every problem has own weight, problem will not come exceeding than every single person’s capacity, so when problem comes around, we shouldn’t make judgment bad easily because the problem we faced is accumulated based on what we are capable of, problem knows what we need and the same problem will not attack us when we have passed the same level of problem before, the purpose of problem is increasing our survival skill, if we reject the problem’s existence, means, we insult what God’s plan for us, the problem is inability to increase our lacking capacity.

       Problem will not come unless you are being prepared by God to be ready how to face new situation, that’s reason why making good preparation in long period of time is very important because making good preparation can increase your mental strength, remember; the problem's value can't be exchanged with the money's value you have, if you measure your ability based on the amount of money you will receive, problem will not fix your mindset, please learn how to get temperance when you receive the amount of money, money doesn't care whether you are capable or not, money would be pleased when you stop learning and stay in complacency zone for long period of time, so please don’t fit your ability with the amount of money, if you do it, your mentality isn’t growing, remember this note; if you want to change your life, don’t consider making good preparation is part of waste of time, but making good preparation is part of daily life necessity, if you reject your preparation, you would no longer surviving on earth, you must have the passion of learning because it is the basic ability how to prolong the survival skill and how to reduce the pain of regret.

       If we feel problem will hurt us, so problem will hurt us, if we feel challenged by the problem, whatever problem will become our spiritual teacher, the more we learn something we are passionately, the more we can use a multifaceted perspective to welcome the problem, please don’t let the negative thing overtaking our potential of skill-set, sometimes problem will make us feeling down, but it’s good because life wants us to be eye witness to see about the new reality, if the problem can’t make us feeling down, means our mental strength is getting ahead of the problem’s capacity, remember this; if you don’t get problem, you will never know how much progress you have made so far in your life story, every problem is investment, not all problems can be avoided, maybe you can avoid the big problem but you will never win to avoid small problem which it lies in your soul, in my opinion; when you use your multifaceted perspective towards problem, so the problem will turn into opportunity by itself, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.