How to know the wonderful stage in your life?

            In this section I would like to share about how to know wonderful stage in your life, no matter how hard your life you have, there’s no excuse to blame yourself or blame the others, life is created by God in order to grace your home, that’s home is not making you comfortable but it’s giving you a survive, so basically the wonderful stage is kind of resourcefulness which will implant into your mindset in order to make you feel more valuable in your life.

           Wonderful stage is like a building architect, it will give you an idea to setting your plan into the reality, so we will definitely learn from the reality and let it will give you a value, when you don’t do progress in your life, you have got zero number but when you make a hope, you have got 1 number in your particular activity.

           Making wonderful stage is not easy because wonderful stage is coming from the uncomfortable zone, we need to re-learn what possibility we can take from that area, don’t ever think uncomfortable area is like dangerous place where it makes us feeling down, the uncomfortable area is like the highest happiness level where we didn’t get it through before.

           We must remember one thing that the midst will make you invisible, but the midst will give you concentrate to pinpoint the area you make your movement, in addition when you realize the more midst make you feel a haze, the less vision you make it, otherwise the less vision you see the area, the more concentrate you earn.

           No need to regret when you can’t recognize your own life because the wonderful stage can’t be reached in one time, but it needs your rest of your life, the simple way to recognize your wonderful stage is digging your mistake, developing basic necessity such as mentality and emotional intelligent, making yourself into an experimental object, making better question to yourself. Do it now as if you are looking for leverage. furthermore, when you succeed to leverage your stage, you are making a light in the midst of darkness.

What difference between calm and silent

In this topic I would like to share what different between calm and silent in the daily situation, i know that being calm person to face a problem is not easy because our emotion feeling will refuse how to be calmer, and also the content of problem will become bigger and make our mindset to be frozen, keeping calm is part of tactic how to create vision in problem solving.

When someone tries to put the power of focus to problem, his mind will make a question “how can I do to solve the problem” in that moment you will get a new learning from this life, and you also will find other resources to help you to minimize the risk from the problem’s impact. I will give you a special note to remember in everyday situation that “the nature energy will be activated automatically when you get started to concentrate to what you’re doing”

Basically the nature energy in this life is giving you something different when you keep being calm person, at the first you maybe not sure how can calm person will do something works, that’s is particular way how you make yourself to become faithful person once what you have done a target, faith is part of everything in this universe rather than reason because a faith is kind of ability which let you to see the invisible thing and also it makes you believe in the probability which is coming ahead from unknowingly circumstance. Now we talk about the person who keeps a silent, how much the big impact will cost you when you are keeping silent, when the problem comes to person who usually keeps silent, his nature energy will stop flowing because of his decision he made in the past, keeping silent can create your potential becomes null.

I would like to suggest you that you have to create the positive attitude in yourself, keeping calm describes that you are at peace stage, don’t change it while you have more time because the more you earn the positive mind and the positive soul, the more incredible opportunity will come after you.

How to utilize the power of habit in circumstance

In this topic I would like to elucidate the power of habits, the habit is part of the automatic program which let someone will do everything without thinking again, the habit is be formed into two kind, the first is personal’s habit and the second is the regulation which is agreed by group of people in society, for the individual person’s habits means that he creates his own habit without any interference from other side, and he will stay into the circle of habit he made, for the regulation’s habit means it will arrange the people’s activity and also it impels people to follow.

There‘s similar purpose between personal’s habit and the regulation’s habit namely controlling the object, when someone creates the habit, the natural energy will flow where his concentration comes out, the habits is like a robotic machine which is programmed by us, once we set it up, it will automatically run unstoppable, so in this section you must be careful because the habit is the supreme power, the habit will work for someone’s rule or someone will be ruled by habit.

In public circumstance, there are many regulations which force us to follow unless we don’t like it, the first thing you should do to utilize the power of habit is you have to recognize what is your passion then you must know what kind of potential energy is working in your daily’s activity program, don’t let your program will make you feeling retarded in the comfort zone, if it’s happening in your life, you will become a custody from your own. If you want to utilize the power of habit, you must upgrade your passion into visionary.

The habit also can help you to navigate where your purpose goes, once you succeed to destroy the power of habit, you will open the unlimited wealth within your soul, you must remember when you win upon the power of habit, there is the consequent and bring the big impact to you namely feeling extremely complicated.

Why I am not allowed to imagine the expectation?

In this topic I would like to reveal about expectation, there are several opinions from people to people how to describe the meaning of expectation in the reality, maybe there are many people in out there don’t believe to see the real thing in their mind, instead they just started to unleash the power of focus to the expectation, this is contradicted image will influence people to immobilize their real action.

Sometimes too much expectation will deceive people’s mind and it will keep people away from the goal, when the power of expectation succeeds to stay inside the people’s mind, it will change the human’s dream becomes a fantasy, be careful with such menace because it will frighten your life, on the other hand, the power of expectation can be changed into the progression plan when people have completed his progression plan and implement it to the real thing.

Be careful when you want to use your power of focus because when someone misplaces the power focus into target, it can mess everything although it’s valuable, use your power of to create a vision, improve attitude, improve habit and find a solution, that’s reasonable reason to stop where the expectation’s coming.

Being imaginative person is more likely a child is trying to stroke something to the painting paper, it would better to imagine about the strategy rather imagining the expectation because imagining is part of progression otherwise imagining the expectation will stop your idealism.

Reality vs expectation is trying to pull each other

Idealism will make you an idealist, an idealist gets the particular idea from what he imagines from the past and he wants to pull it back to the plan, and a plan is being created to give a command to the body, so body’s movement will follow what you imagine about.  Hopefully you start to change your intention and your habit, because two options will give you a hint to the unlimited source.

Suicide prevention

Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "suicide prevention", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people try commit suicide and some people try to think the most painless way to commit suicide, if you ask me why so many people think to suicide because they don't love about themselves, in order to let you know about the root of cause why people want to commit, you can review from people's wrong habit, the social circle and bad's tradition first, those are the sources of potential which may lead people to commit suicide, if you can fix one of three causes, you will get new enlightenment, as we know the famous singer or songwriter Kurt Cobain (Nirvana band), he died in April 5, 1994, Chester Bennington (Link in Park band's singer) died in July 20, 2017. from both case, here is my research; people who don’t know about what life wants, people will not get the good treatment from life, people who boosted their ego, they will be treated by life like a prisoner who enjoy about their own life without recognizing about the future's hope, here is the first factor what life wants; life demands people not to prioritize their wants, instead, life tests people's capacity with many unexpected moment, in order to balance between what life wants and what we want, we must create a mission in order to create peace and to avoid chaos which may impact to other people's lives, this strategy may take several years to reveal because you will need the great power to change the situation which may impact to human's habit, you will never know what life wants until you will suffer with many adversities, here is my suggestion; if you really want about what life wants, you must offer what you can do with your unique skill.

Some people consider the root of cause why people suicide is lacking of money, but it is not quite right, money is just the exchanging tool between the object and people's capability to pay, people who commit suicide because they are supported by poor mindset and poor habit, in order to avoid poor mindset and poor habit, you must understand about what life wants through listening your pain and other people's pain, if what you do right now makes your subconscious mind to feel the pain even though you consciously don't want to do, it indicates you want to dig your own potential consistently, it is not easy to apply this strategy because you will accept many adversities, new mistake, failure and many unpleasant experience in the future, but if what you do right now makes your subconscious mind to feel pleasure consistently, it indicates you create something where it is really being hated by life, now I would advise you not to spend your major time to do something for your egoism or pleasure, do you know why? you will be treated by life like a prisoner if you commit to do it, a prisoner's mindset is saying "I maybe can do something with what I want, but I actually can't go outside because I create the jail of egoism and pleasure", now every future depends on your decision, here is my special note; life will give you a noble purpose if you don't think about what you want and you don't spoil your lust, life will give you what you deserve if you focus how to provide a better life for other people's lives and you don't too focus about your obsession, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Social anxiety disorder

unconditional headache has potential to make someone dead

          Today I would like to share how to recognize about social anxiety disorder, the reason why I say like this because there are many people are getting involved with social anxiety disorder, this problem is not caused by external environment but the problem is coming from people’s mentality, remember; those people who suffer about social anxiety disorder in their mentality, they tend to avoid the crowded place and they will stay away from new comers, so every time they meet with new circumstance, they consider as big risk and they are afraid, now I will let you know about the main reason why social anxiety disorder attack people’s mentality because they had been becoming a victim long time ago by unfairly treatment from rude people and yet they hadn’t found the right people in their circle zone, so the victim would feel lonely, unwelcome, depression, unmotivated, unworthy and feel insecure, now the question is “what will you do if victim is part of your family?” I am sure you will feel sad and unpleasant about it and you may start to call psychologist to heal someone’s mentality disorder.

great sadness will create dissolution of concentration

Please remember; we don’t have control to heal someone who has a social anxiety disorder in his mentality, the victim only needs to be familiarized with nature and the right people to take care of his mentality's growth and the victim needs to be socialized with psychotherapy program, during healing process, we don’t let the external issue will create the victim’s consciousness being interrupted, the first thing what we should do how to heal the victim is “don’t buy drug, but we give victim with full attention, by that it means; we will treat victim with discipline mindset program, that’s the method how to reduce the mentality’s social anxiety disorder, here I would share about the external factor which is making someone got the social anxiety disorder in his mentality, namely the victim often meets with the rude people during his living journey.

mental social anxiety disorder

The second thing what will we do when we meet with someone who got the mentality social anxiety disorder is giving him an empathy, means we will take care about victim’s daily routine activity, so every single day we need to give our best gift to victim such as teach him how to select friend and teach him how to create the resource of happiness, the third thing we must do if we want to help people who got the mentality’s social anxiety disorder is keeping the victim away from the music tone, the reason why I suggest such thing because music has potential to create the subliminal message and it’s affecting victim subconscious mind.

mental disorder will create irrational thinking

 if the music tone has sad content, it will influence the victim's subconscious mind to get sadness and music tone will overburden victim's mental disorder, music has no potential to neutralize human's mentality disorder, furthermore music tone will block the relaxing motion between the subconscious mind nerves with conscious mind nerves, good therapy method we can offer to the victim is inviting him to go to the flower garden for gardening purpose or inviting him to go to his most favorite place in nature reserve to make unforgotten moment with nature, hopefully this article will help you how to heal victim’s social anxiety disorder in his mentality.

Symptom of depression

A man is losing his purpose of life

          Today I would like to share how to recognize the symptom of depression, the reason why I choose that topic because most people have ever got depression during following the tight schedule, symptom of depression can influence the human's habit and depression has potentially create the unhealthy habit, now I will let you know how to reduce symptom of depression, the first thing we must prepare when we have symptom of depression; stimulate a new habit, this method is used for getting out from unnecessary habit, it sounds easy but it’s very difficult to learn, so unlearn bad habit is the beginning process how to attract new mindset, “if we are willingly to start something better, so we need to end the dangerous process”, it's law, so from today we need to do something different in order to cut the chain of unnecessary habit.

overthinking is part of depression

         depression is caused by the crushed past memory, it was happened when we felt threatened with dishonor treatment, so i would recommend you with several healing process, now the first healing we need to give to the victim is keeping him stayed away from the pollutant zone, please note; symptom of depression is coming because our subconscious mind invites it to come continuity, before we get symptom, we need to break the relationship between the troublemaker and his circle area from the victim, that's critical point, the next question; what if the victim don't want to leave the troublemaker? my opinion is we can offer to victim by being his good listener, so we can share our good experience to him and let victim ponders about his mistake, don’t let him make a connection with past moment again because it can create new pain into his subconscious mind, we can teach him how to create new habit, the only way how to stop bad habit is create productive habit.

           Please avoid to use the difficult word if we want to cure people who get depression because every difficult word will weaken the victim's brain sensory nerves, there is another effective method how to reduce the symptom of depression; offering him with the parenting program, do something like the parents always do to the children, the treatment which is needed by depressed person is making him being protected, the more you care to someone, the less number of depression will get impact to the victim's memory.

When time ruins the man's single day, it's part of depression program

          Here is last assignment you need to do when you will get depressed, you need to get out from the insecure zone and try to get relaxation as much as you can, you can start to sleep, you can do something related with your hobby, treat someone else with your good hospitality, the most important thing how to forget the depression's impact is making ourselves being forgotten, namely by widening our philosophy, discard the stuff which connected with our bad memory, many other thing, hopefully this article will help you how to maintain your healthy mind and help you to keep your spirit growing.

Relaxation techniques

relaxation near nature is must

          Today I would like to share how to deal with relaxation techniques, the reason why I choose that topic because relaxation is very needed to cure the side impact from depression, relaxation can be done when we use the human’s emotional intelligence correctly, the principle of emotional intelligence is receiving information from provider first, then we give reaction as comprehensive understanding process, after that we select which best emotion we should prepare to match with information, all one cycle process needs healthy mind, our body is like a machine and it needs relaxation, every human mind and body need relaxation, there are three ways how to get relaxation technique, the first technique how to make relaxation is making incantation about "positive words or grateful words" everyday, the second technique is doing a deep meditation, it's has potential to reduce 25 % disappointed feeling, the third technique is looking for enlightenment from the trusted reference.

relaxation near beach is good option to discard negative mindset

          Relaxation techniques basically can’t be created when we don’t have enough resourcefulness, if we see in the reality life, all people want to feel secure but they do in contrary namely they still compare between the future's time and the past's time, in my opinion; that action will give opportunity to destroy someone's future because they complaint about the time, the most important how to help depression people is awakening their feeling of enthusiasm, the relaxation will follow us when we can control where our emotional intelligence is going, the result of emotional intelligence are discipline, commitment and consistent. 

relaxation technique can draw the unlimited potential energy through nature

Please note; relaxation technique will not be awakened when we don’t practice with our resourcefulness, if you want to find your resourcefulness, dig your potential with knowledge by using your curiosity, use your curiosity to create idea how to make the relaxation technique, do it every day as if you were hungry with relaxation, here is the good news, future time is having a price, when you want to pull your big dream from future, you pull your relaxation technique by using your resourcefulness that's the tool which we can use for drawing unlimited opportunity, relaxation technique is like a magnetic program, it can pull something greater rather than you can imagine it, relaxation technique will give you the additional strength to prolong your peaceful life, when you think chasing dream is really absurd, try to learn how to get the relaxation technique, if you really think you can survive with relaxation technique, no one will stop you to pursue your dream.

How to relieve stress

          Today I would like to share how to relieve stress, the reason why I choose the topic because we ourselves almost meet with stress every single day, especially when we are working at company or running business, now I will explain how to relieve stress, the first thing I would give you point of view about stress, it has power to help human how to make sure the process of target is working maximally, stress is not part severity disease, stress is part of the developing habit which is produced from human's idea, stress can make a new connection between problem and solution, that’s logical law, stress is just the bridge which can sustain something big on it, it will never become obsolete and it will get stronger, so if you don’t want to accept about logical law as I mentioned earlier, you will not get revelation from what I explain, here is the important note; stress will offer us some benefits and also it will offer loss, stress will start to offer us huge benefits when we have a dream to be pursued and stress will start to offer us a huge loss when we are having stumbling block within our mindset and we are giving up a hope.

stress people can't make clear purpose because they have stumbling block

          That’s option we need to choose, when you feel you are doing something correctly, don’t try to doubt about what you do recently because you will lose the enthusiasm, here is additional note; you will not get anything good when you can’t trust about yourself, you will not get loss the result as long as you are committed by what you are doing correctly, every day we must do soul searching in order to discard the inessential thing in our life, don’t let stress come suddenly without being detected by our conscious mind, here is the rule; stress will not come easily except we train our mind to pull about something unnecessary into our mind, furthermore stress will become bigger when we just keep your emotions down without creating new activity such as walking, running, jumping, exercise regularly, reading favorite book,etc. that is the simple technique how to relieve stress.

stress people only focus on problem, optimist people focus on solution

Stress is like the virus, it can propagate the number by itself when there is host which is connected between opportunity and someone’s willingness, we will get stressed easily when we always get along with the pollutant zone, stress can be reducing automatically when we succeed to activate our passionate and we can focus on the right direction, such as "what's priority we can learn?" this question will pull tremendous energy, finally we can reduce the hardest thing to become simpler problem, don’t worry about the side effect about stress, as long as we keep thinking positively, stress has limited time to grow up and stress will be declined when time is over.

How to make stress management

          Today I would like to share how to make stress management, the reason why I choose the topic because stress management will give you most powerful idea how to manage stress, we can’t live peacefully without control, like the wise word says “power is nothing without any control and passion is meaningless without any creation” so basically stress is part of incredible power, it will empower your idea to do something great and it's rational, power  of stress will empower your principle while you are going to build relationship with business, if you look at the company around the world, most of them have own rule how to control the human resources,  but they don't have stress management within their department, please note; every company must have good philosophy if they want to see happiness employee, so company must have stress management, without applying stress management, I can ascertain the employee’s mentality can’t grow when they just being offered with money, happiness can't be bought by worldly stuff and this circumstance will create unhappiness state, so every day employees will feel uncomfortable because they are pushing their limitation, not focus on how to work with a growth mindset.

human is being chased by the time because human feel stress

When company is offering a bonus or paying two times salary to every employee, this method will not cure the employee’s distress because money is just suppressing employee’s distress for temporary, please remember; money can’t cure the unstable emotional intelligence, money will not give long lasting guarantee for our lives, money is just entertaining us for short term period, on the other hand, money will create brutal mentality if you are not careful with it, that’s money’s main purpose, many companies in the world don’t have any experience how to empower the employee’s working way, they just focus how to make benefit but they don't consider about employee's mentality health, that's why many employee can't differentiate between happiness and force, some companies use money as mental destroyer machine, by that it means, employee will be forced to believe something true although we don’t know the meaning of it.

distress characteristic

There are many ways how to create stress management, in my opinion; if you want to help your company how to create stress management, the first thing you should prepare is “the announcement board where it tells about reward and punishment’s notification for all concerned employees”, the second thing you should prepare is asking the management to reduce overtime working hour and change the activity with relaxation program, such as take sport, meditation program, yoga, clinical psychology, etc. that’s my opinion how to make employee feel comfortable during working at the company, you can start to apply the stress management program if you want to feel big difference between money's mindset and healthy mindset, here is the good news; the more you focus how to reduce stress, the less number of employee will resign from your company.

Halloween in psychological

          Today I would like to share how to learn about the Halloween, the reason why I choose that topic because I have heard many people spend a lot of money in order they celebrate the Halloween event annually, but now i will give you different perspective about it, I will let you know that side effect of Halloween event, if you review for moment about the horror movie, almost horror movie is adopting the story from ghost, and ghost is not part of human's lives, ghost is always bringing a fake promise or treat if you learn deeply about it.

           Here i will share the different perspective about Halloween's event, Halloween is not telling about the human’s peacefully live, but it tells about the other creature such as ghost, black magic, etc. we must agree based on logical thinking that there is no benefit if we rely on black magic or related with ghost, when human is passed away, they can't be resurrected in this world, no matter how strong we insist a ghost or a dead body to return in this world, it’s not going to happen, it’s useless, we can’t live side by side with the dead body, ghost, black magic, or something like that, in fact a ghost’s existence will create bad influence to humans live, it can create the negative mind and its solely intended to attack humans serenity, furthermore ghost has no entitled to fulfill human’s lives, please remember; ghost has no meaningful idea how to help human to make prosperous lives, ghost uses human's desire to break the natural law and ghost will give human about misleading purpose in life.

Ghost only gives human with fake promise

Please note; ghost is not considered as other significant life, every ghost has own responsibility to worship the rule which being asked by Almighty GOD, ghost’ is just waiting the eternal punishment from almighty GOD after the judgment day will come on earth, so there’s respective responsibility between human being with ghost, please remember; ghost doesn’t need something from human’s necessity because ghost knows human can’t create something better like what ghost always creates, I will remind you why humans need to stay away from ghost because ghost had brought a destruction long time ago on earth before human being has been created for the first time.

 So I would like to remind you again; Halloween is not considered as the human’s activity, but ghost’s annual party, they have own rule how to celebrate the party, here is the important note; human’s instinct doesn’t exact precisely like ghost’s instinct. Ghost and human can live side by side on earth, i recommend we don't make relationship with ghost like what we did relationship with other people, ghost doesn’t have good intention, it will betray us when we start being greedy, that’s all what I share to you, and I hope this article will help you how to live peacefully.

Daredevil characteristic

Daredevil figure

          Today I would like to share how to learn about daredevil’s characteristic, the reason why I choose that topic because daredevil character will give us lesson how to survive in this world without harming other people or other creature, some people think daredevil characteristic is crazy or very dangerous attitude, if we think differently about daredevil characteristic, we can empower this character to pull the unlimited potential from the universe, daredevil characteristic is not always making us to do something unnecessary, but it will offer different thing although there are many people will hate it, please remember; doing the dangerous thing is different with doing unnecessary, daredevil character will give you another idea how to create better future with different action, if we know how to employ the daredevil’s power, we can use it for improving self-reliance and we will become trouble shooting maker.

daredevil has no fear and has no scarcity

some people consider daredevil is having a lot of negativity, but now I will give you a concrete sample how to employ the negativity for the right purpose, please imagine about your feeling of afraid, if you are just being afraid of something without knowing why you are afraid about it, you will lose the desire value of yourself, that is negativity's side effect, but if you use your fear to motivate yourself, you can do anything when other people won't do, your fear will push you to study well because you are afraid how to become a poor, that's positive's side effect how to employ negativity, if we review little about the daredevil characteristic, this characteristic looks great and fearless, this character will help you how to shape a growth mindset, when there's someone who has daredevil characteristic, by that it means, he knows how to handle with risk management and he knows how to eliminate the side effect of dangerous.

Here is the benefit about daredevil characteristic; it has strong influence and it will offer you with the different strategy and tactic rather than  common characteristic which have ever been used by ordinary people, if you have daredevil characteristic, please use it for mankind's welfare, not for our private regard, this characteristic will lend you power how to face the failure, how to make troubleshooting idea, and how to empower your physical, but you must be careful about this characteristic because this characteristic will lend you power how to monopolize the society's law, every day you will get affected with strong emotion until you forget how to rest your healthy. 

Patriots in psychological

Patriot's figure

          Today I would like to share how to become patriot in the simplest way, if we look at the Patriot’s meaning, it is explaining how to become hero who can defend the country’s territory and he can defeat the enemy, but now I will elucidate the purpose of patriot from the different point of view, the first thing with question, what will we do if someone wants us become patriot? then he will give a duty to us and say "stopping against the racism", the reason why someone suggests something like that because that's the major priority of patriot, as social creature, we must not defend your idea by judging other people’s ideas is mediocre, as patriot, we must consider other people’s idea is really amusing, so live peacefully on earth is the major priority from patriot’s mindset, here is patriot's mindset "treat other people well like what we receive good treatment from good people".

Patriot's standing style

          Patriot is not waiting someone else who deserves better life, in fact patriots create something benefit for other people who may need patriot’s service, the second thing, what will we do if someone wants us to become patriot? We must consider vision is important, patriot thinks vision is better than strategy because strategy can’t create vision otherwise vision create multiple strategy if we want to, there’s no excuse for not trying, that’s patriot’s idea and principle into this life, patriot is not thinking or obsessing to make benefit for himself only but patriot is always thinking how to be remembered by other people and how to leave a render of service for other people, so patriot’s mindset is like what hero does although he himself doesn't know whether the product he gives will be liked or will be hated by other people, patriot’s mindset is not thinking about the benefit at first time but he thinks how to make good relationship with others.

          The third thing, what will we do if someone wants us to become patriot? patriot does soul searching in every single day, the reason why I suggest such thing because the best product of patriot's hand is do something valuable, patriot considers doing valuable thing can’t be finished at one time, but patriot always increases the number of the valuable product of service, here is the additional note for you; the more you create the valuable thing, the more number of gift will be given to you in the unexpected ways, so be proud about yourself when  you have good service and you can keep improving about self-reliance, keep exploring about the moment because we can’t always create the momentum , besides that our time is very limited, when we can’t become patriot anymore, at least we can leave a good service to our parents, our siblings, some relatives, other people around the world.