What makes people so obsessed towards their dream?

  Today I want to share an interesting topic about dreams and ambitions,The main reason why I chose this topic is because ambition is considered to be the true strength of human beings. whereas ambition for the end result requires resilience to discomfort and injustice. for some people who have dreams and a sense of ambition,  Ambition is like a soul that encompasses human life, Ambition towards one's dreams can be caused by various factors, both from within (internal) and from the surrounding environment (external).

 Here are some of the main causes:

Internal Factors

* Deep Passion and Interest: When someone has a strong and deep interest in a field or activity, they tend to have great ambition to achieve excellence in it. This dream becomes a strong intrinsic driver.

* Drive for Success and Self-Actualization: The desire to achieve success, reach the best potential in life, and prove one's abilities are very strong motivators. This is often related to the need for self-actualization, which is the drive to become a fully developed person.

* Perfectionist Traits: Perfectionists have high standards for themselves. They will try hard and are ambitious to ensure everything is done perfectly and achieve the best results.

* Self-Belief: Belief in one's own ability to achieve the goals that have been set is an important foundation for ambition. People who are confident will be more willing to take risks and face challenges.

 * Past Experiences (E.g. Being Underestimated): Often, big ambitions come from experiences of being belittled, belittled, or considered incapable. The desire to prove others (and yourself) wrong can be a powerful motivator to achieve success. 

* Need for Recognition and Appreciation: Some people are driven by the desire to gain recognition, respect, and praise from others for their accomplishments. 

External Factors 

* Inspiration from Others: Seeing others who have achieved their dreams or have inspiring achievements can trigger ambition in someone. Other people's success stories can be proof that the dream is possible. 

* Challenges and Obstacles: The presence of challenges or obstacles in life can actually encourage someone to be more ambitious. They see difficulties as opportunities to learn, grow, and prove their toughness. 

* Environment and Socialization: A competitive environment or association with people who are also ambitious can transmit enthusiasm and motivation. A person tends to be driven to achieve more when they are around goal-oriented individuals. 

 * Future Concerns: Uncertainty about the future, such as the need for financial security in old age, can drive someone to be very ambitious and work hard in their youth. 

* Family Factors: The drive to please parents, partners, or loved ones is also often a big motivation behind someone's ambition. 

At its core, ambition for a dream is a complex combination of strong internal motivations (such as passion, desire to succeed, and self-belief) and external stimuli (such as inspiration, challenges, and environmental support). This ambition serves as the fuel that drives someone to take real, consistent, and persistent action in pursuing what they want.

What makes humans enthusiasm is gone

  Today I want to share a topic, namely why can enthusiasm disappear?   The main reason is because many people have short-term intentions  and do not have varied life goals, Enthusiasm can be lost due to various factors, both from within and from the surrounding environment. Here are some common causes:

🔋 1. Physical and Mental Fatigue

Lack of sleep, prolonged stress, or too much burden can drain emotional energy.

The result: you feel empty, lazy, and unmotivated.

🎯 2. No Clear Goal

When you don't know why you're doing something, your enthusiasm will fade.

Example: working just to survive, not to thrive.

⏳ 3. Boring Routine

Doing the same thing every day without variation can kill passion.

The brain needs challenges and new things to stay on.

💭 4. Perfectionism or Too High Expectations

When reality doesn't match expectations, you can feel disappointed and lose motivation.

Enthusiasm fades because you feel "you can't be that good."

 😞 5. Feelings of Failure or Rejection

Failing once can be devastating, especially if there is no support.

Examples: being rejected, criticized, or your efforts not being appreciated.

🧠 6. Psychological Disorders

Mild depression, anxiety, or burnout can dampen enthusiasm.

If you feel empty and not enjoying anything, this is something to take seriously.

🌍 7. Unsupportive Environment

People around you who are pessimistic, toxic, or like to belittle can also dampen enthusiasm.

🔁 8. Lack of Visible Results

Efforts that feel futile for a long time can make you ask: "What's all this for?"

Enthusiasm needs feedback: small progress, appreciation, or success.

To generate and sustain enthusiasm, you need to refuel your “emotional fuel” from multiple sources — physically, mentally, and spiritually. Here are some proven ways to do it:

💡 1. Find or Clarify Your “Big Why”

Enthusiasm grows when you know why you’re getting up in the morning.

Ask: 

“Why do I want to do this?”

“What does this mean to me or to others?”

🎯 2. Set Small, Clear Goals

Don’t wait for the big goal to be completed. Break it down into small steps that you can celebrate.

Example:

Instead of “I want to be an author,” set: 

“Write 300 words a day.”

🔁 3. Variation and New Challenges

The same thing over and over again bores the brain.

Try: 

Learn a new way.

Change your workplace.

Try a different approach.

 🧠 4. Clear Your Mind of Negative Distortions

Thoughts like "I can't do it," "It's too late," or "I'm sure I'll fail" sap your enthusiasm.

Train yourself to replace those thoughts with: 

"I can't do it yet, but I'm learning."

💬 5. Surround Yourself with Enthusiastic People

Enthusiasm is contagious.

Meet people who are moving, thinking positively, and have a purpose in life.

🔋 6. Pay Attention to Physical Energy

Enthusiasm is hard to come by if your body is tired.

Fix: 

Sleep patterns

Food intake (avoid excess sugar)

Light exercise (a morning walk is enough)

📚 7. Consume Inspiring Content

Read books, watch videos, or listen to podcasts from people you admire.

You can spark new enthusiasm just by hearing other people's stories of struggle.

 🙏 8. Spiritual Connection

Many people find enthusiasm through prayer, dhikr, gratitude journaling, or meditation.

When your heart is full, your soul is light, and your spirit is more stable.

If you want, I can help you with:

Worksheet PDF: "Reigniting Enthusiasm" (contains reflective questions and daily concrete steps).

Or a special 7-day daily journal to build enthusiasm.

How to remove bad luck from life

  Today I would like to share about the interesting topic, namely "how to remove bad luck", the reason why I choose that topic because many people get afraid with bad luck, in fact, bad luck is the part of bad perception which has nothing to do with reality, "Bad luck" for the mediocre mind can feel real — like life is against you — but in many cases, it's more about patterns, mindset, and choices than some invisible force. Here's how to break free from the cycle of "bad luck":

🌱 1. Shift from "Luck" to "Pattern Recognition"

Ask yourself:

✅Are there repeating situations?

✅Am I ignoring red flags?

✅Am I making reactive or impulsive decisions?

💡 What feels like bad luck is often bad habits going unnoticed.

🧠 2. Change Your Mindset: From Victim to Creator

Instead of saying:

> “Why does this always happen to me?” Try: “What can I learn from this, and what can I do differently next time?”

✅ This helps you take back control and focus on what you can influence.

📋 3. Audit Your Choices and Environment

Sometimes bad luck is just being in the wrong place with the wrong people or habits. Reflect on:

✅Who you spend time with

✅How you spend your time

✅What habits you reinforce daily (e.g., procrastination, poor planning)

> 🔍 Luck improves when you improve your environment.

🕊️ 4. Let Go of Guilt and Superstition

Carrying guilt, fear, or blaming "karma" too much can keep you stuck.

Instead:

✅Forgive yourself for past mistakes

✅Let go of things outside your control

✅Focus on forward movement

📖 5. Practice Gratitude — Even When It Feels Forced

✅Write down 3 good things daily — no matter how small.

✅It trains your brain to look for the positive

✅Reduces the victim mentality

✅Builds emotional resilience

🔄 6. Do One Small Bold Action a Day

"Bad luck" often creates fear of taking action. Fight back by:

✅Trying something new

✅Asking for help

✅Taking even a small risk toward a dream or goal

🎯 Action shifts energy.

🧘 7. Cleanse Your Space and Energy

Symbolic rituals can help reset your mind:

✅Declutter your room or work space

✅Light a candle or incense with intention

✅Take a salt bath or spend time in nature

> These don’t “remove bad luck” magically, but they shift your energy, which affects your results.

🙏 8. Pray or Meditate for Inner Guidance

If you're spiritual or religious:

✅Ask God or the Universe for wisdom, not just rescue

✅Focus on strengthening faith, not just asking for fortune