Can i sue my neighbor for emotional distress

 

        Hi good reader, howdy? Today I would like to share about the topic "can i sue my neighbor for emotional distress", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can stand against type of neighbor who can't show respect and tolerance, We need to realize that not all neighbors have good social sensitivity, Apart from that, not all neighbors can contribute well to what we need, sometimes there are types of people who don't want to meet their neighbors for reasons of not being familiar, if we feel emotionally exhausted just because we feel our neighbors are showing us less than good ethics, what we can do is do something that does not endanger other people's lives, Keep in mind that not everything we think about our neighbors is always bad, it could be that our thoughts are the main trigger that makes us hate our neighbors, Before we decide to hate our neighbors, we need to ask ourselves "are my thoughts as cold as the situation I feel right now?"

      Even though our neighbors sometimes show rudeness, this does not oblige us to hate them, Sometimes we need a little gap to detect whether our minds are mature enough to judge our neighbor's behavior, Don't let our minds deceive our own behavior until we do something that endangers the lives of others, our life is very short, don't let that feeling of regret arise because we hate our neighbors, Even though we feel irritated by our neighbors' behavior, don't let us show our dislike to our neighbors. That is the importance of moral knowledge in everyday life, All we can do is survive and defend ourselves from physical harm caused by other people, If we experience physical violence because of a neighbor's behavior, we can report it to the local community leader or we can report it to the police with authentic evidence, remember that we should not attack physically if we do not accept bad physical treatment first, that's the unwritten law that we need to respect, everything that makes us sick with our emotional turmoil is not always from the environment, although sometimes 10% - 30% is from environmental factors, Our task as human who live side by side with neighbors is to cool our mood first and show our good manner to them before our wild thoughts try to manipulate our action towards neighbor's behavior, Maybe it seems easy, but it requires a process of maturity , not everything we think is right is right and not everything we think is wrong is wrong, I hope this article can inspire your life, good luck

Acute stress disorder

 

Acute Stress Disorder (ASD) is a mental health condition that can occur in the first month after a traumatic event. It involves stress responses, including anxiety, intense fear or helplessness, experiencing flashbacks or nightmares, etc. The symptoms of ASD are like PTSD symptoms, but you must have them for longer than one month to have PTSD.

The condition can be treated with psychotherapy (talk therapy) and may lead to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) if left untreated, if you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of ASD, it is important to seek professional help. You can contact a mental health professional or a crisis helpline for support.

Acute Stress Disorder (ASD) and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) are two mental health conditions that can develop after a traumatic event. While the symptoms of ASD and PTSD are similar, there are some differences between the two.

ASD is diagnosed when symptoms occur within 3-30 days of a traumatic event and last for less than a month. PTSD is diagnosed when symptoms persist for more than a month after the traumatic event, ASD symptoms include anxiety, intense fear or helplessness, experiencing flashbacks or nightmares, feeling numb or detached from one’s body, physical aggression, persistent sadness, inability to concentrate, headaches, stomach pain, and difficulty breathing.

                       

PTSD symptoms are similar to ASD symptoms, but they are more severe and last longer. They include re-experiencing the traumatic event, avoidance, changes in thoughts and mood, and reactivity and arousal, Both ASD and PTSD can be treated with psychotherapy (talk therapy) and may require medication. If you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of ASD or PTSD, it is important to seek professional help. You can contact a mental health professional or a crisis helpline for support, remember; ASD is not caused by the job that you take, but it comes from having a sense of rejection to adapt with something you should learn, not all you think is bad for you as long as your endurance can accept the situation, you only get acute stress when you befriend with type of people who put a toxic relationship with you, please don't make a friend with someone who don't give a damn care about your mental health, you only can be happy when you only control what you can, e.g. your behavior, your thought, your analysis, your opinion, your decision, your mindset, your faith and your five sense direction, I think my explanation is enough, good luck.

Chronic stress symptoms

     Hi, good reader, today I would like to share about the topic "Chronic stress symptoms", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get chronic stress symptoms, especially people who get a huge pressure at workplace, as we know that Chronic stress is a prolonged and constant feeling of stress that can negatively affect human's health if it goes untreated. It can be caused by the everyday pressures of family and work or by traumatic situations. as human being, we need to build a balanced lifestyle, it means we must know what's important thing and what's urged thing, we can't mix between what's important thing and what's urged thing, we need to select some activities which can shape our habit, chronic stress is started from habit which tends to oppose the natural law, Chronic stress affects both the mind and body. It produces both physical and psychological symptoms that can take a toll on a person’s ability to function normally in their daily life. Some of the most common signs of chronic stress include:

• Aches and pains
• Decreased energy
• Difficulty sleeping
• Disorganized thinking
• Fatigue
• Feeling a loss of control
• Feelings of helplessness
• Frequent illnesses and infections
• Gastrointestinal complaints
• Headaches
• Irritability
• Muscle tension
• Nervousness and anxiety
• Trouble concentrating
• Upset stomach

It is important to note that chronic stress can have different causes and there is no one-size-fits-all way to treat it. However, some common ways to manage chronic stress include:

• Exercise: Regular physical activity can help reduce stress and improve overall health.
• Relaxation techniques: Techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, and yoga can help reduce stress and promote relaxation.
• Social support: Talking to friends and family can help reduce stress and provide emotional support.
• Healthy lifestyle: Eating a healthy diet, getting enough sleep, and avoiding unhealthy habits such as smoking and excessive alcohol consumption can help reduce stress and improve overall health.

                                     

       If you are experiencing chronic stress, it is important to seek professional help from a healthcare provider or mental health professional, if you don't find a professional help, maybe you can take some natural therapy which can be done individually, e.g. do physical exercises, jump at the trampoline, go out at the natural reserve, feeding the animals, the basic reason why you need to follow this therapy is to ensure that you can get out from the source of tragedy which can get you a chronic stress, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you a new insight, good luck.

why people can't recognize to themselves?

  As we all know that there are many problems will come to everyone, mistake will come when he doesn’t know what he is doing wrong, the more mistake he makes, the more risk he will burden, actually the problem is like teaching someone how to maintenance the emotional intelligent, in fact he can't maintenance their emotional feeling, they bury their creative instead,  if this section still occur, so he will try to pinpoint the mistake to group of people who have not related anything to his problem, we should realize earlier that everyone who dwell in this world will face their own problem since they were born, so God believes the human being are capable to conquer their problem as long as they believe the God’s destiny

The main cause of a person cannot recognize himself

1. Depression or sadness caused by the experience made by him in the past, and the wound was made by his own fault and supported by broken home environment / family that is not friendly

2. Person who put his feeling of love the world so much and he cannot distinguish himself between the world of imagination and the real world so that his soul was trapped and was not dwelling to their physical body, this is called disassociation, he made himself like a doll and he was imagining as if he was watching himself on television

3. He always blame to others and consider himself to be right and not feeling himself wrong (bald face / face thick)

4. Existence of irregularity in itself (self-disorder) because only prioritizing his pleasure so that the activities he did lead to not clarity purpose / unclear object. So that the results achieved do not lead to good change and end up with the same result of failure.

5. He Thinks time travel can be repeated at any time but never think time will also end.

The art of manliness conversation

         Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “The art of manliness conversation”, the reason why I choose that topic because not many men can show their assertiveness when they must make a decision or when they express their feeling, if you ask me why not many men can show their assertiveness because they lack of practicing their leadership skill in real life, besides that, men tend to avoid the hardship or life's challenge, if we want to rule the art of manliness conversation, we need to train our mentality by training other people how to lead their own lives, in this article, let me give you some tips how to rule the art of manliness conversation, hopefully these strategies can help you how to improve your leadership and your assertiveness, here is the first tip how to rule the art of manliness conversation; give thankful expression, this strategy will not make the conversation’s atmosphere is boring because you lead the conversation with a thankful expression, let me tell you that most people around 85% very glad for receiving thankful expression from someone else, if you show your thankful expression at the beginning conversation, you will be valued by others as grateful person, if you get the label as grateful person, other people put highly appreciated about what you achieve even though you haven't proved it yet.

    The second tip how to rule the art of manliness conversation; embrace with small talk, means, sometimes you need to give little appreciation when you meet with newcomer or someone you don't recognize, maybe you can appreciate about someone's looks, in the middle of topic, you need to ask the topic which is intriguing the opponent speaker's interest, before you engage with serious talk, you need to prepare the intermezzo conversation for little time, after that, you wait the expression from the opponent speaker, if their expression sounds agreed, you can start the conversation with serious talk, the third tip how to rule the art of manliness conversation; write the questions or the topic you propose before it is been asked to the opponent speaker, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because to minimize the nervous look from your side, if you can ask the question without nervous, meaning, your sense of assertiveness will be highly appreciated, as we know the majority of people don't like with nervous look during making the conversation, so don't let it be happening, the fourth tip how to rule the art of manliness conversation;  be historical valuer, this strategy can become one of biggest asset to dominate the conversation because most people prefer to be good listener when it comes to the historical topic, unfortunately, not everyone is willing to be the historical valuer, some people prefer to talking about the common stuff rather than talking about the historical conversation, if you can be the historical valuer, the opponent speaker will show their attract to you, here is the good news; the more we learn a lot about the historical story, the conversation will be more interesting because we add more value to the opponent speaker's knowledge, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

How to improve communication in a relationship

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to improve communication in a relationship”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people have lost their warm relationship during they are combining the different thing, if we take a look in reality, most people are not ready to make good relationship because they haven't practiced their psyche how to treat their partners well, if their emotional love isn't mature yet, their sense of love tends to push their weakness of love to force their partner to accept their love with unbalanced love, remember this; accepting an unbalanced love from partner will create hate, grudge and severe pain, if we continue this circumstance for long period of time, the next generation will become the blind love's victim unknowingly because they aren't ready to accept an unbalanced love, in this article, I would share several ways how to improve communication with your partner, hopefully there is no more accusation and there is no severe dispute during building tough love relationship, here is the first way how to improve communication in a relationship; don’t bully your partner even there is truth behind it, means, you must bury the secret information which it’s related with your partner’s weaknesses, you must accept reality with mercy, open-mindedness, and patience.

       Here is the second way how to improve communication in a relationship; create the rule of engagement, either making argument, money, etc. the reason why you need to do that because it will create win-win situation for your long term relationship, here is the third way how to improve communication in a relationship; build dream together when you and your partner in emotional sober, the main purpose why you and your partner need to build dream together in order to strengthen your emotional love needs in long period of time, if the emotional love is strong, you and your partner will create mutual trust one another and both of you will forget about respective weaknesses, here is the fourth way how to improve communication in a relationship;  learn how to express what you feel and don’t fix what your partner’s weaknesses, means, you must stay openness and show your true identity to your partner in order to eliminate the pain of regret in the future, if your partner accepts your personality completely, your partner will not find reason to hurt your feeling anymore here is the fifth way how to improve communication in a relationship; never weaponize your partner’s insecurities to against them, means, you are not allowed to use your partner’s insecurities as weapon to kill your partner’s dignity, you must show your merciful if you want to receive something good in life, if you treat your partner well as your own parent, your partner will struggle to treat you well although your partner hasn't realized how to serve well, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Expected value

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Expected value” the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to can change their opinion, the main cause why people don't want to change their opinion because they are self-righteous and they are self-motivated by their arrogance to keep behaving opinionated, this kind of people tend to reject to adapt and follow their own fake belief, many people don’t realize their the quality of opinion is caused by their knowledge and perception, as long as they don’t increase the frequency of what they learn, their opinion will prophesy their future with something they have learned in the past and what they have left in the past, there are two thing of opinion model; the first model is mistrust about own self and the second model is arrogant opinion, let me explain, someone who has two kind of opinion model, he usually keeps behaving like what people always did in the past mistake, he tends to magnify the past problem and then he cultivates it to become severely problem into the real life, this kind of person will never get new opportunity to bring something good in the future because they keep implanting the wrong seed in the ground, if someone wants to get out of the evil habit's circle, he has to cut down the root of evil from what he implants in the subconscious mind by doing something good constantly though he must feel an irresistible pain in every day.

Don't use opinion as value, but measure the difficult level of problem as value

   Our duty as the next generation is stop adding the same problem because we will never get enough time to fix the same problem which had happened in the past, no matter how hard we try, problem will end itself and problem doesn't need to wait to be solved by human because problem is just the first initial step to move us into to higher test position, all we need to do right now is we need unbiased thought and observe about new problem which may need our opinion or problem solving skill, although we have overcome one hundred of similar problem, it doesn't mean there is no problem tomorrow, so there is always more than 1000 new problem are awaiting our skill set / our opinion, don't consider there is no rest in the life journey as long as the human were born, here is the first thing you must do if you want your value can prevent something bad is asking an advice to someone are being able to solve your problem, or, you can take a note from someone who has shared something about his personal life experience, the reason why you need to use this strategy because you will unlearn your unproductive mistake and also you can use people's experience to add your vocabulary of mind.

   Here is the second thing you must do if you want your value can prevent something bad is learn how to think outside the box, means, you will not use your first opinion which you usually use it when you think at the first time, and then you can add up people's opinion into yours, for example; at the first opinion; you always say to yourself "what if I failed again?", now after you think outside the box, you make the second opinion "what kind of failure if I wouldn't try? and "what benefit if I would try one more time?", there is no impossible to do as long as you choose to endure the problem in life, don't think every opinion is problem, sometimes the highest problem in the daily life also has a restricted time, problem is designed to increase your mental age / skill set, when you have increased value, your opinion will be listened by many people who have endured same problems, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.     

Act of kindness meaning

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Act of kindness meaning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because kindness represents the ultimate power in this life where it can create good impact to others and it can balance the life's system, we can’t release act of kindness if we can’t crush our ego, remember this note; kindness is not fake or hypocrite, kindness is showing the genuine of human’s natural character, showing the concern to others is power because we can build power of influence through that action, kindness meaning =  never ask or demand other people to return something we hope, if you want to possess a big influence, integrity, prosperity, famous, abundance of health and many other things, you have to stop pursuing your optimism and stop expecting any return from other people, means, you keep developing your qualification, your personality and your competent skill without involving other people's help, if you just focus how to improve the world of inside of you, the outer world will show something beyond your expectation, the act of kindness is variety, if you share knowledge to others, it is part of kindness, if you inspire others with your  achievement and your unpleasant experience, it is part of kindness,  if your service can empower human's future hope, it is part of kindness, if you can feed the animals, it is part of kindness, basically act of kindness is not always bring money for charity, act of kindness is very simple, but it can be difficult when we feel unjust, disadvantaged or envy about what other people receive, remember; everything we receive from this world is the reflection from what we add value to this world, if we feel inadequate or deprived, meaning, we lessen of giving of the kindness rather than we give something valuable to others.

The circle of kindness

       Now, I have question for you, what if people are unable to share their kindness?, the meaning; people lack of resource, lack of self-identity, lack of feeling enough, here is the bad news; if people always feel lacking or deprived, meaning, their greedy is more than their need, based in psychological research; greed is equal with fear, if people show their sense of greedy, meaning, they do something because they are motivated by their own fear, if people always feed their fear for their brain memory, as impact, they will make the irrational decision which may harm their position, remember this note; if people often create the irrational decision, they will not get a solution, instead, they will get the reflection of their fear, at this moment I would share some tips how to create kindness with simple act, here is the first thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; every month you treat your family member by dinner together at restaurant, even though this action can be done when you have money, if you don't invest your quality time for your family member, you will not do that, here is the second thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; you invest your time to care your parents whether they are sick or not, remember; act of kindness is not always related with money, if you can share your fully attention to your beloved people, it is really good act, here is the third thing you should do how to create kindness with simple act; you share your knowledge to other people who are uneducated, it is valuable act, do you know why I say like this because sharing knowledge is as worth thing as money value, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

100 guaranteed satisfaction

Satisfaction is about appreciation

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “100 guaranteed satisfaction”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many small-medium enterprise try to offer satisfaction guaranteed to every customer, if we use different perception regarding this topic; human's satisfaction is boundless, it can't be sustained with guarantee, I myself still doubt if there is business where it gives a lot of guarantees in order to fulfill customer satisfaction because human's satisfaction is boundless, the more often company gives a guarantee to every customer, the more they get new problem once what they promise can't meet customer satisfaction, from my point of view; satisfaction guaranteed is like giving people the way of positive thinking without considering about the huge risk which may happen in the near future, that system is like creating self-delusion, do you know why I say such thing because there is nobody can predict what will happen in the future time, basically giving 100% satisfaction guaranteed is like avoiding the big risk by promoting false hope to customer in order to calm customer's anxiety, remember; the natural law never offers a guarantee to human being because the natural law can be changed at any time, the nature just fulfill its responsibility to serve what human's need because of God's command, if life gives a guarantee to human's future, why we need to work hard for preparing our provision in the future? from that critical question, it indicates that human's future can't be guaranteed by human's ability, Almighty God only gives any consequence behind what human choose, here is the special note; the more we put our hope to human's ability, the more we get possibility to feel the pain of disappointment because our hope will turn into pain when our satisfaction can't get a guarantee from human's limited ability.

100% satisfaction guaranteed is fake

  Remember; satisfaction is about self-appreciation, if you feel pleased about your skill, it indicates that you are appreciated by your commitment, starting from now, please don't believe easily with the product if it states 100% satisfaction guaranteed because it is kind of self-delusion, it would better we know about the weaknesses of product rather than we are motivated by the seller to know more about the benefit of product without knowing its weaknesses, in order to avoid the pain of disappointment and regret, we must recognize about the weakness of product as much as we can, if we can accept the weakness of product, we will never get the pain of regret in the future because we already accept the weakness of product, that's risk tolerance strategy, the reason why we need to learn something about risk because it can avoid regret or the dangerous thing which may happen in the future, life is not designed to offer pleasant feeling to human being, life is about warning human to make self-preparation to welcome risk or consequence which may happen at any time, here is the last note; the most luckiest person on earth is having good preparation before time will turn something into disaster, only arrogance, pleasure, greed and ignorance are the four biggest enemies where it can attack human's mentality at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Customer satisfaction

Customer satisfaction

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Customer satisfaction”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't really care about customer satisfaction, some people just focus how to sell their product as they want without asking their customer about recommendation or opinion, if you ask me why many people don't really care about customer satisfaction because they are too proud to sell their product, it is not good way how to build communication skill between customer and supplier in order to maintain sustained business for long period of time, here is the meaning of customer satisfaction; the way of expressing the buyer's trust after they use the particular product in order to let the sellers maintain or improve their selling ability, maybe you ever hear the wise word; a customer is king, it is totally right, if there is no customer who believes with us, our product or service will be worthless, in order to know more about a customer satisfaction, we must build a communication way with the customer through providing a suggestion box or we seek information about the product's selling's average in every purchase, good service is not depending from how much we sell the product or service, but how we turn the negative feedback from the customer to be converted into the innovative's idea, if we just focus how to sell the product or service only, we will not get a regular customer base, in my opinion; we don't need to push our product or service if we want to get customer satisfaction, instead, we just need to focus how to collect the existing demand from the customer, if there is no customer's existing demand, there is no trust, if there is no trust, there is no product selling, here is my suggestion; don't start business if you need money because it is not the way how to satisfy your need, if you want to start business, find something which can become a good value to yourself and customers, then you build your unique ability and sell the problem you solve, customers will give their satisfaction review when they see a solution from your ability, not the product you sell to customers. 

Customer satisfaction level

        

   Customer satisfaction can't be collected if we just focus how to sell the product, customer satisfaction only can be collected if we can get customer's trust, in order to build a customer's trust, it may take several years to recognize it because we will take a deep contemplation from our blind spot through receiving the customer's review, if you ask me "why do we bother to collect customer satisfaction?" it is used to dig more about our potential and also realize our blind spot, if we can't recognize our blind spot, we will never know how to innovate our product or service, only egoist who doesn't care about customer satisfaction, in order to grow our selling potential, we must sell the solution through collecting the customer's complaint, there is no efficient way how to grow our potential unless the customers put their sense of trust to us, the more customers buy or use the product, the more we grow our potential at the same time, our potential will be useful if we get a sense of trust from the customer, now imagine "if God puts his trust to our capacity, He will bring the magnificent thing to our ability", if we are entrusted with great power, it means, we must deliver our value to others, here is the last note; customer satisfaction is like putting a sense of trust, if we can sell our belief to customer, they will purchase whatever product we have because our belief has connected with customer's trust, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Focus on the family

Give your attention to your family

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Focus on the family”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lose their family relationship, if you ask me why many people lose their family relationship because many of them just pursue their ego and they prioritize their need by indulging their individual pleasure rather than focus on the family relationship, that's poor habit, remember this advice; we will never get something great if we do something for ego, in spite of how great somebody to do something, if he doesn't care about his family relationship, they will feel alone wherever he goes, here is the first strategy how to you improve your family relationship; invite your family member to hold the feast once in every 3 months, it means, you allocate your money and leisure time by holding the feast in order to keep communication with family member, if there is no communication within the family member, it indicates there is no caring each other, that's dangerous ritual,  here is the second strategy how to you improve your family relationship; spend your time to make the quality time, it means, you need to allocate your valuable time to build the social bond in family, even though you are busy to work, don't let your ego holds you back from making the quality time with your family, remember; you will never born on earth if there is no family around you, even though you have the family issue, you must appreciate where you come from and also you must appreciate someone in your family who is taking care when you are sick. 

  

Care your family as you care to yourself

   Here is the third strategy how to you improve your family relationship; offering a help to your parents by accompanying them to check in with the doctor if your parents are sick, that's good recommendation, you will never know how long your parents can endure pain if you don't offer a help to your parents, sometimes parents keep silent to endure pain for long time because they don't want you to keep thinking about them, here is the fourth strategy how to you improve your family relationship; you buy something where it is really needed by your parents as emotionally, it means, you understand what your parents want and you understand what your parents don't want, if you buy something where it is needed by your parents, at least, you can relieve their burden by buying something where it is needed by your parents, here is the fifth strategy here is the fourth strategy how to you improve your family relationship; you don't add new pain to your parents feeling even though your parents can't understand your pain, this strategy is difficult to apply because not all children can relief what parents feel about their pain, sometimes parent's behavior is like child who prioritize their ego and they behave as if what they say is always right, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Believe in yourself

Believe to the enlightenment

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Believe in yourself”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don't set strong belief in something we haven't seen it yet, some people prefer to believe what they think rather than believe in what they can't see through eyes, that's common mistake where it lies into animistic believer, I don't object about what people think about life, but I just want to remind you about the side effect of belief; "belief is like putting something liquid into tea pot, we will receive from what we shape and we can't escape from it, the root of problem why people get bleak outlook on life because they can't differentiate between the past's moment and the future's moment and they tend to live in the past rather than future, the first thing we can do if we want to remove bleak outlook on life; we must find the strong evidence where it can improve our false opinion and it can convince us that we face something true, for example: a sense of depression, even though we consider having depression is not good, but instead, a sense of depression can strengthen human's mental acumen and it will give another perception how to give solution to us, our biochemistry of behavior will change from depression into enthusiasm when we develop our focus to do something where it is important for other's emotional fulfillment even though it not important for us, here is my recommendation; please don't believe with something easy to do because it can't leave a good legacy to us, if we pick up easy thing to do, we will not have strong mentality to have a tolerance to pain, all what we believe is coming from what we repeatedly do, what we repeatedly hear, what we repeatedly say and what we repeatedly see, if we cut a belief into tiny layers; belief comes from the accumulated habit, curiosity, agreement and emotional fulfillment (fear or reward).

Believe to your unique ability, not to focus with others

     

 Starting from now, before you believe to a new information, you must check whether what you believe can be tested or not with the darkness, if what you believe can give you space time to accept a sense of deepest fear until you don't brave enough to neglect that, it is something true, as long as you don't give negative energy into what you believe, you will not get a side effect from what you fear, here is my point of view about life; "life doesn't give what human want, but life gives what human commit", if we commit to do something important, it indicates that we appreciate about the process, energy and time, people who don't appreciate about what they commit, they tend to believe what other people say rather than what they say to themselves, there is only one way how to remove bleak outlook on life is staying curious about something you don't know and stop giving negative energy to something unpleasant, people who have strong determination, they need something unpleasant to unplug the life suffering where they have tasted beforehand, here is the special note; the darkness will not change into neutral if we always show our hatred to everything we feel, all we can do if we feel hatred is we are moving our belief from hatred state into happiness state by looking the goodness as much as we can, the light represents the passion of learning, whereas, ignorance represents bleak outlook on life, please don't be lazy to learn something you like as long as it can give you a strong emotional fulfillment because life will never stop giving us a lesson, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Humanistic approach psychology

Humanity is about building a good rapport

 

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, hopefully your life career is going to running well, today I would like to share about the topic "Humanistic approach psychology", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't humanize others in the fair treatment, based on psychological research "every human will not humanize others when they themselves don't know how to humanize themselves", do you understand what's meaning about "How to humanize own selves"= you don't let other people will get more suffering from what other people do for themselves, even though human's characteristic is very complex, we don't need to understand what other people want, what we need to do is how to fulfill what's people's commonly need first, e.g. 1. you can share your good experience which may help other people to prolong their survival instinct on this earth, 2. you can give some foods to powerless people who are physically unable to work anymore, 3. you can teach other people how to detect problem and guide them how to find solution which is suitable with their respective capacity, remember this; humanistic is not about how to help other people fulfilling their instant satisfaction, humanistic is about unlocking human's potential until they can survive with their own style, if we just help other people to fulfill their desire only, it is part of immobilizing people's natural instinct.

Teach people how to make a better life is part of humanity

  Please don't try to indulge other people with your authority because this strategy will immobilize other people's power, you must check the type of people's background first before they will receive your help, you can humanize people who are physically unable to work anymore, maybe very old people, getting a severe sick, disability, autism, after you identify people's background, you can start to give a help to people who deserve your help, remember; not all type of people deserve to get your help and not all people really need your service, so you must understand that fact, even though you belong to rich man, please don't try to help people who aren't fulfilling the requirement you have identified before, the humanity is about giving a appropriate help to appropriate people, not to give any help to people you recognize, people you meet or people you love, that's part of humanistic psychology, if we want to create a surge of influence's power in this life, we must teach other people how to become resourceful person, if other people can become type of person like we hoped, meaning, we have created the powerful people's community, sooner or later our whole vision will be implemented into reality, if you observe why many country still have a lot of poor people increasingly per year because those countries don't provide a teaching center how to live properly and they don't optimize their taxes usage properly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an insight how to improve your life, good luck.