Hi, today I would like to share about the interesting topic, namely "Return to the Strength of Faith and Inner Peace", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master their own soul, all of us have the same enemy, namely facing the increasingly fierce "storm of worldly slander", it requires strong inner peace, and this is a great test of faith and mentality.
Based on spiritual values (especially in the context of Islamic teachings that often discuss slander in the end times) and psychological principles, here are steps to feel calm amid slander and the harsh words of others:
🙏 Key Principle: Return to the Strength of Faith and Inner Peace
The essence of calmness amid slander is realizing that true control lies with Allah (God) and your own response, not with the words of others.
1. Patience and Tawakal (Complete Surrender)
* Patience: Consider slander as part of life's trials. Allah says that He will test humans. Being patient does not mean being passive, but refraining from negative emotions and harmful reactions.
* Trust in God: Surrender all matters and outcomes to God. Be confident that if you are in the right, the truth will be revealed in His time, and God is the best of helpers. Remember that the reward for those who are patient and trust in God is far greater than the worldly losses caused by slander.
2. Increase Prayer and Worship
* Protective Prayer: Increase prayers asking for protection from slander, both slander as a major test and slander as an accusation. Prayer is the "weapon" of the faithful.
* Quality of Worship: Improve the quality of your prayers, remembrance of Allah, and reading of the Qur'an. This will soothe your heart and be a source of true inner peace. Devout worship will keep you from anxiety.
3. Focus on Introspection (Muhasabah)
* Instead of focusing on the slanderer, focus on improving yourself. Slander from outside is often a reflection for us to correct our real shortcomings.
* If the slander is untrue, strengthen your belief that Allah knows the truth of your intentions. If there is some truth behind it, use it as motivation to change for the better.
🧘 Practical Tips for Peace of Mind
How to respond physically and mentally when faced with slander:
4. Stay Calm and Avoid Emotional Reactions
* Take a Break: When you hear slander, don't immediately respond with emotion, anger, or hasty retaliation. Take a deep breath, step aside, and calm yourself first.
* Silence is Golden: Often, silence is the best response. Responding to slander with more slander will only prolong the conflict and lower your dignity. The Prophet Muhammad SAW said, "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him say good things or remain silent."
5. Tabayyun (Verify Information)
* Before reacting to news or gossip, always verify its accuracy. Don't be easily provoked by unclear news. This also applies to yourself so that you don't join in spreading slander.
6. Maintain a Positive Environment and Focus
* Avoid Negative Sources: Limit your interaction with people who like to gossip or spread hatred. Also avoid social media or content that makes you feel uneasy.
* Focus on Your Goals: Channel your energy into your work, achievements, and the good deeds you are doing. People who focus on goodness will not have time to think about slander.
7. Forgive and Be Generous
* Forgiving is an act of freeing yourself from the burden of hatred and resentment. Forgive those who slander you, because in the end, the sin and harm of slander will return to the perpetrator (in a spiritual sense).
By holding fast to your faith, improving the quality of your worship, and choosing calm and wise responses, you will be able to weather the "storm of worldly slander" with a steadfast heart and preserved dignity.