Applying DBT techniques in daily activities:

Hi, today I would like to share about the interesting topic, namely "Applying DBT techniques in daily activities", the main reason why I choose that Topic because not everyone can apply DBT, Apart from that, you need guidance provided by professionals, Here are examples of applying DBT techniques in daily activities:

 

1. Mindfulness (Present-Moment Awareness) 

- When eating: Instead of eating while looking at your phone or thinking about work, focus on the taste, texture, and aroma of the food. Notice how your mouth and stomach respond to each bite. This helps reduce emotional eating and improves body awareness.

- When stuck in traffic: Instead of feeling angry, focus on physical sensations (heartbeat, breathing), or observe your surroundings without judgment. Say to yourself, "I am in the car, and the traffic is heavy. This is uncomfortable, but I can get through it."

 

2. Emotion Regulation

- When feeling angry due to someone’s comment:

1. Recognize the emotion: Acknowledge, "I feel angry and hurt."

2. Do not act impulsively: Take several deep breaths or step away to a quiet place for a moment.

3. Change your thought pattern: Instead of thinking, "They intentionally hurt me," try thinking, "Maybe they’re having a bad day, or I misunderstood their meaning."

4. Do calming activities: Drink water, listen to soothing music, or write down your feelings in a journal.

 

3. Distress Tolerance 

- When facing a stressful work deadline:

- Use the "Survival Only Goal" technique: Say, "I don’t need to finish everything perfectly right now; I just need to do my best and get through this first."

- Do brief physical relaxation techniques, such as pressing your hands against the table for 5 seconds then releasing them, or doing diaphragmatic breathing for 1 minute.

- Avoid avoiding problems in unhealthy ways (e.g., overeating or drinking alcohol), and focus on small steps you can take right now.

 

4. Interpersonal Effectiveness

- When wanting to ask a friend for help:

- Use the "DESC" technique:

- Describe: "You know I’ve been working on this college project for the past week."

- Express: "I feel really tired and a bit stressed because there are some parts I don’t understand."

- Specify: "Do you have about 30 minutes tomorrow afternoon to help me understand the calculation section?"

- Consequences: "If you can help, I’ll feel much calmer and be able to finish the project on time. If not, I’ll ask my lecturer for help instead."