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| Personality disorder |
Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome
back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of
happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the
topic “personality disorder”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t
accept reality which causes them to have personality disorder, life is designed by God to shape good personality, not other way around, if
we use different perception; the problem is not coming from reality, but the problem comes from lacking of focus about what people do in daily
basis and also they lack of commitment when they have to deal with difficult situation, if we realize life is full of uncertainty, at least we don’t find a way how to get more pleasure in this life because pleasure doesn't salvage our future, if we see in
reality, “anger issue is not caused by
the crisis or the life’s pressure, but anger is caused by our comfort zone”, as long as we delegate our focus to do something important like what the universe does something for us, we don't have much time to get angry, the root of problem why people can’t see their reality as a lesson
because they feed their mind with more pleasure and less suffering, what most people put into their
mind is not educational information as dominant position, instead of giving their mind with entertainment value information, no wonder people get angry easily because they consider life has similarity with entertainment value.
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| Negative thinking will induce negative behavior |
At this moment I would like to share several strategies how to reduce anger issue, hopefully these strategies can help you to create peace of mind, here is the first thing we can do if we want to reduce anger impact; we train our mind to find more evidence about life wisdom, the reason why we need to do it because our mind pattern is always looking for pleasure and trying to avoid suffering, if feed our mind with less suffering, our mind will lose its potential to grow, here is special note; if you apply this formula, your conscious mind will forget how to be angry; “surround your lifestyle with suffering 80% and pleasure 20%”, here is the second thing we can do if we want to reduce anger impact; don’t force reality to fit into our circumstance, it means, we must live peacefully with reality, if we are willing to work with the law of nature, as impact, we will not get involved with the depression state because we accept reality, there is wise word; ”the cause of anger is not coming from what makes you angry right now, but the cause of anger comes when you are expecting too much to life's uncertainty and you overlook reality”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.