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Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Hurt by rejection”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people feel insecure, disappointed, resentful when they are rejected by partner, the root of problem why many people get of rejection from because they don't fulfill what life needs, I just want to remind you that people get hurt by rejection not because of logic, but people get hurt from their deep belief, if people get hurt by rejection, meaning, they build hatred feeling before reality does something, here is my recommendation; before you prepare yourself to get rejection, you must train your mind by collecting as much as information which is related with life demands, as long as we can't fulfill demand, there is no supply that can be offered, starting from now, don't get yourself being satisfied easily because you will never know what tomorrow brings, remember; wrong focus can invite new rejection which is coming from the unknown circumstance, our reaction will manipulate our feeling if we put our focus to the wrong direction.
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Starting from now, you must add new value to your personality in order to recognize a small problem where you can't see it clearly during building relationship with other people, maybe you can read book, attend the seminar, consult with business mentor, listen podcast, kindle new hobby, etc. remember this; good personality isn’t born by itself to human’s life, good personality comes from upbringing technique where you are trained to follow the demand of good role model, please beware about information you receive from the unknown informant because the way you think may influence your habit and also it can affect how you treat your partner, not all good information you receive will be needed by your soul, if you don't know about the information that your soul needs, you can ask yourself "what kind of problem that can attract my mind to think until it doesn't want to stop?" remember; people who create relationship with other people not because they just want to get someone's attention or love feeling, but people who create relationship because they look for someone who can give affirmation towards people's pain emotional validation, here is the first tip how to minimize the hurt impact from our feeling; we must choose type of pressure that can't make me distressed so much, maybe you can choose the pressure from your hobby, your workplace, environment, our duty as human is not avoiding the pressure, but how to choose the pressure which is in line with our capacity, here is the second tip how to minimize the hurt impact from our feeling: we apply discipline in what we do every day and we challenge ourselves to face our limit until it breaks by itself, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.